Thursday, October 01, 2020
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I would. I will just give them their space
ReplyDeleteYou never jam, can you give space from someone that's in your house?
DeleteAnon,1837, your head dey there
DeleteIn the first place, why will they be in my house long enough to give me unrest.
DeleteHmmmmmm Stella e go hard ooo
DeleteAnon good reply. I don’t know who told Nigerian in laws that once their son marries u, they must follow u to ur house. Suwah!!
DeleteYoruba's say,it's better to marry a bad wife,than a bad in law. For me it's a big no.
DeleteNo.
DeleteI like to choose my life’s battles wisely.
I will save that energy for more profitable matters.
YES, I'll go ahead and marry him. (Boo, where art thou ooo😆😆😆)
ReplyDeleteSome of you are just desperate to get married, you think you can handle anything that comes your way.
Deletewhy
DeleteAnon, from my answer, you know I'm desperate ba? I'll type it again,YES, I'll marry him.
DeleteI dey tell you anon 1838
DeleteDesperado, my dear don't ever make that mistake.
DeleteCandy please easy o. U sound desperate and so fake here.
DeleteWe know una type for this blog.
I prefer the bv first letter of her blog id is P..
Hmm. Candy be careful!
DeleteMarriage is not boyfriend and girlfriend.
It's funny how y'all seem to have a problem with my response, calling me a desperado. Stella asked a question, I answered. Everyone is entitled to their freaking opinions. Do not come with your toxicity under my comment. The blog is big enough for everyone, stay on your lane. Adanne, my "why" is my concern, not yours. As for you, BV ok. I sound fake right. You're as fake as your plastic ID. Next time you see my comments, just jump and pass, ok. Shantelle's Empire, thanks for your '"concern". I never said marriage is boyfriend and girlfriend. Y'all should just stay off my comments, answer the question (or not), and move on.
DeleteCandy to be sincere ,you always sound so desperate on this blog,can't you pretend .It's like you dont know that being desperate is a very red flag and it sends most men running away from you.Calm down ok ,it may even be the reason, you can never tell.Learn to have healthy self esteem and remember marriage isn't everything please.I can rememebr some guys here they have connected for you, even the popular blog visitors that as soon as you started acting desperate they lost interest immediately and started giving excuses. I wish I have your email to send you this privately cos I have always wanted to tell you this from your comments before but now is the opportunity to let it out.
DeletePlease calm down,and let love find you.Learn from others love have found in here.From their comments you should know they were never desperate.And also the bv P, ok was taking about, I'm sure she is older than you and she doesn't act that way.
For your info,I'm another anon and a popular bv just that I don't want to use my id before they tag me hater and bitter.
Stella plz post this or you rather get her no for me,let me advice her please cos I really like her personality, just this desperation moves. Thank you
Wow!
DeleteI will marry him if the Spirit of Jesus led me to him.
ReplyDeleteAs for his family, I will win them over
with love.
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
They can only be problems to those who
brand them "senior and junior winches
even before meeting them"
wait anon...you are the one who can't stand them ooo, not the other way round. So how can you now turn around and win them with love?
DeleteAnd you never win devil for Christ since? Biko kam nu ife
Delete@Fan
DeleteWhat's eating you up?😘😘😘😘
🤣🤣🤣🤣..Fan Bikozienu!
DeleteFan o😃😃😁
DeleteYes.
ReplyDelete"The two (not the crowd) shall become one flesh,"
🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈👫
you shall become one even when you 'can't stand the family's own biko?
DeleteWe wouldn't be living with his family! I'll go ahead.
ReplyDeleteNO
ReplyDeleteYep
DeleteCapital No for me. In Nigeria u marry plus the family. I’ve heard too many horror stories I beg
DeleteWhy will i go ahead and marry him?? Abeg oo!!. If a guys family don't like or want you, Then the love your man has for you will never be enough. Na to run for your dear life, peace and sanity oo🤷♀️🤷♀️.
ReplyDelete#Word
DeleteChisom as much as your answer is NO, but the question is not about the the family, it's about you(the Mrs to be or the Mr to be)
DeleteNo unless we live very very far away from them like out of the country they live in.
ReplyDeleteYour feeling(hatred or likeness)for someone doesn't really change because you are at the other side of the world
DeleteI agree but it helps with physically being in contact with them.i can still live with being far away from them than marrying the woman at all.
Deleteabsolutely not
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ReplyDeletethis is a yes or no answer @adivincci...no 'it depends'
DeletePossibly and it depends too
ReplyDeleteIt depends if he has my back really cos most times some tend to follow whatever their family says!
ReplyDeleteParis, the question is about you not liking the family pretty much not the family not liking you oo....so think am well well
DeleteI will
ReplyDeleteNope, big mistake. In Nigeria, you're literally not only getting married to your man but to his family so it could spell disaster in the future if his entire family dislikes you, they can make your marital life hell especially if your man is the type that is easily manipulated by his family.
ReplyDeleteWord 👏🏼
Deletethe question doesn't say the family 'dislikes' you ....it says if you can't stand the family...meaning, its yku who doesn't like them.
DeleteBut I understand what you mean
DeleteI won't if I have to see them around my state but if we are distant,I might marry him and only go for their family function that day and return same day or probably give them plenty money for the occasion and not come to avoid their wahala
ReplyDeletelol...
DeleteYes,as long as he can not be manipulated.
ReplyDeletehuh? How? Na you we no fit stand the family, how manipulate take enter?
Delete😂
Deletetruth is when you get married,you not only marry your spouse but his/her family. If they get on my nerves and give me headache,i'll try to see how we can get together and resolve our issues. If it persists and looks like nothing can be done,i'm gon borrow Usain Bolt shoes and do the needful
ReplyDeleteYou go marry?lol
DeleteNo I wouldn't
ReplyDeleteId rather work on my relationship with his family,
If no improvement i wouldn't go ahead with the marriage, I'm quite family oriented and I believe in oneness, I dont believe in inlaw-ship I believe in both families being one and its this or nothing.
@chocolat
DeleteYou said it all 💯👌
This your answer mean say you get the question. Thank you for your understanding
Delete@Tenny yes o
Delete@Adanne hahaha thank you for thanking me
Chocolatetyy!
Delete@Shantelle Baybae blowing you kisses
DeleteWhy not. So long we both love ourselves.
ReplyDeleteWhy not? You both LOVE yourselves but you CANNOT STAND HIS family..is that one love? 😀
DeleteAdvance respect yourself and stop dancing around. Must we agree with you?
Delete*Adanne
DeleteIs it not when I give you room & permission to give me headache?
ReplyDeleteIf shes worth the panadol for the occasional headache, why not?
I will go ahead. We do not pick our families. Not any fault of my partner from coming from such a troublesome place. I will just see it as a case of a rose surrounded with thorns. I will overlook their troubles and go for what I want. Pluck my rose and avoid the thorn. I go to any length for my peace of mind so after marriage we definitely change location, reduce communication so there will be healthy boundaries for the sake of our sanity.
ReplyDeleteUpiantu!
DeleteUncle, your partner no come from troublesome place ooo...for some reason , na you no kuku like the family ni...so since you like and can't stand the family, will you marry the babe, will you continue to STAND her as she's part of the family that you no fit stand. 😀
Until the chooku chooku, chook your eye. Lol
DeleteAdanne, I understand the question properly. I just don't see why I will suddenly get irritated by the family or can't stand them if they are good people and not troublesome. You get? You said for some reason right? And I gave a reason or What reason would I have against them to not like them in the first place? There has to be a reason and yes I will still go ahead with the marriage if they are troublesome and I don't like that about them.
Delete19:33 chuku chuku shook your own eye you mean? Lol
Lmao @ chooku Chooku
Delete@ Gates hmm I feel you but its not so easy one of my Sister's is going through such .
If its God's will yes but then peace usually surrounds what God does.
ReplyDeleteI will make sure I inquire from God if he is the right one for me then I will make sure he is a type of man that can defend me before his people. After cross-checking these,i will go ahead to marry him but if not,i'm sorry i can't marry him.
ReplyDeleteI did. It happened to me. I was just looking at my husband alone. I saw that he genuinely lover me and was willing to stand for me. So I married him. Some of the family members have come around, and the ones that haven't.... Well they've given us our space
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm... My mom dealt with family wahala and came out strong and respected by them today cos of the way she handled it. I watched her win them over gracefully. If I find myself in that situation I surely know what to do. And my father was a big support system thats all I'll be asking of my G. Just don't make me feel like I'm alone in this and I'll be fine.
ReplyDelete🙆♀️
DeleteYes, that is only if my partner's head is correct.
ReplyDeleteNah!! I hate stress in my life.
ReplyDelete😀😀
DeleteLmao
DeleteCapital NO,
ReplyDeleteBecause there will always be 'something
Yes, that is only if my partner's head is correct.
ReplyDeleteIf the guy's family don't like you abeg don't try it. I did and it ruined my life. I experienced every kind of warfare and even my children died. Please DO NOT TRY IT.
ReplyDeleteIts the worst thing that can happen to anyone .
DeleteMy mom experienced this and it was hell .
Oh dear.
DeleteSo sorry for your loss.
noooooo
ReplyDeleteNo I won't, I don't like problems abeg
ReplyDelete100% yes, if I can't stand them, I am not getting married to them.
ReplyDeleteTo be honest it depends. If he is the type that follows what his family says to the letter I won't try that shit.
ReplyDeleteI don't strength for problem abeg.
ReplyDeleteBut for anyone who wants to consider it, make sure the guy is firm o. His own person.
Tricky question.
ReplyDeleteI really hope the love I have for him and his support for me can withstand every stress.
I will not.
ReplyDeleteThis happened to a friend when we were younger. My eldest sister told him you are the problem. If you truly love her nothing stops you from tolerating her family and making effort to like and understand them. Look out for the good in them and work with that. No body good finish and no body bad finish. Today, they have a very healthy relationship. No human relationship is adequate to human desire.
ReplyDelete🤔🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteNO!
ReplyDeleteI will as long as I love him I will find a way of condoning the families flaws and as well keep a distance to avoid subsequent drama...
ReplyDeleteI can’t please, for my own sanity. I’m a highly emotional person
ReplyDeleteIf the man's family does not like you and you are an easygoing person, don't marry him. If the man's family does not like you and you are "fire for fire", by all means marry him as you are prepared for the battle.Love is blind they say and I will add that reality cures the blindness. Been there, done that and still recouping my life by God's grace. It is not worth the stress.
ReplyDeleteI will only marry him if my man has my back and will not allow his family to control him. Anything outside this, count me out.
ReplyDeleteBoyfriend ,girlfriend is different from Marriage o . If his family does not like u for reasons best known to them ....FORGET IT. !!!!... have been there ...he finally got married to someone else without my knowledge ...
ReplyDeleteSuch marriages have the tendency to crash on the long run... It will end in premium tears.
ReplyDeleteI won't marry such. You can't 'separate' a man from his family, once I can't stand them or they give me headache. I will end such relationship ASAP.I was in a serious relationship during my NYSC and I was to visit the guy's mum, my first visit o and she was openly hostile to me. She even went ahead to reject the gifts I brought. The thing pain me ehn, and my ex fiancé was present when this happened and he didn't say a word, I knew this relationship was going no where. I wept back all the way from Oyo State to Osun State. I ended the relationship kiakia because I don't want mother-in law wahala as I no get mama. 'Eni ti ko ni iya kii degbo eyin' .I was looking forward to a MIL that will be like a mother to me ,not an enemy.Usain Bolt THINGS. He had high BP on top our break up but I didn't look back!
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