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Friday, August 19, 2022

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
WRONG OR RIGHT?


Good day Stella and BVs.




Pls I want to know if I'm wrong.


There is this my brother in-law that was staying with us before but he left becos of his bad behavior. when hubby took him back to their parents in the villa, they all conspired against me that I was the reason why he was sent back even when they saw all the thing he was doing (stealing, bringing girls when we aren't home and all).




Since he left he has never called me on fone, in fact I don't have his number and I don't know if he has mine but I don't care. He calls the other junior wife and It doesn't concern me as I stay on my lane.
Whenever I travel we relate cordially and that's all.


So few months ago my hubby who is his family breadwinner experience a huge loss in his business, it was a big blow. People were calling to sympathise with us. Then a month after the incidence happens to be our wedding anniversary, this my brother in-law that has never called me since 10yrs ago when he left my home was the first to call to wish me happy anniversary and he now said I should send my account number so he can transfer some money for me so I can buy something for the anniversary.


This is someone that is still an undergraduate o, that Every time he calls hubby to send money to him and even airtime. When he drop the call, so many thoughts started running through my mind. Something now told me maybe he is into Yahoo Yahoo and want to use me.


There's this current trend from Yahoo boys that if they give you money and you use it, the next thing the person will start shouting my head o and then die. I made up my mind not to send my account number even though I know we need money seriously now cos of what happened to us. Please bvs did I do wrong or I should send it.


Thank you as you respond.





HUH? Have some shame please.. You want to send your account to an undergraduate who depends on your husband? Someone that does not call or talk to you? Please face front and dont collect a dime from him you hear?
This should not even be a conversation at all...

77 comments:

  1. Don't send your details. Tell him thank you. Good afternoon

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    1. Chai! Stella u sabi give dem.

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    2. No send oo, there's nothing Free even in Freetown...

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  2. Poster no send, even if no be yahoo.
    No let Sapa put you for some kind situation wey u no go like o

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  3. In this life, there are some people you must never beg or take money from even if you are dying because e get why. Madam, just face front. Unless you are one of those women who keep stock of who their husbands help then stylishly collect from them too.

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    1. thank you 15:06

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    2. See that your first sentence ehn, na from primary school dem done carve am inside my brain. 'No, thank you' should be part of my name

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  4. Please o don't send any account number to him.take Stella's advice.inugo?

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  5. Don't send your account number. Not because of Yahoo but it's just not right; he's still in school.

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  6. You better respect yourself as you have been doing since

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    1. Hummmm, wetin b ur name?
      Let a sleeping dog lie, biko. Wetin you no get today go plenty tomorrow.

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  7. Are you sure he is not stylishly mocking you, please don't send your account details.

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    1. Exactly. That's what he's doing. Mocking her indirectly...

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    2. Being broke shouldn't mean lack of sense

      DON'T COLLECT

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  8. Poster,Your suspicions are valid but might not be true.The keyword is TRUST NO ONE.
    It will be very unfair to reject the money based on your doubts,Reject it because he has intentionally refused to reach out to you until now and not because you think he is into fraud.
    I pray things turn out the best for you and your hubby soonest.

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    1. Thank you so much. I'm the poster.

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  9. He is mocking you guys, he is not interested in helping, this is just stylishly telling you guys. "You see your life"

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    1. Gbam 15.11, seems the poster no de street wise

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  10. πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚this Stella no go kill person abeg! She say have you no shame? Poster no wan shout my head O! Jokes apart, in this life ehn, so far as whatever thing you do, makes you sleep well at night and if your time is up, you know deep down you have done right by God, case closed! If not for the bad behaviour of your BIL and your suspicion that desperation may have pushed him to dabble into yahoo, I would have adviced otherwise. But as it stands now maidia, tell your hubby about it or send him your hubbys account number, so long as he had once been catered for by your husband, nothing fit do you! Collect the money from your husband and spend it. Though, I doubt he would want to send to your hubby cos his intentions could either be to just pepper you without any voodoo involved!

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  11. The first question that should come to your mind is 'Why you of all people?'
    If he is capable of helping let him send the money to his brother.

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  12. Don’t send any account details to anybody, you will become a laughing stock in that family.
    I believe in due time things will turn around for your family in Jesus name
    Merryment

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  13. Please don't send any account details. If he really wants to help,he should send it to his brother not you.

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    1. Exactly, to his brother account.
      It's a phase, it will pass

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  14. Madam, don't send your account details. Just endure whatever you and your husband are going through.

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  15. If your mind is this troubled, then don't collect the money

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  16. How much would such a person that begs for airtime even be capable of sending you? He may even use it to make jokes and mockery of your family in future that if not for the money he sent you, that you guys wouldn'nt have been able to feed.
    If I was the one, I would have told him immediatly during that his phone call not to worry about sending me money that the Lord has been providing for us. Not in an angry or sad voice o. I will also thank him very well for his kind gesture but I WILL NOT take money from him.
    I would rather beg my own family for the money, or maybe friends.
    I wish you the very best!

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  17. Since you already have adoubt about him and his source of income,then just follow your instinct.

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  18. Please tell your husband,Don't be harsh on him cause you don't know his intentions yet. Yes aside from mocking you he could be repentant already and there isn't any set rule that an undergraduate can't make money, just let your husband handle it and further find out his source of income.

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    1. He is repentant? Can't he send the money to his brother? Based on the background info she provided, I would say that he is indirectly mocking her.

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  19. Please,respect yourself,have dignity.

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  20. Sorry for what u'r passing through. May your husband bounce back to his feet

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  21. Poster don't send your account details oo, shi shi, he won't send. He only wants ts to mock you. Keep ignoring him like he has been ignoring you all this while.

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  22. Poster, pls don't send your account details to him. He may not be into Yahoo Yahoo, but the whole narrative sounds strange. Keep praying to God for a way out of your present predicament. In due time, He will come through for you and your hubby.

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  23. πŸ˜œπŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…. I see this as tales by moonlight. Shouting my head my head and die after spending Yahoo Yahoo money. Nothing person no go hear for here. As per your brother in-law. I feel he wants to mock you by asking you to send your account details. He might not send the money if you send your account details. Come to think of it. How much do you think an undergraduate can send it you Keep it moving. Nothing last forever... This phase shall pass away.

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  24. The guy requested your account number to mock you. I hope you haven't sent it sha. Send your account number to God and tell Him to bless you financially.

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  25. I will be writing about my experience.
    This might be a long read.
    My sister's male friend once asked me to purchase something for him online, and that I should send my account details for him to send the money. According to him and from what I saw, his phone was faulty. I didn't percive anything wrong, so I sent it. But what happened after is what shocked me the most. Please note, he didn't send any money. A few years before this happened, I had been perciving in my spirit that someone wants to use a love charm on me. A few days after I sent my details, this guy bought a fruit wine for me. I was thankful and kept it in my room, waiting for the food I will cook to go well with the wine. He didn't talk about what he wanted to buy anymore. Then I had a dream. In that dream I saw myself pick the wine and smash it on the ground. After I prayed, it was revealed to me that he did something to the wine, and if I drank it, I would have been enchanted, start sleeping with him till I became useless. That was his aim. The account details he asked for was just to know my full name.

    Be wise as a serpent, but as gentle as a dove.

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  26. In my own opinion,he is only mocking you, Knowing that there's a financial set back in your end.

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  27. madam na so your condition don reach way you want collect money from small pikin way still dey school, him never start to dey work na from where him go see money send you. This one na laugh him dey laugh you oh abeg leave him money for am and face front. God go bless you with your husband.

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  28. Even if he's not doing yahoo, he should call his brother and send his brother. That's the proper thing to do. He's just mocking your current condition. Tell him thank you but it's not necessary

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    1. No it’s not the proper thing to do
      Are you people saying this Nigerians at all. Nobody that wants to give small gift ever gives it to my father. It’s deemed disrespectful and too small for “oga”. They either give to the children or sometimes to madam knowing fully well that oga will hear about it and be happy with them

      The real issue here is where is he getting money. Just ask him. Maybe it’s yahoo or maybe it’s a small profitable gig he found. Young ones are no longer sitting and waiting to finish school to start making money. If you don’t want to ask him, tell his brother to ask

      Keep in mind all his bad behavior happened 10 years ago. He’s still in school now that probably means he was rather young when he was so rough. People are allowed to change.

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    2. 16:36
      Points made.

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    3. It is 'too disrespectful' to give to oga ba, but ogas stomach is wiiiide like Abuja highway to eat the food that the money that is 'too small' will buy?
      Mtsheeeeeeeeew to the power of nonsense.
      Kwentinue propounding your smelly culture that consistently denigrates you women in every imaginable way possible.

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    4. 19:40 that’s how we met it.
      Abi all the small 100 or 1000 Naira visitors gave and mummy daddy collected, do you think visitor didn’t know they will collect. We’ve all grown up and we talk about them collecting our money and you think the givers didn’t know

      To be clear, no need to be rude to the oga in question. I used my own family as example to help this lady so she won’t think things are out of the norm.

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    5. 20:55 So you meet something in a particular way, something that is of no benefit to anyone in hindsight, and rather than choose to make a change, the lazy response is, that is how we met it? That's why this country is completely fcuked.

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    6. 20:55 So you meet something in a particular way, something that is of no benefit to anyone in hindsight, and rather than choose to make a change, the lazy response is, that is how we met it? That's why this country is completely fcuked.
      Oh and by the way, MY parents never used monetary gifts given to use as children.
      EVER.
      We're not from that kind of family.

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  29. Plz don't send oooo,maybe he wants to use it as evidence to mock and disgrace u.

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  30. Hahahhahaha y'all funny.....well is true at some point he may make mockery of assisting u at some points...who cares all the help wey una don help am nko....well I strongly blv if he doesn't have he wouldn't have told u to send ya account details....don't allow pride take the best of you ooo...and again how much em fit send kwa...is not something dat ll be huge..Las las Sha to avoid see finish u fit ignore...lol

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  31. Chai! SAPA for Nigeria........ 🀦🏽‍♀️

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  32. Stella's red pen today is 100 over 100✅. Madam, sometimes person dey big pass "how e take happen?" especially if you are dealing with certain inlaws. Respect yourself! If he calls to remind you, tell him (very calmly and nicely) that he is still a student and that you appreciate his good heart but mba! Again, we say respect yourself. So, he suddenly found your number after ten years? Wow! Time indeed heals some wounds o.

    God bless him if he has a legit side hustle though. He fit no be shady person. Some people have a big problem with general discipline but that doesn't necessarily make them ritualists or fraudsters. E fit be say una condition just touch him heart and he just wanted to send "urgent 2k" from his own little as well. Tough times don't last forever. Your family will rejoice again soonestπŸ™

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  33. If he is an undergraduate now, then he must have left your house at a pretty young age 10 years ago. And at that age, and even in the succeeding years, was in absolute control of the narrative being circulated about you amongst your husband's people.

    10 complete years.

    I've never seen anyone who will be bitten by a snake and still reach out to the snake to cosset and pamper it.

    But that is what Nigerians do. They will gallop to the Bible, fling out one scripture talmabout turning the othetccherk, forgiveness, yadi yaga yugu, forgetting that it is the same Bible that you should be gentle as what? And wise as what?

    Somebody over the years, has shown you who he is, now that money is involved you have instant regressive amnesia. Brain fail.

    Very what?
    Very good.

    Infact bill him well well.

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    1. You are asking too much of a child

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  34. Your brother-in-law still holds a grudge against you and I won't be surprised if he's gone diabolical. Of all days to call you, he chose your wedding πŸ’’ anniversary to request for your account details. If you mistakenly accept that money πŸ€‘ and spend it, it's not only the family's finance that will suffer a set back, your marriage will be on the line. Be VERY WARY and Prayerful.

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    1. Poster pray and do fasting for back to sender prayers

      This hardship should go back to sender

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  35. Poster, simply appreciate him for his thoughtful and kind gesture, turn down the offer stylishly telling him, as a student you believe he needs it more

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  36. Don't send your account details. He is mocking you. And also to save your self worth in future. Please don't collect a dime from him.

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  37. Please don't send your account details,I pray the Almighty surprise you financially soon,if he truly wants to send something,he could have sent it to his brother,God will come through for you

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  38. Don’t send even though I knw u need d moni nw. Maka see finish

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  39. Madam, don't even call him or send your acct details to him.
    Tomorrow he will start broadcasting that he's the one feeding you guys.

    Ignore him and be prayerful. If your hubby's siblings wanna help, they should help him.

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  40. Pls have some pride and don't collect money from him.God will bless ur hubby again and things will be better.be more prayerful and believe the God of impossibilities

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  41. These comments
    Omg. I was happily helping one dear friend grow her career and then she started listening to this they want your glory talk. Everything packed up. Everything she could find that I did for her, she returned. Sigh
    Y’all be careful with these accusations
    Some people are just nice people

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  42. Na WA for una, she isn't sure of his money and based it on Yahoo, young ones ain't sleeping on making this money tho some choose the wrong route that doesn't mean the guy is into yahoo. She isn't sure... Let your husband take it up from here, yes the guy might have been trouble while with you but that was years ago, what if he has experienced life out there and realized what he did with you guys was wrong and sort to make amend...

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    1. Ehyaaa, and he was waiting for one calamity to befall them before showing his remorse ba?
      Poster better face front, keep your lips sealed and your hands in your pocket.
      No let small pikin wey you senior with many years take you do yeye.

      'Being nice' my brown left foot.

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    2. It’s their anniversary na
      They are celebrating
      He won’t be the only one to send money
      Mehn you Nigerians are tough to relate with. If he doesn’t try to help now, they’ll say he was helped in tough times and hid his money in hard times

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    3. He is an undergraduate.

      NOBODY is expecting a student to give money to someone celebrating a wedding anniversary.

      What exactly are you expecting from someone still eating 'mummy taink you.?

      Shouldn't basic common sense even tell you that one should 'lovingly' decline the gift so he can utilise it for his education? Somebody who was begging for recharge card which day wantu send money for 10 year anniversary??? Wetin e wan send?
      And una no even shame small, you are encouraging someone to collect.
      Highest, he can buy gift if he wants to.

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  43. This is indirect mockery,don't send your account details to him.......... Josaria

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  44. Please don't accept anything from him, not even because of your suspicions but because it just doesn't feel right taking a lot of things into consideration.

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  45. Poster, your brother-in-law is only catching cruise on top your predicament! He's mocking you and your husband ho ha! Tell him thank you politely and never collect a dime from anyone in your husband's family no matter how much they show that their intention is genuine. Maintain your lane still, and pray for a change of story.

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  46. Poster, hope your BlL is not trying to hack into your account, because l don't trust him based on this your chronicle. If he wants to help, he should have discussed with his brother first. Please know the kind of Information (s) you shares with him.
    Licious Babe

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  47. If you send acct number to collect the money, you will belittle yourself by doing so. thus, don't send.

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