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Thursday, October 01, 2020

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
THE SILENT TREATMENT.



Yesterday I sent my boyfriend a voice note telling him I am no longer interested in the relationship but he didn't even say anything. I got angry with the way he disrespected me. Both of us was on video call he reminded me about the promise I made to him concerning his birthday which is next month. 


I jokingly with a smile on my face said ''babe, have you been a good bf and making me happy'' the next thing he said bye bye. He didn't even wait for me to say anything he ended the call, I sent him message immediately that it was a joke but he should have asked me to explain myself but he read my chat and refused to reply. 


I waited like after an hour he was still online but didn't see need to reply me. I just sent him a voice note expressed myself and told him I need space, I need a break-up, I don't want to be in a relationship with someone that sees my joke as disrespect or feels I don't deserve him.

 He read it but didn't say anything. I want to know if I should block him or just let it be. Did I do wrong, and am I angry for no reason?





*Why waste energy blocking him?At least leave him to viewing your status messages corner corner nau..LOL
What kind of man reminds his woman of a birthday promise made?was it a promise to love him forever or a monetary promise?

Please just ignore him and his childish behaviour and let this be a red flag alert for you to watch him and really decide when to drop from this one chance ride you are on with him.....
Remember if he is giving you the silent treatment,two can play!

52 comments:

  1. That kind of promise that he is banking on

    Only God knows the hope you have given him

    Please I would recommend Stella's advice too

    NO time to Check time

    We move!!!!!!

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    1. The guy is probably one of this jobless clowns that stick like leeches and are in relationship for what they can get from the woman. Pls free him

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    2. Small children. Both of you

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    3. You people dey do like small pickens, na wa ooo poster. Una no sound serious. You no tell us de thing wey you promise am. I no too sure about de nature of dis una relationship abi na situationship sef.

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    4. The relationship no sound normal, if na me. I can't stress myself over silly behavior. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

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  2. Hes so immature in reasoning. Why get an based on your narrative up there? It's either you guys never had a playful relationship or he's either not into you cause i see no reason for him to keep reading your plea chats without responding.

    Please give him space and live the best of your life. What rubbish. To me,you never did anything wrong.

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  3. Pettiness...is he a child? All cos of birthday gift or what? Are u bankrolling him?

    Abeg ignore him, if possible delete his contact so u cant view him.

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  4. Poster, you didn't do anything wrong and you don't have to block him!

    Your boyfriend is not ready to be with you, or maybe you're the side chick ๐Ÿฅ.
    Just let him be and move on with your life.

    I promise you, he will contact you after his birthday. At least his main chick will be away by then.

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    1. Spot on Ms.A. I like like you so much๐Ÿค—

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    2. E be like the guy don already block am sef...........

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    3. Ms.A, take ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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  5. Well said @ SDK. I don't like what I hate

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  6. But why should a lady "joke with breakups?" Has jokes finished? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
    Why are you angry that he did not say a
    thing? If he said something, you will
    flare up. He keeps quiet, you flare up.
    The Scriptures, Prov. 17:28 says that
    "even a fool is thought wise, if he keeps quiet"
    Suffice it to say that you did not give us enough details to know;
    What the real issue is, why you are not happy.
    And, what you promised him on his birthday...I hope it is not what I am thinking o..
    ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป‍♀️ Well, if Jesus isn't your first relationship, it is a life of crises.

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    1. She did not joke with breakup.

      The joke was ' have you been a good boyfriend and making me happy?

      Make una dey read before una rush to comment.

      There is no prize for first to comment.

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    2. See how you rushed to quote scriptures...read well before condemning and using bible to back up the off point advice you are giving..she said she jokingly asked if he had being a good boyfriend lately not that she wants to breakup

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    3. 15:09-I think, you should read the chronicle again.

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    4. Well one thing Ang is right about is that the details posted in this chronicle are very sketchy at best.

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    5. Ang is similar to those people that watch their movies from the back of television.
      If you like present them with the hard facts in their face, they will still see what they will like to see & give you their off point advice๐Ÿ˜.

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    6. Sketchy or not, stop misrepresenting facts and twisting stories to suit you.

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  7. So he disconnected the call while you were still talking and you went ahead to send him a message afterwards. You should have just left him to stew in his childishness. What you said wasn't something worth being angry over except he has underlying anger problems. You are making him feel important than he really is. Just ignore him. He doesn't respect or value you.

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  8. All these child men women dey follow so, wetin do una.

    Leave the small boy alone, he is still mama thank you for giving me food.

    My dear BONE him seriously

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  9. Lol this generation boyfriends sef. My dear, don't block him, just delete his contact, that way, you will not be tempted to call him or view his status but he would be viewing yours and crying in his heart.

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  10. Did you promise him that you will grant him resident permit to explore every available hole?
    That is just what can piss a brat off๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ

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    1. You got it! She promised to offer up her honey pot as his birthday gift.

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    2. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿคธ

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  11. If you have kept yourself chaste, dude just missed a price
    But if you have allowed men to explore you like Mungo Park,
    then, he just silently dodged a bullet.๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

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    1. A prize you mean?

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    2. He didn't Dodge any bullet because he will still meet another woman who might have been drilled by many other men before him.

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    3. @Woman
      Hmm, this one your name is "woman," are you the one he will meet that has been drilled front and back?
      At least, he dodged this one.

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  12. Women eh. What do you people want self? When you're busted it is "can't someone play with you again?" It is a joke na" What kind of useless joke was that? All these una jokes, if a man gives it to una; "one can not joke/play with you like that again", he will be accused of messing with your hearts.

    You meant it so do not hide under "it was a joke". You messed up your game by " joking" with him and telling him you need space, a break up. Let the guy be. You broke up the affair and you're here looking for advice because the guy moved on immediately to your chagrin.

    You needed space and wanted break up now you have it and you need advice whether to block him. Block him immediately on all SM. If he contacts or communicates you, do not respond.

    And to Stella asking what kind of man that reminds a woman of birthday promise? So, it's not childish when a woman reminds a man of promises made? Double standard sighted.

    Move on poster. Your man has. Your wish has been granted. You wanted to dump him and he did it first.

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  13. You and your boyfriend no get problem. Other Nigerians are angry that Nigeria is celebrating her 60th birthday without anything to show for it and you people are angry because of birthday gift.

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    1. The boyfriend be like Nigeria ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ. Very angry Nigerian.

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  14. Lol
    But wait ooo
    Chelukene, you sent him voice note that you are breaking up with him and he kept quiet, then you get angry.
    If I may ask, why are you angry?

    E no get wetin Chioma no go see for the assurance davido give am to blow.

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  15. Poster GHOST him! He's too childish,his in for the the material gains and don't care about you!

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  16. But wait oh why is your boyfriend reminding you of birthday promise??? Sounds to me like the guy doesn’t genuinely love you.which boyfriend reminds his babe of birthday promise? He sounds like my 7 yr old. Pls don’t loose sleep over that boy

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  17. Why waste energy blocking him?At least leave him to viewing your status messages corner corner nau..๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
    Stella you be case study abeg.
    @Spotremover ,come and remove this spot too.
    #Childman

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  18. What did you promise him?


    I jokingly with a smile on my face said ''babe, have you been a good bf and making me happy? Why didn't you say this before he reminded you about what you promised, l guess he probably thought you were just looking for excuses not to fulfil your promise

    I just sent him a voice note expressed myself and told him I need space, I need a break-up, I don't want to be in a relationship with someone that sees my joke as disrespect or feels I don't deserve him? ...
    The two of you have very short fuse. No difference between both of you.

    You two have anger issues and there is the need to go for anger management

    Nikola Tesla




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  19. Small pikin dey worry una. Don't block him and don't communicate with him. Come and tell us what you promised him.

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  20. I jokingly with a smile on my face said ''babe, have you been a good bf and making me happy''

    Jokes apart now....
    Has he been a good boyfriend to you?

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  21. Don't even know what to comment. Both of you are still immature. You better forget about boys/men for now and concentrate on having a better life for yourself. If you're lucky to have a boyfriend again along the line, learn how not to be too petty to the extent of upsetting your boyfriend with silly utterances. And apologize when you do not threaten them with a breakup (over the phone for that matter)

    Rejection works everytime though. If you want him back, try and ignore him until he chases you.

    And I hope the promise was not monetary or material? No boyfriend should be feeling that entitled.


    How much of a good girlfriend have you also been by the way? It's not only about sex oh! Giving him regular sex doesn't count as a relationship.

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  22. Don't even know what to comment. Both of you are still immature. You better forget about boys/men for now and concentrate on having a better life for yourself. If you're lucky to have a boyfriend again along the line, learn how not to be too petty to the extent of upsetting your boyfriend with silly utterances. And apologize when you do not threaten them with a breakup (over the phone for that matter)

    Rejection works everytime though. If you want him back, try and ignore him until he chases you.

    And I hope the promise was not monetary or material? No boyfriend should be feeling that entitled.


    How much of a good girlfriend have you also been by the way? It's not only about sex oh! Giving him regular sex doesn't count as a relationship.

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  23. You and your boyfriend sound like primary school children in puppy love.you guys are not ready yet

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  24. My dear you are the side chic. Guys don't care for birthday gift. Some even take you out to celebrate their birthdays. Your boyfriend is a scrub and you are a side chic. Delete his number fast or be ready to send in chronicles in less than 6months

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    1. Exactly... she is a side chic, what kind of asswipe boyfriends asks for birthday gift

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  25. why u go use break up take dey play. u were just looking for unneccessary attention

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  26. Quarrel on top birthday promise???abegi face front

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  27. I think he has already broken up with you

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  28. Your partner should be your friend, your best friend, your gossip partner, your commedian, therapist and so on. He/she should complete you.
    Definitely, you'll have your friends but he/she should be the one you come home to at the end of the day, the one you can confide in and most importantly, the one who can deal with your excesses

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  29. Gbam @Troyll,you just took words from my mouth.

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  30. To be sincere, he doesn't take you the way you takes him.In other words ,you are not his real babe

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