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  1. Different stroke for different folks

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    1. He needs you for xxx and child bearing ๐Ÿ‘ป๐Ÿ‘ป๐Ÿ‘ป๐Ÿ‘ป๐Ÿ‘ป๐Ÿ—ฃ๐Ÿ—ฃ๐Ÿ—ฃ๐Ÿ—ฃ๐Ÿ—ฃ๐Ÿ—ฃ

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    2. All this kind talks are actually making marriage look unattractive honestly

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    3. She looks like the epitome of joy ๐Ÿ˜’

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    4. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ @ Jet li ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    5. E be like sey she dey look for husband?

      When my sis was doing it; food, rent, house upkeep, visa, land and properties, travelling etc, what did she get in return?
      The guy broke her heart into pieces and fed her to eat it.
      You need to have seen all the wrinkles on her face.
      Her husband was very fresh and fat, while she was looking haggard!
      She will still come home to cook the food, clean and perform despite being handicapped!

      So, if you are not in a marriage or don't understand the dynamics, please don't sit on your high horses and judge.

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  2. Tell them ooh.... If only they will hear and reason wella.

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    1. Guy no shame me abeg. Why you dey fear responsibility?

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    2. Tell hem oh kee you there. If I pay for my bills, what do women need you for

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    3. zeezah aren't you ashamed you can't engage on constructive argument than using such words on me. Why should a man pay for your bills after paying the house general utility bills including school fees? Are you that lazy not to work as to pay your own bill? The question isn't saying women should share bills equally with their men rather a man shouldn't be the one paying bills alone. No wonder these men die early before the women. The reason widows are on the increase.

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    4. @ Teejay,some men dying early these days is due to lifestyle not responsibilities. Too much alcohol, cigarettes and other factors like womanizing.

      During this pandemic, more men died than women. I heard this on BBC news but hearsay that those who smoke and drink excessively are more at risk of dying from Covid.

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    5. @Teejay, sometimes it's the lifestyle they (men) live that kill them, not necessarily cos he paid all the bills.

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  3. The truth.. Don't let anybody be asking you "who you epp"

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    1. There are over 2billion Pussies in the world.
      So Again I follow ask "what he need you for?"

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    2. Anonymous 14:53 there are also many ways he can get financial help....Parents , siblings...? So again I ask you 'what will he need you for'?

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  5. I just believe we should all support each other and not leave it to one alone.

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    1. Very very true. ..and I know what I stand to gain later from it....he told someone that my wife is not stingy o....sometimes it may not be money ...whatever works for anyone sha

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  6. There are so many things a woman can bring to the table other than money please. Money is not everything. Do what works for you.

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    1. You are right but I guess you missed the point here. Okay let me rephrase it this way for better understanding. Should a man(husband) pay all the bills year in year out?

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    2. True Sunshine,whatever works for you. Money isn't everything. A lot of women had to quit their job to be able to take care of the kids especially in this Lagos that one can spend 5hrs in traffic. That's bringing something to the table.

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    3. Lol.. Money isn't everything you say? But you need him to pay the bills right? If he doesn't it becomes a problem.

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    4. @ Coco, that is bringing everything to the table self. People thinking staying at home is a joke esp. with kids. I will rather work and contribute to the home expense.

      In my opinion It is team work. Somebody brings money, another takes care of the home. If both of you can bring money, good. But please let's stop looking down on those who stay at home.

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    5. @Sunshine,๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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    6. @Ms Abroadian, well said.

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  7. He needs me to procreate and to keep encouraging and supporting him emotionally. You people need to stop all this criticism...both spouses working and earning money is not suitable for all homes or families. Also you can be earning money as a woman and your husband won't still need shit from you. Do you and let others do theirs!! BTW.. I have always earned my own money long before I married and still doing that but my successful marriage has nothing to do with any financial contributions I make. My husband is happy to provide and I support out of my goodwill but I will not judge anyone that is making other sacrifices in marriage. Our society is experiencing moral decadence and a lot of psychological manifestations now because the family unit is not being preserved. Raising kids and keeping the family right is also a priority. Said my own two cents.

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    1. I agree with you 100 percent because sometimes you will find out that is not all about money

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    2. ... "To procreate"? Yes! "Emotional support"? Nope! I adjudge alcohol to be better in that aspect... Methinks, companionship fits in perfectly with ur perception...

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    3. They think money is everything. I had to quit my job to take care of my kids because I noticed lots of things were going wrong cos we were both coming back home so late. It was a mutual agreement and he has kept his own part of the bargain. My kids come first and No regrets atall.

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  8. Kudos to wives/women who relieves their husbands/finacรฉ with some bills.

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  9. Apologies Stella, but the question is not clear? Anybody can share bills with anybody. Even his parents can pay part of the bills. His siblings can pay part of the bills. Wetin concern woman or wife inside that one again abeg?

    Is he looking for a bill payer, cook, washer woman or what??

    Abeg maybe my local education is worrying me but ayam sha not understanding.

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  10. Definitely not a Nigerian woman holding that.
    ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    1. Hahahahaha..... You may be right.

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    2. @anon I totally agree with you,some Nigerian women believes in killing the man with responsibilities. Wife that can't pay utility bills,is that one a wife?Rubbish!!!

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  11. This is a constricted statement. You are indirectly saying the only thing a woman should offer is financial support and every other quality is useless. Doing this means we attach the importance of human to just their financial capability. Different people offer different values. Some would offer you financial support, some spiritual support, some emotional support, peace of mind etc. You get social connections from some but no money. Some just want you to look pretty and have a nice figure and they don't mind spending. Some just want a woman who knows how to cook or account for money. Everyone should know what's important for them and go with it. My man handles financies 100% and I even get paid monthly without asking despite having three solid professions thanks to my degree and one business on the side. A Rich man just don't care.

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    1. Are you minding all these broke men who wants to be sharing responsibilities yet can do house chores?

      But why does your handwriting looks familiar๐Ÿค”?

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    2. Oh.. Now you know 'the importance of human should not be limited to just their financial capabilities alone' because it now concerns women abi? Smh.. Lol.

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    3. 14:54 Yes human in general should not be limited to just their financial capabilities. By saying humans here, I mean Friends, family, acquaintances and all people you come across in life but in relationship especially marriage it only applies to a woman. Everyone has their duty so sadly Men aren't an exception in matters like this so don't be in a hurry to laugh at your folly. Your only duty as a man is to provide and nothing more but still it is still a big deal for your lazy behinds. You must be really broke. Smh right back at you. Except you want to be worse than an infidel then you can go ahead and look for how to share your responsibility as a man with a woman and still keep your respect respect with is obviously in the mud intact.

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    4. 14:54 In addition If you don't pay the bills what are you going to be doing in life? Are you willing to split not just the bills but every other responsibilities with her, but at home and outside. You cook clean wash clothes, run around's 50/50 or you just want to be lazy for nothing? Just Play your part and keep it moving.

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    5. You this anon 14:54 that head you are shaking like agama lizard please cover it in shame.

      God gave two instructions

      men provide
      Women bear children.

      Women have been keeping to their own side of the bargain, they don't share labour pain with you and do not tell you to help them carry pregnancy. You haven't switched positions with them but mbanu you still want to carry your God-given duty that makes you a man and give them half to carry along with their own they are still managing to carry and you think you can still call yourself a man? If the responsibility is too much for you, go for a sex change and get a vagina then see if it is easy being a woman.

      All Women should have a job but the money isn't solely for the family. Remove your opolo eye from it. She can Support yes, but not mandatory. You must be a man and take care of your family and PROVIDE like God commanded you. However, if you insist she supports in a huge way and help you ease your burden then you come down from your high horse that doesn't exist anymore and share the huge responsibilities in the house and outside the home with her just like anon 15:39 said.

      You can't be lazy in your God-given duty and she helps you out and still be lazy in her helping her out in her God-given duty too.

      Pick a struggle. Sissy.

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    6. Anon 11:35
      Just wanna blow up a kiss ๐Ÿ’‹

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    7. It is always girls from very poor families calling men broke. It is a dead giveaway.

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  12. Oya o. Team l hide my money. His money is our money, my money is my money.

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  13. If he doesn't pay all the bills what else is his role when the woman is carrying the children, cooking ,cleaning and catering to his needs ? Abeg let's hear word

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    1. Don't mind some people, their problem is poverty. If you have money some thoughts will not cross your mind. Do what works for you in love and shun public opinion.

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    2. You dey mind them๐Ÿ˜?
      A man has only one job and that is to bring back home the bacon..
      All of them dey shine eye like winch & wants to share that responsibility with a woman. There is nothing wrong with helping your husband, but I hate it when these guys feels that they are entitled to it..
      If a woman makes a post that her husband is not doing any chores at home, everybody will call her a "failed wife".

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    3. Lazy ass.. Go get a life and stop living in the shadows of a man. Your mates are working and doing business and yes, they have plenty kids, nephews and neices and even adopted kids they fend for!!

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  14. No
    Nigerian woman's mentality is
    Husband is escape ticket from poverty;
    My dad is taking chieftaincy title in the village, pay
    My mommy's asoebi is next week, pay
    My sister's school fees is due
    My parents wants to build a house in the village, pay
    My niece want to go abroad for study, pay,
    My family's lawyer is sick, pay
    My aunt is going for fibroid surgery, pay
    ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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    1. You're obviously keeping wrong women company. Change ya circle. Meanwhile your mentality towards Nigerian women stinks.

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    2. @14:19
      Are the statements true or false?
      Why not address the message and leave the (invincible)
      messenger?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    3. Who does this in this WOKE age?????

      Your hate for women is ๐Ÿค•๐Ÿค•๐Ÿค•๐Ÿค•

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    4. @Lilly
      Is this the kind of English you speak and write in this
      enlightened age?๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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  15. The bitter truth.

    Making my own money and also supporting my family when needed gives me so much joy and much blessings from God....

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    1. You are a good woman Cynthia.

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    2. Some of them lazy asses will 'yimu' at this comment but my dear, you see that sense of accomplishment you feel when you help to solve financial problems in your home? They will never understand the feeling.

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    3. Cynthia you are missing the point. It is ok to be a financial support in your family but it should not be seen as a yardstick to be a goof wife or the perfect wife. If your husband pressures you or expects to share that responsibility with you then he has fallen short of his God given responsibility. Abi do you expect him to cshare the 9 months pregnancy with you?

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    4. Anon 16:57 "God's given responsibility "how? God ordained a man and woman "PARTNERS" for a reason,abeg do not kill a man with responsibilities.

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  16. All these homegrown gigolo's that we have created in our country will be shouting "true talk,gbam".
    Financial independence for females was a theory that started from "feminism", you cannot like the "fruit" & hates the "tree"..
    If we are splitting financial responsibilities, then we will be splitting the "chores"๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜..
    21st century Nigerian men wants the best of the both worlds, they want you to be 100% submissive like their mum, but not financial dependant on yourlyour husband like his mum.
    Oshisco, selfish bunch๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

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    1. Very selfish lots mostly

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    2. They never talk about splitting the chores or splitting child care all they care about is splitting finances.

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    3. Lol, what do you expect?? Oyibo women are no longer falling for their love scam, now they want to live off "Nigerian women"๐Ÿ˜.
      Dear Nigerian men that wants a wife that can financially cater for the family; is that how your father's & grand father's did??
      If you want the kind of respect that your grand father's enjoined , don't abandon the financial upkeep of the family for your wife.
      He who feeds you controls you, don't sell your birthrights like Esau oh๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜…

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    4. It blows my mind how most Nigerian guy can remember will remember that the Bible asked the wife to be submissive to their husbands, infact they can remember that Bible chapter for you. These same Bible zealot folks suddenly has amnesia when it gets to the chapter that talked about "bread winners".
      Is that not selfishness.?

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  17. Every adult should have a source of income

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  18. Too blessed to be cursed11 August 2020 at 14:13

    I don’t believe I would should be 100% dependent on her husband but lady better dont start this debate, Most women are wearing that shoes in their homes. Please dont just start๐Ÿ™„

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    1. Exactly!!!
      Most of my friends are wearing that shoe at the moment & they are heavily regretting..
      Lol, one was advicing me last week to run away from guys that wants to dump all his financial responsibilities on you. She just gave birth & has been lamenting that her husband has refused them to bring in a house help and he doesn't contribute to the chores at home.
      She provides 90% for the family, young girl don't start what you cannot finish oh.
      My babe looks older than her ancestors now...

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    2. And that is the problem right there......Many will not even want to share when they see the woman is financially capable. They will stylishly dump 90& of the financial responsibilities on you and be using their money either on side chicks or their family members. Women stay Woke!

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  19. Awon feminist won't like this...

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    1. @Jamesfantasy Abi na Dem go like am sef. They are after equality

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  20. Yinmu

    Most women in this country asides taking care of the home front, still bring money from their own purse to take care of family needs,

    monthly upkeep some husband's bring is sometimes not enough, they use from their money

    How many men give their women monthly upkeep? If your hubby gives you upkeep, good for you! Some women take care of themselves with their own money.

    Enough of all these talk abeg, some men will not rest until their wives salary has been usurped, plus they still expect her to wash and clean, take care of babies and spread legs 360 degrees at night.

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  21. There is nothing "word" about this. Alot of Nigerian women are the ones holding the forth in their homes. As a single lady, I take care of myself without waiting for a man.. when I go on dates, I'm prepared to foot my bills & I don't do more than one can afford. Long gone are the days women are shamed for waiting for men. When you have money even as a man, you won't bother your woman about paying bills. Na man wey never chop belleful dey check woman hand.

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  22. The men they’ve upped their games now! She beating women to this hoe,hungry and entitled shit they rather laze around and let the women do the feeding so miss me with this bullshit.

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  23. I will support, as long as is not house rent and school fees...

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    1. Nah from clap dance dey enter my sister. No start wetin you no for finish.

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    2. Your name fits your comment.

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  24. I shake my head. You all think you'll automatically get the respect once you have money? You think rich women are not disrespected? Many women are the ones paying the bills yet they are still disrespected and they don't speak up.

    Just pray for a man that loves and cherishes you no matter what. Shikena.

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    1. Gbamsolutely ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’ฏ!!

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    2. One of my mates, she is so beautiful, clean and has a head for business, like what kind of business doesn't she do? Supports her family, but what does she get? Disrespect! Her hubby is my husbands uncle and he is a fuck*** cheating foolish sorry excuse of a husband.

      She don pray taya, me i have been praying that God gives her a male child let's see if her husband will rest. She is such a good person and i hate all she going through.

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    3. She shouldn't need a male child to earn his love and respect.

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  25. Companionship,Sex,child bearing and rearing. During the days of our forefathers, women didn't contribute financially,there is no "WORD" about it

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  26. Just a rubbish placard.
    But others have done justice to this BS so e go be ๐Ÿ˜š

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  27. If a man NEEDS my help to pay some bills, he should understand that he is letting himself down. And if he doesn’t know he is a let-down, then he is even worse than we thought.
    I should help because I want to HELP HIM. I should help because as a working woman, I can contribute towards the upliftment of my family and anything less would be selfish. And I expect my man to be able to call me out confidently if I give him BS simply because I earn money, why because he should be more than capable of providing his family with the basic needs of life.
    Let’s stop looking down on parents who are actually parenting, without any outside help or excessive delegation.

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  28. I agree

    Pay something, contribute something

    My mother worked and made her money, and she could buy what she wanted to without begging. She could give us extras, new phone, recharge cards, graduation gifts etc. Imagine if all responsibilities were strictly on my Father, he won't have found it funny at all.

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    1. That your mother did It doesn't mean other women who didn't are failures.

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  29. Help mate to do other things๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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  30. Money รฌs not everything and I know a lot of women support their husbands in other ways after all it's not every woman that have jobs or money but they can contribute their quota in taking care of the home. The truth is that most women would truly wish they are the ones paying bills. I'm a woman and I love paying some of the bills.

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  31. Different strokes for different folks.

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  32. Women including my mother can go to hell for all I care

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