STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SCARED TO MEET NEW GUY
I met a wonderful man on SDK's single and mingle in 2020. We have been on communication since last year but every plan to meet, the thing i. Me will decline. What is my fears? We spoke deeply and this man loves BDSM.... Especially caning:
The thought of it got me scared of seeing him or accepting him for intro. Its not as if the meeting point is in any immoral place but i cant figure whats wrong with me and he is getting pissed off now.
I dont want to lose such an amazing person but how will i go about it`?
Amazing how? Are you aware of what you are about to get yourself into? Please watch someone being caned during gbenshing and then you will decide whether you want this or not.....
He might just want to use you for his pleasure, if you are looking for something serious or for a man to marry, do not date men with these kinds of fantasies cos there will be nothing in it for you.
If he is serious and wants to marry you, he will NOT TELL YOU ABOUT HIS WEIRD FANTASY:.....they always keep it away from any woman they genuinely like cos they never do it with her.
I have a friend who started dating someone who liked to strangle someone when he is coming and his coming takes a long time, if you survive it then lucky you...
My friend said the day she decided to run was when he began to strangle her and didnt stop until she began to bleed from her nose and eyes....She knew she was dying and began to think about her life,it flashed before her.....
After that event, she took the money for treatment as usual but she never went back, even when he called her to ask her to marry him,she said No and kept running....LOL
Lol 😁😄😆. If you love yourself, please run far. Even Mr. Grey did not beat Anastasia.
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteLol
Delete“ they always keep it away from any woman they genuinely like cos they never do it with her”.
DeleteActually he’s right to tell her his fantasies right from the get go. It’s up to her to deal or not. Why keep such away from “women they genuinely like” and end up cheating to fulfill same fantasies. Makes no sense. I like people who’ll be up front with you so you know what you’re dealing with instead of pretending.
It’s up to the poster to stay or leave but I admire the guy for being honest about what he’s into. After all, they’re both adults.
@ Twin Squared.
DeleteGrey Did ooooooo and She got home and Cried her Eyes out.
He Followed her home and Met her Sore,He used Balm on her Bum.
That experience almost Ended thier Relationship.
Nasty Experience though.
Poster all I will say is that you are scared for a reason.............
DeleteWell, he flogged her once and she ran for her life.
DeleteYou have to ba a masochist so you can enjoy th relationship. And it seems like on some level you are. The thought of being with him excites you in some way otherwise you would’ve the asking these questions.
DeleteBDSM thrives when the partners are Sadi/masochistic. So yeah, you can try it out for yourself but be sure you know you’re getting into especially as you’ve never met this guy before.
Hmm, one day he will carry koboko flog you like nama and strangle you. Blood no go even drop. You will enter eternity unprepared (have you made Jesus your Lord?).
ReplyDeleteThat is when you will know that you are being invited to marry in a cult.
A cult of killers. Those who get to orgasm by suffering ladies.
"He is amazing" because he is seen by you as having money, isn't it? Tell us the name of this spade. 🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺What a shame!
😂😂😂like nama.
DeleteHahahahahaha 😂 🤣😂 🤣 .. God have mercy
DeleteHahahahahaha 😂 🤣😂 🤣 .. God have mercy
Delete😂😂😂😂,
DeleteOMG 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Delete😂😂😂😂 Bvs hennnnn
DeleteHahahahahahahahahahaha.....I'm trying so hard not to burst into laughter cos I am at work. Abeg poster, avoid all these fetish people oh, the other posted about eating butt hole, as if the challenges of life especially in Nigeria are not bad enough, some people will use their hand to be carry extra wahala...na wa oh!
DeleteWhich one is cult again 😊😊😊
Delete😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 Basket of.......
Delete15.06 ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa
DeleteI don laugh tire
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅the first paragraph
DeleteYou dey fear “canning” lmao.
ReplyDeleteYou feel that way cos deep down you know it’s not your thing and what you’d like to get involved with.
But you are simply carried away cos he is “amazing” and probably cos you feel you are not getting any younger.
Retreat now before you are asked to use knives o.
🤣🤣🤣@knives
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣😆. Some actually use knives. Scary but there are people into some scary stuff. Can’t be me. No ma’am.
Delete😂😂
Delete🤣🤣🤣 I don tire!
DeleteJolie used to be into cutting and licking her partner's blood during sex but she says she has gotten over it now.
Delete🤣🤣🤣
DeleteOne woman was flogged to coma. And next, the brat got a knife and started stabbing (f9king her with it) her vagina until she bled profusely. She survived but without womb and vjay and can never have sex again.
ReplyDeleteMost people in this thing are possessed by evil spirits that they themselves aren't in control of.
Gosh!! Haa too graphic...is it real
DeleteThat one na hired killer.
DeleteI believe Anon 15:10 described a serial killer in disguise.
DeleteOMG,
DeleteTufia
DeleteFrom clap to dance
From tendency to madness
AVOID THEM OOO
Destiny killers!
Eh
ReplyDeleteGod almighty
Stella biko when is the next single and mingle oooo
Help us the single one ooo
I beg
He is Amazing because your are weighing the options of what you have to gain and what you have to lose.
ReplyDeleteJust Set your priorities right.
Oh it means flogging o. Chai how can I allow someone flog me? All the flog that I have eaten all my life is not enough? I had to look up the word again. When you are working night shift and then reading this blog is truly not health. Hahahaha oh lord safe your daughter. I think the reason she might be considering it is that the man might be loaded. Nijia babes will do anything for money.
DeletePoster I had to come again....... Sheybe you value your life? Abi you value the gains over your life?
DeleteI dey tell you @ anon 15:39
DeletePoster, keep it moving. Your fears is a warning signal except his fantasy is perfectly okay with you.....
ReplyDeleteWhat will i not read on this blog.
ReplyDelete‘... but i cant figure whats wrong with me...’
ReplyDeleteSeriously??? We women should set our limits and not be quick to renegotiate on them. And forget about telling him you don’t like it and trying to get him to change. He has openly communicated his fantasies, let him be! No need fighting a battle that shouldn’t be yours! Let him find his soulmate. Why carry on with the relationship this long after his disclosure? Fear of no alternatives? You have had more than enough time to consider his proposal and your stand on it. If you still don’t have a decision, then you may have a problem with decision making.
Run and don’t look back, or learn how to endure tears during sex. Seems pretty simple to me.
Amazing as in rich, right? Lol.
ReplyDeleteGirl, flee!
Many people have departed this world untimely through BDSM...
ReplyDeleteIf you value your life and sanity, you won't subject yourself to such inhumane treatment all in the name of pleasure.
Please, go and check the meaning of PLEASURE!
Run when you can!!
LOL, listen to yourself..he’s getting pissed off already cos you are taking your time as you should. That guy has a temper and you are going to be the one at the receiving end but he’s amazing just cos he took interest in you.
ReplyDeleteNow, I don’t see bdsm as bad if you are into that kinda thing but clearly, you are not so why is seeing him still an option? Is it when he finish canning you then you will bring it here as domestic violence chronicle.
Your choice.
She’s desperate that’s why she’s refusing to see the handwriting on the wall. After marrying him, she may start pretending like she didn’t know what she got herself into. He was clear about his fantasies which she’s not comfortable with but she’s still hanging onto him desperately.
DeletePoster I pray you get some self esteem. It’s highly important.
First, start by looking up the meaning of the word amazing. Next, ask yourself if you'd like to be beaten at 50 before having sex. Write all you want for your life and check the boxes where the man comes in.
ReplyDeleteNow, when last were you flogged? Secondary school ba? You are about to resume. This time you'll see shege, if you survive it. Because it will happen even in pregnancy!
Babe, look front. Your own man will come. RUN from that man.
Honestly I don check dictionary to check the meaning of amazing... Amazing ko a-corning, a-pearing or a-coconuting ni
DeletePoster if you don't like being caned, don't go. Don't start what you can't finish.
ReplyDeletePls what does canning mean? I checked on google and it means to store something in a bottle or can for preservation. Is that what the man intends to do with this poster? How can someone want to start canning another person nah?😭😭😭 I am in tears omg. And she calls him a good man. I think it’s time we start asking Nigerian ladies what a good man means to them.
ReplyDeleteTo flog her with a cane. thats his own idea of a fantasy. some people derive pleasure from pain! thats how sickening this is.
DeleteVery sickening.
DeleteAmazing kor.. Amazing grace how sweet thy sound ni. This one is a porn addict! He has watched so much 50 shades of grey! Even Christian Grey did not use cane on Anastacia. kilode!!Now a dude tells you about his perverted fantasy and you are even considering. What on earth drives you ladies towards guys like these? Whats your definition of a relationship? What do you want in it and out of it? Those are the questions you should be asking yourself. Or you want your friends to see you every week and ask if na soldier carry koboko flog you? The cane dem flog you for primary school and secondary school never do you to get sense? You don't need help abeg! You know what you want.
ReplyDeleteChristian whipped Anastasia in a soft and sexy manner....... Hehehehehe, She still cried wella.
DeleteHowever na real life be dis. Poster if you wan enter na ya problem. Me I no do ooo.
Lmao
Delete@ poster, you want to try BDSM with a Nigerian? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
As if the current problems in Nigeria isn't enough, you want to add flogging to it. Lol. Picture this poster, your "partner" has had a really bad day. He then comes back home and demands sex to ease off his stress. The kin koboko you go receive that day ehn. Wahala be like BDSM.
It's pretty simple poster, it's either you are into BDSM or not. Don't displease yourself negatively to please anyone. All the best.
Stella leave this girl she go soon sing amazing grace to this amazing man..
ReplyDelete« We spoke deeply and this man loves BDSM.... « ‘’Especially caning’’:«
ReplyDeleteThen Carry the cane or koboko and mercilessly flog that wicked demon /habit out of him.
How can someone that seem to derive pleasure from inflicting pain on you be amazing.
Don’t be led away by the deceitfulness of wealth.
Light and darkness has nothing in common
Same way love and purposely inflicting pain can never have anything in common. This should be a mental illness. No much difference btw them and psychopaths.
So as tough as Nigeria is, you want to be collecting koboko in the name of sex...Omo Amazing don suffer oh...This man is not amazing, he is A-corning
DeleteSeriously, with all the frustration of living in Nigeria, some one wants to use her hand to enter bondage in the name of love.
DeleteAmazing must have a new meaning.
You don't know your worth Ma'am..Cuz if you do ;u won't give run for such nonsense.
ReplyDeleteA couple of people enjoy this kind of sexual fantasies. Both genders. If the thought of it is already messing up with your mind kindly abandon the ship now let him find his kinda energy elsewhere.
ReplyDeleteSomeone who wants something from you will always be nice to you. Now he's pissed because he has ran out of patient. Kindly ask yourself if a relationship with him and what he said he likes is what you want for yourself.
ReplyDeleteThe guy is twisted
DeletePoster RUNNNNNNNNNN
Wetin be d enjoyment biko nu . abi na s cloud 9 or chopping koboko.
ReplyDeleteIf u like ur self ruuuuunnnnnnn
Am still😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
ReplyDeleteYour fears are a big red signal dear. Unless u have lied or something,u should have been the one to actually want to meet him. BDSM is not for everyone, infact some fantasies is not for everyone too. I was once dating a guy online and we got to the sex talks, I shock bcos he was mentioning marriage oo. The Bobo told me his wierd dark fantasies like threesome, urinating on my body, anal sex etc. And I was kinda desperate for love and marriage. But thinking about it got me exasperated and I suddenly stopped the situationship to his surprise. Do I miss him, yes. Do I want such life, no. Am I still single, yes. But it's okay and am moving on with life.
ReplyDeleteSo, dear, think and know it's for life. Cheers.
Abeg poster,if you don't want to die before your time
ReplyDeletePlease,run ooooo.
Let him find his soulmate.
Amazing ko, amazing ni
Mr amazing guy!! Okay ! Watch the video of that guy they flogged for beating a woman prolly his mum then come back and decides abi you carry odeshi.
ReplyDeleteYou've not met him, yet you already know he's amazing, and he's getting pissed because you're reluctant to meet him. I laugh in Yiddish
ReplyDelete😂😂 😂 😂 😂
DeleteMe laughs in Urhobo
Some years ago a white lady who was so much into BDSM invited me to come and gbensh her. Lo and behold she had a torture chamber in her house. When the show was about to start she brought out a huge whip to cane me. We I snatched the whip from her and flogged her mercilessly and Fvcked the living daylights out of her. She kept screaming and squirting all over the place.
ReplyDeleteShe later confessed to me that was the best sex of her life.
She wanted an encore, but me I Japa before I could kill someone.
This is so funny 😅😅😅😅. This is a typical case of when the whiper got whiped.
DeleteHian......na wa oh.
DeleteSexual pleasure with pain ke? Ordinary bite my nipples i dey shout then whip? No no no
DeleteNipple bitting is sweet jareh & I am a huge fan of rough sex����.
DeleteMy ex will always say that he would have probably felt that I was sexually abused as a child if he wasnt my first because my sexual demands are frigging bizzare��.
Still don't know where those sexual cravings came from, I don't watch porn.
Chizzy!!
Lmao. This blog na pure cruise
DeleteChizzy, Chizzy! Chi Chi "baibe"! Hock up with the poster's boo na. Una two both fit each other 🤣🤣🤣
Hahahahahahahaha 😂😂😂😂😥😥😂
DeleteWait o! he will be flogging you while gbenshing? And i saw you write "i don't want to lose such amazing person", wetin go dey amazing for there? This man go make u cry las las.
ReplyDeleteMaybe guy is very generous
DeleteFlee
ReplyDeleteYou seem to have given up on letting the guy your creator has made for you find you. That's why you want to settle for whoever comes your way, even if he will end your life, you no mind ba?
ReplyDeleteKeep it moving before you make a decision you'll regret for the rest of your life. I mean, don't you love yourself? This one is far from being amazing, please.
Poster, Run for your dear life, you are already scared of meeting him talk more of experiencing the canning me I can't receive underserved slap talk more of canning all in the name of pleasure
ReplyDeleteYou can only define him as amazing after you must have met with him face to face not what you Stan to gain from him
RUN COS YOUR LIFE AND SANITY DEPENDED ON IT
Is there anything like a deserved slap?
DeleteWhat makes him amazing except you're also weird like him, if not runnnnnnnnnn!
ReplyDeleteWith all the suffering in this country you still want to suffer kobo to have sex again. Biko what is amazing?
ReplyDeleteNa wa oh
Tee
With my experience with my ex,he likes drinking my urine if I sit on his face, he is deeply into porn nd very addicted to porn, I imagined how many women urine he has drank, coupled with his hot temper, pls leave that guy as people with dervish have isssues and spiritual problems
ReplyDeleteYou peed in his mouth? Chinekeeeeeee
DeleteThis is really bondage. A lot of people are inside the web of Satan. May God Almighty show mercies and save some
DeleteInukwa,God have mercy..
DeleteWahala be like bicycle.
ReplyDeleteAre you sure you live in nigeria? Cos with everything going on you really want to add BDSM? Shine your eyes o
ReplyDeleteWhat will I not see in sdk oo
ReplyDeleteYou're reluctant for a reason.
From what you wrote up there,you seem to be smitten by him yet you are not into his kind of sex
It's clear you are scared because BDSM is not your thing. Please I beg you, if you're not comfortable with it, tell him and zero your mind from him.
Not everyone into BDSM are abusers to be honest but then most of their fantasy are shaped from their experiences.
I am being objective here. It seems you led him on into thinking you are cool with it and then you keep stalling because you're not sure. I think that's where is anger is coming from.
All the same ehn poster, no one is going to decide for you. It's either you are in or out. Goodluck
If he loves caning, no wahala, so far na me go beat him
ReplyDeleteI pity your future for this BDSM things.... Run for your life!
ReplyDelete😀😀😀😀😀
ReplyDeleteLol. He will take out his Covid frustrations on you. See he dun angry already.lol
ReplyDeleteThis man clearly won't stop with flogging you. He will also desire to ravage your anus. Don't become too far gone or think that it will be a gentle flogging, from that one it will graduate to strangling and choking, then binding you...all manner of nastiness. Stay away from him. You won't die if you cut him off.
ReplyDeleteWith all the suffering in this country. One will now subject herself to beating just in the name of fun. May the Lord help you.
ReplyDelete