According to her
My name is Anita Joseph.....
I want to talk to the ladies,
Before you say YES to a man, or Yes I Do, please make sure that you really want to stay in marriage. Before you say yes to that man make sure you work, earn your own money. Earn your own money because he might not give you 100% of the money you want, when you work you can take part from your money and complete it.
Before you say YES to a man, or Yes I Do, please make sure that you really want to stay in marriage. Before you say yes to that man make sure you work, earn your own money. Earn your own money because he might not give you 100% of the money you want, when you work you can take part from your money and complete it.
Marriage is partnership, he brings his, you bring yours, don't say you don't have. some people come to my DM and say they asked their husbands for something but he did not give to them...
You need to be able to do it for yourself even if it is half.
Some men get irritated when you are not working and can't support the family. If your husband doesn't work again, what will you fall back on? since you didn't work and you stay lazy at home. You need to have your own money before you say I Do to that man. Don't go and torment that man because you feel he can do everything for you.
Some men get irritated when you are not working and can't support the family. If your husband doesn't work again, what will you fall back on? since you didn't work and you stay lazy at home. You need to have your own money before you say I Do to that man. Don't go and torment that man because you feel he can do everything for you.
Where some of you get marriages wrong is because in your head you think " after marriage I will just be eating the Money then give birth to one or two children for him" when you enter the marriage you didn't see the money as you imagined in your head, you will start nagging, you become antagonistic in the house because the money isn't as you thought it was.
Marriage is like a gift pack, where you can find the good , bad and the ugly, but my darlings the most important thing I will tell you is that Marriage is sweet, forget those people who married goats, then come online to say Marriage is not sweet it, it's a lie, Marriage is sweet. It is sweet when you marry your friend, you just want to wake up beside him every morning.
when my husband comes back from work he must kiss and hold me, even when I'm asleep. Marry your friend, there will be sweetest in the marriage, marry your bestie. someone you can play with, joke around with, gossip. married people gossip most. I and my husband gossip also.
Marriage is very sweet but you need to marry your friend, if you marry another person's husband that's where the problem is. You want to marry an already made man, women!!, but you are not already made, it's not like that sometimes God wants you to marry an average man so you can build up with him.
When someone comes for your hand in marriage, you keep selecting and selecting looking for a full package that's why we have a lot of single ladies. choose a God fearing man first to all then let every other thing can follow, before I got married I asked God for a God fearing man , Jehovah knows the kind of man I liked and he brought him.
My husband is not very very wealthy but we are good and comfortable, and we love each other that's the most important thing. You see peace of mind, some married couples have no peace of mind, when they come to social media they will start causing Anita because there's sweetest in Anita's marriage, Don't you know I worked for it, I prayed about it. Do you know how many rich men came for my hands in marriage but I chose the man God made for me, a man that understands me. I have peace of mind, I don't want that very wealthy man"
Marriage is like a gift pack, where you can find the good , bad and the ugly, but my darlings the most important thing I will tell you is that Marriage is sweet, forget those people who married goats, then come online to say Marriage is not sweet it, it's a lie, Marriage is sweet. It is sweet when you marry your friend, you just want to wake up beside him every morning.
when my husband comes back from work he must kiss and hold me, even when I'm asleep. Marry your friend, there will be sweetest in the marriage, marry your bestie. someone you can play with, joke around with, gossip. married people gossip most. I and my husband gossip also.
Marriage is very sweet but you need to marry your friend, if you marry another person's husband that's where the problem is. You want to marry an already made man, women!!, but you are not already made, it's not like that sometimes God wants you to marry an average man so you can build up with him.
When someone comes for your hand in marriage, you keep selecting and selecting looking for a full package that's why we have a lot of single ladies. choose a God fearing man first to all then let every other thing can follow, before I got married I asked God for a God fearing man , Jehovah knows the kind of man I liked and he brought him.
My husband is not very very wealthy but we are good and comfortable, and we love each other that's the most important thing. You see peace of mind, some married couples have no peace of mind, when they come to social media they will start causing Anita because there's sweetest in Anita's marriage, Don't you know I worked for it, I prayed about it. Do you know how many rich men came for my hands in marriage but I chose the man God made for me, a man that understands me. I have peace of mind, I don't want that very wealthy man"
Odiegwu! Everybody don turn relationship expert cum marriage counsellor. Shantelle ezigbo madu,what are you waiting for?
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Shan abeg leave me oh
DeleteYimu..
DeleteIf I give this one nodding😒😒
Aunty el oh el..
She looks trim
DeletePari pari,regina will soon join them. Ayam tayad of these ppl.
DeleteDante e be like you smoke mess this morng abi? If I slap you now,what will ppl say? Mschw.
Anon trim with.those thighs? You donminit!
You don't know Anita 49 year old then.
Delete1st marriage at 24yrs to an aguleri Onitsha based beautiful shoe seller.
Crashed after 2 years.
Son is Ebuka.
2nd marriage 38yrs to an old Aba based business man.
Crashed after 4 yrs
No child.
3rd marriage at 43 to a white man, Lebanese sha,Ghana based.
Crashed after 2 years.
Daughter is Isabella.
She will amfry another soon.
Love her Chronicles. She is Elizabeth Taylor.
We don hear.
ReplyDeleteSame way Ik ogbonna and wife kept dishing marriage advice on sm before kasala burst.
Most broke men are always loyal in relationships/marriage at face value especially if the woman has her own money and he's gaining from her directly or indirectly.
Anty Anita,Enjoy your marriage in peace and stop trying to prove shit on sm. The street of sm will not be merciful on you if that guy disgraces you later.
Madam Ps 5.. always arguing..
DeleteWhere there did she encouraging marring broke men? She said he has a job and she has a job,and more than that she contributes her quarter, meaning she brings something to the table. You of all people who claim to buy ps 5 for oga and celebrate his birthday for one week should know better, except you only did all those in your dreams.
Person make sense, una attack, if its the one that would come and shout that married women should build house in secret and other rubbish advice now,you'll quickly support.. argumentator
With the way things are going, I think anyone who doesn't have a mind of his own should stay away from social media, before all this over sabi people giving anyhow advice up and down, gives them the one they'll adhere to and mess up their existence..
Swear down!!! E go loud. i hope they scale through sha...cos las las she fit go bonkers cos of trolls. the streets of social media is another hell road.
DeleteAnita Joseph Zukwanuike 🙄🙄, there are working women in troubled marriages, just thank God for his grace in your marriage, there is no manual
DeleteDante- I know you have not been able to sleep well after reading that my comment about celebrating my hubby.
DeleteHope you considered my advice and have started working on upgrading your taste in women maybe when you date a reasonably classy woman who can afford to spend on you, you may then be able to relate and finally receive peace of mind.
I'm a sucker for blissful and mature relationships not necessarily the loud façade 9ja célébrities constantly put up to pepper their colleagues which most often than not eventually blows up in their faces.
Have a lovely week monsieur Danté.
Dante,I subscribe to that idea of anybody without a mind of their own to stay away from social media 100%. If not oyo will be your name. And please all these advice should state what works for them and state a disclaimer that it may not work for everybody for mindless lifters, those ones that will cheat in exams and still copy the name of the people join.
DeleteDante razor mouth, see me laught out loud 🤣
Delete'make sure you really want to stay in marriage'..anita what happened to your first marriage? Is it that these ppl dey forget themselves sometimes ni? Mschw
ReplyDeleteMake una tell this babe that we don't need her shitty advise, she can go ahead and preach to her daughter.
ReplyDeleteThere is no need to mention her daughter. You have no brain.
DeleteAnita, you just married, you are still on honeymoon. Don't come to social media to praise your marriage oo. Men can change overnight, their change is always automatic. Just keep your marriage low and keep praying that God will give you what it takes to sustain it
ReplyDeleteAll these "my own money, his own money..." inside of marriage is selfishness
ReplyDeleteand I don't know how someone will spend her time teaching selfishness.
Yes, ladies should earn money but that money is for the family as much as
the husband's earning is for the family. That is what God talks about "the two
being one" 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
This word ' Marriage' don suffer .
ReplyDeleteEvery time marry ,marry ,marry marrrryyyyy ,jeez!!
@yvonne u just nailed it,,,anita we dey hear abeg, go rest u hear.
ReplyDeleteTheirs look real and seems genuine. May they continue to love each other to the end. 🙏💋🧁🍭🍬👏☮️🙌
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteShe is right. To who brain is given, wisdom is expected.
ReplyDeleteAnita zukwanike.
ReplyDeleteHianest! Which one is her husband is not "...very very wealthy" kwanu? Abi she think say na Mike Adenuga she dey talk about? Maybe she doesn't know what "wealthy" means though. By the way, once celebs don dey over-advice like say na rant laikdiz, hmmmm... People wey dey 100% happy for their marriage no dey too loud am for internet o. Stellz abeg epp us beg people wey wan scatter Simi marriage this early Monday morning o. May they not succeed o!
ReplyDeleteShes beginning to talk too much.
ReplyDeleteDid someone swear for Anita Joseph that she would never marry before??Because I don't understand her need to validate her marriange and how sweet it is on social media.It is good to showcase beautiful marriages because the negative news about marriage is not good at all,but her need to show everything including bath time(how razz) is becoming another thing oh.
ReplyDeleteHonestly. It seems someone swore that she will not marry and she's using all this rant to pepper the person. Na here we dey, i pray her marriage last because he dragging by children of anger no go ever go well
DeleteThey yaf hear you.........unto the next one
ReplyDeleteThis woman kno just get Shame atall.
ReplyDeleteSee as she dey disgrace herself ontop the small boy she married and still in honey moon stage.
Go and rest bikozia Anita, chae.
Anita it's sweetness and not sweetest. Hian🙄🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteStella has been saying this since na, my prayer is that any woman willing to work will find something doing.
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