She posted an apology on Instagram to all those she let down with her viral call out of her husband some weeks back...
Hmmmm......
''It’s A Brand New Chapter For Me ...
And Would really Love To Start It On A Clean Slate . 🙏🏽
This Year Has Been A lot ...
Soooo Much Blessings And Pain.
My Hands Are Shaking As I Type This ....I Let A lot Of pple down ..Especially The Pple Close To Me... The Last 10Weeks Have Been The Worst Of My ENTIRE Life , Yes The Worst Since I Was Born ... I have Gone From Being So Angry To being So Broken And Back To Anger .. And Then Sadly ,Which I Am Ashamed To Admit -
Hmmmm......
''It’s A Brand New Chapter For Me ...
And Would really Love To Start It On A Clean Slate . 🙏🏽
This Year Has Been A lot ...
Soooo Much Blessings And Pain.
My Hands Are Shaking As I Type This ....I Let A lot Of pple down ..Especially The Pple Close To Me... The Last 10Weeks Have Been The Worst Of My ENTIRE Life , Yes The Worst Since I Was Born ... I have Gone From Being So Angry To being So Broken And Back To Anger .. And Then Sadly ,Which I Am Ashamed To Admit -
Suicidal! I Have Acted So Badly In A Way I Am Not Proud Of , I Allowed My Emotions Cloud Me. , I Allowed My Emotions To Lead Me Into Making Bad decisions , Allowed My Anger n Emotions ,To Make Me Act On Something That’s Wasn’t True Cos I Was Kept In Dark !
Instead Of Remaining Calm .. Before Acting ... 💔
I Want to Apologize To My Husband , Inno .. I Am So Sorry I Threw You Out There Like I Did , (so unwise ) That Isn’t The Kind Of Woman You Married, Totally Sorry For all the Mental Stress And Heart Break It Caused You , So Sorry I Put Both Our Families Out There I, The Way I Did💔 I still Bi Your Smallie oo*
To My Beautiful Mothers .. My Amazing Mother And My Beautiful Mother In- Law .. I am Sooo Sorry I Let Both Of You down .. No Mother Should Go Through The Kind Of Pain That You Both Felt .. I Am Really Sorry 🙏🏽🙏🏽(I am still your baby) I am Far From Perfect, But I Have Decide To Choose Peace . And I Wanna Do Better , Given The Chance .
To Both My Families- The Macaulays And The Idibias , I Am Sorry For All The Pain And Disrespect Towards Both Familes... Pls Forgive Me .Una No Fit Throw Way Una Pikin ooo🙏🏽
To all my 7.1 Plus Family out here .. Thank you for still standing n supporting me and my brand 🙏🏽
To All the brands That are working with us - thank you for still sticking with your NKOYO ooo.. To The ones We Are In Talks With , I appreciate🙏🏽
To My Big Brother And Friend efeomorogbe I Am So Sorry
To My Manager- phadekemi Thank you for your patience n for sticking by
To My “Online Inlaws “Wey I carry my Mata come give - thanks for all D love,D bashing n rebuking I have learnt ooo.. I No go do am again o
All I wan 4 my bday is PEACE
Annie Macaulay Idibia''.
Instead Of Remaining Calm .. Before Acting ... 💔
I Want to Apologize To My Husband , Inno .. I Am So Sorry I Threw You Out There Like I Did , (so unwise ) That Isn’t The Kind Of Woman You Married, Totally Sorry For all the Mental Stress And Heart Break It Caused You , So Sorry I Put Both Our Families Out There I, The Way I Did💔 I still Bi Your Smallie oo*
To My Beautiful Mothers .. My Amazing Mother And My Beautiful Mother In- Law .. I am Sooo Sorry I Let Both Of You down .. No Mother Should Go Through The Kind Of Pain That You Both Felt .. I Am Really Sorry 🙏🏽🙏🏽(I am still your baby) I am Far From Perfect, But I Have Decide To Choose Peace . And I Wanna Do Better , Given The Chance .
To Both My Families- The Macaulays And The Idibias , I Am Sorry For All The Pain And Disrespect Towards Both Familes... Pls Forgive Me .Una No Fit Throw Way Una Pikin ooo🙏🏽
To all my 7.1 Plus Family out here .. Thank you for still standing n supporting me and my brand 🙏🏽
To All the brands That are working with us - thank you for still sticking with your NKOYO ooo.. To The ones We Are In Talks With , I appreciate🙏🏽
To My Big Brother And Friend efeomorogbe I Am So Sorry
To My Manager- phadekemi Thank you for your patience n for sticking by
To My “Online Inlaws “Wey I carry my Mata come give - thanks for all D love,D bashing n rebuking I have learnt ooo.. I No go do am again o
All I wan 4 my bday is PEACE
Annie Macaulay Idibia''.
This messages are too long... she sounds depressed.
She needs time off the Internet to heal from Whatever she is going through...
Happy birthday Annie, it is well with you dear
ReplyDeleteFor the 1st time,I felt her sincerity.
DeleteLove and light Ann. God loves u 1st b4 anyone else.
Happy Sunshine Birthday 🎉
Same here . I felt her sincere apologies and I hope internet trolls can all move on and let her heal. We all fall short and have done or said things that we wish we had not. Hope she has learned from her mistake though
DeleteShe has given people something to talk about again, happy birthday to her and her wish her all that she has wished herself but I hope she stops over sharing her personal life. Let people continue to assume, it comes with the celebrity life.
ReplyDeleteAlso mental health is not a joke, if she had suicidal thoughts I hope she spoke to or is in the process of speaking to a professional. Apologizing on social media doesn't solve anything.
Please people, take a lengthy enforced social media break as part of your journey to healthy mental health.
DeleteDr Stella, how did you diagnose her if being depressed? Please, people should be careful of how they throw words around in how they understand situations. To be frustrated and perturbed, to be worried snd naive, to be anxious and tired are not all points of depression. They could lead to but not necessarily the end result.
ReplyDeleteYes, she might be having symptoms of being "burn out" that when not manage well can lead to depression. One major symptom of "burn out" that people will diagnose as depression is the sign one shows when betrayed or hurt by people who he or she has sacrificed/loved so much for, the irrational behavior is something else.
Delete👌👌
DeleteThank you ooooo anon 9.43.
DeleteWay to go Annie,( one of fav and hubby)
ReplyDeleteGrow ageless and prosper in all you do.
Be like say dem wan pursue am commot. Una sorry o abeg leave am. Her Mama too should get her own apartment please and stay there so grandkids visit her there.
ReplyDeleteBe like say dem wan pursue am commot. Una sorry o abeg leave am. Her Mama too should get her own apartment please and stay there so grandkids visit her there.
ReplyDeleteIt's so easy to say.
DeleteWait till u get to her age, then see how it goes.
Happy Birthday dearie! Enjoy your day
DeleteHappy birthday to you Annie
ReplyDeleteI pray that God heals you and gives you joy
If she has realized her wrongs and willing to turn a new leaf fine. Sometimes, things have to go wrong before we learn in life. Talk about learning the hard way. The other lady said she is not the cause of whatever Annie is going through in her marriage and she should sort herself out. She could be right
ReplyDeleteAwww, this is the cutest and the most emotional thing i read this week. Nobody wins when the family feuds!
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday sweet beautiful Annie, turn a new leaf, of course issues will always arise but bringing it out to the entire public or not accepting our own part of the blame will never solve a damn thing, it'd only get worse. I pray God helps you guys to mend what's broken, heal everyone that needs healing and help everyone of you to become a better person for each other. Wishing you happiness, joy, laughter, wisdom, health and a marital bliss. What God and love has joined together, no silly mistake or a third party can destroy. Amen! Cheers to a much more better and beautiful beginning💋🥂🍾
No apology to Pero and her kids....i guess she finally found out Tuface just went to visit his kids and couldnt tell her bcos he knew she will blow up and she did.
DeleteI laugh bcos Annie will still do all this again,im not falling for all this peace and apology talk.
Good shes apologising but Pero's name is missing. Its unfortunate Pero will be in her life for life cos of d kids.
If u cant tolerate somethings dont marry a serial baby daddy. My take
I said it before,
DeleteShe rushed into conclusion
She should better apologize to peru
Apologies to peru ko, buying a golden crown for peru nii! Lmao.
DeleteShe apologized to people that matters in her life that she hurt with her actions and has admitted she was wrong for that and completely ignored the architect of the chaos and nuisance constitution in her home ojereh!
Madam spoilt babymama should sit and wait for Annie's apology and 500 hundred million naira payment for defamation. Akuko ndi ike uwa gwu go.
A step in the right direction👌.Happy birthday Annie🎉🎊
ReplyDeleteTo us women, always calm your emotions down before taking action. Don’t be in a haste to act and avoid doing things to put you in a position where you’d eventually have to apologize. Thanks for all the lessons of life. HBD beautiful Annie.
ReplyDeleteBest advice!
DeleteWhy do something when you would still apologise. I now understand the perspective of people that said she knowingly walked into that situation and has been tolerating ever since. Better not to start what you can't finish.
ReplyDeleteHave you heard of self sabotage. Through errors of omissions or commissions we sabotage ourselves everyday while blaming others for our misfortunes. Some us know we are self sabotaging ourselves others don't know. Among those who knows, there those who choose to dwell on it rather than stop or seek for help.
DeleteHappy birthday to her, this write seems like a cry for help and mental breakdown.
ReplyDeleteI know it’s hard oh! But Kai I feel she needs true happiness, that happiness that Innocent can’t give her, she needs to leave that Idibia family, and start life afresh!
I Have Acted So Badly In A Way I Am Not Proud Of , I Allowed My Emotions Cloud Me. , I Allowed My Emotions To Lead Me Into Making Bad decisions , Allowed My Anger n Emotions ,"TO MAKE ME ACT ON SOMETHING THAT WASN'T TRUE".
ReplyDeleteAll of you that attacked Pero, I hope you hide your heads in shame.
Shut up Pero, you failed already now twerk away from this post please and allowed Annie be for once in your life.
Delete11:10Your brain cells must have evaporated while hanging your legs on your cupboard. Talk sense, don't blab!
DeleteWow,nice one.She has really heeded to advice,she should get one on one with those in laws.I can see through her write up,she really needs peace with those people.May God strengthen her,I feel for her.Her husband should never keep her in the dark about his whereabout, it's so wrong.God bless and keep her.You are right Stella,she sounds depressed.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday. I pray for Peace of God Almighty on you because that is what you need mostly and wisdom
ReplyDeleteDear women, if you know you would remain in that marriage, please don't come and table your grievances with your husband and his family for outsiders. I take God beg una. You make it harder for those who really need help.
ReplyDeleteThis is why people avoid coming to the assistance of married women who complain of a cheating or abusive husband. If you advise them to leave and they end up going back to their husbands, dem go turn you to the demon who wants to destroy their marriage during their wedding anniversary.
If she had any close friend who advised her to stop being disrespected and get out of what she had implied was a toxic marriage, that friend has now become public enemy no. 1.
Anyway, I don learn that lesson since. If anyone comes to me dey cry over boyfriend/husband, na look I go just dey look you dey tell you "sorry. God is your strength".
BVs, una don hear? Dem no dey put mouth of husband and wife matter. Mind your business o
ReplyDeleteI personally don't know why Annie is apologizing.
ReplyDeleteNo woman wants to feel like she's sharing her man. Also, the family openly battled against her. I'm sure she felt like she was going mad and she needed to let it out. It's natural to want an outlet when you feel like you're not being heard.
Anyway that's what comes with who she married. I personally think the person at fault in all of this is TuFace, because if he had set boundaries from day 1, everyone would know their place and a lot of this would've been avoided. There is no way Pero should feel bold enough as a babymama to taunt Annie on social media. Ask yourself what does he tell Pero that gives her so much boldness?
Annie, if you're going to remain in this marriage, try to find a good therapist to be venting to. Because this is not the last time this will happen: your man clearly has issues with setting boundaries and being transparent.
Plus in laws who openly show they dislike you? My dear, GOOD LUCK! You will so need it! Alongside a good therapist as well.
There is no way Pero should feel bold enough as a babymama to taunt Annie on social media. Ask yourself what does he tell Pero that gives her so much boldness?
DeleteRest ma! even after the Pero has made it clear that her hands are not in the matter. You are seeing the apology of someone who has realized her mistakes and blamed others all along and you are still making excuses. Tell her the truth, she needs it for total healing
Yes i agree sometimes you have to let things out no matter what. It can make you develop serious mental illness if you bottle up frustration. Its part of working through issues. Let it out, process it and learn to live with it
Delete"Allowed My Anger n Emotions ,To Make Me Act On Something That’s Wasn’t True Cos I Was Kept In Dark !"
ReplyDeleteDoes this mean Pero was innocent of the accusations and insults people have been giving her?
People, let's avoid social media when emotional. Once it's out there, it's out there.
But they claimed he married Pero, nonsense.
DeleteWhat a drama queen😂!!
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Annie!! Wish you all the best.
Why should a woman knowing fully well that her husband had baby mama left and right before they got married stars to complain about her husband give attention to them. This apology is medicne after death. the damage has already been done .she has permanently dented the image of her family relative and in laws for live.If I were her relatives and in laws I will stay very far away from her because she is very dangerous could leak any sensitive information given to her when when her anger takes a hold on her.
ReplyDeleteGbam!!!!!!
DeleteWhy should a woman knowing fully well that her husband had baby mama left and right before they got married stars to complain about her husband give attention to them. This apology is medicne after death. the damage has already been done .she has permanently dented the image of her family relative and in laws for live.If I were her relatives and in laws I will stay very far away from her because she is very dangerous could leak any sensitive information given to her when when her anger takes a hold on her.
ReplyDeleteI concur, I used to pitch my social media tent with Annie but she just dropped the ball on this one. Face your husband abeg and if he’s not listening to you make a decision to stay or live with it. As an in-law I’d be giving her a wide berth forever despite accepting her apology.
DeleteA baby mama position is not recognized in law, so she better get her own man. Bitterness will not help her. Na Annie we know.
DeleteI just like the way she admitted that she is not perfect and accepted her mistakes.this is a good move and I like it...any sane person will definitely know that family is everything and that person who tells you the naked truth worth to be close.i hope eke joy will learn from this.happy birthday Annie and enjoy your day in peace.
ReplyDeleteAnnie, next time, make it short and simple.
ReplyDeleteA simple "I am sorry I acted how I wasn't supposed to act towards my family" would have been OK. Now people are going to scrutinize and talk. See the lame birthday wish that your husband made for you self.
BTW, you are not 37, you had your first kid at 26. I still remember that post vividly. No come dey form tata for here abeg, save the drama for soap opera.
Happy birthday Annie, I wish you what you wish for yourself, age gracefully 🎂 🎉 🎊
ReplyDeleteI ain't gonna read all that, but I wish her well. There is absolutely nothing wrong in hiring a therapist. Therapy is a firm if self-care. Life can take a great toll on all of us, nobody is immune to the demands of this world. Get care where it can be found.
ReplyDeletePeace be unto you Annie..
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday to her
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Annie.
ReplyDeleteWe have heard Annie, and on behalf of all the people you table your matter give online, we don conclude to forgive you. No do am again, you hear?
ReplyDeleteYes ma 😁
DeleteAfter all these, will you stay inside your home and live your life as a wife and mother?
ReplyDeleteWhat lessons have you learned?
Or any little thing; even a fart from your husband, you carry it to the internet?
Think,
Think,
Think and of course, change! 😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐
As long as the man is the breadwinner, many in-laws will always hate the wife. Just satisfy your conscience and ignore them. Someone will always hate.
ReplyDeleteNa so.
DeleteIts a pity....Happy birthday
ReplyDeleteUs Scorpio women don't play about our men. What is ours is ours. We're very possessive and loyal by nature. At times we can be so jealous but we're coming from a good place.
ReplyDeleteYou get it fellow Scorpio, when I got to know she is a scorpio I knew she ain't going no where and her reaction has been an accumulated warning and perception. Good to air it for parties involved to adjust.Loyalty is what we stand for♏
DeleteHappy birthday Annie.. Its well with you
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday and remember to bring this letter to court.
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