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Tuesday, January 11, 2022

Dance Queen Kaffy Confirms Her Marriage Has Ended And Explains Why....

Kaffy, a Popular Nigerian professional dancer and instructor has confirmed in her new podcast ''JustKaffy' that her marriage to her husband, Joseph Ameh has crashed.









She declared that she’s single but not searching.

There were rumours sometime in 2021 that the couple were separated; however, the dancer refused to address this.

Kaffy revealed that she was bitter in her marriage and that taking a chance to breakup her marriage was to see both parties grow in their different career.

According to her, marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies but hers didn’t work out that way.


The dancer said, “I wanted to see my ex-husband in his best version, so taking a chance to break this marriage was also to see that we both grew in what we are really supposed to be. Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies driving towards a place God wants for them and mine didn’t work out that way.

Separation is not the end of life for both parties involved, in fact if you both are honest about why you have to go apart, you will realize how much better life can be. I was in a bitter place when it comes to my marriage, I was frustrated and angry but got freedom from that space and I’m in a space of healing and open to new relationships.

“I look at my ex-husband now and I don’t feel a type of way, but wish him the best. I’m single and not searching.

“Some people make it back, some don’t; what is ultimate is the outcome borne out of love, rather than looking at someone as the problem, you may be the enabler of that problem.”


Kaffy got married to Joseph Ameh in 2012 and they have two children.

from dailypost

108 comments:

  1. Boy oh boy!

    Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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    1. I don’t get it is a career more important than a loving relationship… same thing happened to shaffy Bello… that one was for fame and fortune… what about the innocent children littered all over the place… they did not ask to come into this conditional mess

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    2. The man na chronic cheat

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    3. What I saw there is she earned more money than him n was more ambitious.

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    4. Anon 13:38 both are important, your career feeds you, you can’t live on love alone. That’s why we have a lot of lazy jobless girls flocking around like chickens, waiting for a man to feed them.

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    5. Take whatever you see if you open eyes fuaaaa marry Benue man. They bathe with weeds and do little or nothing to contribute financially in the family setting.

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    6. As long as the children aren't affected and get more love when the parents are apart than together, I support.

      Sometimes being the best version of yourself is best.
      Some people see cold marriages as successful, marriages where parents go years without sex or intimacy,as long as there's no violence.
      Sometimes parents feelings are valid too, why stay where there's no love, your children will watch that and treat their future spouses the same way.

      As a parent, you matter too, these kids will grow up and leave you to their own homes, if you get too attached, it you become the "over bearing mother-in-law".
      Please do what makes you happy too
      Good luck to kaffy and her hubby

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    7. About this Benue issh. Abeg is Queer openly accepted in Benue? Am shocked@ d things I see over there

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  2. I am now, more than ever, CONVINCED, that marriage, love, wealth , good luck, health, long life, blessings staying permanently in ur hands, all depends on the kind of HEAD you came to this life with. You can never use another person’s life to judge your own. It is your head you should beg whenever yips want good things .

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  3. Na me give you heads up oh, sdk 😁

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  4. Danced it away, just like that?

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  5. I see "ended," I see "separation," which is it? This is so confusing.

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  6. Kayan Mata don expire.Who marries a boy she's 8 whole years older than?🤔
    Bye e e e e

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    1. Be nice anon.This comment is hurtful.

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    2. Because all the marriages that have been crashing up and down, the women were older than the men, abi? The way some of you reason eh!

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    3. Maybe the husband was constantly using that, u r older than me, I didn't ask u to marry me,if not for me etc.... Cos I don't get how Happy Kaffy cld b bitter in Marriage

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    4. Wow! You must have sold the Kayan mata to her to have this first hand information…

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    5. The Original ShugarGirl11 January 2022 at 21:42

      Aha don't say that. It happens o

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  7. Husband in the house. It is well with people leaving their marriages

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  8. Jesus!! I never ever ever expected this...Oh na wa oh....Satan you think you are working overtime but you will forward lose the battle....Hmmm na wa oh...Oya gist loaders and decoders over to you...

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  9. Eeeeeyah, may God be with her. I so hate divorce but i don't blame the parties when it happens.

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  10. Satan take your hands off marriages in Jesus name.. amen.

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    1. Folks should also choose wisely rather than just jumping into marriages they know won’t last. Some break their deal breakers and later regret it. Stick to your deal breakers and also pray!

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    2. 21:18 u may sound harsh but the truth is bitter. Many times we overlook those deal breakers only to suffer heartbreak in the long run.

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  11. Geeezzzzzzz.


    Lovelace

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  12. Feel so sad about this. It's well kaffy

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  13. The writings were on the wall

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  14. Back in the days it used to be Hollywood marriages that didn't last. Nigerian celebs have caught on

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  15. No. You have to heal completely. Before jumping into a new relationship

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  16. Awwwwnn, so sad. May God fix it

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  17. They may have both felt unfulfilled or trapped in the marriage. Feeling if they weren't married they would have gone far in their carriers or their lives would have taken a different turn. Hmm is marriage for the faint hearted? no, do other couple feel same time to time? yes, no wonder it is said that marriage is a work in progress. The difference is the willingness and ability to want to weather the storm.

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    1. Exactly...
      Push through, but sometimes some spouses don't even want to try and they keep pulling you down.

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    2. Careers* 😒

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  18. Never could I ever understand why she married that guy. But then again, she was a dancer in the entertainment industry. Happy for her growth ✨

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  19. I like this. Sometimes it just doesnt work out. It is good to separate without animosity and put the focus on the welfare of the kids.

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    1. You like this? You like what God hates?

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    2. I'm sure Femi was referring to how Kaffy's able to analyze the dissolution of her marriage without prejudice. Only a sadist will be thrilled at the idea of divorce.

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    3. Yes nutella exactly. I dont love 'divorce'. I love when 2 people that are starting to hate each other can separate and still focus on the welfare of their children. It is important to be able to realise that when you two cannot have a meeting of the minds it is better to separate without animosity. Mental health is very important.

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  20. Na waa, the man is too youthful for Kaffy, I suspected that it might not last. She should take solace on the fruits of the union.

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  21. The Original ShugarGirl11 January 2022 at 14:08

    The one pain me.

    But she has given the best reason so far, marriage is meant to be an alignment of destinies.
    I pray I find mine right in this year.

    Who else knows friends/family members whose marriage is like that of Ling and Lamb's on YouTube?

    They are an inspiration and make marriage seem sweeter.

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    1. You are looking for gossip by mentioning Ling and Lamb here

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    2. Stop using people curated social media presence as your benchmark.
      Grow up.

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    3. 01:09 please tell them. Naivety of the highest order.

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  22. Where is the love again? I always wonder why will you love someone and wish to make her feel bitter or unhappy. We are not perfect humans, at least when two are together, you have to learn , grow and amend whatever that might cause an issue.
    I don't like reading this kind of sad news.

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  23. Same you is open to a new relationship, same you is single but not searching.

    God will give you the strength to pull through.

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  24. oh no nah😢😢😢 why re these people treating marriages like relationships, what you both needed was therapy, Jesus Christ😔 Not that there was cheating or domestic violence now o. you could ve gone for therapy instead of ending it nah😢.
    I hate divorce with everything in me,chai, this is painful

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    1. Eh heavy domestic violence plenty,she wore big sunshades many times to cover the damaged eyes.
      Same way Helen Paul ran away.

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  25. Na wa ooooo... what is happening to marriages these days oooo.... aaahhhhh!!! celebrities and their marriages ooooo... abi is this connected to ego and fame? so many questions to ask. God abeg intervene

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  26. Kaffy!!!
    So you grew by having an affair with your dancer employee while married to your husband? Kaffy!!!
    You grew with your over active libido with which this dancer boyfriend fainted after several sessions of sexual intercourse in your marital bed? It almost caused a huge scandal as people thought he had died.

    See ehn, do not make these Nigerian yeyebrities your idols. They are trashy people, even worse than you. Kaffy thinks she is a man and can be sexually promiscuous with no repercussions like undisciplined men.

    Her husband is also a community pr*ck so both of them were busy doing tit-for-tat in the marriage until the center fell apart.

    Wish them both well

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    1. Somebody show me where to faint!!!

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    2. Ameh welcome. Biggest idiot you are,may God punish you

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    3. Neighbour nkem ibiala? The alangba in their ceiling

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    4. Hmm, I hope you didn't just tarnish an innocent woman with lies

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    5. I trust the anons to bring out full gist.

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    6. Na WA for you o. So you actually have 2 IDs on SDK Blog. This is the same person as Dr E.B. Things, that's the name he used on Linda Ikeji's blog and the exact comment he dropped there. God will punish you if you lie.

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    7. 19:29 he used to bear Dr eb things here too until sdk change am for am some days ago after a silly comment or rather accusation about shim.

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    8. He started first!!

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  27. When love goes sour, it is well with them

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  28. I pray they heal and come back together.

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  29. Now I give up 🤷 is this what marrige has been reduced to? Any hint of issues, you pack it up??? Just like that? What happened to working out the issues?? Going for counseling?? Seeing a therapist?? Are people no longer friends with their spouses? Cos I believe if you are friends, there would always be common ground for you to meet concerning any problems you might be facing as a couple. May God help marriages in this generation in Jesus mighty name 🙏

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    1. Even friendships scatter, friends or not just pray God gives you ur soulmate not someone else’s own.

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  30. Oh dear, I didn't see this coming at all.
    Marriage eeeh,na real eye opener.
    Better to leave since the real essence of marriage is lacking according to her, she became bitter.

    I wish them success shaaa moving forward.

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  31. Curtain falls! Marriage is a ship where all hands must be on deck, otherwise it wrecks

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  32. Truth be told. With the way we have re-educated ourselves from God's plan, marriage is not for everyone. And for those who still have the grace of marriage, every one of them have the type of man or woman fitted for them.

    But the problems arise when a man or woman goes for the type of partner not fitted for them.

    It is always hard to leave a marriage in which partners meet the core need of each other. Unfortunately some of us don't know what that need is. So we throw away rubies for rubbles.

    May God Almighty continue to heal all troubled marriages and give those in peaceful working marriages the wisdom to know the value of what they have. Amen

    #TheIsokoMan

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  33. I'm still in shock,I no even know wetin I wan talk...

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  34. Tolerance where are you ?
    Marriage is gradually becoming old school, l read somewhere in Asia, that people are having less sex these days, some even say it is stressful.
    And people are replacing having children with having pets.

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    1. ��������
      Sorry but this was funny
      Sex is stressful?
      Lord Jesus

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    2. Of course it is stressful. It is dirty as well.

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    3. 18:12 maybe for you...

      It is beautiful, as in beautiful.

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    4. Anonymous 18:12.. are you me??

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  35. 😧😧😧😧 And I really love this two together o

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  36. Nawa oooo. the way marriages are breaking up these days ehn😥😥

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  37. No Jesus no life,no happy marriage,infact no happiness. Jesus is the way the truth the life. They keep doing it without Jesus and it keeps breaking.....

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  38. So sad. I will suggest that Guild of Actors (or whatever it is called) should please come together and pray for their marriages. Both the married and yet to be married. If we believe in the omnipotence of God, then we should commit our marriages to Him. They way our celebrities are losing their marriage is very alarming and the touch of GOd (my opinion)

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  39. One elderly woman said going by the way she's seeing what's happening in marriages that she forsee marriage being outdated in the next ten (10) years

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  40. Damn!!and Papa number no go.. been like fam since like 05..his dad used to be my spiritual father a true man of God and himself a very loyal aburo.. kaffy is a good woman as well.. wtf?? Shit!!

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    1. I practically grew up with the Ameh family. I feel very sad tonight reading this.

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  41. God pls protect the hearts of the children involved!

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  42. God instituted marriage and if you dont do it his way any shaking will tip the boat. a lot of people marry because they fall in love (which most times is infatuation) and they think that will keep them forever after. What God defines as love is outlined in the book of Corinthians but a lot of us just love based on feelings and what we see in the physical. God created man and then a woman to be his helpmeet. If you do not know what your calling or purpose is in life how do both of you walk together? a lot of us do not even know what we want in life early, we just marry then begin to discover ourselves. You now begin to realize that the person you are married to who has also discovered himself do not even have the same goals. Except both of you walk together in that journey of rediscovery then you can be sure there will be chaos.
    Another problem i see in marriages is that people do not yet have a deeper understanding of their roles in marriages. Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church and wives submit to your husbands. it is as simple as that.. yes someone might say what about those who are not Christians? if you check truly good marriages that have lasted there is that unity of purpose, love where both parties give and take and a commitment to make in work from husband and wife. Kaffy has always come across as serious minded and a woman who is focused so it is a shame this is happening.

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