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Monday, July 12, 2021

MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS.

  What a Monday!..... Positive vibes everywhere near me!

 





IN HOUSE MEMO

I hope everyone is OK? The BVs that have not commented, I hope that all is well. There is a BV who had a fall and was advised to go to native people to massage but that massage has cost her a lot. She was operated on her legs last week and she will undergo another operation to try to correct what the native massage intensified. She will heal properly in Jesus name.

Please stop listening to everybody when you have a problem, learn to read and make up your mind by yourself so that you do not end up regretting your choices...If one person goes to massage at the native place and they are OK and come to recommend it to you, it might not have the same results...

Please apply this to all areas of life and you will be fine.

If you are a BV currently down, or sick in hospital, we pray that you get well soon and come back to commenting...

People are going through a lot and so much is going on. please be nice to people,

BE NICE TO PEOPLE!!!




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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.


This column was formerly named ''MY OVARIES OH''

All former gists remain valid..lol


There is a popular saying that says “ agba gbon omode gbon lafi da ile Ife" it means Ife was created by the wisdom of both the young and old. Children say a lot of crazy things but they also say a lot of wise things too.

As a child I was always shut down and not given a voice. I dared not share my opinion about certain things and I was expected to obey adults without questions, any deviation from this meant punishment and being termed as rude.

This is common in a lot of African homes. Children are not allowed to have an opinion or even make small decisions independent of an adult. This goes a long way in affecting a child’s self esteem and ability to process emotions.

I am trying to correct this with my kids and children around me. I try to make them feel comfortable enough to express themselves around me without fear. I engage them in serious age appropriate discussions asking for their opinions and advice.

Most importantly I listen and let them know that I am. I involve them in the family’s decision making and respect their decisions . Decisions like what everyone will be having for dinner, places to go for outing and I also let them pick my outfit at times. I also ask them questions and give them tasks to do without adult supervision. I try not to get annoyed when they ask a million and one questions and answer as patiently as possible. This is just to help them to be proactive and be deep thinkers, who aren’t scared to think outside the box.


The perception you have about your child matters too. Stop saying a child talks too much instead see it as the child is very expressive or instead of saying a child is stubborn, see it as being strong willed and determined that way you will be able to help the child channel their strengths in the right direction instead of treating the trait as a weakness.




Please baby girl, take note of the change of name . #kisses






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MARRIAGE - An Institution Of Love And Commitment And Not An Ego Business



This is A memo to all the married men and husbands to be . Do not take this as a joke, or even see it as one of my mischievous yarns. Please take it as an urgent plea and take it serious!


Let's activate our collective sense of self-preservation. Be rest assured that Marriage is a lethal agent of equal opportunity. And the death by not loving your partner or having an extra-marital affair is avoidable, preventable and I dare say it that - the foolish ones die more from it than the very keen, the obedient and the extremely careful.


It's only an Anniversary out of the many you are likely to live through and very well enjoy in your hopefully long lifetime. Many shall come and many Anniversary shall go! Baby Jesus somehow "gets born" in a Manger every December of every year. If you play it well, or play it safe - you shall hopefully celebrate another  Anniversary of your marriage with peace and the next and the next... etcetera, etcetera, telemundo


Brethren, please and please - simply follow the guidelines.
condemn extra-marital affairs where necessary. 


Maintain social distancing with your ex at all times.

 Remember dreams die soon as you die! 
And it cuts deep into the soul to lose a life not really destined or marked for death just yet but due to a moment of foolishness !

BV Pinky
(A husband to be in the embryo)




Oko iyawo ooooh.




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DRIVER URGENTLY NEEDED



I am in urgent need of a Bus Driver for a company. He must have a valid Driver's License, good knowledge of Lagos roads and traffic signs.


Tuesday - Sunday (Monday's Off day).
From 12noon to 11 pm.
Someone that stays around Lekki surroundings cause of the closing time.
Pay is N60, 000 monthly. The pay could be reviewed upward if the applicant knows how to ride bikes and has a rider permit.

bhaykinsconceptsltd@gmail.com
08166667997.

NB: The ideal candidate must not have any criminal records, cause we carry out a comprehensive background and criminal check on all our drivers.


Thank you.






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70 comments:

  1. When I look back on some of the things I prayed for in the past, I feel lucky and grateful that they didn’t happen because now that I know better, some of the things I prayed for would have ruined my life. You see, it’s not that God didn’t answer your prayer, he answered it by not giving it to you. It was his way of telling you that this is not going to serve you and one day you will know exactly why.

    Sometimes it’s a blessing that it didn’t work out with someone you wanted to be with because they weren’t good for you or they had circumstances that you wouldn’t have been able to live with because you hear what people say about them now or you see what kind of partner they are and you get why God didn’t make it happen. Sometimes it doesn’t work out because you were meant to find someone better for you or make room for them to show up.

    Sometimes it’s a blessing that you didn’t get the job you wanted because you didn’t know what kind of environment you were going to be in and it pushed you to be creative and look outside your field or your comfort zone and you found something that motivated you more, something you were more passionate about and something you can actually make a difference in. There’s always a bigger reason why you weren’t granted your wishes and the reason is always valid and serving your best interest.

    Sometimes God doesn’t answer your prayer the way you want to but he answers them in his own way. Maybe that looks like rejection or failure or heartbreak or injustice in the beginning but when you accept that reality and start moving on with your life, you look back and you understand how his answer was much better than yours. You look back and you secretly thank him for changing your path or your calling or your heart. You thank him for removing certain people and opportunities from your life because now you know how toxic they could have been. Now you know what’s right for you and what you deserve and that’s something God knew all along.

    Sometimes it’s a blessing that you didn’t get what you prayed for because that means that God has better plans for you and his blessings will exceed everything you once prayed for. When you figure out God’s vision behind your unanswered prayers, you will understand that sometimes he protects you from yourself._ Rania Naim

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  2. Divine Health Confessions!!

    I dwell in God’s realm of life, where I reign through the Word. I’ve passed from death to life, from mortality into immortality, from age into agelessness, because in Christ I live in God’s realm of life. I completely refuse and reject anything that isn’t consistent with the God-life in me.

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    1. To them God has chosen to make known among the Gentiles the glorious
      riches of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory. Col.1:27

      Shalom..

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  3. Good afternoon to y'all on here and 👋 go get all of them Benjamins..Ahmed Muse,well-done o and what's happening in SA? 👁🧐👀

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  4. Pls I was a natural hair disciple but my hair is not growing so I want to opt out.

    Can I use a texturizer then use relaxer later?


    I have a new texturizer that I bought but never used so I want to start with that before going to relaxer maybe twice a year.


    Is this good?

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    1. There is the banker wanting my organization to open an account with them ! Told her already if we needed some I will notify her but this lady doesn’t allow me be I go chop clean mouth o

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    2. Mba nu, unless you wantu start looking like Papa Smurf.

      It's like saying you want to make moi moi, eat some and then fry the remaining moi moi so that you will have akara.

      Dont turn your hair prayer point o, because I know someone will come here to screech 'carry go'.

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    3. Why do you want to chop her and clean mouth because she needs you for her to meet up target? The banker is under pressure and want to meet up before the bank will remove food from her mouth but you are here to remove the food fast before the bank thi ks of doing that.

      You are evil with the stories of people going through alot on daily basis yet you want to still be evil.

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    4. 14:17

      Don't be a thief
      Don't steal her peace while selling your self respect

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  5. Amen and Amen.
    People are going through a lot.
    Let's live with the mindset that Tomorrow is pregnant.

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  6. @ BV Pinky I guess you forgot, I only helped you with the female version as it dey hot, not that I think you love chasing clout, don’t take this south please

    This is A memo to all the married women and wives to be . Do not take this as a joke, or even see it as one of my mischievous yarns. Please take it as an urgent plea and take it serious!


    Let's activate our collective sense of self-preservation. Be rest assured that Marriage is a lethal agent of equal opportunity. And the death by not loving your partner or having an extra-marital affair is avoidable, preventable and I dare say it that - the foolish ones die more from it than the very keen, the obedient and the extremely careful.


    It's only an Anniversary out of the many you are likely to live through and very well enjoy in your hopefully long lifetime. Many shall come and many Anniversary shall go! Baby Jesus somehow "gets born" in a Manger every December of every year. If you play it well, or play it safe - you shall hopefully celebrate another Anniversary of your marriage with peace and the next and the next... etcetera, etcetera, telemundo


    Brethren, please and please - simply follow the guidelines.
    condemn extra-marital affairs where necessary.


    Maintain social distancing with your ex at all times.

    Remember dreams die soon as you die!
    And it cuts deep into the soul to lose a life not really destined or marked for death just yet but due to a moment of foolishness !

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    1. You just had to retype it.
      Shior it's in your body
      Always seeing a post about women empowerment as a competition between genders.

      The person that even wrote it is even a man ooo. But your backward mentality won't let you see it as what it is. If you're married, I wonder how you treat your wife.

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  7. Bv that is down, get well soon.

    Jeweluchi thanks🙏 for the sign out mime

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  8. Stella some bone doctors are too good. The one near us, if you see cars that comes to that man, he doesn't need to touch you upto 5 times. I was climbing the stairs, when I had a fall and broke my ankle. I couldn't walk, I was carried there, just a touch and the following day I was running. Some bone doctors worsen things oh

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  9. Very important to be nice to people. People are really going through alot. God come through for us Amen.
    Only positive vibes are permitted my way

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  10. Good afternoon y'all. How are we doing today? I believe Sound Sultan is one of the purest people to have lived. Chai! Rest in power King.❤️
    Mehn it's been extremely stressful for me this past weeks. Before before I used to say if I do masters degree make I bend. Guess who is trying to take that bold step... Me!! I only hope I still have the brain for books. Anyways, y'all be good. Be kind to people, Be at peace with People. At this crucial time, anger is a total waste of energy.

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    1. You can do ALL things through Christ's strenght never forget that. Wishing success dearie

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    2. Best wishes dear,

      The brain still get fire.

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    3. Some people are still heartless to cheat, betray and say evil things about others. Life is too short stop hating people but they will never listen.

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    4. Imagine if the person come dey cheat during pregnancy carry wrong pikin go give husband, story plenty I dey come

      Delete
  11. So the new cool in town now is that Nigerian girls no longer wear bra. They are competing for whose boobs is more firm with pointed nipples fa.. Ba wahala, the beautiful sight is highly welcome.

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    1. 🤣🤣🤣the new trend. Enjoy the sight while it last.

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    2. Anon 14:24; next time, please use "some". Stop generalizing!

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  12. Great afternoon all. How are you all. The sister that went to do surgery, may Almighty God perfect your healings Amen.

    I know you have spent a lot, may you receive permanent healings Amen.

    To all others going through pains, may you all receive God's intervention Amen.

    Too many deaths. God Almighty will comfort all who have lost loved ones Amen.

    This con3 is wonderful. See you all

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  13. Does anyone have a mango tree in Abuja. The way I've been searching for mangoes ehn...so are you saying I will have to wait till next year before I eat mangoes??? 😭😭😭😭

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    1. St Elsewhere Phoenix12 July 2021 at 14:41

      Go to the market now..Hey Way!!

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    2. You don't need to wait till next year before you can eat mango, I saw mangoes I the market yesterday but I don't know your location.

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    3. Hmmmmm excited courtesy. Which market did you see mangoes? As in mangoes?
      Not those strange looking Hausa mangoes like footballs. I mean normal mangoes o. Let me go there now in the rain.

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    4. If l tell you l have four mangoe trees in my neck of the woods, will you come and climb them??

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    5. will you come and climb them?? 😂😂

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    6. Excited courtesy wey the market na.

      18:56 But you dont have na, so why bother?

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  14. Good afternoon people 🤩

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  15. Good afternoon everyone. BV BaeisBeulah, I hope you're fine, been thinking about you lately.

    Be safe and be nice to people.

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  16. May God perfect your healing dear Bv who went for surgery.

    Happy birthday Bv Jules. Live and prosper in Jesus name amen 🙏

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  17. Blessed week to everyone on this SDK blog. our labour of love will not be unrewarded. Lets keep doing good

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  18. Good afternoon everyone
    Anyone passing through any challenges or the other just know that everything will be alright

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  19. Healing to all the sick.
    Be nice to people

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  20. Please I have a question that is bordering me...
    Why is it that people hail anything fornication but attack
    anything that suggest Christ-likeness?
    Thank you.
    🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤

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    1. Lolll be asking JAMB question like a newborn

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    2. Let it keep 'bordering' you inugo, pele.

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  21. Aunty Stella and all bvs, please I need suggestion on any good supplement that my older sister would use to take care of her cancer issues. She has cervical cancer and they are planning to remove the womb. Is there any supplement or things she can do to alleviate the issue? The hospital in Enugu is not giving her any good advice except surgery and we are seriously low on cash. I have search the internet to no avail. I just need someone to help us. Please I don't want her to die. If you have any suggestion please put it under my comment. I will be here waiting.

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    1. So sorry abt ur sister's health.I pray for divine healing on her.

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    2. I pray for Gods hand to touch her.

      Please can you give her carrot and celery smoothie at least twice a day

      She can go on with the operation, but she needs to kill those cancer cells by taking a load of healthy antioxidants.

      I read this in a book and I think it works.
      Also, get healing scriptures by KE Hagin on YouTube. Download it and play it for her every day.

      You shall return with a testimony.
      Hugs.

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    3. Research on cellgivity, divine healing on her

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    4. The earlier they d surgery, d better o, dont allow anyone deceive you that any supplements cures cancer ooo... delay is dangerous ooo 👂👂👂👂👂

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    5. Please let her do the surgery. Dont let any sell any rubbish stupid, supplement.They only care about their pocket not anybody's health when their making their silly suggestions.
      Somebody is talking cancer, somebody is saying cellgivity. Mtsheew. Cancer resemble skin rashes or rheumatism??

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    6. It's Cancer you are talking about oooooh. Her life is more important than her womb oooooh. Let her do the surgery before the cancer will spread & take both the womb & her life Godforbid

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  22. God bless all those who bring vacancies here. Times are hard and no jobs out there. There is this sister in her early 40s in Sango otta who needs something doing. She calls and laments to me all the time. I wish I was in Lagos, I would have helped her with something, be it a cook, kitchen assistant, office assistant or nanny. I wish I can help her, I feel so much pity for her and their three kids. Her hubby is a driver and not making enough for the family.

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  23. Hello ihn 😘
    Bv that went for surgery,it is well with u.divine healing I wish u.

    Pleasant afternoon my lovely bvs.

    E go surely be ✌️.

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  24. Good afternoon blog fams❤️❤️💓

    Please there's an issue bothering me for sometime now and I decided to check out opinion of experts in that field to avoid making mistakes that I will regret.
    Please do you see studying Biology in the university as useless and waste of time, I hear people saying that the job prospects after graduating from this course Biology is none existent.
    Please people that studied Biology is the course a good one, is there any regrets so far. The job prospects nko
    Thanks

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    1. With the exception of a few courses, what you do in professional life after uni often turns out different from what you studied. My advice is whatever you do, make sure you excel in it.

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    2. There are people who studied fisheries and working in banks here.

      Enough said.

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  25. Monday with plenty of rain, tea is helping matters since 1900.

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  26. Let me not laugh alone o...my head wanted to blow this morning..

    Son: mum,something smells like ram bumbum
    Me: what?😯
    He says it again
    Me: How do you know what ram bumbum smells like....
    Son: because I know how ram smells and bumbum will even smell more.
    Me: Jesus

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    1. Ram bumbum...of all parts of ram,it's the bum ur son talks about and u are here laughing and even looking for who to laugh with you..not funny madam.

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    2. As in, so not funny. Very gross

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