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Wednesday, April 08, 2020

WEDNESDAY IHN

In house news don land eeeeeeeh................

My people wetin dey play?








Una well done oh....

Does anyone have things they ant to sell for Easter and will deliver to their buyers?if yes have it all sorted out on how to deliver then please send me advert.......
Where are those people selling foodstuff?why don't you advertise and do house deliveries when you make sales....

This would have been a time for anyone smart to make money...Package your things well and sell.......Of course you will collect delivery money as well....it would help those who dont wanna leave their houses..

Abi i no make sense?


Talking about shopping,on Saturday I am going over to African shop to buy a carton of Indomie noodles and plantain for my Bambis..They love and i have run out of.....Kids love indomie too much..My boys eat indomie every night and they cook it themselves....I love that they have become independent so i am encouraging them cos it takes cooking stress off me.....
No be kitchen dem born me...LOL


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THE TALKING TOHTOH



Hi Stella, it's BV *********


I have not really been commenting a lot cos of network issues here but I do read all posts especially at night, my prayer is that the good Lord sees us through this trying period...Amen.


I don't know where this fits, I don't even know if it's worth posting, but if u think it is, then post anywhere.


This staying at home has made us to have lots of time to think and remember past events... though with kids every minute is filled with activities.
So I just remembered something that happened to me when I delivered my second baby and I felt I should share with my fellow bvs especially the females. I was delivered of a beautiful baby gal on Nov.24th last year, mumsy was around so even from the hospital she started the tummy massage with hot water and all. Did this everyday morning and night for 2 weeks and then once a day for the next one week. 



As I wasn't given an episiotomy (unlike my first), the pains I felt wasn't much. In fact , I was wearing shorts, leggings...etc a day after delivery ( I couldn't do all these when I had my first child cos of the episiotomy). So I felt, now I'm gonna sit, walk, keep legs anyhow I like.


Then 3 weeks postpartum, I noticed that when I walk there's this funny noise that emanates from my VJ, like kwirim kwirim...I thought it's maybe something that happens after delivery of subsequent children cos I'm sure I never experienced it during my first. But as the days go by, it kept going on, I didn't know what to do. 


I was expecting mum or my hubby to even ask me cos the sound to me was audible enough but they didn't so I suspected it might not be that loud...but I know I didn't like this one bit. 

I began thinking of what to do, I thought of calling my elder sis to ask her, I thought of calling my aunt who was a nurse, I considered telling mumsy but i didn't feel like discussing this yet with anyone. That was when I thought why not I go to the hospital where I delivered, it's just a stone throw from my house. It was in the course of preparing to go that I now remembered an event.


So there was this Monday I went for ANC in the hospital, I went late so I was the second to the last person. While waiting for the doctor I had this sick feeling, I felt like throwing up. So I went behind a window, there was a bench so I sat down waiting for the sick feeling to pass. While there, I overheard a woman talking to the midwife ( I wasn't trying to eavesdrop or something but I can't block my ears nah...lol). 


So the woman was asking the midwife what she could do, that since after having her baby, she has being noticing that her vj makes sound whenever she is walking. That her husband is even complaining as the sound is embarrassing. 



The midwife asked her when she put to bed, she said it's up to 6 months. She asked her if she was sitting with her legs closed together after she delivered, the woman said not really. There was no episiotomy so she did things anyhow she liked. The nurse told her that what she did was wrong, episiotomy or not, that a baby passed through there, so she should have sat with her legs closed at least for a week post partum to allow her heal properly. 

But that anyway, since it has occurred she should from then henceforth sit with her legs closed tightly and then do sitz bath twice or thrice a day if possible. Told she will get better but it might take time seeing that it's already months this had been happening. The midwife was still trying to say something else when I heard a nurse my name, I had to hurry in to see the doctor and after I left and forgot the whole episode.


So when I had this flashback, I decided to practice what the midwife said to that woman, I decided I will do it for 2 weeks and if there was no improvement then I will go and see the doctor. That was how I started sit bathing morning and night, after like 4 days I noticed the sound has reduced drastically, in fact, I couldn't even hear it sometimes. I continued and by one week, I couldn't hear anything at all. I resolved I must do it till the 2 weeks I initially thought and I did it, all these time I was free. After 2 weeks, I stopped, I was afraid it might come back when I stop doing it but nothing came back. My baby will be 5 months on the 24th of this month and till now I never felt nor heard the sound again.


I'm not a medical personnel so I don't know the rationale behind this, if u do u can tell us. I only wanted to share my experience so that others can learn from it. May God continue to bless all the mothers and the expectant mums. For those wanting the fruit of the womb, the good Lord will grant you your heart desires according to riches and glory.


Stella nwanyi oma, ngwa kwnezialu m your Bambinos.
Let's all stay safe wherever we are.
N.B...biko there might be errors as I couldn't proof read







Someone might learn from this indeed oooh...Thank you...I removed you Blog ID before they turn Kwirim kwirim to your second name here,u know how BVs are...heheheheheheehhehehe









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191 comments:

  1. Understand that a woman that loves you is expected to give issues. Issues like expecting fast replies, wanting to know your every movement, jealousness, wanting you to pick or return calls, expecting random love text from you.

    These arent really issues.
    Men, stop making it one.

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    1. Isaac Isaac.. so u too don dey give advise for man/woman matter.nothing wey funke no go see for court...boys2men things.

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    2. Thank you SDK for the data God bless you I got mine this morning. SDKnewPA thank you so much

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    3. ID is back!!! Thank you Stella and Blog PA for the data giveaway

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    4. Sdk and our dear pa,tanks so much for the data,may God continue to bless u beyond ur imaginations.

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    5. Hello bvs pls someone should tell me how to go about Netflix movies. Do I download and watch on my fine or tv?is it expensive as in does it burn data?how do I subscribe?abeg make una help me out

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    6. IHN Welcome

      This sun is fire

      I got my data this morning, thanks Madam Stella and blog PA

      God bless youπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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    7. Isaac Isaac so u too don dey give advise for man/woman matter..nothing wey funke no go see for court.

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    8. All I can tell u is that it burns data and it burns the data to the ground

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    9. If you're streaming, it burns data scatter!!

      To use on your phone, you can either stream or download to watch later but you can only watch it on the App meaning it won't be saved on your gallery, it will be saved under downloads in the Netflix app ...

      For registration, once you download the app, follow the prompts, put in your card details, the first month is free!!

      I hope this helps

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    10. You guys forgot to tell her that the monthly subscription will be deducted automatically from her bank account whether she logged in or off for 30days, so she gats to shine her eyes while clicking during registration.
      And you cant transfer or screen mirror the dile,strictly for NETFLIX.

      Poster kwirim kwirim wehdone,hahaha.
      Motherhood no be beans.

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  2. Congratulations Castle. I read your post this morning, fashion designing is the best skill every female should go learn. Thou, it's not easy at first, but with time, you will love. I started fashion designing when I was still in school, look at me today.

    When I started my course mates were laughing, now they see my work and always proud of me.

    Like Miss Aboki said, I would have prefer you to learn from the road side, this big big fashion school, don't really teach much and their money is very big and you won't learn anything.

    People that comes to us, have all gone to one big fashion school and they dont know anything. Everything is all about patterns and it might not be that easy.

    Congratulations dear.

    Good afternoon everyone.

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    1. I am thinking of taking my 11yrs old girl for learning fashion designin,she likes sewing with needle and thread... isn't she too young????

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    2. She's still very young @Shakiti baby

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    3. I enrolled in a fashion school & I learnt nothing. I still beat myself to this day, the little I knew was learning on my own, asking & YouTube., Coupled with distance, it was draining & I just signed out. Fashion designing isn't for me., To think I paid in full oh. The money pain me die.

      Congratulations Castle πŸ’‹

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    4. Most people are wicked,I know of a friend, where she went learnt sewing years back, her boss will send her to get something whenever he wants to cut clothes. And she couldn't learn before she left the country.

      My work place, we teach you everything, if you stay with us, before six months you must have learn how to cut. Whenever I want to make dress, I tell those young girls to do it. We teach them everything.

      Look for a good place to learn, if you want to, some bosses are wicked.

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    5. You're right Sonia...i went to the "big fashion school" and learnt with patterns, e.g when on sleeves we were taught how to make all kinds of sleeves and you had to get it perfectly before proceeding to the next sleeve type but then if your money expires while at it, that's the end lol! Had to go back to learn freehand from the regular tailor.
      Got the most amazing customers when I advertised here that year (God bless you so much Stella).
      Keep it up Castle! Success all the way darl.

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    6. Shakiti baby they will turn her to house girl, she won't learn anything. Let her finish secondary school at least

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    7. @Odun Odunayo. I'm telling you.and very expensive but you will never learn anything. Fashion school is a waste of time and money

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    8. @Essa. Free hand is the best with a good boss. And they will tell you, within 3 to 6months you will be perfect. They are seriously lying.

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    9. @Sonia, I beg to differ. Fashion school is not a waste of money and believe you me, free hand is not the best.

      It's true that some fashion schools don't teach much and some are way too expensive. That's why I always advise people to ask around well and go to one you know someone that has gone to. Most road side tailors don't teach jack and apprentices end up spending years there without learning anything. The madams cut clothes when the apprentices are not around.

      I went to a fashion school in Lagos and the CEO is lenient, in that by the end of the 6months, if you have not completed the syllabus or learnt everything, she will give you the extra time to complete it and without paying another fee. I did mine and completed in 6months and before the 6months sef, I was already collecting simple styles from customers.

      The thing about fashion designing is focus and determination. If you are not, 10yrs won't even be enough for you to learn but if you are, you will learn all you need to by the end of the 6months.

      Another thing is that no fashion house or even road side tailor will teach you everything cos fashion is evolving. That's where YouTube comes in and even going for extra trainings. Me, I do YouTube. There's no kind of style I can't figure out by watching YouTube. I first use lining to practise it before replicating it on a customer's cloth.

      Pattern is the way forward and much better.

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  3. So, I'm going to be talking about my experience with my SnM boo, (well, not yet defined, but it will be, very soon).
    Let's call him Boo and call me Bae.

    I met Boo in the very first snm, we connected, I always connect with everyone by the way. We were so comfortable talking about anything and everything, my only problem was, we were in different states but same country.
    I thought he was a pervert because he loved talking about sex and sexual stuff. So one day, I remember telling him that the day he will sleep with me, he will never let me go, (well, I'm that good). But because I am everything and more, he laughed it off. I enjoyed his silly chats, I used to pass time chatting with him because I get bored sometimes, as per introvert.

    I started avoiding talking with him when I almost got married to one of my boyfriends (story for another day) and we totally stopped talking.

    To be continued...

    Every Wednesdays and Saturdays

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    1. Lol..
      Boredom everywhere ehh

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    2. Mtcheww.. who has time to be keeping up with this? πŸ™„ We would've forgotten the last episode by the time you drop another so please drop it once.
      🚢🚢

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    3. Another series to kill boredomπŸ˜†

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    4. 😘😘Odun πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£
      Lmaooooo

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    5. Plus the story is dry sef.

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    1. Yesterday by this time, the comments were almost 200 because of giveaway announcement. Today now, see 😁

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    2. In house news is here. It's Wednesday, time is really flying.

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  5. Thank you Stella for the data.
    I was able to check my balance after Isaacbaba sent me the code. I am very grateful for the data. God bless you more.
    Thank you Stella
    Thank you PA.
    Thank you Isaac.

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    1. Hello BUs

      I got my data this morning, my sister was happy to use it for her online exams.
      God bless Stella & Blog PA.

      I appreciate

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  6. Stellz thanks a lot for the data,I really appreciate. Just saw mine now.

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    1. Kwirim kwirrim got me laughing
      What mothers pass through

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  7. Thanks to Stella and Blog PA, I got my dataaaaaaaaa πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ


    I miss my Ex😩😩😩😩😩

    I don't want him back but I miss him aloooooot..... He was near perfect!!!

    I'm not going to contact him thoughπŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’


    I've had only one meal of Eba and Egusi today..... All my workout representative, how's it coming along?? I'm still waiting for my flat tummy oooh!!


    Good afternoon everyone πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹

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    1. Our flat tummy is a process😁

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    2. Eba and egusi and yet it's just past 1pm πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„ Cookie Cookie πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜… I Love still πŸ’•πŸ’•

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    3. Keep pushing, it won't just go flat overnight but with time.I did 1000 skips. I know with time I will get to size 12 if groundnut will allow me!

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    4. Started yesterday...so far so good! My body aches though😏

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    5. Flat tummy gang πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

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  8. Am I first?
    πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

    Will come back to read proper

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  9. There is this guy who is 6'3 in real life from a wealthy home and well mannered. Well-educated really good-looking too and soft spoken. I had to pray about it before considering giving him a chance.

    Only to dream that I went to his house and was shocked. A guy who is 6feet 3 in real life now looking like a 5feet8 in the dream. I was shocked and confused and was telling myself in the dream that how can someone be tall in teal life and short in the dream. He looked really ordinary in that dream. Now I am giving him the side-eye in real life.

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    1. Maybe God is trying to tell you sth anonymous. Just pray more

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    2. My thoughts too. God is warning you. Pray more for clarity

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    3. His spiritual life is weak, that is why you saw him that way.

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  10. Lol @ kwirim kwirim, BVs never forget sha and they can be brutal with their 'remembrance'

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  11. No be small talking P ,i never had this experience cos na cs i do.
    Cloudy and hot afternoon

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  12. Please for those applying for the face of in house news competition, you must hold the piece of paper with the COVID19 stay at home slogan

    Thank you

    Hello IHN πŸ™Œ

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    1. PA i dont know why i didnt qualify for d data i sent u a mail with my blog id yet u didt pjck me

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    2. I'm having some slight issues commenting with my ID after i upgraded my browser.

      Data received with thanks. Thank you so much Stella and Blog PA. I'm grateful.

      Bv pretty me

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    3. Yes they should hold it and snap the picture. Very good

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    4. Next week's competition will be very interesting

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  13. Good afternoon beautiful people
    How will the people selling deliver their goods? There is lockdown everywhere now
    Thank you Stella and blog PA for the data, I’m so grateful.

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    1. I heard Delta State is tough with the lock down. Here in Ph, it's a partial lockdown as there's unrestricted movement. Even streets shops are selling. Buses are even moving.

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    2. I really Taya for pH people
      Once the small markets sold this past two days
      All the women now went home with their goods
      Now they are on every street selling 😡😡
      No lockdown in oh at all

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  14. This girl 🀦🏻‍♀️🀦🏻‍♀️

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    1. Hey perxian I'm sorry for the reply at SP

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    2. It’s cool, sis. I was taken aback by your hasty comment but i’m over it. πŸ€—

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    3. πŸ€”

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    4. Perxian I'm a guy oh I'm not a girl.Thanks

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    5. Oh! My original comment was supposed to be a response to Cookie.

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    6. Oh wow! Okay, bro. @Black slimzy πŸ˜πŸ‘ŠπŸ»

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  15. I am also going to the Nigerian shop today. We have almost run out of gari, we are out of semo and almost out of poundo yam.

    My love for plantain made me queue for almost two hours to get into the only supermarket that I kkow that sells it. That day I was determined.

    Normally, I would only buy 4 pieces of unripe ones at a time but I wasn't about to queue for just 4 pieces of plantain, so I took 8 instead.

    Now the place I buy yam has been on lock down since this corona virus lock down. I've been desperately searching for any other place. I didn't know I could crave yam this badly.

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    1. Baby girl be having cravings.....hmmmmmm
      Is there a bun in d oven???
      🀩😘

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  16. Thanks so much abroad bv for help the hel you rendered to me, I am forever grateful.. God bless you abundantly and grant all your heart desires in Jesus name I pray.. Amen...
    Stella nwayioma, God bless you for using your platform to impact lives positively..

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  17. Poster kwirim kwirim. Lol.
    Yeah, mum made sure I sat on wooden chair with my legs closed. It was tiring but worth it.
    Hello all.

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    1. Hello my lovely people of SDK.maami Stella God bless u real good..this blog keeps me sane.
      Im so excited dat I want to share my Joy wit una my neighbors..my libido went to zero after giving birth to my kids..Asin zero.sometimes I feel sorry for hubby cos he breaths gbensh.but I wasn't like dis b4 o.i jst don't no wat happened.sometimes I'll jst lay like a wood after much deprivation.
      I tried kunu aya, goron Tula still nothing,hubby was complaining.one day he even said he suspect I'm getting it somewhere..hmm.
      Thank God d story has changed o....I'll just stay now and my ponyor will be vibrating now. infact even my hubby confess and ask me what's d secret..kwakwakwa.
      My people my secret is tsamiya o.i don't no d English name.i met a woman in a shop and she told me abt it.i bought small for a start o..now my second name na horny.infact this lockdown we break bed o.
      Tomorrow I'll go to d market and buy another way..see as my ponyor dey vibrate always..jaruma come learn work from me o jare cos dat ur own na audio.

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    2. Always at your service. I am a carpenter ma'am, I repair broken beds.

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    3. Pls is d tsamiya English or Hausa language?where can one get it pls,

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    4. Pls can you describe the tsamiya ,help a sister.I tried to Google it, the result I got was tamarind .

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    5. Lol.. please what's going on here? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    6. Pls which people did you buy it from? Hausa people or Yoruba women who sell herbs? Pls help a sister

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    7. Anon 14:20,please post how you used it. My libido "haf lazzident". Help a sis biko

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    8. Pls tell us about it, I want slamming toto nd vib

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    9. I need it too, pls describe and tell us where you got it from. Thanks

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    10. The English name is tamarind. Go to the Hausa/Nothern guys that sell ginger, garlic, onion, spices or salad vegetables.
      but be careful if you suffer from low blood sugar, because it can reduce your blood sugar and make you weak immediately if it's not going well... I had to take two bottle of big coke the day I took it to gain my strength back.
      It's brown in color and sour... You dissolve it in water..... Pronounce it as SAMIYA if you can't pronounce the TSA..... Some of them won't know it as tamarind.

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  18. Fellow housemates,how una dey oh..good day

    I saw Phoenix and real Phoenix πŸ†” yesterday,biko what's going on??

    Thanks y'all for your comments this morning on S.P about work-out
    xx

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    1. Yes, I later saw Real Phoenix comment too.

      I thought we only have one Phoenix blog ID here.

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    2. I don't know why people cannot get their own blog I.d always impersonating others .

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    3. I tire o
      That is how I'm seeing one PRAISE like that. I have been warning the person to edit it, I don't know if the needful has been done

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    4. Good day Paris dear...was carried away with the ID thing.

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  19. Waooooooooo nice read

    Please what’s sitz bath???? Can you pls describe how is done? There one I know that you sit on a wooden small seat and you will be bathing yourself, you will not stand, you will everything while on d seat

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  20. Pls come to my rescue
    How do I receive on Xender with iPhone that has bad camera!! The latest xender requires scan code of which I can’t do cos of my bad camera
    Martins and others pls help me oo
    Boredom wqn finish me, I still wan collect film thru xender e dey do rubbish

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    1. Hello;there is an option to "send" and also "receive" on xender..

      If you are the "sender" then what you explained up there happens..
      If you are the receiver,then the other phone which you want to take a movie from has to scan your own phone;hence you don't need your camera..

      Any option you choose;you can either send or receive after pairing..

      Hope this helps..

      @MARTINS

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    2. Wow! Thanks so much Stella and blog PA for the data give away. It feels so good to receive a gift from you Stella. God continue to bless and replenish your pocket. I didn't know it has entered o. I was thinking it will be in form of a text message, till I checked my balance now. Thanks much

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    3. Martins I’m so sorry for disturbing you
      Na me dey use iphone wey get bad camera, I no fit scan android and I think it’s only android that has the scan code!! How do I evade that process and still receive
      Kindly breakdown the process plssss
      Thank you

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    4. Hello,martin,how you ..hope fine?
      Please could you help with what to do.
      Everytime I'm invited for a Watch party on Facebook,if I click on it,the video will not display,even though others are watching?
      What do I do please?
      I have another watch party this evening

      Gracia

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    5. @Anon 14:43,the option displays on your screen just before pairing..
      Except the option is different on an iPhone.

      However you can download itunes if you have a computer;then use a USB to connect and copy whatever you need from your device(or any other..

      There are other sharing apps however for iPhone Which you can checkout such as Xshare,ShareMe,EasyShare etc and most don't require scanning a barcode..


      @UgGirl;it's either the "watch" has ended(you received the notification late on your device) or your device doesn't accept the format to play the video;meaning you have to upgrade to another device..

      Hope this helps..

      @MARTINS

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    6. Thanks you Martins.Maybe ugrade issue.Cos'i log in immediately am invited will upgrade then.
      Gracia

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  21. Salt bath is very necessary for all mothers after birth.
    God bless my mom
    God bless my mother inlaw
    God bless my man.

    I feel good
    I feel so happy.
    I have a good man!
    God loves me!!!
    πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  22. Good afternoon fellow BVs.

    @Castle

    Read your post on SP about 5mins ago & i just wanted to let you know i'm PROUD of you. Welldone babes. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ˜

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  23. Wow its really a story to learn from!

    #staysafe
    #confirmbeerpalour

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    1. Blog PA thanks for selecting me for the data give away. I so much appreciate. I already show my appreciation to Stella and you up there

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    2. Hello able P.A u still didn't choose me for d data giveaway..is there something I'm not doing right.😍😍

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    3. Please blog PA I need ID , please help a sister oooo

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  24. Stella what is kwirim kwirim?

    This should just call jare.

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  25. HR: You lost your last job coz you were flirting with your boss?

    Me: Yes ma

    HR: I’m sure you’ve learned your lesson

    Me: I have ma

    HR: Good. I gave you an employee form to fill, why is the phone number section empty?

    Me: Because I’ve lost my number baby, can I have yours?

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    1. Hahahaha πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  26. Guys please help me! Every month after ovulation, I feel so horny and I start imagining me with a bf/husband. I masturbate once every month after my period, sometimes I will just feel like watching porn too. I don't download it, once I watch it online and masturbate that's all. I feel so terrible thereafter but i won't feel horny again till tje next month. I have been single since 2017, I am 28 and a virgin. I lose bfs because they want sex and I don't tink I'm emotionally ready for sex till I am convinced I am with the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. It's killing me cos after the act, I feel terrible and find it hard to pray to God. Please don't judge me.

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    1. Hanty go and fuck. Na who virgin help abeg. After fucking then you see that sex is overrated.

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    2. That's hormone at work. Most ladies have the same complaint. Mind you simply because you are a virgin doesn't mean you won't feel horny sometimes. You are human after all. The mind is a battlefield so you already know what leads to you masturbating so there is a headway already.

      First, the thoughts come to your mind.

      Remember
      Philippians 4vs8 says "Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things."

      How do you achieve that??
      You protect your eye-gate, ear-gate by avoiding erotic materials and feeding more on the word of God. Do you listen to gospel songs regularly and pray daily not just when you wake up and go to bed?


      When those thoughts come you shove them aside and think of something worth your while. Mind you your flesh can't do this by itself and you need the help of the holy spirit which you must have fed consistently by being in God's presence daily. However, you do the contrary because your flesh was weak at the moment and you feed your mind by creating mental images which then pushes you to watch porn (another sin)

      You don't lose boyfriends, they lose you rather and these were men who aren't in the agenda of God's plan for you. You will meet the one for you who will be in agreement with your convictions like I did and he may end up being a virgin like mine who is hot for God. Don't ever relent on pleasing God.


      It's okay don't beat yourself up. Even Paul in romans7vs 15 said"For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do, I keep on doing.

      Keep on thriving you will overcome. Remember it all begins with your mind, your thought. Think holy thoughts.

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    3. I will be 28 by October,no boyfriend and a sexless life cos I vowed I will marry untouched but most times I get horny and I watch porn online without downloading.

      Its quite serious and no responsible guy says hello and its not like I'm not beautiful or educated.

      I'm just tired.

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    4. No one's judging you sis, it's absolutely ok to feel horny esp. during ovulation. How about you get yourself some toys.. & stop feeling guilty abeg. πŸ™„

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    5. Hi Pauly...ask God for forgiveness and accept his forgiveness. The next time it's "that time" of the month, go on a fast asking God to help you. You can beat this and I'm rooting for you πŸ€—

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    6. Sabella πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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    7. Pauly and anon 15:38 if it's any consolation, I am older than you both so be calm and watch the advice you receive.

      Remember (1cor 2:14) says "The natural man does not accept the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: he thinks they are nonsense and neither can he understand them, because they are spiritually discerned.

      ✌️

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    8. Awww bless u guys for the advice, y'all are blessed in Jesus name

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    9. Love you Sabella!! Your words are so soothing and brought relief to me. May God attend to your secret needs

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    10. ANG come and learn from Sabella.

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  27. I definitely learnt oh.
    That sitz bath I think helps tighten the V back to normal

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  28. Please I need the link to a post about ex tracking one done through phone,you can probably share with me what she can do to stop her ex from accessing information from her phone.

    It happens that my friend left her guy last year but the guy still questions her about somethings particularly things she tells people through chat,he also has her mail password.She bought the phone herself not the other way around.

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    1. Obviously he hacked the phone. Try format or delete the apps nd install again. For the mail.change the passwords

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  29. So true at the foot note memo... You can always get another chance to make it right. It doesn't matter how many times you have fallen, you can always rise again.

    I found a funny write up on Facebook and ever since I haven't stop laughing. It reads; "It used to be the people that came back from abroad being afraid of the village people but today those in the village are now afraid of those who are returning from the abroad." 😁😁😁😁😁

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  30. Good afternoon Y'all... I was surprise to see my blog ID on the data give away list cos I've never applied for give away and then I remembered that we have another sunshine BV .

    @Sunshine BV Can you kindly modify your blog ID so it can be completely different from mine?
    Thank you.

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    1. Well, I noticed the sunshine bv id before yours, maybe we should ask u to edit yours.

      When is sunshine bv and sunshine same????

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    2. @Eka kindly check before you comment. The fact that you notice her before me does not in anyway mean she started using the ID Before me. I rarely comment. Allow her decide.

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    3. You've said it. You rarely comment. You can't blame anyone for not remembering you you were first.

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    4. But I've seen the two of you greeting each other in the past. Why didn't you tell her to change the ID then?

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  31. Thanks poster for sharing your experience...@bv kwirim kwrimπŸ˜‚

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  32. Good Afternoon blog visitors....

    Just observing things 😍😍

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  33. The number person that cracks me up so much is Stella
    Talking TohToh
    Ahhhh I laughed real hard
    Stella ur captions ehhhhhhh
    Much love

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  34. Good afternoon everyone..
    The talking P**** poster.. Thanks for sharing too

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  35. Goodaftnoon bv is rraining cat and dog in PH now.

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  36. Pls my neighbors make una help me put mouth for this matter and tell me if I'm being paranoid.

    I live in a compound with 2 other tenants..one,a married housewife with her family and d oda a young guy that goes to work.me I'm married too with 2 young kids.d housewife was friendly with I and my family.tins aren't too ok for them.so sometimes I give her foodstuffs and hubby dashes her money too.i notice she's always asking my hubby to borrow her money,I expect her to come thru me but no she'll go straight to hubby and he was giving her thou with my consent.she never returned d money. I noticed she started keeping face for me after she asked hubby for anoda money and he didn't give her.i kuku help her carry d face Wella.
    Lst Xmas hubby dashed her 10k for xmas.she never said mumy lagbaja pls thank u hubby o he did dis o.i ignored her.
    Lst month I was doing laundry and she was at home,I washed my undies and spread in d toilet,went out to buy something came back and one of my pants was missing,I even saw d stick dey used to remove it.i rise alarm,since she was d only one in d compound,she came saying ha how did dis happened.hubby came back I told him.infact I went into prayers.
    After 3 days hubby was at home,I went to market.hubby met her and told her day he pity d person dat took his wife pant,dat if d person mission is to make him hate his wife ad like her that d person will suffer cos he'll so gbensh her and Kobo he'll not give her ad her ponyor go hear am.wen I came back hubby told me wat he told her ad we laugh over it.To my greatest surprise d nxt morning dis woman came to knock on my door dat she saw a pant in d gutter outside I shld come and c if it's mine.i went o lo and behold na my pata o.i brought it out from d gutter and burnt it.
    So now my mind is telling me dis woman took my pant for fetish but got scared cos of wat hubby told her.pls am I being paranoid.

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    1. U should consider relocating

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    2. You are not being paranoid. Continue in your prayers and avoid giving her money including your husband.


      She will still do something against your family. Have an eagle eyes.

      It is well

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    3. Forgive my irrational mind o, but methinks ya hubby and the madam have some fishy bizness going on.
      Keep your eyes down on both of them.
      Your husband lost his credibility when he added the gbenshing clause.
      Why did he not use prayers?

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    4. How did she get access to your toilet? you use shared toilet? Is it face me I face you? Pls if it is face me I face you, go and get self contained apartment even if it is one room. Let your husband save the free money he gives her for that purpose.

      She is very dangerous, be careful with her. Always lock all your doors. Don't keep your things outside even your flipflop or slippers.
      When I lived in face me I face you house, I used to spread my panties secretly I the sun outside and then cover them completely with a light cloth or wrapper. By 5 or 6pm I remove them secretly and spread them inside my room. My main aim of spreading them outside was to reduce the wetness so that water will not drip inside my room. Now we live in one room self contained. We have our own toilet, kitchen and bathroom. Pls do the needful poster.

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    5. Are u people sharing a toilet,why spread ur undies there!!! U people should stop bin careless with ur undies.dont even spread there is there no space inside ur room to spread it? People are very wicked and can do something very nasty to harm u with ur undies.

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    6. She was d culprit o.. gutter indeed, she be pant finder? You start drying your dross where no one can steal it.

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    7. Men, I don't think you are paranoid. I think both you and ur husband should stay far away from that woman.

      Deal with her with a really long spoon cos she is evil and can evil kill.

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    8. Please pray well. LIke my pastor will say its what we underrate that can finish us.

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    9. I share in your fears retired slay queen. Why would a married man talk so carelessly with another person's wife if they are not close? It's someone that you must have been gisting with that you can tell about gbenshing and the rest. If it is only greeting and begging for mlney that is between him and that woman, he will not tell her such

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    10. Same thing I thought RSQ.

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    11. You are not paranoid dear.
      Entitled idiot! Is she your responsibility?
      You and your hubby shld pls avoid that she-devil. Don't give her shishi and be prayerful too
      Where is her hubby though?

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    12. Poster, stay faaaar from that woman. Also, don't stop praying

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    13. U people should read to understand na. She said they used stick to take the panties. Obviously means they don't share the same toilet.

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    14. Madam i would advice you leave that house ASAP. That woman is up to no good.

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    15. I'm suspecting your husband too. How did he even start the discussion? Start snooping ASAP

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    16. You're not paranoid at all ,just that you and your husband need to set limits ,no more helping her and above all intesify your prayers,she might device,another means since you know know she is fetish.

      By the way ,where is her husband?

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    17. You are not paranoid. Watch that woman. Watch your husband. Intensify your prayers. Move out of there asap.

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    18. Your husband is pathetic for uttering such a statement, such a reckless statement pregnant with meaning.

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    19. Talk to your husband. Tell him that next time he wants to gift any woman money or stuff, he should go through you, his wife. If they go to him straight, he should tell them that he will send his wife to them. Then he should give you whatever he wants to give them so you can give it them. This way, these women will respect you more knowing that he tells you everything and that you have the power to stop the gift.

      Lastly, don't move out, why should you leave the house for her? If you encounter her kind in your new house, you will move out again? Why should you be Wasting money on agency fees because of a human? For how long will you keep running from evil beings?
      Tackle her with prayers and fasting. Wake up midnight and fire prayers, she will leave the house for you instead.

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    20. You both should leave that place fast!!

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  37. Dear Poster, You are truly correct. It is funny how these little things we tend to ignore makes massive sense. After each delivery of my kids and my mum comes to the hospital ( As we all live in lagos) from that very moment, she insists i sit with my legs closed and when we get back home, She insists for the first 2 weeks that I sit on a wooden stool ( there is this hard wooden tool my carpenter made.....only God knows where he got that wood from) I breast feed on that stool all day. I was just obeying without questioning until I had my 3rd baby and I asked, She laughed and said that if I hadn't done, My vj will be making funny sounds i would not like.

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  38. At poster it's necessary for a woman to sit with her legs closed after vaginal child birth to avoid that uncomfortable fart sound. U did the right thing πŸ‘

    It's always good to attend antenatal class bcos most teachings that will help first time moms happens there.

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  39. Stella, did we planned it hehehe 😊😊😊 I'll be going to African shop on Friday to get some plantains and a small bottle of Palm fruit oil.

    I don't eat Noddles and I don't give it to my boy... Do you know that you can get natural thin pasta, they are almost like Noddles too. They are more healthier.

    I just finish with my online class...

    Lol @talking tohtoh πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

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    1. Ms.A what are you learning in your online class?

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  40. I learnt something new today. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us.

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  41. Lol@kwirim kwirim I had my 2 kids via Caesarean but I have an idea of you what you are talking about cos my mom told me. I guess it's as a result of the vulva that widens after the birth of a child, it tends to slap each other.....I may be wrong though

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  42. @talking toh poster
    Thanks for sharing this with us. It will help new moms here.

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  43. I think one bv once complained of this same issue. Stella titled the post 'talking tohtoh' on ihn

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  44. Cookie!!!!!!
    Congratulations to us!!!
    Our sis “Lambo” will premier her reality show later this month
    Yasssssssssss
    The excitement!!!!!

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    1. Yasssssssss!!! I've been refreshing this blog to see if there's a post about it!!!

      Her business sense is too much, Kai!!!! I Stan!!!

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  45. Am praying for Single and Mingle Easter edition to hold. I can't wait to go and do housechores for my future in-laws. I know after COVID- 19. I am going to have a lot of work in d office baba God help me. I learnt one thing from Robert Kiyosaki's Rich dad, poor Dad, it states" Spend less, save more." U need to reduce ur expenditures. Our country is facing economic meltdown. House wives with enough children shud start family planning. I am tired of seeing Almajiri children on d street.

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  46. My son is a year now and I am still lactating my breast is still bringing out milk and my hubby is complaining pls what do I do to stop it pls help me,,,,,my husband is no longer sleeping with me because of this pls help me stella and post it thanks in anticipation

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  47. How do I stop mine, talking tohtoh..though it talks during intercouse using the doggy style

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    1. Una nor go kill me with laugh todayπŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

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    2. It is speaking In tongues naa, praaaaaa fukum pra pra praaaaaaaaa kpuuuf kpuuuf fuuku fuuuuuu.

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    3. Kidjo & BlackBerry,this sounds funny right...lol but I seriously need the remedy.
      My last child is 6 and am done with child birth . Na to enjoy gbola...lol

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    4. My dear sister, just use the remedies stated above. They will work no matter how long you gave birth to your last child.

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    5. I mean the remedies stated by the kwirrim kwirrim poster

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  48. Plz who can refer me to where I can buy good power bank in Benin city?

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    1. Contact Martinez. His own na baba πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘

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    2. Our Martins can waybill to you anywhere in the country. Contact Martins

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    3. Awwww;@ChyAdaJesus and Orire,Thanks so much for the recommendation..

      @Anon 16:35,we deal on quality powerbank and various Gadgets;Please kindly contact us with the detail on my ID..Thanks

      @MARTINS

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  49. Omg..I came late to the party. Just wanted to say thank you to SDk and certified PA for the data giveaway. I received 1gb of data this morning. God bless you real good.

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  50. Tsamiya is tamarind

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  51. Thank God for you madam poster, I didn't experience anything like that sha.. how are you guys locking down? A guy was attacked here at Ijegun Lagos State by hoodlums, they almost severed his hands off his shoulder... ...he was trying to beat lockdown and left his house very early in the morning.... Stay house, them no gree, me I don't go out anyhow ooo

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  52. That was an insightful message from BV kwirim kwirim sound aka talking tohtohπŸ˜πŸ˜‚

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