Wednesday In House News....

 Hailings oh....

The day here is very cloudy and VERY COLD!!

Send me some sunshine please!!!!

IN HOUSE MEMO

On Tuesday in house news,i did not locate the five fingers when i searched...hopefully today i will find one..

I have decided to order for that Efo riro that i talked about inside Tuesday in house news from London oh....I will post photos when the order arrives......*licks lips*

Free advert spaces still open..Please if you mail me,include your blog ID cos some of you have started going to inform your friends on Instagram about my free advert...ode eshi oh.....lol

Enjoy the rest of the day.........

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CHRONICLES OF MELODY THE RUNS-GEH

I later found out that he's a worshipper in my church (You know all those rich front sitters ), same branch, I no take chances ooo, I increased my services, I was always busy in the church, making sure he sees my diligence, I would clean chairs, dress the alters, anything to always be in his face.....

Covenant hour of Prayers, I dey, morning raid, I dey, Wednesday communion service, na me be one of the communion steward, Saturday am always there to clean, going out to share flyers, na me de lead am, Sunday service, I dey, and once the service is over, he would drive me home, and there we would have time to talk about Treasure, her performances and every other things, I remembered the day he saw a plaster on my finger and he asked me what happened, I told him that I was cooking at home and mistakenly cut my finger, he said "Oh Dear, so you still find time to do house chores?", I said yes, if I serve God and not serve my parents well, I won't be doing it right, he smiled and said "You just keep impressing me".

One day he said he loves the way I worked for God, that the man in my life is indeed a lucky man, I wasted no time before telling him that I was as single as the letter "I", he smiled, few weeks after, I was called into the pastor's office, I met him there, before that invitation I had been calling too much, I know that for sure, so when I saw him sitting there, I thought it was to warn me to let him breath, but no, it was to tell me how he loves how I've checking up on him, taking care of his daughter, in front of my pastor, he said "Ms Melody, I would like us to start something, take it to God in Prayers, and if he (God) permits us, this might lead to the altar, or what do you think"

Me wey don agree since 1945, I held myself so tight but I was bursting out inside, my pastor then said "Melo, you can take your time to think about it", in my mind I be like "Daddy please stop it, I have agreed", but una know say I suppose maintain, make them no talk say I desperate, I said okay Sir, I would need a few days to pray about this (Praying mantis), abeg I no pray nothing ooo...

 I was just thanking God, celebrating my marriage in advance, two days after I told him yes, we headed to the pastor's office, knelt down, he prayed for us and relationship kicked off...





Hmmmm indeed it is true that when retired ashawo wan get man,the man no fit talk no....In a way ashawo no dey retire finish....lol

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TIPS FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE - PART ONE

= WHAT YOU ATTRACT STICKS TO YOU. WHAT YOU CHASE AND FIGHT FOR KEEPS RUNNING.
Even when you catch it, you must keep fighting to keep it. You will loose it at any slightest mistake.


I will give you tips on how to attract those treatments, qualities and personalities you desire.


= WHAT YOU FEED GROWS. WHAT YOU STARVE DIES.

(Natural law of nature).
Keep talking about the woes of your situation, keep a diary and write ugly chronicles; you know what? You are feeding it and it will grow. No matter how bad a situation is, it can get worse. Just feed it and you will see.

But try focusing on the good side of that person, that situation, flood your mind and memory with the good side no matter how few, long ago or intangible it is and allow that smile glide you face then focus on it. Magnify those qualities and it will grow. Build a mental image, dream, situation and hold on to it. Talk about it. Write a journal about it. Celebrate it. You will feel the joy well up you while at it. Ignore your harsh realities and watch magic unfold!



= YOU ARE MOST POWERFUL WHEN YOU ARE LOVE FILLED. 

God is Love. Love is God. Litmus test to know when you are powerful and when you are weak to attract that which you seek;
When POWERFUL, you will feel-
Love 
Gratitude
Joy
Passion
Enthusiasm
Hope
Blessing others and seeing good in them.
Aboundace
Full of energy.
And the likes....


When WEAK, you will feel-
Hate, anger, irritant
Envy and jealousy
Lamenting and complaining
Despair
Hopeless
Defeated
Fear
Boredom
Cursing others
Lack
And the likes....


Whichever of these feelings you allow to linger will create and continue to bring you situations that will keep you in such moods. Have you ever wondered why people who always find reason to celebrate, party, club and merry always seem to have more reasons to do so, while you who is always fasting, crying, lamenting all night in the name of Virgil will always find more reason to continue? 

It's because those people choose to focus on the celebration-worthy events of their lives while you keep going to where power never stops changing hands and situations never stop turning around.

When you strike your feet against a stone, what comes out of your mouth? Is it "Thank God, I didn't fall. Thank God its only bleeding and the toe is not broken"? Or is it " My enemies are at it again. God why me all these problems. I am surrounded by bad omens".?
Wherever your focus is will keep manifesting.



= STAY AWAY FROM PEOPLE, SITUATIONS AND GATHERINGS THAT MAKES YOU FOCUS ON YOUR PROBLEMS. 

Go to people, functions and gatherings that celebrate the good things in your life. It's the end of the year, avoid programmes packaged purely for your problems where you spend nights and days barking at God as if He is deaf! Look for thanksgiving programmes, even comedy or in your house, turn on the music you love and dance, eat rice and be merry. Go to bed and sleep like the prince/princess that you are with a smile on your face and enthusiasm that the coming days will be better. No fears, no anxiety.




= HOW BLESSINGS AND CURSES REALLY WORK.

When you pray for someone or wish them well or bless them, 50% of it remains with you, the other 50% is distributed among those who listened and said amen and the person to whom it's directed at.

When you curse, 50% stays with you automatically, 50% is distributed among those who listened and and didn't caution you or didn't counter it with positive words and the person it is directed at.

When the blessings or curse get to to person, it will capitalise on the current energy the person is operating at that moment to manifest or to return to the sender. Its your choice both as a sender and as a receiver.




= STOP GIVING THE DEVIL AND HUMAN BEINGS THE POWER THEY DO NOT HAVE OVER YOU. 

It is all in your hands. When you pray, stop wasting valuable time binding and fighting enemies. Stop acknowledging the devil and giving him powers he does not have. 

BY BV SAPPHIRE


(to be continued on Thursday in house news)

Beautiful piece...Thank you!!!

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BETWEEN JOB AND INTERNSHIP

Dear Stella,
Thank you so much for what you do, your platform has kept me entertained and informed since 19 gbogboro even though I am yet to have a blog Id. Please keep me anonymous, I need your advice and other blog visitors. 

Currently in diaspora studying for a masters degree through a scholarship by God's grace hoping to graduate soonest. As part of the scholarship program there is the option of doing an internship after graduation and if you cannot secure a position with a company you are mandated to go back to your country after your program. If you get to do an internship (6 months max) you are allowed to stay in the country till you finish the internship and go home compulsorily. 

As a typical naija person you would want to secure one so as to buy time to process your way, so I applied for an internship which I was not sure to get because it is an IT company. Along the way I started applying for a real job, did an interview and just today I received mail requesting a particular document which is making me think I will get the job and one hour later email from the IT company offering me the internship.

Here comes my dilemma 
(1) the conditions for internship are so strict that I cannot opt out if I don't get satisfied with it and I cannot engage in any other thing during the internship period. Though IT is completely new to me but I like to develop my skill in that area and possibly establish along that line.

(2) The job is not in my field of study as well and the possibility of career advancement is none however the pay is not bad. I need the money as well because I'm a family woman with kids.

I lost my job in Nigeria after my study leave expired that can guarantee smooth reintegration back home after I am done with my internship. But the job can at least guarantee one year visa subject to renewal.

Lest I forget I have been applying for a PhD scholarship program as well but another condition of intern also frowns at quitting the program for PhD.
House what do you suggest I do? Your suggestion is urgently needed as I was given a deadline to accept the offer.
Thank you




Why dont you take the internship if it will help you in the long run?I think you are between the devil and the deep blue sea,please choose whichever will make your stay longer or make your life easier...

Or someone who has worn this shoes can advice better....






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