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Wednesday, November 10, 2021

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative..

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I don't know who to talk to. 

I have talked to God and I believe he will answer me. Stella I really need people's opinion.

 I wrote to you sometime ago on three occasions about my Labour room drama. How I had 4th degree tear. Since then I have been having series of surgery to correct my spincther anus area which proved abortive.


 My last child is ten months now. The thing is that after having him, the doctor tried to sow the tear, but it ends up tearing after some days, after the 4th sewing of the vaginal tear, it broke down. I was discharged and told to go home and allow myself to heal. If you see the area, it looks horrible, all the flesh inside the vagina and anus are all open and gaping.


 I constantly soil myself. Around July, I went back to the hospital to perform another surgery, I almost died. In fact I died and came back. After staying for a month in the hospital, I ended up home with a relapse and nothing achieved. I need help, advise or encouragement.


 I am too ashamed to talk to anyone around. It's affecting my marriage cos hubby can't have s#x. If you see me outside you will never believe that I have this issue and thinking about it affects me emotionally:



OMG!!!



132 comments:

  1. Oh sorry dear
    Father provide a solution to your daugher

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    1. Wow! I pray that something good comes out of this your present predicament soonest

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    2. BLOOD OF JESUS!. Poster sorry you are going through this😒. Are you in Nigeria or abroad?. Can you find a way to travel out to get treated...even an african nation that has better facilities?

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    3. Oh dearrr!! Things women go through for the sake of motherhood. I feel so so sorry for this situation you've found yourself in.
      Have you considered changing hospital? I learnt there are some very good doctors who specialise in VVF repair in the North.
      I will try to ask around and see if I get anyone's contact, I'll send to Stella if I get any.
      Please stay positive, you will overcome this.

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    4. I hope you see this. If you can afford it please go to Lagoon hospital ASAP

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    5. Really do not know wat to say. But I pray God connect you to ur helper that will solve it

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  2. Oh dear, I'm praying for miracle for you. Please if you have the means continue to look for ways to improve the site. Please also use trusted hands, I'm a strong advocate for teaching and general hospitals. May God give you healing, these are some of the sacrifices of motherhood. Sending you loads of e hugs n kisses.

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    1. My husband is good with issues like this. He has handled women with worse cases and they healed perfectly.

      How do I reach you? If Stella can connect us, will be nice.

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    1. Divine healing oh God. Fix your daughter. Amen.

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  4. Chai

    I for no read this chronicle o. My delivery date is knocking and this emotional chronicle just blew me off.
    I pray you seek the help you desire dear poster.

    I really wish you well.

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    1. Don't be scared cos your case is different.πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    2. I don't have the mind to finish reading it, I stop at where she said, "If you see the area, it looks horrible, all the flesh inside the vagina and anus are all open and gaping."
      Divine healing dear.

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  5. It broke my heart to pieces reading this post,but i believe strongly in the power of God for divine healing upon you in no time...pls be strong dear..

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  6. You really need your husband's support. Can surgery in a very good hospital correct this? May you find the solution you seek πŸ™πŸΏ

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    1. I think surgery can correct it. The question is, does she have the financial capability. She should reach out to doctors like Dr Dubrow and Dr Nasif or google any credible doctor that covers Botched surgeries abroad. Have in depth phone or chat conversations with them before setting out to meet. There are great surgeons that do corrective surgeries. Just use google and have patience. Sorry Nne.

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    2. Please the white enchantress help her with vital information on this issue. I am broken and feel so bad for cos if only she had been pre- informed, she would have asked the midwives to cut her before the baby does.
      My mum told me so and it helped me not have any abnormal cut. This kind of situation can end ones marriage if the hubby isnt an understanding one

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    3. Stella we need to raise funds for her and the husband..

      We should not just say sorry. We need to do something for her

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    4. Please go to Luth at Ikeja. It's a teaching hospital.

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  7. Sex should be the last thing on hubby's mind. your wellbeing should. abi no be person wey well dem dey make love to?
    So sorry about what you're going through. The great physician will show up in your case

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    1. Very true. Madam leave hubby's lack of sex for now, worry about your health, your healing should be your priority now. Don't even worry about any other thing. Lack of sex does not kill.
      Let him be drinking water on all the ones he did in the past, stop worrying about him.

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    2. Sex should be the last thing on his mind.. bcoz he is a log of wood..

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    3. 19:26 he should not even have an erection. All he needs to do is support her through this.

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    4. I am amazed you are worried about hubby having sex.

      Please, you should be more concerned about healing first.

      I pray you get the best hands to handle this soon.

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  8. Oh God I have never heard it this bad before. Madam, be strong. Hope people will have good suggestions for you.

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  9. Dear poster,. I'm touched by this your story. Kindly visit any VVF hospital, they will know how to handle your situation. I pray you heal fast. All the best 😘

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    1. Vvf hospital will do it and they are not expensive as the surgery is subsidized due to the poor young Hausa girls that do have the need for it

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    2. I think doctors that treat VVF will be more experienced in dealing with such issues. Poster, you might have to enter north and ask about seasoned consultants, they might be able to help.

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    3. I read somewhere that Bingham university teaching hospital (popularly known as jankwano Hospital)here in Jos is good at these kind of surgeries.
      Google it, there's a phone number on their site, call and make inquiries.

      All the best πŸ’Ÿ

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    4. Have faith and don't give up.

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    5. May you find favour and healed in Jesus name amen πŸ™

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    6. Exactly anon, learnt there are a good number of specialists in the North due to its high prevalence among those young girls there.

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  10. I had tears in my eyes reading this, just imagining it. The pains we women go through while bringing another life into the world.
    Poster I will remember you in my prayers and ask God to send help for you to be able to have a surgery outside Nigeria. I believe it can be corrected in a good hospital in Nigeria here or in Abroad.

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  11. try another hospital if you are going to the same hospital.doctors in the house or anyone that has a good hospital recommendations to please come forward.poster,I'm so sorry you are going through this,may help come to you swiftly! In Jesus name Amen.

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  12. O my God, I feel so bad for you poster, may the great healer Jesus heal and comfort you. But poster hope your skin is not bleached, invest in vitamin c. It's well with you.

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  13. Oh dear
    So sorry for all you're going through. If money isn't an issue please look into plastic surgery. You can check at any tertiary hospital around you. I wish you all the best,above all keep your head up high. You're beautiful

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  14. Oh Poster I am so sorry...I can imagine what you are going through honestly...4th degree tear is a lot ...Who is the doctor that attended to your birth, he must answer some questions and be sued honestly...

    Please poster dearest I can imagine all that is going through your mind...My dear Please leave the surgery for now and see if you can seek help from abroad or India and have a full consultation concerning this, if you can open a gofund account to help with expenses...Our doctors are good; but most of them do a lot of trial and error these days, I dunno...All the best dear...All will be well..

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    1. I completely agree. I also think you should share this on other platforms on Instagram, msasoebi and dairyofanigeriangirl people there may even know surgeons that can help.
      Very sorry you are going through this. Please the priority now is getting a solution to this problem not sex. You and your hubby need to get your priorities right. All my mind is going to doctor Miami and other plastic surgeons abroad. But try the Instagram platforms I listed above, people that know doctor that can handle it in Nigeria may be there. Good luck.

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  15. I had horrible tears too after my last delivery, the suture refused to heal as well and gaped open after a few days and the doctors told me there was nothing they could do because it was no longer a fresh wound.
    I spoke with one of the nurses there and she advised me to ditch the heavy 'Conflict' pad I was using and stick to light ones like Always. She advised me not to using hot water and disinfectant for sitz bath, but use warm water I can comfortably sit in with salt sprinkled in it. After a week, the wounds healed but the scar is still there. I am very fine down there.
    I think the advice we receive after delivery plays a major role on how we treat ourselves.
    I pray you get out of this healed.

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    1. U mean salt and water healed urs, wow

      Women hmmmmm God will keep protecting us.

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    2. Paprika I also heard about that warm water and salt. The hot water and disinfectant does not work for all women, it makes some women's stitches to remove. Some women , the sore will not heal on time.

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    3. I researched soooo much while I was pregnant, that I had a lot of those things at my finger tips and by God's grace, all went smoothly. I bought the sitz bath bowl before I even gave birth and made sure I sat on it everyday for the first 2-3 weeks after birth, I also bought one witch Hazel pad and spray I saw online.
      Down below is back to new, but then again, I was given just a little episiotomy, so maybe that too counts.

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  16. I pray divine intervention for you.

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  17. Go to general hospital

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  18. I pray help locates you as you have opened your heart. Continue taking very good care of yourself dear.

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  19. Poster,come to Shiloh with us...Just go to the ground there and read this same thing I just did to God, your creator. People will Ahhh and yeeee, but no one can solve this but him. I am not saying that that is the only place God answers prayers, but there is a special grace on that ground.
    It shall be well,I don't know why I have this peace over your issue.

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    1. Yeah, try God.

      And also herbs pls, meet with experienced midwives that are decades in the profession.
      Kai God pls answer this woman😒😒



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    2. What is this one saying? So when she attends Shiloh, the place will close up. Mtcheeeew. Poster, pls locate these hospitals where they repair vaginas damaged as a result of underaged pregnancy,vvf centres in the north.

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    3. Which herbs will close the space between anus and vagina.
      Madam pls don't go near any herbs o.

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    4. πŸ˜‚ some advice shaaaaa. Poster please visit hospitals abroad if you have the financial backing. Stellz no vex, Abeg post my first comment make she fit see. Blessings 😘

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    5. Shiloh waa the first thing that came to my mind at the end of the chronicle. Poster you have tried Man for four times. Tey God now with a heart full of faith. He's faithful to meet us at the point of our needs.

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  20. May God hear your prayers and heal you by His Blood.
    May Blood of Jesus Christ heal you and perfect everything that concerns you dear.

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    1. Amen
      I hope you have a good support system

      It is not easy
      Senu

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  21. CS is what I did for my two kids, they gossiped and called me lazy woman but I no send, my vagina is intact, but even that CS too is risky especially in this Nigeria. Also, some women that love kids, those who have like 4 or 5 kids would not be able to use CS all through due to cost and risk. So many risks involved in childbirth and some men will still be abusing their wives after going through pains to give them kids

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    1. CS too has plenty risks abeg. Nigerian hospitals are not okay. The few okay ones are very expensive

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    2. I know of a woman who did 5 c/s. I know her not them say. I've also done 3. If not for age I would have gone for the 4th one. My friend has done 4. It's your money that would suffer it. I prefer CS to normal delivery. It's less risky if done in a controlled environment. You pick the date walk in and you're out max 3 days. Not CS after much labor and plenty complications.

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    3. Anon@15.13, please read what Rose 🌹 wrote below. That's how to comment on a very serious challenge of another woman and help her.

      Not every matter should be used to sub men.

      By the way, women want children for themselves too. In fact, the typical Nigerian woman believes the children of her marriage belongs to her while her husband has the duty to provide for her and the children.

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  22. Dear poster, I don't know where you live. But if you are in the North or close, go to the National Obstetric Fistula Centre, Katsina State.
    Not every surgeon understands ano rectal fistula. There are specific muscles they need to incorporate in the repair, otherwise it breaks down. Ask for a Dr Sadiya if you can. She is the best uro-gyneacologist/ fistula surgeon I know, and trust me, I've worked with many.
    While you're there, ask if they think you might need a colporhaphy or vaginal reconstruction as well (if you decide to do this, make sure you've had all your kids, otherwise subsequent vaginal deliveries might ruin your repair).
    All the best to you. There is light at the end of this tunnel.

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    1. Great information.

      I also think Stephanie Linus' foundation is focused on vaginal fistulas.

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    2. Thank you for this suggestion.

      Poster so sorry about what you are going through. I pray God uses this Doctor or any other one to get you back to normal. Sending you hugsπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    3. God bless you for this referral, abeg don't advise her to push again, Poster, if you wish to have more kids, na CS oh. May God help you find a permanent solution. Please, update us.

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    4. Bless you for this. Poster, please take this suggestion serious.

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    5. Nice suggestion. Stella abeg/pls help her ask Stephanie...

      God is still God.

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    6. God Almighty bless you @Roses for this information,

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    7. Thank you for helping out Roses.

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    8. God bless you for this. Thank you. I'm glad this can be handled here

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  23. I’m so sorry poster for what you are going through.
    Is it that the surgeries were not done properly?
    For now, leave sex and concentrate on getting healed.
    If your husband can’t understand that, then it’s a shame.
    May help come your way.
    What childbirth does to women. God bless our mothers.
    I’ve resolved to go for CS.

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    1. Me too @your last paragraph. That place must remain intact.
      Sorry poster

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  24. Omg!!
    So sorry poster for what you are going through. May the healing hand of God rest upon you. Amen

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  25. Where u nt sitting on warm water,pls,put dettol n salt in warm water, not hot water, be doing it for a period of one month,it will improve naturally, be also sitting on a hard surface chair, like kitchen chair, then,you have to be more prayerful.

    Ada ohafia

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    1. She had a 4th degree test. How are Sitz bath and healing if a 4th degree test even related???

      Dear poster, pls take the advice of going to a VVF center in the north.

      I think it’s unconscionable that your doctor elected to repair the tear 4 times. This is very specialized surgery, not for just general obstetricians to repair and you should have been referred after the 1st failed repair.

      Pls take heart, don’t be sad and go to the north for a proper repair.

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  26. So sorry you had to go through this but if you can afford it,can you seek help abroad?
    Maybe there is a latest technology that can help.
    Be strong, you will be healthy soon.

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  27. May Almighty Lord come through for you poster in Jesus name,Amen.

    I think plastic surgery will be your best option now.Pls make inquiries ok.
    What God can't do doesn't exist!

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  28. Please go to a TEACHING HOSPITAL GYNAECOLOGY CLINIC fast.
    I am a medical doctor and this is what should have been done long ago!

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  29. Women go through a lot. Please do not be ashamed. You should more concerned about staying alive. If you soil yourself constantly, please wear diapers and please try to protect your vagina against infections from the poo. Next, you need to start making research on the internet for a specialist.What you have is a severe case of rectal prolapse that needs reconstruction. If you reside outside Nigeria and have an insurance, it would really help. Please look for a specialist.

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  30. Awww i feel your pain poster,i
    pray for total healing for you Whatsoever needed to be restore it shall be restored in JESUS Mighty name Amen.

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  31. Poster I'm so sorry for what you are going through. Pls look for hospitals whee they do VVF surgeries. They will correct it, that is their main Specialty.
    What caused the 4th degree tear? Was your baby too big for vaginal delivery or breached and you refused to go for CS and stubbornly delivered like the "Hebrew Women"? You should have included that part so that other women will learn.
    Anyway, may God see you through.

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    1. Yes we all need to read and learn what caused the tear.
      I think that's why an episiotomy is done ie the Drs cut the perineum themselves rather than allowing the force of the delivery and bearing down to tear and scatter the place.

      Poster, pls take the advice of Roses 15.16. I wish you all the best, and hope to read from you soon of how well you have become.

      Thank you Roses.

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    2. Sometimes, they don't know before they enter labour room that their baby is too big and they may need a cut to come out.

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  32. God please help this helpless lady. This chronicle breaks my heart

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  33. Please don't give up, there must be solution some where for you in Jesus name amen.

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  34. This doctor was totally unprofessional. He was too ashamed to refer you to the Gynae in a teaching hospital for proper pereneal repairs.
    I guess some muscles of the pelvic floor was cut and the place is obviously infected and that is why healing is almost impossible.
    Prepare for some stay in a teaching hospital bed because the regular antibiotics are being resisted (because of the proximity to the anus) by the infecting organisms.
    Next, they will book you for surgical repairs that might involve a plastic surgeon in addition to the Gynae.
    You will be fine.
    Above all, trust God; the great physician is the one that heals while we treat.
    Suffice it to say that in sane climes, that doctor would have suffered loses in litigations. But that is not paramount right now.
    They will do a swab culture of the place and find a possible antibiotics that will help

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  35. Hubby can't have sex? Sex is not everything . You have to seek for a second opinion and possibly a third. Go to another hospital, a teaching hospital where multiple experts can care for you. Your hospital has exhausted all they know, at this stage they can't help you. You will be okay , I have no doubt. Keep hope alive . When the first operation failed you ought to have gone to another hospital

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  36. Please go to a teaching hospital,I also hope you're not diabetic,may the good Lord lay his healing hands upon you

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  37. Sorry my dear, I just the right person have not handled your case..... Why that area have refuse to heal is because strong antibiotics and air might not be circulating enough due to it's a hidden part of the body. You just have to be strong your complete healing is not far.

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  38. Chai this is heartbreaking.
    Poster it is well with you and I pray for divine healing upon u..pls don't loose hope,try another hospital and take it to the Lord in prayer.my prayers are with you πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  39. Pls poster, try the advice of Bv Roses🌹here. I prsy God will perfect ypur healing in Jesus Mighty name. Amen

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  40. Lord, please help and heal your daughter. Poster, please be strong and keep trusting God for His perfect healing.

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  41. These are the things mothers should be talking with their daughters about. So many women keep these things secret that other women don't even know all the possibilities that can occur after childbirth. Some women are incontinent for life even after one child. Why are we not talking about these things and know quickly where to direct another woman in need?

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    1. Because there is a culture of deceit

      It packages marriage as "fun"
      Childbirth as "easy"
      Childrearing as "a must for everyone"

      We need to start telling the TRUTH!

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  42. Madam pls don't give birth via vagina again after going for repairs in a good teaching hospital. You can opt for plastic surgery.

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  43. Please travel abroad, UK, US or Canada for a good surgery. Nigeria healthcare is a mess. So sorry. It is well.

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    1. One can only travel out of Nigeria is you can afford the fees.

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  44. Your hubby is still thinking of sex with you in this condition.
    Is that what he should and thinking about?
    You people amaze me.
    Please go for a 2nd /3rd opinion.
    Please I hope you do not use bleaching creams, injections or steroids?
    It is well with you.
    I pray healing over you in the name of Jesus.

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  45. #NSPPD
    #7AMFIREPRAYERS
    POSTER Please today and tomorrow is healing and deliverance service on the alter of fire; kindly hook up on YouTube for playback of the morning prayers and also join tomorrow morning by 7am
    you would come back to testify

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  46. OMG!

    Dear poster, I sincerely pray for the healing hands of God to rest upon you. I pray that help come your way, through any means.
    Amen.

    Can you change your hospital? Make researches online to see if there are people in this situation and what they did.
    Expand your search.

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  47. Sorry dear God will send help.

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  48. That’s really a horrendous ordeal to go through and frankly, gross negligence from your doctor. He shouldn’t have put you through vaginal birth and should have adviced you on why CS is a better option instead. You need counselling for ptsd.

    It will take a long time to heal but heal you will, darling so your hubby needs to understand and pull his support to help you through this even if no sex takes up to a year . No more heavy lifting and physical activities for the now, you need stool softener and go probiotics..No citrus, no alcohol and no caffeine and you will notice a huge difference as you heal.

    You will be fine and feel like your old self again, your incontinence will reduce as you allow yourself to heal. If therapy is accessible to you, go for it as they will tell you pelvic floor exercises to do (kegel and em). Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, you are not a superhuman as that might be causing your relapse. Get as much help and support as you can, this too will pass.

    Keep yo head up, sis. πŸ’›πŸ’›

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  49. Poster pls what caused the tear? Pls share with us so singles like us will learn.
    Mothers and doctors in the house, pls what and what can cause these type of thing. I was crying as I read.😭😭

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    1. Having a baby that is too big to go through the pelvis and vagina

      Refusing to have an episiotomy.

      Possible infection of the episiotomy site due to infection leading to break down of the stitches. Caring for an episiotomy site involves having a sitz bath until the wound is healed.

      Others can add more.

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    2. Sometimes when they tell women that the baby is too big to be delivered via vagina, they should do CS, our women will reject it and opt for vagina delivery. (Hebrew women things)
      Other times, the person that took the delivery would not give her enough cuts in the appropriate spots so that the baby can come out smoothly, thereby making the woman to push and the baby will forcefully tear the vagina anyhow and come out.
      Sometimes too, if the baby is breach, like wants to come out with leg, hand, buttocks, the best thing to do is CS but our women will reject it and this above can be the result.
      So the fault can be from the hospital or the woman herself.

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  50. May God send divine solution to you,it is well with you poster.

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  51. Oh dear poster, i feel your pain,i pray for God to come through for you.

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  52. I'm so sorry for your ordeal. May God send help to you so you will receive total healing. Cheer up and be hopeful. God is on the throne

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  53. I cried reading this, women are strong, I pray GOD heals you. I passed through alot in child bearing from molar pregnancy to all the pains, sometimes I wonder my crime but at the same time grateful to GOD who is always with me and faithful to me. I noticed during crowning while delivering, the use of olive oil helps the v$gina stretch well without the need for tear, I delivered a baby 3.5kg coming with buttocks after CS with that method and v$Gina goes back well after delivery.

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  54. This is sad and touching..
    Divine Healing Dear..
    It is well.

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  55. Poster please relax and allow yourself to heal, I had almost same experience, though my own didn't reach the anus area, I stitched severally but it broke, my Dr advised me to allow it heal by itself and it eventually worked, please relax and allow it heal by itself, take a lot of vitc.

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  56. Go to fistula center at Abakaliki Ebonyi state. It will be corrected. Not expensive at all.May God give you strength

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  57. Please would be mothers, please this is a honest advice for you, when you are in labor, when the Dr or nurse tells you not to push that it's not time to push, please I'm begging you in the name of God, please DON'T PUSH, if this poster says the truth, she pushed when it wasn't time to push (I may be wrong though), the day I delivered my baby boy, a lady that was in labor with me died because of this degree of tear, she pushed when it was not time to push, she started bleeding, lost a lot of blood and gave up the ghost, please ladies I'm begging you in the name of God, if the Dr or nurse does not tell you to push, PLEASE DON'T PUSH.

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  58. Oh my God! I'm so sorry dear for what you're passing through. Have you tried going to a general hospital? Again, I'm terribly sorry. May God himself heal you speedily.

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  59. This is really sad.......What women go through

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  60. Sis so sorry
    Pray that God will heal your wounds

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  61. Poster, you'd be fine. Please go to a good hospital. A teaching hospital preferably. You'd need to see a general surgeon who may also need to consult the ob/gynecologic if need be. They may put a colostomy on you and allow the place to heal before repairing it. Pls dont despair. You'd be fine.

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  62. May God perfect his healing in your life. I think u need to changed your hospital and go see a gynaecologist that specializes in vaginal surgery. If u are extremely financially bouyant. Contact Dr Paul Nassif and Dr Terry Durbrow to help u in stitching ur vagina. U need to be fast in doing this surgery so that your marriage won't pack up like a pack of cards bcus is not all men that can hold their body. Henceforth, stop child bearing so that u can treat your health .

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  63. It is very sad that our health system is like this. What this poster is passing through is not this difficult to correct, imagine what she has been through for 10months now while still taking care of the home and kids.

    I'm glad you brought it here as I can see some suggestions and referrals up there, God bless those bvs for these. Your problems are over poster, I know God will use this blog to do it. Pls bring updates. God bless you.

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  64. I have heard of a case like yours and the lady was so frustrated for almost a year, doing constructive surgeries every 3 months I think as you have to wait for it to heal before another surgery.

    I think what you are going through is called Anal Fistula.. there's a hospital in Jos that specialises in this stuff.. that was where the lady was finally treated and I think it was done for free sef..

    Please research about the hospital in Jos, owned and run by white folks I think.

    Good luck

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  65. Hi poster. Sorry for all you are going through. You need a good comestic or plastic surgeon. This surgery is reconstructive and all these regular surgeons or ob's and gyna are obviously not getting it right. If you have the money i will suggest you go abroad. Or research on a good plastic surgeon board certified in Nigeria. Also, you can reach out to Dr. Nassif and Dubrow, God can make them see your message and they will decide to help you. Please don't give up something can and will be done definitely.

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  66. Just Google VVF centres in Nigeria. You can choose the one nearest to you. Is a surgery that can be done in Nigeria. There are a lot women that have this condition. You are not the only one. You will be fine.

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  67. Please let that place heal properly. As in completely and feel no pain anymore before doing corrective surgery(preferably outside of Nigeria if you have the financial capability) please start saving seriously towards this surgery. You need an experienced dr to do this once and for all. Stella please if this story is true, I’m willing to drop $500 or more towards this lady’s surgery. God will heal you completely in Jesus name. πŸ™πŸ½

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  68. i have heard or read of a ladys story, i dont know if its on stella but she visited an NGO in jos, plateau, for it to be corrected.

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  69. Jesus people are really going through alot, may God heal you.

    I will suggest since you have done surgery several times yet no result, why don't you hand it over to God completely. May God heal you.

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  70. I’m so sorry for what you are going through. Could you consider taking STC -30 to aid healing. My brother had anal fissure and it helped his healing. His surgeon was surprised at how fast things healed. I’ll keep you in my prayers.

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  71. Poster I am not suggesting surgery for you because of the risk imvolved. I'm praying for divine healing for you. The Great physician now is near, the sympathising Jesus. Please dont get tired calling on Him. He hears and sees and will come to your aid. Just keep trusting Him and join NSPPD.

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  72. Poster, try the salt and hot water to sit on it. God will see you through. Amen.

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  73. πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯May you get the help you desireπŸ™

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  74. God will heal you in Jesus name. Amen

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  75. Poster, as some bvs have stated, you need to go to the north as the specialists for your case are there.
    Secondly, get a lawyer to sue the demonic dr that gave you the tear.
    Thirdly, I dunno if they abide by individual led birth plan in Nigeria, ladies please stop pushing on your back!!! Look at our anatomy & you’d understand that laying on the back to push is against gravity. Push on all fours, on your side, squat with support or stand, water birth too!
    Omg I’m so infuriated by this poster’s ordeal.
    Your husband’s priority should be supporting you/baby and actively looking for solution in the north.

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  76. I pray u find help poster,May God almighty heal u,by his stripes you are made whole.amen

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