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Wednesday, December 02, 2020

Wednesday In House News....

 Hailings oh....

The day here is very cloudy and VERY COLD!!

Send me some sunshine please!!!!


On Tuesday in house news,i did not locate the five fingers when i searched...hopefully today i will find one..

I have decided to order for that Efo riro that i talked about inside Tuesday in house news from London oh....I will post photos when the order arrives......*licks lips*

Free advert spaces still open..Please if you mail me,include your blog ID cos some of you have started going to inform your friends on Instagram about my free advert...ode eshi

Enjoy the rest of the day.........



I later found out that he's a worshipper in my church (You know all those rich front sitters ), same branch, I no take chances ooo, I increased my services, I was always busy in the church, making sure he sees my diligence, I would clean chairs, dress the alters, anything to always be in his face.....

Covenant hour of Prayers, I dey, morning raid, I dey, Wednesday communion service, na me be one of the communion steward, Saturday am always there to clean, going out to share flyers, na me de lead am, Sunday service, I dey, and once the service is over, he would drive me home, and there we would have time to talk about Treasure, her performances and every other things, I remembered the day he saw a plaster on my finger and he asked me what happened, I told him that I was cooking at home and mistakenly cut my finger, he said "Oh Dear, so you still find time to do house chores?", I said yes, if I serve God and not serve my parents well, I won't be doing it right, he smiled and said "You just keep impressing me".

One day he said he loves the way I worked for God, that the man in my life is indeed a lucky man, I wasted no time before telling him that I was as single as the letter "I", he smiled, few weeks after, I was called into the pastor's office, I met him there, before that invitation I had been calling too much, I know that for sure, so when I saw him sitting there, I thought it was to warn me to let him breath, but no, it was to tell me how he loves how I've checking up on him, taking care of his daughter, in front of my pastor, he said "Ms Melody, I would like us to start something, take it to God in Prayers, and if he (God) permits us, this might lead to the altar, or what do you think"

Me wey don agree since 1945, I held myself so tight but I was bursting out inside, my pastor then said "Melo, you can take your time to think about it", in my mind I be like "Daddy please stop it, I have agreed", but una know say I suppose maintain, make them no talk say I desperate, I said okay Sir, I would need a few days to pray about this (Praying mantis), abeg I no pray nothing ooo...

 I was just thanking God, celebrating my marriage in advance, two days after I told him yes, we headed to the pastor's office, knelt down, he prayed for us and relationship kicked off...

Hmmmm indeed it is true that when retired ashawo wan get man,the man no fit talk no....In a way ashawo no dey retire




Even when you catch it, you must keep fighting to keep it. You will loose it at any slightest mistake.

I will give you tips on how to attract those treatments, qualities and personalities you desire.


(Natural law of nature).
Keep talking about the woes of your situation, keep a diary and write ugly chronicles; you know what? You are feeding it and it will grow. No matter how bad a situation is, it can get worse. Just feed it and you will see.

But try focusing on the good side of that person, that situation, flood your mind and memory with the good side no matter how few, long ago or intangible it is and allow that smile glide you face then focus on it. Magnify those qualities and it will grow. Build a mental image, dream, situation and hold on to it. Talk about it. Write a journal about it. Celebrate it. You will feel the joy well up you while at it. Ignore your harsh realities and watch magic unfold!


God is Love. Love is God. Litmus test to know when you are powerful and when you are weak to attract that which you seek;
When POWERFUL, you will feel-
Blessing others and seeing good in them.
Full of energy.
And the likes....

When WEAK, you will feel-
Hate, anger, irritant
Envy and jealousy
Lamenting and complaining
Cursing others
And the likes....

Whichever of these feelings you allow to linger will create and continue to bring you situations that will keep you in such moods. Have you ever wondered why people who always find reason to celebrate, party, club and merry always seem to have more reasons to do so, while you who is always fasting, crying, lamenting all night in the name of Virgil will always find more reason to continue? 

It's because those people choose to focus on the celebration-worthy events of their lives while you keep going to where power never stops changing hands and situations never stop turning around.

When you strike your feet against a stone, what comes out of your mouth? Is it "Thank God, I didn't fall. Thank God its only bleeding and the toe is not broken"? Or is it " My enemies are at it again. God why me all these problems. I am surrounded by bad omens".?
Wherever your focus is will keep manifesting.


Go to people, functions and gatherings that celebrate the good things in your life. It's the end of the year, avoid programmes packaged purely for your problems where you spend nights and days barking at God as if He is deaf! Look for thanksgiving programmes, even comedy or in your house, turn on the music you love and dance, eat rice and be merry. Go to bed and sleep like the prince/princess that you are with a smile on your face and enthusiasm that the coming days will be better. No fears, no anxiety.


When you pray for someone or wish them well or bless them, 50% of it remains with you, the other 50% is distributed among those who listened and said amen and the person to whom it's directed at.

When you curse, 50% stays with you automatically, 50% is distributed among those who listened and and didn't caution you or didn't counter it with positive words and the person it is directed at.

When the blessings or curse get to to person, it will capitalise on the current energy the person is operating at that moment to manifest or to return to the sender. Its your choice both as a sender and as a receiver.


It is all in your hands. When you pray, stop wasting valuable time binding and fighting enemies. Stop acknowledging the devil and giving him powers he does not have. 


(to be continued on Thursday in house news)

Beautiful piece...Thank you!!!



Dear Stella,
Thank you so much for what you do, your platform has kept me entertained and informed since 19 gbogboro even though I am yet to have a blog Id. Please keep me anonymous, I need your advice and other blog visitors. 

Currently in diaspora studying for a masters degree through a scholarship by God's grace hoping to graduate soonest. As part of the scholarship program there is the option of doing an internship after graduation and if you cannot secure a position with a company you are mandated to go back to your country after your program. If you get to do an internship (6 months max) you are allowed to stay in the country till you finish the internship and go home compulsorily. 

As a typical naija person you would want to secure one so as to buy time to process your way, so I applied for an internship which I was not sure to get because it is an IT company. Along the way I started applying for a real job, did an interview and just today I received mail requesting a particular document which is making me think I will get the job and one hour later email from the IT company offering me the internship.

Here comes my dilemma 
(1) the conditions for internship are so strict that I cannot opt out if I don't get satisfied with it and I cannot engage in any other thing during the internship period. Though IT is completely new to me but I like to develop my skill in that area and possibly establish along that line.

(2) The job is not in my field of study as well and the possibility of career advancement is none however the pay is not bad. I need the money as well because I'm a family woman with kids.

I lost my job in Nigeria after my study leave expired that can guarantee smooth reintegration back home after I am done with my internship. But the job can at least guarantee one year visa subject to renewal.

Lest I forget I have been applying for a PhD scholarship program as well but another condition of intern also frowns at quitting the program for PhD.
House what do you suggest I do? Your suggestion is urgently needed as I was given a deadline to accept the offer.
Thank you

Why dont you take the internship if it will help you in the long run?I think you are between the devil and the deep blue sea,please choose whichever will make your stay longer or make your life easier...

Or someone who has worn this shoes can advice better....



  1. REST!!! God is about to drop a HUGE miracle into your life that will cancel every worry!_RealTalkKim

    1. Ameeeeeeen....I repeat Ameeeeeeen.

      Stella come and talk a little sunshine from here.

      Melody Melody. ...keep it coming o

    2. IHN πŸŽ‰

      I want to go to Nyanya market to buy OK clothes
      Who has an idea of the price range I can get baby overall, onesies, shirts, Trousers, sweater and adult jean Trousers
      Thank you

    3. What can I eat to gain weight. I'm nursing my baby and I look sick
      I used to have a healthy weight until I became pregnant and couldn't eat
      Everything I've tried after birth is not working

    4. Apart from eating well, you need to rest well too. I won't suggest you eat junks to add weight since you are a nursing mother, it's not good for your baby. You can take malt and milk, at least an egg per day, take yoghurt regularly, your pap /custard should be with milk too.I hope this helps.

    5. Madame koinkoin A.K.A "PeaceMaker "2 December 2020 at 15:25

      Amen. Sign out Meme is so true indeed. We all have different perspectives on life matters.

    6. I hardly comment but I'm just here to say i love your story ex runs babe. The fact that you took full responsibility of your past decisions and gave your life to Christ is the best testimony i have heard this year. I wish many people here will learn the lesson of accepting full responsibility of their actions, instead of throwing cheap blames in their chronicles.

    7. Honestly @anon 15:41 Melody is a gem. I'm blown away by her story. May God be praised!

    8. If the job will give you 1 year stay but the internship is only 6 months, why not take the job? The only thing is that you haven't gotten the job yet. If you get fired from the job before the 1 year period, will your 1 year work permit be terminated too? These are things to weigh. You could go for the job and keep applying for PhD if the 1 year permit will not be affected even if you get laid off. Or take the internship which will guarantee you 6 no the and aggressively try to get a PhD scholarship.

    9. May God bless you Melody and be good wife to that man, see how God use that man to wipe your tears away. Keep serving God with all your heart but always obey your husband.

      Madam scholarship, just pray about it that God should direct you so that you won't come back but relocate your family to your base.

      God bless the givers.

      Everyone with their marriage view...

  2. I cannot take this in anymore!

    I have been observing and trying to mind my business but I can't anymore!

    I want to let it out.

    @Ms. A...

    Why are you so biased and sentimental towards women/girls?

    Whenever any post of woman/man comes up you must look for every means possible to make excuse for the man (men) and crucify the woman (women) whether or not it's the man at fault.

    Yes! Like I said, I've observed and try minding my business on occasions that everyone has a right to his or her opinion and choices but yours seems so gender based that even when you see the truth you just sweep it under the carpet just to paint the woman black and it didn't just start now.

    Truth is, you come off as a very pained and sentimental/judgemental woman whose pains in the past has made you so unforgiving that you are ready to "devour" anything called "woman".

    I am not saying you shouldn't state your opinion, but, tell the truth u sentimentally when you see one.

    I wanted to state a possible reason for your reactions, but, let it not be that I'm dragging an innocent soul into what doesn't concern....

    Seriously, I cannot mind my business anymore, but, after today, I'm doing just that.

    Stella, post oh.

    Una good afternoon

    1. So many here do the opposite but you won't call them out maybe because your opinion agrees with theirs.leave Ms A to her opinion. I hope you will seriously mind your business.

  3. I waltzing in to ask where is Chikito? Okay byeπŸ’ž Have a blessed day everybody πŸ’žπŸŽŠ♥️

    1. Me thinks she changed ID because I am seeing her handwriting.

    2. Madame koinkoin A.K.A "PeaceMaker "2 December 2020 at 15:27

      Lol @ She changed her handwriting . Bvs and their mouth. Make una rest this case cos every body don wake like Dino Melaye music album .

  4. Good afternoon beautiful Stella and my lovely bvs, merry Christmas in advance.

  5. It's sunny here in Lag....sending some 🌞 to you Stellz.πŸ’πŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ’›❤πŸ’žπŸ’–.

    Pleasant afternoon blog FAM.Enjoy the rest of the day.

  6. Replies
    1. What do I do to the stubborn pimples on my face? I'm tired!

  7. Replies
    1. Abuja people, where can someone buy live chicken and other foodstuffs at an affordable price?

    2. For food, go to Karimu market on Tuesday. Live chicken: where do u reside? Let me ask the man supplying eggs when they will start selling and how much. Will be much cheaper for you

  8. I need some sunshine 🌞🌞 too Stella! The cold here is something else.

    Order your soup and I'll like to see if its worth the price.

    Internship please!

    Saphire dear, that was a great read... I love your write-up πŸ‘ŒπŸ½πŸ™ŒπŸ½

    Life's beautiful ❤️❤️

  9. Good afternoon everyone, Melody I'm happy it ended well for you.God is faithful

    1. Melody babe waiting for the next one, Ayam following your story to the end.

    2. No wonder it is said when a h*e wants to retire,she changes location and becomes dedicated to the things of God.
      Any hunku that comes close will feel he has met 'tear rubber'. Good for the judgemental men tho.

      Melody you made me laugh,your write up was funny.

      Hello everyone,peace to you all.

    3. Madame koinkoin A.K.A "PeaceMaker "2 December 2020 at 15:11

      Infact i am really following her jejely

  10. Sending 🌞 to you's sunny in Lag.....Pleasant afternoon blog FAMπŸ’–πŸ’ž❤πŸ’›πŸ’œπŸ’™πŸ’.

    Enjoy the rest of the day.

  11. Bv Noni I am looking for you oh. You are a teacher ba? Please reply this comment if you are still here

  12. No matter how rough and tough the day may seems to be, lets always look up to God who is our source and resources.
    Sending stella some sunshine

  13. IHN.....

    thank you@Sapphire,its going to be an interesting read

  14. ihn don land again ooo... Melo Melo, hot babe..

  15. I'm bringing some sunshine πŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸŒžπŸŒž to you Boss, don't worry.

    Hello IHN

  16. Thanks Sapphire for that piece. So enriching and beautifully put. It's a sunny afternoon at my end. Craving for something chilled.

    I love watching those comedy skit on Facebook and at the end part of it, I do hear them plead for people's subscription, likes and share. I want to know, how do these comedians makes their money through our share, likes and subscription. Even till today, I don't even know how bloggers generate their income. As in who pays them and how'how is it being calculated? Just want to know not as if I have interest though.

    Those who will come under my comment to insult themselves I welcome you in advance.

    Good Afternoon Guys.

    1. With many followers,it attract companies to place their advert on their page with the hope of reaching large number of people with their product and the page owner charges them in turn
      Some get to be brand ambassadors also

    2. Teejay it is through ''traffic'' and also ads help to generate income for bloggers and Youtubers basically..So the more the visits, share, subscriptions and likes the more you grow your online community which adds money to the pockets of social media apps and you...

      If you don't generate much traffic, your page tends to be taken down I think so you need to bring up innovative and exciting contents..The lil I know

    3. Thanks Phoenix and Felicity. I know about the traffic thing and ads but what I have been thinking is that, when you watch those skits, your data goes thereby the service provider is making money from it for you will definitely subscribe another data. Now, what about the owners of those skits? Who pays them? Is it Facebook, service provider or who? I will understand if it were to be hard copy sales of those skits but since it's online view hence my asking.

    4. So Teejay it is multiple channels of income for them if you ask. As felicity said money comes to the owners of skits by being brand ambassadors, the ads they do for certain companies who identify with their brands(skit owners) also the facebooks, twitters, youtubes, Google ads also pay the skit owners as well based on traffic..Service Providers I dunno about that..

    5. TJ google how to make money online u will know

  17. Yay first to comment 😁
    Hello ihn.
    Good afternoon good people of this lovely blog,hope our day is going on smoothly.

    Ma'am Stella enjoy ur soup o,na God do am for u.

    Melo melo I happy for you o,thank God love found u.i pray it last forever.

    Bv sapphire thanks for the tips,I pray our married bvs find it helpful.

    Congrats those those celebrating today,I wish u unending blessings and peace.
    Enjoy the rest of ur day dear bvs..e go surely be ✌️

    1. Check again,if you want to beat that,write your comment down,copy,keep refreshing for IHN COLUM,then paste your comment before reading the newsπŸ‘Œ.

    2. Hahaha first to comment ke, the comment you dropped @14:11, scroll up, you'll see comments that were posted just few seconds after Stella make the post.

  18. Good afternoon everyone
    Stella the sun here fit wound person o
    I'm happy for you melody

  19. Melody I love you already, No pretence, and your story was exciting and funny.

    Saphire thank you for sending this in.
    God bless everyone.

  20. I choose to be happy and not despair.

  21. Firstlady blessing2 December 2020 at 14:15

    Miracle and 39 others .
    Lolzz all of you shouting amen to someone's secret prayers when you don't know the content of the prayers.... what if it's a prayer against you

    1. HmmmmπŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

  22. Fastest finger is here o ma’am stellz

  23. IHN land gidigba πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

  24. I love your piece, Sapphire. Thanks and God bless.

    Can't wait to see the soup, Stella. πŸ˜†

    Hello everyone.

  25. Poster in a dilemma, accept the job, it buys you more time while you earn an income

  26. Between Job and Internship, is the deadline near? You can "sacrifice" the time there and strategize for a better future. Strict conditions they have but using them to buy time is essential. Hang in there and plan and work your way.

    Good luck.

  27. Firstlady blessing2 December 2020 at 14:23

    A thing is not normal simply because it doesn't look abnormal.......and a thing is not abnormal simply because it doesn't look normal
    All in all,don't judge a book by its cover
    # # Xtiana Elias Cares##
    # # Words of knowledge##

  28. Firstlady blessing2 December 2020 at 14:25

    A thing is not normal simply because it doesn't look abnormal.......and a thing is not abnormal simply because it doesn't look normal
    All in all,don't judge a book by its cover
    # # Xtiana Elias Cares##
    # # Words of knowledge##

  29. Goodafternoon everyone,thank God for today..i av being at mom place since on friday..i cnt deal with my cheating hubby anymore..i will manage here for now.

    1. It is well with you. Sending you love and light.

    2. Oki, whatever you are going through I pray for God's intervention on your home but please it will be nice if some things about your personal life and family are kept away from the blog. In this blog, the same people who encourages you today, may use your story to insult you tomorrow. Learn from others here who have suffered same thing in the past. Some homes are worse than yours but you won't see people talk about it here and if they must do, they go anonymous on it.

      Be wise about your dirty linen being washed outside. That isn't the best honestly.

    3. It is well with you dearie.

      I just wish you'll follow Queen and Boss' advise... Knack pigeon for him head.

    4. @Melody, I love you and how you shoot your shot coded.

    5. Just take care be strong mentally, psychologically and emotionally. Be strong for your kids too.

      It is well with you
      Sending you love and light πŸ€—πŸ’–

    6. Okiroyalty pls I'm begging you to leave this ur cheating hubby.u are too young for all these u only have one before he carry disease dash u.see u see hpb o.

    7. Sending you πŸ€—, please your healthy state of mind is very important, it's good as you have given him some space. Take care of yourself and your baby.

    8. Sha don’t carry another belle.

  30. Melo melo I feel u sis

    Saphire nice piece,I enjoyed it.

    Sign out is so true.

  31. Good day everyone...
    My smartphone develop fault and i have been going to and fro repair office
    Its annoying and frustrating
    God have mercy

  32. Good afternoon Stella, Blog PA and blogfam. Melody eee , sharp girl positioned herself 'sharperly' for her blessings.Lol.BV Saphire, your write up is da bomb.BV asking for advice, I think you should go for the job to enhance your stay, cater for your family needs and the possibility of a PhD scholarship. The internship will limit your chances of doing other stuff like further studies and getting other job,and they may not retain you at the end of the day. Stella, enjoy your vegetable soup o, I'm already salivating on your behalf.Lol

  33. Melody na this your story dey sweet me for body. I Happy for you o. Enjoy
    Stella that your red pen concerning melody tory na true talk oh, e ge why πŸ˜† 🀣

  34. Hello everyone, hope our day is going on well

  35. Doing good to ungrateful and unappreciative people is frustrating. I wonder how God feels about us.

  36. Beautiful read Saphire,the wait was worth it...

    You see that going to gatherings that celebrate good things? I'm a champion. People say I'm always so happy they don't think I have problems and I just laugh,like deep laugh ooo.

    Melody,nice one sis,you really put in the work.I'm happy about how this is ending.

    Hello everyone!

  37. Nice read, Sapphire. Thank you.

    Melody, good to know it's turning out great for you.

  38. Melody,God got your back

    Signout post is so true

  39. Tank u Lord fr everything,I believ 2021 will be my year of turnaround fr good.

    1. Sister Melody in action,well done,nothing do you,hopefully you will still remain dedicated in kingdom stewardship when he marries you.

  40. Madame koinkoin A.K.A "PeaceMaker "2 December 2020 at 15:09

    Melody the Melody lol how many times did i call you, your name na carry go baebee!

  41. Madame koinkoin A.K.A "PeaceMaker "2 December 2020 at 15:15

    Na to chop better vegetable sure pass once once Sdk suppose feel being a true Nigerian food wise.

  42. Please can we stop calling Melody "retired ashawo," she is a new creature in Christ.
    Jesus forgives and forgives completely. He does not remember your sins anymore. As long
    as you "go and sin no more." Thanks Melody for sharing. I am waiting to read more... how the
    marriage has fared so far.

  43. Melo melo,your story dead totori me for body😊😊,i wish you a happy ending.

  44. @Melody Rush Awwww so happy for you😘 Thank God love found you πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—
    Bv Sapphire The write up is lit. Thanks dear. God bless you
    Bv asking for help, i think you should go for the internship

    Stella, nothing do you jor... Abeg enjoy yourself with the eforiro 🀣🀣.

  45. It's been long I read from doppelganger and nikklaus(hope I got the name. The one that writes beautiful poems). Hope they're OK.

    Anyways good afternoon to everyone. Enjoy your day. Cheers

  46. Good afternoon ihn is hereπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’žπŸ’žπŸ’™πŸ’™

    Melody congratulations in advance

    Nice writeup SapphireπŸ™πŸ™

  47. Good afternoon Stella and my blog Fam
    Merry Christmas in advance.

  48. Teejay why would you tell okiroyalty not to share her problem with us her fellow bvs,after all we are one big happy family here and a problem shared is a problem half solved they say.We rejoice when our fellow bv is rejoicing and we console a bv that's going thru pains too abi na only giveaway we go dey dance too..pls stop it o.You that also share ur happy moments here nko and we celebrate with you nko.

    1. I guess you didn't get it from where I was coming from. I am not against anyone sharing there testimony or chronicles here but again people should know better that no homes is better or the best. We often see people write to Stella with the instruction "please hide my ID" why do you think they do so? Obviously, so they won't be trolled by their haters tomorrow with what they said here. You can still get the comfort or advice you seek even in anonymous mode so what is so special making people know you are having marital problems always by using your ID? To me, it's not encouraging if you ask me.

  49. Today is Wednesday.

    I'm even confused on which to choose.
    May God's direction lead you aright.

  50. Thanks Sapphire πŸ€—πŸ€—
    Good evening Bvs

  51. Stella, five fingers looking at you right here. Melody runs geh, I am happy for your happy ending. God is indeed merciful. Praying for a miracle this week. Amen.

  52. Melody babe I always find your write up interesting. I wish you a happy home with your guy.

    Sapphire thanks for that wonderful write up, It's educating. More ink to your pen.

  53. Melody I open IHN no matter how late it is just to read your tales. I am happy for you. May God keep blessing you.

    Sapphire thanks for sharing. I learnt something new today

  54. Stella where’s my comment ooo

  55. Anonymous 19:05 ur comment is celebrating december.@ sapphire thanks 4 dat write up keep it up

  56. Anonymous 19:05 ur comment is celebrating december.@ sapphire thanks 4 dat write up keep it up

  57. Hope you have not locked the gate for IHNs Stellz
    Very very very late , I know! Na work cause am
    Just here to mark registerπŸ˜™

  58. lol...melody am happy for you abeg. correct babe, i laughed so hard...when you genuinely repent and turn your life around God will give a second chance.. i heard a word of knowledge today that blew my mind....the lady has 3 kids from different men and a man came to marry her but she was reluctant because she felt unworthy and indecisive...the pastor gave a word of knowledge that he sent the man to come and marry her so she should accept. God is merciful and he is a God of second chances


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