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Tuesday, July 02, 2019

Actress Omoni Oboli Wades Into Viral Rape Saga

Popular Nollywood actress and filmmaker, Omoni Oboli, has said there were some ‘incoherency’ in the rape allegations levelled against COZA pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo, by wife of singer Timi Dakolo.






Omoni said this on Monday evening while reacting to rape allegation Mrs. Dakolo, Busola that the COZA founder forcefully raped her when she was young.

In her post on Instagram, Omoni said she stands with Busola but that there were some inconsistencies in her claims, which she believed, was born out of ”truthfulness”.

She wrote: “I don’t know where to start concerning the story that’s still unfolding as I write. The Bible warns us to “be quick to hear, be slow to speak, and be slow to wrath”, and going by my personal experience of seeing how quickly many took sides without first getting all the facts, weighing it against the character of all the parties involved, given our antecedents, and then drawing conclusions from evidence and an objective comparative analysis of the accounts, rather than from emotions, envy, the thrill of seeing strife, I have waited to digest the whole matter first.


“What’s her motive for speaking out? Was it just to spite the pastor in question? Was it to destroy his reputation, or gain some financial advantage? Was it to build followership through the scandal that would surely come, not knowing that the pendulum could swing in either direction, for or against her? What exactly would spur a wife of a reputable and beloved entertainer, a mother, a business woman, with a beautiful life, coveted by many, to come out to make this kind of accusation?


“Given her antecedent of being a calm, ‘dramaless’ queen (unless Timi says otherwise), with no history of seeking attention or being overly dramatic (at least not publicly), how did she get to this point of going public at such a time as this simply to make ‘spurious’ accusations against a ‘man of god’, as some have said in a bid to sound ‘objective’?

“I listened to the story, and because I know her husband and his personality, I restrained myself from trying to weigh in based on the emotions that came flooding in, but here’s the thing, there was some incoherency in some of the claims, not because I believe she lied about them, but in my opinion was born out of the truthfulness of the real account.

“ Why do I say that? Because unless you planned your own rape, the accounts are expected to sound incredible and spurious, and I suspect that’s why we don’t have so many convictions in many rape cases.

“Is there a manual, or rapist playbook that’s being distributed to all would-be rape victims (aka all women, and some boys and men) that I missed that gives point by point descriptions.”
from dailypost

88 comments:

  1. Pls the matter should die a natural death na.

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    1. When something bad happens to you and you cry for help, may the only response be the echo of your own voice. And peradventure anyone attempts to behave like they hear you, may they be told to allow your matter die a natural death.

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    2. AMEN! thank you anon 13:43

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    3. 13:43 a LOUD glorious AMEN to that.
      So shall it be decreed in Heaven and on earth.

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  2. Women are their own enemy.

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    1. I tell you. Very terrible woman.

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    2. Is it now you're knowing? Shebi Modele is a woman that is still shielding her rapist husband. Same way Yemisi Iginla shielded her juju-tastic husband till he showed her pepper and flung her away like rag.

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    3. She did not write this,her husband did. He is a writer and i have read things from omoni and heard her talk, tho she talks well but she did not write this.
      She was also trying to bring her own experience with uche jumbo, a very annoying being she is.

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    4. It was stated earlier that COZA was paying some influencers to speak in their favor and is one of them!
      How come you say u stand with Busola and everything u mention here smell negative? All d motives she mentioned are negative, she never mentioned any positive motive like "finding closure", "protecting other ladies", "justice"

      OMONI OBOLI is a big disgrace to womanhood for putting this up!!! She should be ashamed of herself!

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    5. Let’s look at it this way, u know how pple move in circles but one is closer to d powerful person the rest move ard
      Timi was very close to Jon’s ;Could it be it was Timi who leaked the omoni affair with Goodluck Jonathan? The buying of house and car for her husband to keep him quiet?
      Is her husband using her handle to revenge d small embarrassment they got indirectly? Omoni did not write thisπŸ‘†.
      Because u have all boys abi? Or u don’t know boys get raped 2? No wahala. Enjoy ur wife wealth and stop beefing

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    6. Please, you guys should read again. She’s saying there is incoherency because there is no manual for rape victims. She’s not attacking Busola, she’s just responding to those trying to puncture holes in her story. Please guys, read what she wrote again. I know it’s a very emotional period right now because most of us can relate to busola’s pain but please, omoni is not attacking her. Look where she wrote “but here’s the thing, there was some incoherency in some of the claims, not because I believe she lied about them, but in my opinion was born out of the truthfulness of the real account“

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    7. God bless you! People read but cannot comprehend.

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    8. How can there be coherence please? Who keeps a minute by minute account of her own rape incident with the intention of telling an elaborate and "coherent" recount?
      For heaven's sake this unfortunate and traumatic incident is about 20 long years old! Even the Biodun himself would've forgotten about it, little wonder he's vehemently denying it was rape. Omoni you wan add voice, abeg use ya sense first e'hia?

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    9. The average Nigerian woman tends to prefer sex by coercion or harassment. I had a conversation about this yesterday and the day before. Ladies, there's no need to say no when you want sex, hoping that he will persist.

      Such behaviour perpetuates rape culture. Grow up.#copied

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    10. Omoli, you are very silly woman. Fu** you!

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  3. You ended up not mentioning the
    "inconsistencies?"
    You entire account is contradictory to your conclusions.

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  4. Inasmuch as i hate rapist,but i really hve my doubts about this saga,i strongly belive that the story doesnt add up completely,if the had sex,i would say yes completly,but rape?i strongly refuse to belive it,there are always two sides to a coin,that he is a man god doesnt make him god he has his flaws

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  5. I love how you wrote this Omoni.
    When something tragic happens to u, u might not even remember or be able to enumerate all when asked.

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    1. In this case, she conveniently remembered the parts that favoured her narrative, abi? If the facts are vague to a person after donkey years, then why sensationalize a matter, even after an apology (as she claimed) had been rendered? The more I look at it, the more it comes across as a vendetta issue.

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  6. Coming back to read comments. I know BVs won't disappoint me.

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  7. Well said Omoni,having refrained to critically peruse the whole story,all I can say is .......

    Busola knows the truth!
    Biodun knows the truth!!
    GOD, knows the truth!!!

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    1. Exactly. The whole story sounds fake. Busola is not innocent.

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  8. Omoni said so many things but ended up saying nothing.
    She is neither there nor here!
    Remain on this fence and shut up!

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    1. She’s saying the story is probably true because parts of it make no sense. A fabricated story is usually perfect

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    2. Exactly my opinion. She doesn't know how to come out and tell her colleague that she's being economical with the truth.

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    3. I am yet to understand what she said

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    4. I'm telling u. Her usual stupid hypocritical self. I am not surprise. Two faces ageless greatgrandma.

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    5. 13:49, you seem to be the only one who gets it so far. I’m so scared for my country if this is how we interpret things right in front of us. I’ll chuck it down to the highly tense and emotional state of people at the moment though.

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    6. 13:49, u'll know a fabricated story is not perfect when u take it to court.

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    7. 16:54 don't 'chuck' it to anything. No need to sugar coat.
      People are largely ignorant. Every educated but very very enlightened.
      The ones who are even 'educated' reason like toddlers.
      What do you expect?

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  9. My question still remains: Did he rape her or not? if his answer is no, did he sleep with her as a minor yes or no?

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    1. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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    2. By the relevant law in place in Kwara State at the time, she was not a minor.

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    3. So if the "law" says 8 years, you too will go and chook an 8 year old. So many sickos walking about.

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    4. 16:01, if u don't like the law, u talk to ur Rep.

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    1. I join you to ask

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    2. Seriously I don't understand what she said

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    3. She ended up not saying anything. Attention seeking things

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    4. Ambiguous Grammar everywhere. Lol

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  11. **rather than emotion, ENVY strife...** Who is envying who Omoni? Envying Fatoyinbo?

    Madam, sit on the fence if you want to. No one is forcing you to believe Busola.

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  12. This her epistle is neither here nor there. Very disjointed. Omoni, it is not by force to talk biko.

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  13. Aunty omoni, please don't be unfortunate this afternoon πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘
    What did you end up saying now? 😏😏

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    1. echoing it in Yoruba"aunty omoni,ejΓ³ emasΓ© oriburuku ni osan yi o..we r mouthed 4dis ogbonge blog

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  14. All she tryna say is truth is not always going to sound convincing or logical. The narrative of rape survivors will never be the same as there are no starter packs or manual for rapists.

    Whether you openly or subconsciously doubt a rape survivor, never try to invalidate them unless you intend to sue.

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    1. I was scrolling down patiently waiting for a making sense comment like this.

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    2. Never try to invalidate them? Assuming it's ACTUALLY a lie? Are we to say that everybody that alleges rape is honest?

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  15. Just beating around the bushes and ended up saying nothing. Just want to say things because others are talking. Senseless write up..
    Now I know why I never like this person. Fake ass

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    1. The bush*

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    2. …..on the contrary, she actually said everything... u only need to be smarter than the average Joe to truly understand what she said up there..

      PS: It's not proper to tag a write up as senseless if you didn't understand it..

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    3. Machie onu there,ewu!

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  16. COZA is fighting back. They are now going by their usual play book. 1. Pay celebrities and blogs money to plant little tiny seeds of doubt about the victim and spin positive stories about the rapist 2. Assassinate the victim's character 3. Isolate the victim and strip said victim of any moral support from friends and family and the public 4. Threaten to sue the victim. If that does not work, engineer a public confession/breakdown of rapist asking God for forgiveness 5. Rapist receives counselling from 'elders' and goes to 'rehab' for being a 'sex addict' 6. Redemption and forgiveness. Rapist forgiven and is embraced back into the fold. Victim cast adrift with her reputation in tatters.

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    1. Unfortunately this time around it won't work, cos God Himself is handling this judgment.

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  17. So madam in conclusion,what did you say?

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  18. Everyone shouldn't give an opinion. very disjointed something, go and sleep kilode

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  19. no rape story can sound logical to anybody...its either they ask, what where you wearing, why did you follow him there, why where you at that location at that time of the day or other stupid questions....if he forcefully slept with her then that is rape. COZA dog used his position and influence over her to rape her as a minor. why abuse go on for years and people never speak out is cos of factors like victim shaming.. because u have never been raped doesn't give you a righto judge how other women should have reacted. some women believe they have never been raped because they are well behaved or wiser than victims.. omoni shut your stupid mouth and go face your life because if you are truly their friend you will keep all these so called thoughts in your head

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    1. Word πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    2. Great comment. πŸ‘πŸΎπŸ‘πŸΎπŸ‘πŸΎπŸ‘πŸΎ

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    3. Read again
      She’s supporting her
      Omg English is not that hard

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    4. All those questions are pertinent, even if it's to establish a pattern regarding incidents of rape, that could help potential victims avoid compromising situations. I don't know why we like to live in denial in this country. To think that up till now, when rape occurs, especially on minors, we're still speculating what was going on in the mind of the rapist. Shdn't some of these things be established by now? Here, we just like to cloud everything with emotions; jettisoning the cold, hard facts. That's why we keep talking endlessly about our problems and making little effort to solve them.

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  20. Busola is a fucking pathological liar,pastor biodun never raped her it was a consensual sex.period

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    1. ...With a minor. Period!

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    2. U can’t have consensual sex with a minor

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    3. She was NOT a minor under the Penal Code in force at the time.

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    4. Ooh.. Pastor having consensual sex with a minor member of his church. He's truly a man of gods.
      Eyin were defenders that can't think.

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  21. Busola is a habitual liar, pastor biodun fucked the living day light out of her p*ssy,it was never a rape case

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  22. Busola and Biodun were rich buddies,she remained in the church, got married there and he bought her a car. Timi Dakolo choir master was also fucking her,she gave birth before they married
    Choir master too shod have controlled his urge and stat celibate the marriage. Pot calling kettle black. She obvious thought he was going to leave his wife for her lime pastor Ighodalo,pastors are firstly men before married and definitely before pastors.

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    1. So all this trash you spewed justifies fucking a minor. May one Agbaya sleep with your minor and I hope you find out its someone close to the family that you trust

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    2. Anon 14:02,sebi you have received money. Your Waterloo is coming. Was there a gathering to chastise the pastor concerning the Pastor's act or not..a gathering that involved other elders? What is wrong with you guys?

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    3. Pastors are firstly men so they should be committing immorality about. I wonder which kind of upbringing you have, very disturbing.

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  23. Omoni's post is so unintelligent that l won't dignify it with a response.

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  24. If you believe busola then you need to visit a rehab.period

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    1. Heya, you are already in rehab then if you are defending a rapist.

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  25. Throwing jabs at one another, unfriending and blocking one another, drawing conclusions and judging one another. All for nothing, as if we are yet to learn the way the world works. Such a shame for Africa. You better work hard and mind your business. Enough of this!

    We all know Busola didn't tell the whole truth. It's obvious Biodun had an affair with her. It's commonsense that if Chude and Debola could manipulate Nigerians to vote for Buhari, after collecting hundreds of millions, then Chude and whoever else is involved, are the mastermind of this. This points to a game of power and profit. May the best player win. They are all liars and hypocrites. Don't lose your friendship or waste your lifetime on fugazzi. Enough said.

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    1. You're just everywhere.

      Na by force to believe you? Haba!

      Leave us to believe busola in peace.

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    2. Shut the gutter you call your mouth up.

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    3. And you're following me everywhere. Clout chaser! Your belief has no power in court. May justice be served!

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    4. 16.52 abeg tell that anon. Supporters of evil.

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  26. So even after pastor Biodun raped her she continued to fellowship there and got married and gives accurate account of what happened when she was 17? I agree with Omoni and I sympathise with Busola but it is my opinion

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  27. So even after pastor Biodun raped her she continued to fellowship there and got married and gives accurate account of what happened when she was 17? I agree with Omoni and I sympathise with Busola but it is my opinion

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