OMG;Wednesday came so fast and is leaving so fast........
Whom did you crush on this woman crush Wednesday?......
I looked at the man in the mirror!
How una dey?The Sun is up at last but its not hot......mscheeew!!!
I got blessed so i wanna pass it on.......
10k for any comment that catches my fancy......
Have a wonderful day.....This champagne i sipped is dealing with me sleep wise...
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JULIANAS OPINION
Praying for the Dead
I keep hearing people say, that praying for your departed ones will not change their situation in the after world. Then I ask who told you that? Have you been dead before or did God tell you that the prayers are in vain. I just don't get it, praying for the dead is not a sin and some people use the medium to find closure and also console themselves. It is better you pray and find out when you die that the said prayer didn't make any difference than to not pray for your departed loved ones and die then realise that your prayer would have made a lot of differences.
This my write up is not in anyway encouraging sinners, to continue in their sinful ways with the promise of being saved by peoples prayers after they die. Better repent now that you are alive, because you might not have anyone praying for you after you die. People know who to pray for, if you were a bad person while alive a lot of people will rejoice at your death so do the needful.
An encounter I had made realise that we cannot make conclusions on matters we haven't experienced. After my step grandmother died, I felt bad for not attending her funeral, so in other to make it up to her. I went and booked Mass for her in the church, Catholics here will understand what I mean. After booking the mass I didn't give a thought to it till I went to bed.
I dreamt about my step grandmother that night. In the dream l was in her kitchen with her chatting, as we usually do when she was alive. But I noticed something different, she smelled so lovely that I was wondering why she has such sweet smell around her. It is a smell I have never perceived in my life. It was beautiful and calming, I woke up wondering why I had such dream because I have never dreamt about her and after that one time it has not happened again no matter how much I think about her. I believed that, that was her way of saying thank you to me for booking Mass for her.
So I will advise you to pray for your departed loved ones then leave everything in God's hands whichever way, it does not remove anything from you.
So instead of concentrating on praying for people that are alive,you suggest people pray for the dead?Wow,everyone has a different opinion about this and it never occurred to me that the dead would need prayers since the bible says that when they die they become dust.......
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IJEOMAS GIST CONTINUED FROM TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS
One morning, we saw unknown faces drive into our compound (ghen ghen, shebi we talk am sey this boy go bring our legs outside), three men and a lady walked towards us and requested to see 'the man that does spiritual works', our hearts were still beating fast when the lady said she brought her husband (pointing at him) to see the man that helped her get pregnant,choi our hearts come down.
Thank God mom was not home that day. My bro who already ran to the back of the house to hide😂 when he first saw them approaching, came out of his hiding place and greeted them. My good people of SDK, we no know sey na 'thanksgiving' dem come do so, her husband went back to their car and offloaded all the goodies they came with including fowls(hei, inside our hearts, we started dragging who'll wash bro's clothes cos him no dey our level again).
When they left, everyone including bro started laughing cos we knew was not responsible for the pregnancy, God just remembered the lady. Big sis bought a special plate for him(something she'll never do on a normal day) and we even took turns in serving him, who wan carry last na😂.
When he saw that his 'tricks' payed off, he decided to upgrade his works, this time he takes his victims to the village stream for rituals(oga went to partner with mami water no🚶).....story for another day
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Whoever sees this, I pray God shows up in a BIG way for you! 🙏🏼_iamtyhicks
ReplyDeleteAmen
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DeleteAmen. God is ever faithful and full of mercy. Happy wednesday and every woman/lady/girl here is my crush this beautiful wednesday
DeleteAunty Proposed. Congratulations ma. This ur question is very tricky o! It obviously shows that you both barely knew each other well. Not like saying u HV to date or know all about a person before u accept his ring.
DeleteGiving a time frame to study each other is also one kind. As a social thinker! Human being is the least thing to study on earth! The moment they know they are being studied they tend to pretend. You can't consciously study someone! You just have to let it flow, let every go naturally.
Just breathe and take your time OK! Don't rush. If u feel u need more time, keep it within u both and be sure of wat u want just relax OK. Nobody is rushing u to post on social media! U can always post anytime.
Goodluck
Amen.
DeleteUna well done oooo
Lovelace
God bless the givers and the receivers
DeleteCheers
Amen 🙏🏽
DeleteAmin
DeleteCan't believe I slept twice this afternoon. Harmattan this January? No be small thing ooh. I hope it's just for today alone before cold go wound man pikin.
ReplyDeleteEverywhere is so cold here, even the tiles and whatever you touch. Putting off the fan and AC still didn't work. Na waa ooh. *side eyes to married people*
Strolls out of post.
Imagine the cold here in jos.
DeleteNo cold here
DeleteThe weather is hot here, Stella I can send you some sun
Teejay kpele
Jos has always been like that. Even with free accommodation, I don't think I can live in Jos. You people over there are really trying.
DeleteTeejay,do you know that most single people have sex even more than married folks.
DeleteHarmattan is officially back here
Good Afternoon Beloved😍😍😍
ReplyDeleteHallo💕💕
DeleteThanks dear Paris😍😍😍
DeleteTrust you are good...
Crushing on me... Yes i am strong and i will pull through...
ReplyDeleteYou will baby, just hold on and keep your faith alive.
DeleteYassssss 💃🏼💃🏼
DeleteYou will babes.
DeleteThank God for you
DeleteHolla💕💕
ReplyDeleteIt's been a while on here..how's everyone doing? Hope fine?
The harmattan decides to show face today finally🥳🥳
Ciao 💋😘
It's seriously dealing with me. I just be like fowl wey rain beat Lol. If no be say I get better skin, I for hear am.
DeleteWe have been dealing with it since Monday,but that of today tire gele
Delete😍😍😘
DeleteIt's so freaking cold here. I don drunk hot water tire,🥶
ReplyDeleteBlog visitor that just got proposed to, congratulations darling. One thing I'll advise you guys talk about extensively is the issue of money; who pays what bill, who does what and what. This is because 98percent of marital issues are money concerned even blog chronicles.
Please don't shy away from that conversation and don't assume.
All the best babe.
*I don drink hot water tire 🤦🏾♀️
DeleteIhn is here 💃🏽💃🏽.see me waiting patiently for 2pm 😂.Ijeoma pls come nd continue ur story 😂😂
ReplyDelete"Trust with your senses et brain,and not your heart",a lot of crazy things happening in the world,do not be too swift to place your trust in someone-may evil not befall us.
ReplyDeletePleasant afternoon everyone.
Enjoy the rest of the day.
Kisses to y'all😘💋.
Hello everyone.
ReplyDeleteIjeoma please finish up this gist
Eccle 9: 5 and 6 clearly states that the dead are conscious of nothing so this anology as a true Christian no follow. If you like pray from now till eternity it does not have effect on the dead. Why not channel that prayer to people still alive?#my two cent
ReplyDeletePraying for you the dead is a good thing to do. I remember when my second cousin died in accident, he keeps coming to me in dream to follow him. But Immediately l prayed for the peaceful rest of his soul, that's mark the end of the horrible dream
DeleteMy dear even the Bible says after death is judgement. There is no mercy in the grave.
DeleteStellakoko's red pen said it all on that Juliana's opinion...
DeleteWhen the Bible said there's no repentance in the grave.After death judgement follows...
There's no hope or room for mercy and grace for the death...
Concentrate in praying for your self..
Good afternoon you, you and you.
ReplyDeleteDon't forget to count your blessings.
Please check out Jesus's teaching on LAZARUS AND THE RICH MAN concerning afterlife.
ReplyDeleteLuke 16:19 “There was a rich man who was dressed in purple and fine linen and lived in luxury every day. 20 At his gate was laid a beggar named Lazarus, covered with sores 21 and longing to eat what fell from the rich man’s table. Even the dogs came and licked his sores.
22 “The time came when the beggar died and the angels carried him to Abraham’s side. The rich man also died and was buried. 23 In Hades, where he was in torment, he looked up and saw Abraham far away, with Lazarus by his side. 24 So he called to him, ‘Father Abraham, have pity on me and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, because I am in agony in this fire.’
25 “But Abraham replied, ‘Son, remember that in your lifetime you received your good things, while Lazarus received bad things, but now he is comforted here and you are in agony. 26 And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has been set in place, so that those who want to go from here to you cannot, nor can anyone cross over from there to us.’
27 “He answered, ‘Then I beg you, father, send Lazarus to my family, 28 for I have five brothers. Let him warn them, so that they will not also come to this place of torment.’
29 “Abraham replied, ‘They have Moses and the Prophets; let them listen to them.’
30 “‘No, father Abraham,’ he said, ‘but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.’
31 “He said to him, ‘If they do not listen to Moses and the Prophets, they will not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.’”
Tomatoes and onions are just everywhere and so cheap!How I wish it will remain like this forever. Good day my people
ReplyDeleteHonestly,while beans,red oil is on the rise! Went for market survey yesterday, God help us oh
DeleteI dont know what to do with the one I bought sef. So red and fresh. Wait shey I can eat tomatoes like fruit?
DeleteOn yes Finny you can eat it fresh.
DeleteVery cheap here too,i had to make just onions sauce for my yam😋😋😋
DeleteTomatoes and onion everywhere, I agree but cheap @ my end here no..Just miss living in the North, life in the east is expensive... Gooday ndi OMA, Ij come and download the gist biko...
DeleteYayyy💃💃 onions has been dethroned, you can buy in bulk if you have where to spread it out, that way you will enjoy it for a long time before the pri e increases.
DeleteAs for tomatoes now also is the time to buy and store even without freezer. Blend the tomatoes, boil it and strain/filtered remove the water content, then put in big size bama bottles, cover. Then pour water in a big pot and put the bama bottles in the pot, pour water in the pot and bring to a boil. Store them somewhere and voila you have tomatoes that can last fresh for o e year without freezer. Once you open any of them, make sure you use all or you bring it out from the glass bottle, transfer into something you can use to store it in the freezer. Once u open and cover back, that one will go bad ASAP
Eh! Nigerian government no be am at all. Stella dey do yafu yafu giveaway every time for her blog but our government na to only scam us them sabi. Stella, after you, na you ooo!!!
ReplyDeleteGovernment that is heavily indebted to her citizens.. Owing salary upandan like Akwuna..
DeleteAnon, asking what to look out for,
ReplyDeleteRespect for others
Responsible
How he relates with his parents and siblings
My people how una dey?
If you read Luke 16:19-31, Jesus taught about Lazarus and the rich man. That is what happens to a soul when he/she dies and that is a consequence of how they lived on earth.
ReplyDeletePraying for that rich man in hell will never change his situation.
If Jesus is your Lord, the creator, why don't you believe what he taught? Simple. 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
My first time,first experience in Owerri and it will be my last time in any Eastern state! It seems as though, these boys from the East only strive when they leave their state other than that they are nothing but thieves in their own state! I was robbed in Owerri my Cuban link chain,hand bags,jewelries, monies valuables they even took my wig these people made me open my bank app and cleared everything to another account..using local guns and bikes to rob. I thank God for life and I'm praying for serious recovery of everything I lost and by God I'm getting them already. BTW,I tracked my stolen phone and the location showed Orlu International Market bloody thieves they've gone to sell the phone. I hear robbing is a norm over there. God have Mercy.
ReplyDeleteCuban link with vvs for that matter! Those bastard!.
DeleteNne so sorry dear na wa oh. This robbing is becoming alarming. Thank God for your life
DeleteOh dear! Thank God for sparing your life darling 🙏🙏🙏 sorry about the bad experience! I'm glad you're recovering all that was stolen
Delete😲oh my God. I'm so sorry my sister. Kai, this is really sad.
DeleteIt is well dear.
Subhanallah!!! Thank God for your life o, Kai! What a terrible experience you had.
DeleteSo sorry about it. Thank God you are alive to testify
DeleteSo this is why we've not been reading from you all this while? So sorry for the horrible experience love and i pray that God replenishes all you've lost.
DeleteBut you see, people get robed everywhere and in every state too. Sorry your first experience in Owerri was messed up by those mini devils and please, you'd visit the east again.
So sorry to hear that
DeleteIts well
Thank God for life
Awww, so sorry for all you went through. May God restore all you've lost. Amen.
DeleteThank God for your life.
sooo sorry hun..nawa ooo
DeleteSorry dearie.i can relate with that trauma.God will replenish your belongings in multiple folds.
DeleteSo so sorry about this darl. Must have been a horrible experience. May God replace all you lost. Thanking God for sparing your life
DeleteP.s I didn't post to seek sympathy or whatnot I'm just pissed that's all so fucking pissed. I don't want you little minds thinking I'm asking for anything on her thank you.
DeleteThanks guys I appreciate.
Oh so sorry about what you experience.
DeleteSo sorry for what you pass through
DeleteI remember when armed robbers came to our house it wasn't a funny experience.
So sorry about these picture(G Wagon).May God replenish all you've lost.
DeleteThank you guys for the comments I really appreciate by God I already getting some of what I lost I promise.. Thank you!. phew! To type in one's feelings is terrible see the way I'm throwing cusses.
DeleteChill babe, calm down. So sorry 🌹🌹💋.
DeleteSo sorry for what happened to you. Its not a pleasant experience for one to go through... We will recover all and even more....
DeleteSo sorry for that. Thank God they didn't bring you any bodily harm
DeleteLittle minds like yours ba.little minds think alike. Biko work on your written English.Its an eye sore.
DeleteSo sorry about your experience. May God replenish your loss.
DeletePele, thank God for life.
Delete@ Ijeoma, your brother get mind oooo and I love that kind of heart..
ReplyDeleteOnce someone's die, judgement follows🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶
@ Proposed Anonymous congratulations and best of luck.
If you want to find closure for your dead loved one, fast. That is how godly people in the bible found closure. Then live your life in Christ so that you will have the opportunity of meeting the person again when you leave this world, if she died a Christian. that is the faith of a Christian.
ReplyDeleteIts very hot here ooo.. The sun fit bake cake sef... I wonder how my activities this weekend line up be like church program..
ReplyDeleteThursday: immunization
Friday: instruction class for baptism
Saturday: baptism
Sunday : thanksgiving
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Congratulations Married chick, kisses to the little one.
DeleteCongratulations,so sorry for the stress
DeleteCongratulations.
DeleteI have trust issues sha....
ReplyDeleteSome stories just dey do me one kain to believe.
Same way people no dey believe your fallacy so e dey normal you no believe them dem no believe you case closed.
DeleteLool Lool lmao
DeleteThat story seems like either tales by moonlight or a highly embellished one but it’s mildly entertaining so I’ll bite.
That's not a problem....
DeleteE sure me say people sef dey doubt your stories.
My sister same here. Just the best way I doubt most of your stories.
DeleteAre you aware that once you are admitted into the ICY For COVID19,your wife will be holding your phone for 14 days??
ReplyDelete"Wear your mask"
Lol food for thought.
DeleteIHN 🙌 "confirm beer palour" 🍺
ReplyDelete#nodullmomentshere
P.A no be lie ooooo..me wey like to read through comments, I enjoy it like sandwich.. I pray I will be regular in the comment section..
DeleteSurely He shall deliver you from the snare of the fowler.....(Ps. 91: 3)
ReplyDeleteGod will deliver us all from the snare of the head, hand , feet, mouth and heart in Jesus Name.
Amen🙏🙏🙏
DeleteAmen
DeleteYou want people to give you advice on what to look out for and the questions to ask a man you want to spend the rest of your life with? Like, you don't know what you want or how you want your home, marriage and man to be or how he should treat you? Issues like this i think are usually personal so i don't think you need people's opinions. (we don't even know this man, neither do we know how you guys started) i might be wrong though. I hope you get the right answers, and i wish you best of luck 🤗🌹🌹.
ReplyDeleteThe question surprised me too o.
Delete"How do I treat high progesterone please? Been TTC after a stillbirth"
ReplyDeleteSis, consultation is key. Please get proper treatment cos high progesterone is best diagnosed by a medical practitioner. That's because it's not just about your progesterone level..your estrogen level should also be on par.
Normally, you won't experience high progesterone symptoms if your estrogen level is balanced with it. There's no such thing as too much progesterone as long as both your progesterone and estrogen level are balanced. You even need high progesterone to conceive in the first place..
Meanwhile, cut down on caffeinated beverages and carbohydrates. I replace sodas with healthy smoothies when I was ttc. Switch up your diet if possible and reduce stress. So sorry about the stillbirth, you will carry your babies soon. ❤ xx
Hi Perxian.please what are the diets you used,as I'm also TTC. Tnx
Delete15:01 Hi hun, I introduced nutmeg therapy into my daily consumption because I had really short menstrual days.
DeleteHello Stella and my lovely Bvs.I thank God for everything.Long distance marriage is not easy ooo.I miss my hubby.One situation that happened in my compound this morning made me miss him more.So my 8months baby hasn't crawl.She lazy fa.She has two teeth already and she likes food😄
ReplyDeleteLol she will crawl soon.🤗
DeleteShe wants to walk,so no need crawling.
Delete🤣🤣
DeleteLeave her jor! Madam will move when she is ready.
Some children just jump straight to walking and skip the crawling part
DeleteBaba trump just left the white house.
ReplyDeleteWednesday IHN present ✌️
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to the BV that was propose to,be prayerful and God will see you through.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to Mama Nnuku,God will give you your own man.
Good afternoon everyone.
Mimi Love
My heart breaks. A lady on twitter has lost 5 people within one year. Most recent her mom that died of Covid. Please people mask up. This 2nd wave is very dangerous and consuming more than the 1st.
ReplyDelete💔💔💔
DeleteChaiii
DeletePlease Lord, comfort in your own way those who are mourning.
I saw it too. I felt for her
DeleteHappy womand crush Wednesday lovelies😍😍
ReplyDeleteStella nobody dragged to obodoyibo oh🤣🤣 so enjoy am as e be✌
Harmattan why😭😭😢
Hiya my darlings😘😘😘😘. Hope y'all having a good day. Chike darling, thanks for your shoutout o.😘😘. Praying for the dead..🤐🤐. Signout meme is 👌👌.Blowing y'all 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘.
ReplyDelete😘😘😘
DeleteHey candy how you doing
DeleteGood afternoon everyone 👋
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to the Bv that got the ring, there's no manual/ format for how relationships works,thou there are many laid down rules/ whatsoever,the best is making use of common Sense and allow things flow naturally, something made you accept the ring right? Good luck to you.
Sign out meme is absolutely 💯 true
It's good to pray for the dead.That's why this prayer is important(May her spirit awaken to joyful activity)
ReplyDeleteAnd also when we die,we cannot become dust becos we are spirits.There is life after death.That's why jesus mentioned his father's kingdom.We are the real spirit,our body is just a covering for us to use in this earthlife
I never finish pray for myself na dead person I wan pray for? Hian I ain't doing that. When you die I simply wish you reast in peace and moooove.
ReplyDeleteThe weather is so cold here aswear, I cant even feel my toes, which kind wahala be this na?
I can't write in detail now but will do so with some references from the Bible when I am chance about prayers said on departed loved ones. To you it may not change anything but again, you are not God. Before I stop, let me drop this verse and will write in details some other time.
ReplyDeleteZechariah 3:4
"l said to those who were standing before him, "Take off his filthy clothes." Then he said to Joshua, "See, I have taken away your sin, and I will put fine garments on you." You can read up from verse one to understand the argument that ensued between the devil and the Angel before the throne of Mercy.
So yes! even in death, one can still be shown mercy by God.
Discussion topics for courtship
ReplyDeleteIf this man has proposed, it means you knew and interacted with him as "friends" for sometime. If you have accepted, there are no barriers in terms of discussion ONLY. So ...
For me, I courted for 4 years courtship without sex; we just did not go there. There were a lot to discuss like;
1. Our careers; levels and who goes first for this and that degrees
2. Our finances; joint account with either to sign/taking care of our respective parents/ which relatives to admit and take up responsibility and which not to etc.
3. Our kids/ number (gender matters interference or not), discipline (he knew how to do it; my weakest point), schooling/fees etc.
4. Scriptures/prayers/fasting (fixed and did it together): Church denominational issues trashed; we should attend any but together etc.
5. Wedding; non denominational (had to bring the two families together), low key (invest the money instead of lavishing it in a day on frivolities)/ attires (no need buying an exorbitant wedding dress from UK and having it as a liability afterwards), we still reap the dividends from the savings from our wedding.
Really, we discussed a lot and we keep on discussing. We rarely had enough time each time we went out on a date. We do not remember sex and we really did not want to do it and appear hypocritical to ourselves and all. More than ten years of marital journey and with kids; I've got peace, lots of love and trust. If you tell me that you tell me that my husband was with a lady, I will laugh you to scorn. Is it not the same man who for 4 years was with me in the most secure and secluded of places and never attempted to undress me? The trust is mutual and we enjoy a very beautiful sex life. Marriage is beautiful if you plan it with God and stay resolved.
Your number 5 is apt.
DeletePoster read these.
God continue to bless your home.
Good afternoon people
ReplyDeleteHolla Chemo lala...i like your name🥰
DeleteAwww sign out always on point.namesake ijay pls finish up the story.good day everyone.
ReplyDelete@ Juliana, I believe once a person leaves the earthly realm, they have no link with us who still remain on earth. Apostle Paul refers to them as being asleep in 1 Thess 4:13. If praying for them counts, so should cooking for them and doing other things for them.
ReplyDelete@ Juliana, I believe once a person leaves the earthly realm, they have no link with us who still remain on earth. Apostle Paul refers to them as being asleep in 1 Thess 4:13. If praying for them counts, so should cooking for them and doing other things for them.
ReplyDeleteSo NIN and FG did not block phone lines again today..... mtchewwww. How I wish they'll put themselves in the shoes of the masses and feel the stress and pain they're passing through just because they're Nigerians.
ReplyDeleteGood day everyone
ReplyDeleteLet me gist u guys with my experience job hunting
I saw a vacancy close to my junction so i decided to apply
So i approached the man and he gave me a form to write alongside an application letter.
The job condition is monday to sunday, from 9am to 8pm,two sundays off in a month and guess the salary?A whopping sum of 10k!
Welcome to NAIJA
10k😲😲😲😲😲
DeleteShe say whopping..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteNa wa o
DeleteLMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteI'm sorry I really didn't mean to laugh
Wow this is modern day slavery
Delete@Juliana's opinion, you don't need to die before knowing that you don't pray for the dead. The bible tells you so, every prayer one needs is when he/she is alive. So Channel your praying energy rightly.
ReplyDelete2 Timothy 1:16-18
Delete"May the Lord show mercy to the household of Onesiphorus, because he often refreshed me and was not ashamed of my chains.
On the contrary, when he was in Rome, he searched hard for me until he found me.
May the Lord grant that he will find mercy from the Lord on that day! You know very well in how many ways he helped me in Ephesus."
Take note of the last verse. This was Paul's prayer for his good friend. We shouldn't be hypocritical on this. If we condemn prayers for the dead, why then do we take our dead ones to the church before burial? Shouldn't we have taken them to the village and bury them straight without church service? If prayers for the dead are nothing, then what do officiating ministers do to corpse brought to the church on burial day?
My late grandma never stopped visiting in my dream. At first it wasn't weird cos we gist like she's alive. 14yrs after it didn't stop I deemed it to be weird, so I opened up to my family about it. My dad mentioned to book a mass for her. Fortunately is the month for 'All Souls' catholics will know.
ReplyDeleteI booked the mass and everyone attended. It's 4 yrs now since I did that. She's stopped coming to my dream. Therefore, I think praying for the dead works.
Finances: you both need to talk about your finances,how often do you guys intend to save, savings is very essential in marriage. (Daily,weekly or monthly)talk about it so as to know which would be convenient for both of you.
ReplyDeleteThe number of kids you both would like to have.
Talk about your favourites(favourite food,colour e.t.c)
(Well he proposed,so that means he must have built a house or rented one....whatever the case maybe,talk about accommodation for clarity.
Talk about your pet peeves(me for example;I don't sleep with the lights on and I like buying my foodstuff in bulk,I hate retail)things like these are neglected in the course of courtship;I'm certain you're the type that does not like to see dirty clothes and briefs stashed in the corners of the room,or probably your husband to be comes back from work,remove his pant and shirt and place them on the sofa,whilst talking about these, you should also have it in mind what to do to avoid these...e.g get a laundry basket and all.i remembered the chronicle of a woman i read here, apparently,her husband doesn't flush the loo after use,he doesn't wash his butt as well.I could remember the woman said he stains the bedsheet with sh**.....yuck.Abeg madam talk about it now that's it's not late........things like these can break a marriage.
If you're the working class woman,take advantage of this courtship and talk about it.Some guys just feel they can halt some aspect of your life just because they married you.If you're the type that'd like to keep working after your wedding..... Biko tell him ooo.
Ask him if he doesn't have a love child.
And please make sure you're not the only one talking,both of you need to SORO SOKE.
Wishing you a blissful and happy union filled with enjoyment and not endurement😘.
Wise lady. Listen to this
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Delete@Juliana's opinion.
ReplyDeleteThank God its your opinion. So here are my questions.
1. Who are you praying to?? God.
2. Did He ask you to pray for the dead?? No.
Heb 9:27 KJV And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment:
Pray for them while they are still alive. Once dead... 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ If you believe otherwise, give us biblical backings(if you are a Christian)
So also those praying to God via names and mediums not prescribed by scriptures. (I'm talking to Christians)
Hello everyone...
ReplyDeleteHi
DeleteMaking a child's hair can be tiring, I was only holding her and na me body pain pass, we just finished and she is admiring it already😍😍😍🤩🤩🤩🤩 and souting guy guy
ReplyDeleteHer bro started school this week i pity her whevee he goes to school in the morning she would crrrrrrrrrrery when she stops and remember letter she go continue dey shout his name, whatever you give her she would ask of her bro own, person wey dey go dey sch no cry sef......everywhere is quite until he returns by 1pm
She misses him
Aww, your daughter will always have his brother back
DeleteYeah, pray they grow up with such bond😍😍😍🤩🤩
DeleteHmmmm pregnancy is not an easy journey at all sometimes I wish my baby is already here 🥰🥰🥰 baby dust to all the woman TTC
ReplyDeleteWishing safe delivery
DeleteThanks
DeleteCongratulations to the lady that got a proposal.🥂🍾
ReplyDeleteQuestions:
How did you find your faith? Describe that situations that happened which made you question or strengthen your faith. How is your prayer life? Agreements on fixed fasting, regular vigils, scheduling of Bible reading, Engaging in charitable deeds together, visiting hospitals or prisons getting to God and touching lives together. If that is what you like will he be there to support you or pull you down?
Respecting each other's hobbies and interests. If you like travelling, sightseeing or adventure how many times will you travel as a family in a year?
Do you believe in spanking kids or talking to them or a little bit of both? How do you intend to bring them up in God's way?
Are you addicted to anything? Porn, masturbation, gambling, drugs etc. Are you still neck-deep or have gotten out? How did you gain the victory over it?
Do have accrued debts or loans that needs urgent attention?
Do you believe in an egalitarian marriage or feel traditional gender roles are best suited for a lasting union?
Intimate wedding or elaborate one?
Having relatives over for regular/ rare visits?
Household chores. Who does the vacuuming, cooking, gardening depending on the mode of marriage you employ? Or his he comfortable with having house-helps in the house?
Are you on any medication? Do you have any health challenges? Sexual perversion?
What are his thoughts on women having caesarean sections and surrogacy? Your view on adoption?
Prenup or postnup? His opinion on it. Would he like you guys to have one before marriage or after?
Joint or separate accounts? My/your phone or our phones? Any restrictions on objects and gadgets in the house?
Mind you, you might discuss all these and due to reasons beyond your control plans changes. Just make sure you are getting married to a very transparent man who has a true fear of God and doesn't have an issue with compromise. I also think you should know yourself better to have a better understanding of the questions you ought to ask. Important questions relating to your future should come to you naturally else it seems you do not know what you want or not emotionally ready to be married. You have a lot to talk about and it won't even happen mechanically. These few questions I gave can be likened to a few cups of water taken out of the vast ocean. Just have a good rapport with your man and see those important questions come through with ease.
Phoenix, where are you? She wouldn't mind responding to this if she was around but where is she by the way?
Forgive any typos.
Thanks for dropping this
DeleteThanks for this Sabella dear🥰
DeleteThanks sabella, phoenix travelled
DeleteIt's better late than never..
ReplyDeleteIn house news how far 😁😁😁...Let me go back and read that story.
I'm happy today.
Please if you have an online job that you are doing from home and your boss ask you to come for a meeting in another state, is it wrong to ask for travelling allowance?
ReplyDeleteMy boss asked me to report at our Abeokuta office next week for some briefing and I asked him for t.fare and he told me it'll be deducted from my salary. I told him it's official duties so I should be given travelling allowance, he said I should not bother coming that we'll do the meeting online then. Pls have I done anything wrong?
No, you have not done anything wrong. Why will he tell you to report to Abk without transport allowance.
DeleteNo you have not! Your boss should cover your travelling, accommodation and feeding while you are away. Well where I am, that's how its done.
DeleteGood afternoon everyone! Mercy full father remember all women that are ttc
ReplyDeleteI look up to the hills.
ReplyDeleteMy help cometh from God.
Everything good will come Amen
I'm still at work, and it's quite stressful today, I don't know when I would be leaving too, Good evening every one😘😘.
ReplyDeleteAbeg join my LAUGH ENJOYMENT o!!!!!!👇👇👇
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Spiritual problem is when someone trek 🚶 10km to work 🏢 just to get there and realize that he forgot the office key at home 🏠. So he managed to trek 🚶 back home leaving his heavy bag 🎒 at the office 🏢 doorstep...
On getting home 🏠, he realized that his house 🏠 key 🔑 is in the bag he left at the Office Doorstep... He got upset,🤦🏾but had no choice, so he trekked 🚶🚶 back to the office again, picked up his bag 🎒 angrily, and trekked 🚶 his way back home 🏠 again..
On getting home 🏠, he dipped his hand ✋ into the bag 🎒, only to realize that the office 🏢 key was in the bag 🎒 all along... Now he sits on the floor shouting...
*"Make una kuku kill me ooohhh village people. 😃😃😂😂😂😂*😂
Laughter is a good medicine my pple..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Copied to ease off the day's stress!!
Have a blessed day
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DeleteThe Bible said in Hebrews 9:27 that man only dies once and after death , it is judgment. Praying for the dead won't erase their sins if they did not repent before their death.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful day, I really need to sleep, I have been so tired of late; always feeling sleepy. I am using SDK blog to ward off the sleep because I am expecting visitors.
ReplyDeleteGetting your act together require a deep Level of honesty with yourself... You gotta be able to look yourself in the mirror... And be willing to accept flaws and behaviour that's not allowing you to grow...self evaluation is difficult but it's necessary. With the right mindset, determination and faith in God we can achieve anything and everything.
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