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Wednesday, May 13, 2020

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SERIAL MOTHER WHO CURSES HER CHILDREN

Thank you so much for this platform that enables us offload our burdens we can hardly talk to people about.


Pls keep my Identity private. I was born into a family of 7,we as the children being 5...We all live in Ibadan.
I grew up to have a very low self esteem becos of the environment I grew up in. I have parents who stand outside to fight and abuse themselves without blinking an eye nor thinking about us.


We are 3 girls and 2boys.I am the third child and my eldest sister isn't married yet,she is almost 30yrs and still my parents do this.


I am tired, my mum doesn't mind shouting and exposing my families secrets to the world. We have been moving from one rented apartment to the other bcos of quit notices.


My sisters and I are just beginning to unlearn a lot of things as we grew up seeing my mum always standing up to my dad who is old now. I think God has allowed us stay unmarried to this point bcos he is trying to teach us some things we never knew. 

We have been so scared of marriage bcos of what we see day and night in this family. God has helped us to be decent girls and men are coming, but the fear of marriage has kept us like this.


The 3 of us are working and supporting my mum who always complains of doing a lot in the family, yet she seizes every opportunity to disgrace the family and fight us.

The thing is, my dad had done a lot of wrongs to her in the past, but she won't let it go. She is angry he didn't build us a house in the village or in the city after over 35yrs of working, she complains that she is the one paying rent and feeding the family. Meanwhile, presently, dad earns 32k as pension and brings out 20k for the feeding monthly. We the girls bring out 20k each for the upkeep and rent of the house. While she adds to dad's money for feeding yet... She is still bitter.


Recently I discovered my dad isn't my real dad after a prophet told me somethings... I came to confront her, but my elder sister calmed me and told me that her dad too is different. I cried and cried... 

My mum should be happy that we are still together despite all of this, I don't know if my dad is aware though. But my mum keeps nagging everyone, asking us to go get married when we are the ones paying our younger ones fees and giving out a part of our salaries monthly to the family.


They have been quarreling since morning, now the owner of our house came out and started shouting that we have been disturbing him and we should leave the house.

Since my family and I stay I'm the same city and I am a girl child, I didn't want to stay apart from them until after marriage, but with all of this... I would like to get a place for myself or quickly accept a proposal so I can leave.


Sometimes, I wish that had just divorced. I really don't know how to handle everything, we are beginning to resent my mum for all of this... What do I do. I am yet to come to terms with the fact that I don't know my dad, then this... I am tired.


I almost grew up to be a bully, resentful to guys, disrespectful and Arrogant... I am just beginning to unlearn these things. My mum now places curses on us, bcos we no longer side her like we did before when she quarrels ... 

Pls will this have effects on us???
Pls... We need help,what do we do???



*Na wah..I really dont know what to say....
Can you and your sisters afford paying for somewhere together?With the way your mum is going,your family name might be a no go area....

You also need to realise that your mum having all her ids for different men also shows she may be an abused woman going thru emotional depression....You and your sisters should take your step father out and discuss about openly supporting your mum for the sake of peace to reign.....
dont stop showing your mum love,it might change her and calm down her anger....dont Judge her cos you dont know what she has been through..She might have mental health problems for all you know.....

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  1. What do you mean by 'don't judge her', Stella?
    Judge her very well. Some of us have been to hell too but we don't go around abusing our kids and husbands in public.
    Judge her and judge her well.

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    1. Thanks jare. Making excuses for full fledged adults because they carried pregnancy and bore it. Again I say, don't surrogates do the same? Everytime, "she's still your mother". And so?!

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    2. If it is a case of mental imbalance, they will definitely misjudge her. I understand Stella's point. All of you especially the unmarried ones need to go for counseling in addition to your mum. Although hers is an emergency. You need counselling to unlearn most of the things you have grown up with over the years. Things you consider as the norm in order for you to enjoy your marriage. Please don't also rush to accept any proposal cos you just might be repeating the cycle of whatever it is your mother is dealing with.

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    3. I hope this isn't a case of gaslighting...are you sure your Dad isn't the one 'codedly' causing the trouble and your mum reacts for all to see, thereby, making her look like the troublesome one?

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  2. My mum is in this table until we discovered it's a mental imbalance. She has changed tremendously because we now learnt ways to not encourage her habits. Now she is much calmer!!! Therapy if she's open minded

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    1. Nice one from you people! 🤗

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    2. Poster I think you should look into this. Your mom might be bipolar. Talk to a psychologist and google mental illnesses.

      Also, don't forget to pray for your mum. The Spirit of God can touch her heart and calm her bitterness.

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    3. Poster ,
      It is well with you , have you ever considered counselling ?
      And also taking your mom to see a psychiatrist , I like that you're not letting your experience create a monster out of you.
      If you can you should move out get your own place cos truth is you need to be mentally and emotionally stable before you can help others .
      You need at atmosphere that would help you process and think clearly on how to go about these issues .
      As per the Curses I think you should pray and seek God, my mom shared a story with me this morning about one of my aunt's that lost her son due to a pronouncement there is power in the tongue.
      But know that God is the chainbreaker in him there is liberty and deliverance, I pray God comes through for you .

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    4. Poster pls you and your sisters should try and move out for your sanity. You girls can be sending the money to them from afar or if you can afford it, register your mum for therapy in Teaching hospital. She needs therapy

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  3. A prophet told you your dad is not your real dad and you didn't confront your mother or did I skip that part? Your sis also said the same thing and both of you are keeping quiet instead of confronting your mum and look for who your real dad is

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    1. I think she did but was talked to by her elder sister who's also from a different father.
      Abi me don't understand too sef

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    2. Ndi prophet.
      Is that not an acceptable name for babalawo.
      N.a. wah

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    3. Modella help me o!!! In this 2020, a girl who writes so beautifully drew conclusion on her paternity purely on a prophet's account?!!!

      Poster, that your environment did you far much more things than you have realised. What is even your business with your paternity sef?! Are you your mother's husband? Dont you like the father you have now? Keep visiting prophets, you hear. They will ruin what is left of your life. You and your sisters should move far from home and mix with better friends with a better mind-set. As for your mom, love her and be a little more affectionate towards her. It shouldn't be difficult.

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    4. Poster please I beg you with everything you hold dear, stop visiting prophets. Please stop. This is a very bad trait in ladies, most men do not like it too. How can a young lady like you be visiting prophets? If it is a church, pls change to another church where they worship normal without prophesies.

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    5. A prophet told you and your sister something so serious and you could not confront your mum. A prophet in this Nigeria o.

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    6. Thank you Sapphire. If I'm in her shoes I'm not looking for any Dad. If somehow I learn today that my dad ain't my dad, nothing changes. The man I know as Dad remains Dad, and any Dad I never knew I wouldn't want to know. Can't go looking for someone who never looked for me.

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    7. What if he happens to be Dangote? Lol.

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    8. Haha my dear the chances of those what if's happening in real life is usually less than 1%. Life is not Nollywood. The hope in such what if's lead people into making poor choices everyday. Hope keeps us moving but sometimes sucks our marrow dry.

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    9. It's not about the prophet saying her dad is not her real dad. Her sister also knows the secret for her to have tried to calm her down because her sister knows she has a different dad. The man may have wronged her but their mum is no saint and their mum is playing the victim card against their father. The woman is not bipolar she has secrets and is using the man's own past to blackmail and avoid her truth coming to light.

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  4. Yes, your mom is the problem.
    Most women with your mom's "profile" have their main homes in mediums that dot around the cities.
    Do not fight your mom. Take the fight to the spiritual realm by fasting and praying to Jesus with your sisters.
    The power of Christ is the only contrary power to the powers of darkness and he had conquered them.
    Stick to God's Word and do not be bitter towards your mom. Remember;
    God will forgive you your sins as you forgive those (your mom etc.) who sinned against you.

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    1. My mom is on this table, wen she's angry she goes all out. Her Insults are Ekwensu, Amosu, Bastard, Useless, God punish you etc. When she calls down, she begins to apologise and pray.
      We have talked to her several times to tame her tongue wen she's angry, but I guess she can't help it. Her Insults are really really bad when she's angry, our neighbours even hear her. God help me, I can't wait to leave this house.

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  5. I don't know why some women are like that. Why curse your children? You need to start praying for your mum and also pray for yourself too so that you won't do the same thing to your children.

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  6. Women.
    A lot of strange children admixtures in many homes converting them to war fronts.
    Your dad's pain and seeming lack of devotion to her is probably because of her lifestyle. The man has actually
    lived to see old age and is grateful to God.
    Do not seek to please your mom but God. And do not jump into marriage to escape her. That will likely be making a most costly mistake.

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  7. eni to lori o ni fila. I don't know what to say, may be you girls can move out and rent an apartment to have your own space n peace. You will still be playing your part s responsible people. I think your mum is bitter about her past and hasn't let go of it (forgiveness). There should be a wa you people can talk to her to calm her down. It is a psychology thing.. Ask God for help.

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  8. God please intervene in this matter.

    Please always be good to your mother, in good/bad she's still your mother.

    Maybe you and your sister should consider renting an apartment later.

    Please discard that girl child thing mentality, that won't stop your your own man locating you.

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  9. Poster, your mum is the true secret box. Her husband who you thought was your father saw a lot of things she was into, hence the continuous fighting and abusing of each other.

    You and your siblings should cut the ties that binds with prayers and supplications to God.

    Before you get married, make sure you purge yourself from every ties.

    For now, I'll advise you go get your own small apartment and render assistance to them from afar.

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  10. Don't let the situation in your family push you into the arms of any man that comes your way. I know that you are looking for an escape route but be careful so you don't fall into something worse.

    It is well with you!

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  11. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm this is pathetic and a serious delimma. If you leave without knowing why she is this bitter your dad who raised you will suffer the most. You need God's wisdom, yourself and your older sisters should find a means of talking to her promising yourselves you won't be provoke even when she is shouting. Reassure her of your loves for her, plead with her to open up to you her now grown up kids that you won't judge her but want to be part of her pain. I pray you get all the answers that give you joy,since you are sure your dad treated her badly in the past, it could be worse than you think, women have things that make them treat bad husband badly when they now have monetary power. In all this forgiveness will be the healing here and joy will be in your home and God's peace will radiate. All will be well in Jesus name.

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  12. Dear poster, pls heed to Stella's advice, gaskiya.

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  13. Hmmmm she needs psychiatric treatment. She is mentally not stable.

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    1. I never accept this as an excuse for a fully evolved adult to misbehave. Who is not mentally unstable in Nigeria? We all are in a way. Only that the degree varies. Yet we learn to make the best of it and not make an already bad situation worse. We learn to manage our situation and crisis. As they say, being a Nigerian itself is a full time job.

      Your mother should take responsibility for her actions and inactions. Including probably not leaving the marriage when she should have. That is not your fault and you shouldn't pay for it. Why she waited this long in a marriage that eventually made her 'mad' is her own problem. Many of them will claim it's for their children. I always say "na lie". They usually can't move an inch because they are scared of stigmatization, 100% financial responsibility and impending lack of deek.

      We need to stop this unnecessary sentiments about mothers being mothers. And so?! Is a surrogate not a mother? Abegi! Let's call a spade a spade. A bad woman is a bad woman. Poster, my advice to you is that life is everyman for himself. Sort yourself out first even if it's means getting your own place to contain your sanity. The rate at which you're going, I hope you don't tow her path.

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  14. Hmmm poster, don't do mistake of hating your mum oh coz reading your chronicle, I don't think she has for once forsaken y'all her children despite all her drama.. That anger and hate is definitely coming from somewhere! Find a good about her to focus your energy on because "when you focus on the good, the good only becomes better".



    And continue to unlearn, take charge of your life to be what you want it to be!

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  15. What about my own father.
    We have a very comfortable home.
    These man choose to make it uncomfortable for I and my sister.
    Using swear word.if he sees us he will be angry...
    Loved him because he cares and sponsor us through school.
    But presently we are so fed up of him,
    Want me and my sister to get married..disgrace us outside.
    Insult my mom..
    Before I thought he is been manipulated. But na lie that's his character..
    Have run away from home. before I will fall into depression.
    I always pity my mum because she married wrongly because age was not on her side.
    GOd please bless I and my sister with a good man🙏 not a man like my father.

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    1. That's how my aunt and her late hubby kept cursing their kids publicly that they will.never amount to anything good in life .....all the kids are useless today....some don't even want to see their mum.....none of the 5kids went beyond primary level. ... some didn't even finish primary school ooo.....

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    2. Na real wa for some parents...

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  16. I feel your pain,try and get an apartment with your sister. Don't let your mum's bitterness affect your future. There are still Godly and loving men out there,I pray God will give you the right man for you.

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  17. Wow this is a real dicey situation and you are in a toxic situation.. Since you don't want to leave the house and rent your own.. You need to build your mental strength how do I mean? Separate your mom from the wrong she is doing; blames her actions but not her, its very difficult but trust me you need to do it one step at a time. She is still your mom and you can't change her. Still love and respect her but also encourage her to receive help, she has a deep seated problem that she needs both clinical and spiritual intervention. As you have rightly said you guys haven't settled down because God wants you to unlearn and relearn anew and please MARRIAGE IS NOT ESCAPISM, don't just accept any proposal from any man because you want to escape from family problems, it will be a great disservice to you and you will regret it.. In conclusion you must play the fool so you can enjoy your own peace of mind, just say 'Oh mummy you are right' and then much later, tell her how her actions are affecting yourself, siblings and dad.. Don't challenge her, just allow her be and when the 'heat' has reduced, approach her, smile, buy her little gifts ok!! It is well E-hugs to you..All the best ..REMEMBER WHAT WE HATE, WE BECOME and WHAT YOU FORGIVE, YOU OVERCOME!!

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  18. My own advice is that, don't rush into marriage because you are trying to avoid trouble at home. It not a good idea. You can get an apartment and move in with your sister.

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  19. even if you want to look for your real dad, pls dont let ur stepDad know about it, it might kill him faster, and also confront your mum about your findings in a calm way

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  20. Which kind mother be this ? So the man she's been fighting is not even the father of her children.
    Evil woman.
    You guys better confront the small devil to tell you people your biological father.

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  21. I don't even know what to say,may God fix this

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  22. I wish I had known SDKblog

    I would have received sense a long time!

    Thank God it's not too late for me
    Hmmmmmmmm

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    1. Its not too late ooo, meself I dey learn everyday...

      Lovelace

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  23. Many of us are looking for solutions to mums like yours. The matter tire me honestly,I have peace of mind cos I've not spoken to mine for some months now,but my conscience wont let me be. Aya emekwanu ife nkea gini bikonu?

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  24. My mom is your mom twinning, she brought me to Lagos to met my dad, when things are rosy with him
    When money no de again, she told me the man is not my real dad that i should get ready she's gonna take me to him.
    I don't even care if she's my mom
    I told her to stay away from me, i don't allow her to come for omugho she's something else.
    ThankGod for giving good and understanding mother in law, that's still encourage to keep in touch with my mom.

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  25. Poster, I think you should follow Stella's advice and leave your home.

    Then, also call your mom and ask her what is making her behave the way she does.

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  26. Sis, your mother is so broken inside from severe abuse from these men and her curse(s) stems from her children reminding her of her past whenever she looks at y'all. Not excusing her behavior but please be patient with her and don't abandon her.

    Most of all, forgive her and love her. I no it's not easy but all she needs right now is love. You and your siblings should seek the face of God and stop visiting spiritual people that will worsen the situation. I pray for peace in your family. 🤗🤗

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  27. You and your sister should have a talk with your mother. You can't just keep quiet and be harboring grudges that will eventually destroy the progress of trying to change for the better.

    Getting a place now will be additional expense for you guys considering that you contribute towards the rent and upkeep of the home. A lot of thought should go into your decision.

    The Lord is your strength.

    Lovelace

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  28. Did your prophet conduct a DNA test?

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  29. This why am an advocate for divorce when couples simply can’t tolerate each other, especially when they have kids. I don’t support staying for the children because the emotional harm you are causing them will live with them for the rest of their lives. Is really hell on earth when you are married to someone that wouldn’t let you go, yet they wouldn’t change their evil ways, so that living with them becomes bearable. Most abused women become bitter women. It takes serious prayers to heal. God knows am still a little salty about my own issues even though I have been divorced for 10yrs.

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    1. I'm not an advocate for divorce but I totally understand your comment. I read somewhere that women have the tendency to get stay bitter due to men issues. And I know some people who still habour the sadness and heartbreak of relationships 10yrs ago. Relationship oh, talkless of marriage. I hope we learn to let go of every past. No matter the hurt.

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  30. I think your father has a right to know about your paternity. It might help him put an end to the menace which is your mum once and for all before she kills the both of you.

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    1. U are the menace, is prophet a dna test? Her mum isn’t a killer, she is deeply hurt. I pity your wife cos you think upside down.

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    2. Anon, considering the fact that it was a prophet that told her, only a DNA test or the mum can confirm this. We all know the prophets of nowadays. Most of them are up to no good

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  31. Your mum na real Obata osu.
    E be like say i dey learn work where she dey o.

    But jokes apart she is unknowingly denting your family's image. Please confront her to confirm your paternity to be sure,you cant rely on this prophet.

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  32. You said your dad wronged her in the past,do you know the kind of woman she is,do you know if your dad caught her doing somethings,what's the assurance that the five of you are not from five different fathers,the man didn't build a house and they were together all these while,what if she actually brought curses upon the family due to her attitude and the words of her mouth,pls rent an apartment with your sister and have heart to heart talk with your step father

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  33. Blame your dad for hurting your mom in the past, not everyone can let go, but she stayedcos of our community. Society expects the woman to endure whatever her husband does. She probably lost respect for your dad cos of some of the things he did in the past. She should try and forgive though. You blaming only your mom, cos she is the only one shouting...

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    1. Don't mind the girls when they get married they will understand why their mum can get so mad. I'm sure that man wasn't nice to her in the early stages of their marriage and not everyone has the ability to let go of hurt

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    2. So we stay, we endure and end up becoming very bitter and take it out on the husband at old age, the children and the world at large. Does that make sense.

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  34. Poster please don't respond to your mother's provocations and if u can try and see if you can rent a place with your sister while continuing to sponsor your younger siblings through school. Don't take your mother to a psychiatrist. Please don't do that. It will get worse and if she ever stop taking the medicines abruptly she will have a psychotic episode . I'm talking from experience. I was depressed and they referred me to a psychiatric center. They immediately started giving me all sort of pills to take. Because of the side effects ( getting fat, always being sleepy, watering mouth, drooling, breast producing milk , fatigue, mind fog etc) I stopped abruptly ( you should gradually stop but you will still have side effects) and had a psychotic episode. They increased the medication and put me in a psychiatric shelter. Since 21 my life has been on a standstill because of this. Only lately I was able to convince them to reduce the medicines and I'm back to myself and started a science course after which I will start nursing school. This year I'll be thirty years old and I have wasted my youth in a psychiatric shelter where have been beaten by other patients and one nurse that almost broke my finger, almost raped and psychologically abused by nurses and doctors. I live abroad so the government gives us a monthly allowance and I was able to save from it that's why now finally after almost 10 years I'm able to complete my studies. As soon as I finish nursing school and find a job I'll leave this psychiatric shelter and mortgage my own home. Don't ever take your loved one to a psychiatrist when they are depressed rather take them to a psychologist that will allow them to vent and speak out what is going on in their mind. If it wasn't for prayers and my faith in God the psychiatrists would have rendered me useless. I didn't have anywhere to go that's why I'm still here and my family are all in Africa so I have no one to go to. The medicines they give affect your brain and organs and in the long run you will fall sick with different diseases ( I now have an overactive bladder due to some medicines that they gave me). Just rent a house with your sister and take care of your younger siblings but no matter what don't take your mother to a psychiatrist. She is not mentally ill but she may become if they start administering different kind of psychotic drugs to her. What a depressed and bitter person needs is love, understanding, care, help and patience and to see a psychologist not a psychiatrist. Have a great day.

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    1. Oh my goodness mouth 👄 wide open. You just narrated my dear older brother's mental journey. May Gods healing be on you all.

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    2. Chaii'i pray for God to see you through 'amen.You are a winner o

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    3. @Anon 18:20.

      May God give you beauty for your ashes,restore all your lost years and make you truly happy.

      I love you.


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    4. Amen. Thank you. God will perfect our healing and He will give back to us what the locusts have eaten. I still have hope that my life will turn out for the better and hopefully one day I will be bold enough to write a book and share my story. I pray divine healing and restoration for your brother too. God bless you.

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    5. Can I hug you?
      I really want to and I wish u could, you're strong and brave and I pray lines fall in pleasant places for you.
      All the best and God's healing.

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    6. Thanks guys. I appreciate your words and prayers. May God bless you all abundantly for showing compassion after reading my story. I believe God will restore my health and all that I have lost in these years. Thank you once again💙

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    7. Lord have mercy......God....SDK thank you for this platform. ...I have truly learnt something frim this particular comment....stay strong sister.

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    8. Chai..... Anon you have suffered... May you find joy for the rest of your life.

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  35. Poster pls stop patronising prophets. I live in Ibadan too. I have seen so many things in the course of my job as estate agent. Most prophets are out to wreck lives

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  36. Your mum is trying to destroy your sister, you, family name and your step father. Some people cannot accept certain things and forgive.

    Your mum is not a scent, she has children for different men yet she cannot allow your step father have peace of mind because he didn't build a house. Mistake has already been made by your step dad.

    She should stop nagging, face front and enjoy the remaining life time she has. I don't like women who nag alot, since she has been nagging has she build any house.

    You and your sister should get another apartment, stay far from your mum before she damages you both and will not make you both to enjoy marriage. Sins of our parents should never affect us.

    You both should try to talk things with your mum and see what you can do to make her stop fighting, nagging, complaining, bitter. Your mum is trying to destroy your sister, you, family name and your step father. Some people cannot accept certain things and forgive.

    Your mum is not a scent, she has children for different men yet she cannot allow your step father have peace of mind because he didn't build a house. Mistake has already been made by your step dad.

    She should stop nagging, face front and enjoy the remaining life time she has. I don't like women who nag alot, since she has been nagging has she build any house.

    You and your sister should get another apartment, stay far from your mum before she damages you both and will not make you both to enjoy marriage. Sins of our parents should never affect us.

    You both should try to talk things with your mum and see what you can do to make her stop fighting, nagging, cursing you her children. Talk to your step dad to see how you guys can make her happy.r mum is trying to destroy your sister, you, family name and your step father. Some people cannot accept certain things and forgive.

    Your mum is not a scent, she has children for different men yet she cannot allow your step father have peace of mind because he didn't build a house. Mistake has already been made by your step dad.

    She should stop nagging, face front and enjoy the remaining life time she has. I don't like women who nag alot, since she has been nagging has she build any house.

    You and your sister should get another apartment, stay far from your mum before she damages you both and will not make you both to enjoy marriage. Sins of our parents should never affect us.

    You both should try to talk things with your mum and see what you can do to make her stop fighting, nagging, cursing you her children. Talk to your step dad to see how you guys can make her happy.ghting, nagging, cursing you her children. Talk to your step dad to see how you guys can make her happy.

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    1. Saint not scent. Scent is a smell.

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  37. Your mum is trying to destroy your sister, you, family name and your step father. Some people cannot accept certain things and forgive.

    Your mum is not a scent, she has children for different men yet she cannot allow your step father have peace of mind because he didn't build a house. Mistake has already been made by your step dad.

    She should stop nagging, face front and enjoy the remaining life time she has. I don't like women who nag alot, since she has been nagging has she build any house.

    You and your sister should get another apartment, stay far from your mum before she damages you both and will not make you both to enjoy marriage. Sins of our parents should never affect us.

    You both should try to talk things with your mum and see what you can do to make her stop fighting, nagging, complaining, bitter. Your mum is trying to destroy your sister, you, family name and your step father. Some people cannot accept certain things and forgive.

    Your mum is not a scent, she has children for different men yet she cannot allow your step father have peace of mind because he didn't build a house. Mistake has already been made by your step dad.

    She should stop nagging, face front and enjoy the remaining life time she has. I don't like women who nag alot, since she has been nagging has she build any house.

    You and your sister should get another apartment, stay far from your mum before she damages you both and will not make you both to enjoy marriage. Sins of our parents should never affect us.

    You both should try to talk things with your mum and see what you can do to make her stop fighting, nagging, cursing you her children. Talk to your step dad to see how you guys can make her happy.r mum is trying to destroy your sister, you, family name and your step father. Some people cannot accept certain things and forgive.

    Your mum is not a scent, she has children for different men yet she cannot allow your step father have peace of mind because he didn't build a house. Mistake has already been made by your step dad.

    She should stop nagging, face front and enjoy the remaining life time she has. I don't like women who nag alot, since she has been nagging has she build any house.

    You and your sister should get another apartment, stay far from your mum before she damages you both and will not make you both to enjoy marriage. Sins of our parents should never affect us.

    You both should try to talk things with your mum and see what you can do to make her stop fighting, nagging, cursing you her children. Talk to your step dad to see how you guys can make her happy.
    God will heal her soon.

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    1. Excited, it's SAINT not scent.

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  38. The best you can do poster is to move out of the house with your sisters for your own sanity. And for your mum, pls let her see a therapist and also pray for your parents always....

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