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Tuesday, January 07, 2020

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  1. True, True True. If they can't get from their pocket, they borrow and give to their women.

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  2. True πŸ’― it don't have to be much but it would go a long way. A man who loves you genuinely won't see you in distress and not do something...even if it's tiny πŸ‘Œ

    Sluttychic.

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  3. I don't know how truthful that assumption is, but I know that men always work hard to please the women they love. They try very hard to make sure the women they love live a comfortable life.

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    1. Ms. A, you are saying the same thing as the questionπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      Trust you good dear

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    2. So what a "true" that hard to say, or you just wanted to type long epistle

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    3. Only fools spend on women that are not their wives or fiancee. Gf is an open market. Just rent her for fun and move on. The beautiful ones are not yet born.

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  4. False:
    If a man loves you, he will give you what is worth more than money and that is his heart. You belong to him and he belongs to you. Everything you have belongs to you and everything he has belongs to you. That is what God means by "the two becoming one flesh..."

    But my ajuju be this;😊😊
    All the monies, even mirrions that (married) dudes give to runs ashawos (depending on levels) anytime they ask, is that one love, hate, infatuation or "achikota ekwee onu" -business transactions?
    Ajuju n'ese okwu oo 😊😊😊

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    1. This one sef join. But he must be willing to give money too.

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  5. true even for the woman they don't love when lashing is involved

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    1. Not really about the lashing part. If a man doesn't love a woman, he will lash her and still not provide for her. Infact, he cannot go out of his way to please her

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  6. It might not be immediately, but yeah they always do. (True)

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  7. Very very true especially when wooing and are really in love

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  8. Enter your comment...True. someone who loves you,will try to give u all u want,its only natural.

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  9. True... Most branded stingy are not really stingy... You would shocked at the lenghts they would go for people they are "really" smitten with.

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  10. Na lie ooo. Man wey broke, broke! The only analogy I can draw from this post is that a man would always sacrifice and share with the woman he loves how ever much or little he has.

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  11. Yes they do.
    I can count the number of times he ever bought anything for me. I never complained! Its girlfriend today and another next day. Hmmm. I stayed and bore it all hoping that one day he will love me, that he will realise i always meant well, that he will realise that even when i am angry and react when he hurts me, it is because i love him, even times he will support his family over me!

    and then he started, saying he wants divorce that my brother insulted him and his family, hmmm. then his family says i am not submissive with no examples, that i am angry he brought a lady from his base to lagos for two weeks without coming home; that why am i bothered, do i know if they are doing that to make me submissive. Chai, i don chop shit oooo! And the mother will say, she has told her daughters not to be bothered if their husband have girlfriends so long as dey did not bring the girls home. this man never brought any of his girlfriends home but the problems i faced in 7years?, hmmm only God has kept me going! to the extent of being told i am jealous because i dont have sex skills like girlfriend and many more, last year was worse but this year he has boldly asked for divorce, i am not saying a word, he shld go ahead. He said he has a girlfriend that is better in every way and i called to speak to him about family (me n the kids) he says he has no family.

    O God, yes i have a job and i am grateful, even though i cant get certain things to make life easy for me and the kids. i use bike everyday to take kids to school but this man has two cars in his base, drops the second if his mother's car is faulty.

    God please ELEVATE ME BEYOND MY IMAGINATION AND THE EXPECTATIONS OF NAYSAYERS. I KNOW IT WONT BE EASY, BUT PLEASE STRENGTHEN ME WITH YOUR GRACE AND BLESS ME EXTREMELY! GOD PLEASE, I AM NOT PERFECT BUT SHOW ME YOUR MERCY AND LET YOUR FAVOUR REST ON ME, KEEP ME AND MY KIDS SAFE TODAY AND ALWAYS! AMEN. Thank you Jesus for every thing even my current situation.

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    1. Amen to you prayer. I feel bad reading your story. You're not Angry and that's the more reason God will answer your prayers.

      Please, if he ask for divorce, grant him his request, don't drag or fight with him. Just make sure you settle with him how he will pay child support and have visitation rights.

      The Lord will strengthen you and see you through.
      Sending you love, strength and hugs πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ’–πŸ™πŸ½

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    2. I may not know you but I love you.
      For all you have gone through you will be rewarded, you have done nothing wrong but love him and its not your fault he chose to hurt you.
      If he sends you away, leave, this is not marriage, this is not the family your kids deserve. You also deserve to be happy.

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    3. Poster @1851. You have done everything right.
      God will Bless and prosper you beyond their wildest imaginations. Favor will never depart from you and your kids. Please, he has said, he has no family. It’s time to go get your own place. You will be fine. Let him bring the girlfriend in. We already know how it’s going to end. That girlfriend, will be replaced with another girl outside. Do not worry for nothing.

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    4. Amen to your prayers. May God bless you indeed and prepare a table for you in the presence of your enemies.
      Hugs and love.
      You will be fine.

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    5. You are not alone dear anonymous.The Lord will comfort you ,wipe your tears and give you a new song. Don't fight him oh, let the Lord handle your situation. Though it may tarry, wait for it. It will surely come. Your joy will know no bounds and all will see and testify of God's goodness in your life. Cheers

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    6. Anonymous 18:51, the lord has already answer your prayers. Dust yourself up and be strong for you and your kids.

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    7. May God grant you the wisdom, grace, strenght and healing you need through all of this. THIS IS NOT HOW YOUR STORY ENDS!!!

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    8. Anon my ex left me over 20 years ago when I was 5 months pregnant having lost the previous 2 pregancies. He went ahead and bigamously married, then proceeded to tell the worst lies about me to all and sundry. People told me to my face that I was finished. Today, I am a household name by God's grace to the point that my ex has tried all he can to bring me down but God keeps disgracing him and his family. Please do not utter a word except to agree to divorce and if he wants to co parent. The rest leave up to God. Work hard and be prayerful and see the Lord move on your behalf. It is well with you.

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    9. This is so sad. I pray you find someone that will love and cherish you. Marriage of these days??? I pray mine will be different.

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  12. You will be the one doing the cautioning sef.
    I know how many times them don shake head for me, "why are you asking for the prize do you want to pay me"

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  13. My Darling fiance just gave me 2 million to start a business today. The guy is just God-sent. This is somebody I've never slept with, not even kissed. He's a born again Christian and a lover of God. I pray that God will bless my efforts so I can show this man love. All I can say is that true love still exists. Let no lady tolerate any shit from any man. The time you waste tolerating rubbish in relationships is the time you could have used to move on and find a better man

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  14. very correct.my first salary was given to my girlfriend then now my wife to pay her school fees.
    almost everything.she said that was the reason she decided to marry me cos she no believe am.

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    1. Na man you be.

      God bless you and your family.

      Don't stop giving, your children will appreciate and hold you tight. My mum praises my dad at any given chance, when my brothers want to do something behind dad's back, she tells them no, that whatever they give to her must be 2, one for her and the other for dad. She ensures he takes the spotlight when it comes to catering for us, even when she can do it, she'll always say go and meet your Dad. I love my parents to bits especially my dad!!! Daddy's girl!!!

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  15. Yes..oh!!! 100% correct.
    With time & money!

    *neglect is the 1st danger alert or warning sign of a bad relationship or marriage. A man who really loves u will invest his money in u!!!
    ***indicating his motivation for long term things & future achivement in the woman & also sign of accomplishment.

    THERE'S NO LOVE IN STINGINESS & NEGLECT !!!

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  16. Love no reach my money. It comes with experience. I bought total of 3 cars for different ladies on different occasions of our dating when i was still a mugu. I learned. The allure of money gets me the best honeys but I ain't handing out cash. Now i am getting more ladies than when I used to be a cheerful giver. What one lady cannot do, another one can. To the spenders, goodluck. Nothing is guaranteed except death. Grow yourselves and stop spending on ladies. Everyone is expendable both men and women.

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    1. They are talking about men who truly love their women and you're here busy justifying your womanizing ass! I hate men like you - misogynistic chauvinist! And to think that Nigeria is filled with men like you always makes me shiver in revulsion...

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  17. Where are the feminists and "men are scum" crews? I guess those saddists will avoid this topic like a plague. Like I always say, there are two categories of women
    1). The bitter, lowly and lonely degenerates who wants misery hiding under feminism.
    2). Ths ladies in a loving relationship who understand that life is all about compromise and not intergender strife.

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    1. Feminism is not beneficial to the black woman. why my sisters haven't figured it out i dunno. FEMININity on other hand is the way to go. already the world feels black women are masculine and that we don't deserve to be pampered, cherised or provided for by a man. this strong black woman narrative only makes women stressed out, tired, embittered. no-one is saying don't make your own money but also aim to marry a man that you won't necessarily NEED to spend your money because he is a willing/able provider. The workplace is very competitive and unkind to women long term and many women may not wanna admit it but over a certain age women HATE HAVING to go to work to survive. it robs you of your femininity, grace, youth and ladylike manner to have to grind like the men and knock heads every day because you NEED to rather than want to.

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    2. Anon 12:12 very true. The rate at which married women are sleeping around these days for monetary gain is very alarming. They even do it more than the single ones these days. And it's all because they married a man that can't provide. Naija women need to stop marrying just for love or out of pressure or fear of missing out. Don't go and marry the men that is not emotionally invested in you or not financially ready all because u wanna please some nosy aunty who has an unhappy marriage herself. Most people that are married and want to force you to jump into marriage without looking are doing so just so you will suffer like them or get trapped in a marriage worse than theirs. They hardly have good intentions. Then u will hear them saying build with a man, Go 50/50, turn Mr. Wrong to mr right. When u finally end up in same WhatsApp group as them they will be secretly happy and be talking about u. One lowlife recently married lady in my office always ranting about how marriage humbles proud girls and ladies aka us should marry before we "depreciate". Imagine the stupidity. Meanwhile same mouth she will use n say that she rushed to marry because she felt she was getting older and no husband yet and that the guy isn't so financially able to care for her. Last time she got pregnant she miscarried cus she HAD to work and stress was much. She also had to be begging for money for prenatal care. To me that is not really a position,, to put any woman you claim to love as your wife.

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    3. Anon 12:12 cold stout for you. You will see married women insulting their unmarried female counterparts telling them to go to husband's house yet in that same husband house they are suffering in silence. Can barely afford to eat or be comfortable. Have In law issues. You name it. But they still claim they want their friends to marry and experience the JOYS OF MARRIAGE too. Clowns. Marriage is a lifelong thing not something you rush into just to feel among. These same married women spend their time trash talking the single ladies sense of dressing for being too provocative just Because THEY can't or their husbands won't PERMIT such. they admonish another for spending so much saying "how will u manage when you're married. Your husband will have to ordering foof everytime" excuse me? How is that any of your concern, bi*ch. These women love to hate women that have enough time and means to pamper themselves love themselves, take care of their skin and overall health. That's why I advise women marry up so you won't be a young woman acting and thinking like a jealous old hag. No offense but those Muslim married women are the worst because they are suppressed from doing so many things. We have many at my place of work. Their jealousy and bitterness is always out of this world.

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  18. where is the lie?. that's why I laugh when people say build with a man. go 50/50 etc. A man who really loves you will do all he can to invest in you, build YOU up. usually when men are looking for what you bring to the table as a woman they may not be really attracted to you, so they look for what else you can do for them that will be beneficial. They can't afford to attract a woman of their spec so they settle. do you want to be settled for or highly desired as a dream girl??

    These 50/50 guys are usually the men that after the woman has built them up they move to marry their true spec of women. I know there are few exceptions but what are the chances of that happening? let's lead with logic and not hopes/ dreams.

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  19. True. My Ex husband always had money for his side chic while we his family were living from hand to mouth.

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