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Sunday, October 25, 2020

Boredom Eliminating Post

 

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  1. If that was the condition given to her before he trained her, then yes, she needs to keep to her own bargain of the agreement.

    Make she resurrect the feelings o

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜Ή Resurrect the feelings mbok and of course,it depends on the agreement you guys had right from beginning of the whole relationship/situationship

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    2. And remain miserable, thereby making the home unbearable for the man?

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    3. Why did she agree to the arrangement from the beginning? If she tries to blame it on poverty then she is a dupe/scammer.

      It's different if a grown girl is dating a man and he is helping with her fees and she eventually decides to move on.

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    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚resurrection time

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    5. Intention matters in everything.

      Only her and God knows her intentions from the beginning of the relationship.

      I wont like it if a man force himself to marry me based on what i have done for him. We both deserve happiness.

      Planning to cheat or thinking the other person is stupid is what is bad.

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    6. πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌ

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    7. When did the feel got lost?
      After the sponsoring I guess.

      Omo she go resurrect the feelings oh, lol!!!

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    8. If I paid a total of 8milion Trainig u over 4yrs, pls multiply that sum and add interest. Byeee no time to “Waist Time “ biko

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    9. The lady is just a 419 pretending to be in love in the first place. When she in her 3rd she still haven't figured it out that she doesn't love the man. Yahoo love.

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  2. No she must not, as long as she reaches an agreement with the sponsor on why she can't marry him and how to pay back all he spent, with a genuine apology.

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    1. And if the man does not accept? If he wants her or nothing more. Then what?

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    2. @ twins squared Good opinion too...

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    3. Yea Tsquared.. as long as she can pay back every cent and tender a heartfelt apology for wasting his time. Its still not close to being enough but then..

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    4. Which one is genuine apology untop scam?

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    5. @ Twin Sauared, can she pay back the feeling, emotions , time and love invested by the man...

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    6. She has to pay for the lost time too @ twin squared. A contract is a contract. Its called breach of promise of marriage and she should be sued.

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  3. If you loose feelings for a guy, then you end it na. If after telling him it's over and he still wants to see you through school, then fine. But if you deceive him, mehn, that's just wicked abeg.

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  4. Only if there was an agreement before if not she can choose not

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  5. If the relationship is defined before the sponsorship, I'll advise the lady should loose her feelings in her year one in school, make it known to the guy, I believe the guy will count his loss and move on from there. But you allow someone invest in you with the hope that when you graduate you both will build a home together, only to come after she's graduated that she has lost the feelings, abeg that's wickedness of the highest order.

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  6. It would be good the lady accept the condition from the onset. If the condition to pay your school fees is so you can marry him, please don't accept except you're sure you'll keep to your own side of the bargain.

    You can't dash someone's hope to the wind just because of your selfishness.

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  7. It would be good the lady reject the condition from the onset. If the condition to pay your school fees is so you can marry him, please don't accept except you're sure you'll keep to your own side of the bargain.

    You can't dash someone's hope to the wind just because of your selfishness.

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  8. If that was the agreement then she has to

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  9. If was a man and sponsored a lady through school and she ended up not marrying me,i will be dissapointed but life goes on still.

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  10. She mustn't. As far as she can state her reasons.

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  11. There are a lot of scenarios to this issue.If she stopped having feelings for him while she was in school,it will be fair to tell him so he can make up his mind but if it’s after he has finished paying her way to school,it will be very hard for the man to take.He will feel used and betrayed but she can’t be forced to marry him no matter what.The other scenario is when the woman knows she doesn’t have feelings for the man but leads him on to pay her way through school and then tells him she doesn’t love him when she’s done..Omo she won’t die well o

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  12. No she must not but if that was their initial agreement, she should be ready to refund the money.

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  13. She must find the feelings back oo

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    1. It's not by force to find the feelings. Immediately the feelings disappear,she should own up and stop collecting monies from him. For me ooo,it is better for the guy to marry the lady first before any arrangement.

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  14. Do people still go into such agreement in this era?that thing is another ponzi scheme,if you win,fine and if not πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€ OYO is your case

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  15. yes ooo, why did she agreed at initial stage. she must.

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  16. NO BUT THE WOMAN SHOULD PAY HIM BACK ALL HIS MONEY

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  17. Yes oh. I sponsored myself so I know is not easy. She must marry him.

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  18. Must she continue to enable the man to continue paying her school fees even though she knows she's lost feelings for the man?? Well she has to return every penny the man spent sponsoring her education before she moves over to the next available victim.

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  19. This is a tough one. She doesn't have to but it depends largely on their agreement abinitio. Agreement is Agreement.

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  20. But why will she lost feelings for him in the first place???πŸƒπŸƒπŸƒ

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  21. If she lost feeling, let her refund the money with interest.

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  22. No she must not. Especially since she has lost feelings for him. They will both suffer emotionally if she should go ahead and marry him so it's best they just go their separate ways.

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  23. If there was an agreement that she will marry him then yes or if she insist that she can't because she has conveniently lost feelings right when she has concluded her studies then she must be made to pay all the money spent on her.

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  24. If you won't marry him, stay away from material things coming from him. Throw away your greed.
    You don't love him, you love money.

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  25. That shouldn't be an excuse to lead people on tho when you know their intentions, unfortunately it happens a lot

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  26. What kind of losting of feelings is that, if it ws d other way round, u sponsor a man to school,n he leaves u for another, cos,he lost feelings, hw u go feel,abeg agreement na agreement joor.

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  27. If there was mutual understanding and agreement that they will consummate the relationship, then both parties must keep their promises.

    She has to remain in love after graduation....

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  28. My first question is, when did she discover the dead feelings? Was it while in school? If she discovered the feelings was gone while in school and didn't tell him to stop footing her bill till she graduated, she must marry him o. Even if the feelings died after school she better go and resurrect it. I don't like what I hate.
    I know a lady that finished school and started giving her sponsor attitude. That is when she knew he is an uneducated business man. The guy found out there is someone else in her life. He targeted well and impregnated her. Now, they have four kids now but the guy has little respect for her.

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    1. Na the guy lose in my opinion. So he's stuck in an unhappy marriage because he wants revenge?

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    2. Sharp guy.

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    3. I guess she was an investment for him. He married her to punish and frustrate her I guess. As far as I am concerned, all they have in common are the kids. They live separate lives. I guess they would have been better off apart.

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    4. 20:36, lose how? He got his pound of flesh. The lady is the loser. Bet he killed the feelings after kids.

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    5. @anon20:36, my guy at this stage doesn't care about happy marriage. In as much as he married the lady, he will forever be happy. It is left for the woman to be hapy or not.

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  29. I don't think it's wise she marries him. She won't be able to pretend throughout their marriage and she may even cheat on him. She should end the relationship with him. However,she must make arrangements to refund his money back.

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  30. If there was an agreement,then she has to honour it.

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  31. Whatever you do, you do soon at your own peril. You don't owe anyone anything. Not a pin.
    Just like in games, you gotta be smart or you'd keep losing. It's that simple

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  32. She must....o, or pay back all his money

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  33. She better pay back with interest.

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  34. Any relationship with conditions get as the thing dey sound. It’s usually like a business contract. Compromise is better. Anyway if the man wants to do that and the lady also agrees to it, it is better they get married before the sponsoring....

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  35. No, it's not mandatory to marry him. However, if you are not going to marry him, you should refund the money he used in training you.

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  36. Refund with Double interest simple and short.

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  37. Please she doesn't have to marry him. It's okay to change your mind but you will pay for the inconvenience, if you will.

    It's fraud no doubt but he can sue. He can seek legal recourse for breach of promise but be aware that the aggrieved party must establish the following:

    1. There was a promise to marry
    2. The other party reneged on the promise

    To prove the above, an aggrieved party will have to tender substantial evidence before the court. e.g. the engagement ring, statements and oral testimonies of witnesses of the engagement or proposal etc. If these are successfully tendered and proved, an aggrieved party is entitled to compensatory damages from the defendants especially if substantial amount of capital and efforts have gone towards the other party due to the promise of marriage. It must be proven that the accuser has suffered significant losses - emotionally, reputation-wise and financially.

    Nigerian courts can award compensation as they feel is acceptable.

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