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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SHOCKER FOR CHEATING HUSBAND
Stella before I got married, I told my husband I can’t condole a cheating partner that if he knows he will cheat, I am ready to call off the relationship.
He said he would not cheat but Stella marriage of 6 months and he has finished me with infection...
Everyday we fight over different girls but you know what? I am no longer fighting him cause I am currently pregnant for another man under his roof!!!
This is his punishment ,I never forced him to marry me , he thought he can emotionally destroy me.
See eh I will leave him in 5years time stranded with no child. Please dont tell me to leave if I can’t condole his cheating habit, I warned him before marriage but he deceived me .
I agree he messed up big time for infecting you frequently but this path you have chosen might lead to regret.. It is better to leave now with the pregnancy than allow him think it is his own and then leave...The end might not be the way you planned it.... I wanted to ask you if you were so sure its not his child but remembered that it is only a woman that knows the father of her child!
Please leave him now..
Some men sef, i dont understand it. how can be cheating and still not use protection and be gifting your partner a cocktail of STDs?
Like I always say, every cheating man deserves a case of paternity fraud. Come beat me, I don talk my own. A cheater’s mental health no concern me
ReplyDeleteI hope you know your husband's family members probably read this blog. Tread gently, Madam ITK.
DeleteIf I insult u now, if I insult u now but well, let me keep letting ur frustration deal with u.
DeleteP.S my in-laws don’t support infidelity. I don’t have useless in-laws
I support you jare Eka Joy. my husband that could not impregnate me and was still cheating with numerous girls and messed up my mental and emotional health till i find the strength to shut out what the world will say and moved on. My mind nor just carry me do this kind paternity fraud to him maybe it would have serve him right for wasted my precious 7yrs building with him.
DeleteMadam it's condoNE, not condoLE. condoLE has to do with condolence, please check and verify your dictionary before you use certain words, maybe na your grammar sef dey follow make am cheat
DeleteAnon 15:14, let her family read the blog, e no matter. If you cheat, get ready to carry the trouble that comes with it. Family and friends here in now o. Na me talk am🙄🙄🙄
DeleteAnon 15:51 over sabi corrector. You cannot correct someone without making the person look stupid. Na her grammar dey make am cheat, Is that supposed to be funny? Well, it isn't
DeleteThis woman is so foolish, u are only doing urself. Why not leave the marriage. Where is ur self respect and pride as a woman. What of the psycological implication of the child u are carrying or u dont know patetnity fraud negatively impacts d child involved too. Anyway i know dis is a super story, no sane woman will do dis.
DeleteSee as I dey laugh in advance to the tragedy that will befall you if care is not taken.
ReplyDeleteIt's better to leave now and stay alive than live later and be a LATE MRS. Men are naturally wicked when it comes to issue like this, they will never forgive you.
He will torment you till you give up the ghost. You can only continue to stay if your life is not meaningful to you.simple
I am not supporting what he did but yours is more dangerous and can lead to everlasting regret or death as the case may be.
We move
As u said 5 years, you better tell him that you will care for the child alone o. So that he won't think that you deceive him.
DeleteBe careful so that he won't stab you to death.
Birds of a feather.
ReplyDeleteYou didn't cheat because he was cheating, you did it cos its in you. Punishment indeed.
You guys fit. Just do yours let him also continue his wayward lifestyle too. Dont hide under his own lifestyle.
Better leave that cheat now and go meet the idiot that impregnated a married woman. Nonsense.
Sista Jane.
You're not mostly correct. Women in matters like this are reactionary. Men push women. Nothing like it being in born. Some women upon choosing what to do to get at their husbands settle for this. Some don't even enjoy cheating out of this, some feel guilty doing it but with mind made up, hardened, no going back.
DeleteSome of these women their men cheat on are denied intimacy over time that could run into years without end, choose to step out.
This one strong ooh. I'm speechless and bamboozled.
Delete@15:31, if a man in search of something starts sleeping with a m@d woman the woman can react by going to the market square to pick a m@d man as a cheating partner right?
DeleteWhat did that proverb about cutting the nose in revenge says again?
Well said.
DeleteHah! Pls calm down and don't take decision you might regret. Why not leave for your sanity sake.
ReplyDeletePlease leave him now that you are pregnant without telling him the father of the child and make him regret cheating on you forever. your excuse for leaving should be because he cheated and infected you. This time is the best time for everyone to be on your side
DeleteSome of us are so vindictive haba
ReplyDeleteMadam better go and meet the man that you are pregnant for.
Choose peace of mind and live long
This may not end well, leave now if you can't stay anymore.
ReplyDeleteWhen will some of you even have sense? Y’all are cut from same cloth.
ReplyDeleteIf eventually you get exposed, who do you think will be shamed? Who will live with the stigma of getting pregnant by another man while married?
See how you’ve roped yourself into nonsense.
When you get exposed, they’ll say it’s your whoring ways that pushed that your 🐎 band into cheating.
All this could have been avoided by walking away. If after that you get pregnant by another, it’d already be a known fact that you and your hubby had already parted ways. Smh.
Sluttychic.
She doesn’t care what people say
Delete15:29
DeleteAre you the Poster? How do you know she doesn't care. If she doesn't care now. How sure is she that she would not care in 5years time.
Na wa! Very disgusting lifestyle called cheating...Dear Poster Please just leave your sanity so you can clear your head...How can you be receiving STDs from him...You will get burnt on this path of revenge you have decided to take, trust me you will get hurt...He might just turn it on you that you cheated first which resulted in you carrying another man's baby...Don't ever change yourself becos of what anyone does to you...Now you are both equals in the cheating game...Just focus on yourself and your baby, chart a course for yourself...All the best...
ReplyDelete"...Don't ever change yourself becos of what anyone does to you..." These are words to live by, I made this mistake of cheating because my ex was stingy to me, the whole thing blew up in my face when the guy I cheated with outed the relationship by himself, called my ex and some family members, numbers he stole from my phone and exposed the relationship, even added lies on top.
DeleteI was thoroughly disgraced as he gave them the impression that I'm wayward, which isn't true, I allowed myself get caught up in that situation, since then, I honourably distance myself from any person or situation that isn't okay for me.
Poster, save yourself and your baby future embarrassment by leaving him now, don't even tell him you're pregnant, just leave the marriage and start living seperately from him, they might never figure out when exactly the pregnancy entered but you did the honourable thing by bowing out on your own.
Hmm.... I don't even know what to say. This one choke. I don't blame the poster for her decision. Her husband deserves whatever comes to him. If one of the diseases was an incurable one like HIV, we would have been telling her different. Poster, just stay safe sha.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you are young and naive with the way you are reasoning poster. You better follow Stella's to the latter.
ReplyDeleteThis is really sad. poster please be careful. Stay away and fine peace of mind. The vengeance may destroy you.
ReplyDeleteWoman own up to your shit.
ReplyDeleteYou cheated because you wanted to cheat.
How do we know that your husband was the one that infected?
You go carry STD from your baby daddy and blame your husband.
I wan hear your husband's side of story.
Lol e pain you...Men cannot take quarter of what they dish out...Oga if you like cheat on your wife oo,you go collect hahaha
DeleteLMAOOOOOO🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteSee me jumping and laughing while people stare😂😂😂😂😂I don't care.
Poster,please follow Stella's advice.
I had a good laugh after reading
DeleteThe poster is wicked😂😂😂
Madam poster you dey play kalo kalo with your life oh. The day he discovers that the baby isn't his, he can kill you and the child.
ReplyDeleteEver heard of crime of passion? Just jejely divorce the man and go meet your lover. Simple!
She sef can kill him now for cheating
DeleteMadam this is not the right way to pay him back. What about your unborn baby, what of the future??
ReplyDeleteSince u no longer love ur hubby anymore and decided to also cheat on him to the extent of getting pregnant,pls leave him now and move on with whoever u got pregnant for.
ReplyDeleteThis one pass me oh!I will advice you leave the marriage,informing him that the pregnancy is not for him is enough to deal with him.Na forever wonder for him but don't inform him while in the house,so he doesn't kill you.
ReplyDelete**Everybody's pain is valid and we react to things differently.Take care of your baby.
You reneged on the agreement you conceived; "I told my husband I can’t condole a cheating partner that if he knows he will cheat, I am ready to call off the relationship". He did not keep his own side of the bargain like wise you. He cheated, infected you, you condoled it and went cheating yourself. Now pregnancy! You threatened to call off the relationship but did not.
ReplyDeleteIts not late taking a walk. What if he infects you again and unborn baby catches infection? Or you guys don't get intimate any longer?
Your choice, your decision.
But Aunty you actually did cheat on him too,what if you side piece gift you the so claimed infection you claim your husband has been dashing you abi you so trust your side piece to be a faithful bobo...nawa...go n sin no more u n ur cheating husband..una two fit but sha make una dey use condoms...condoms nor fit protect u from hpv sha
ReplyDeleteYou sef, you carried the infection and dashed another man, that probably has another "serious" girl somewhere. All of you, garbage 🚮
ReplyDeleteexactly, nonsense behaviour
DeleteShe treated it first na
DeleteShe treated all infections. She stopped sleeping with her husband and went out to sleep with another man instead of walking out of the marriage.
DeleteSee as I explain am as if na me be Poster.
I be Bv wey Poster tink say she deceive with half chronicle.
Poster,why not leave the marriage since your husband refused to change, getting pregnant for another man is very wrong.Mind you the man that got you pregnant will also be sleeping with another lady and you'll still be getting STD from him.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteI don't like paying evil for evil,these revenge path you choose is not really worth it .
If you stay for five years,won't you have sex with him again?
Please leave now before it becomes to messy for both of you.
2 of a kind. Enjoy
ReplyDelete" I will leave him in 5years time stranded with no child..."
ReplyDeleteYou sound like the future of five years time is in your hands
Well, you didn't ask for advice, you only told us what you've made up your mind to do already. So good luck. I hope you're ready to face the consequences when they come
Two wrongs never make it right.
ReplyDeleteYou've already paid him back by being pregnant for another.
Please leave him now that's still early.
What if the next infection happens to be HIV?
The Action you took is even woosen than the STD your horseband is infecting you..so who is the daughter of Jezebel...
ReplyDeleteThat’s the point of revenge
DeleteO my goodness !
ReplyDeleteHas it comes to this ?
You guys were just sharing fluid upandan! Now you are bringing an innocent child into this mess. Gosh
ReplyDeleteYes. He deserves what the woman did to him. Wish I can do same to mine too
DeleteSee mumu woman.. if the husband comes to give his own side now, we will find out she was cheating on him constantly and not the other way round.
ReplyDeleteSome people can never leave their ashawo lifestyle.
Only God knows where you carry infection from dey blame am for your husband...
You better leave him now to avoid the shame and disgrace you are about to bring on your head. Also remember that you go bring shame on the child toooo. Go and give the pregnancy to the owner that is if he will accept it self.
Wait ooo who get the belle? Abi na gateman? Heheheee
See your life.. shameless woman
Every one saying one thing or the other about the poster has not yet hit the nail on the head. You see the reason why that lady died chasing her husband because he was with a side chick is the reason why this lady has done this. People who have killed their spouses in different forms went through this road. For her taking a pound of flesh meant cheating right back. I do not support this in any way.
ReplyDeletePoster your marriage is dead. Don't let anyone drive you to the edge of doing nonsense for revenge. Move out.
Abasi mbok🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteHow do you sleep well at night. No let this wickedness backfire one day.
ReplyDeleteHow does her husband too sleeps well at night? Abi no be him start am?
DeleteRevenge is like consuming poison, hoping someone else dies. Sometimes in the heat of pain and anger, we make decisions that have life long consequences. I have been there before. By the time the dust settles and the anger clears, you will left with the mess that you made.
ReplyDeleteAlways focus on self preservation and the big picture. You literally could have just walked away from all this.
In 5 years, you tell him about the child and leave. He feels the pain of betrayal for a while, and like most men, eventually moves on to someone else that will now start bearing his children.
What then becomes of you and this child and the other man?
You want to waste 5 years of your life that you can never get back on revenge?
What happens when your child starts asking questions?
What becomes of your own peace and mental health?
This is the best logical online comment I have ever read as a reply to an issue. This makes so much sense without judgement or bias.
DeleteStella, Nwanyioma, even when the wear protection, after the do, the woman cum stays at the edge of their tool, and some of them, the grasses there has not been trimmed for decades and water only splash that side every time they bath. So the organisms from the ladies cum, dance Buga fiam into the forgotten wilderness.
ReplyDeleteAt home ,when doing with innocent wife, girlfriend or fiancee, the buga dancers will come out straight to the urethra opening some can rollover vum to va$ina.
These men don't know personal hygiene at all. If you put their boxers under a microscope, hmmm, make I no talk.
Infections full outside now, cheating and bad hygiene cause am.
Madam poster if what is good for you pack your kaiya and leave that marriage before that man will strangle you to death with another man child under his roof in 5years time
ReplyDeletePoster, we can only know the beginning of a thing but the END NKO ?? Hmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteWhat if this man kills you when he discovers this in the 5 years time u are talking about? Please leave now cos it might not turn out the way you plan it
ReplyDeleteIf I were you, I'd just leave for my peace of mind shikena.
ReplyDeleteSome battlesare not worth fighting
Most men that cheat will never want their partner do same. They cannot stand it, they might not even forgive such talk more of cheating and getting pregnant. Hmmm, sister get ready for the wahala that might follow when he finds out. I hope he doesn't kee you and the child in range. Thread carefully o
ReplyDeleteLast last, Na mens world o, this poster don use her hand fetch disgrace for her self, your husband cheated, e no show no body know, but your own show berekete so tey e get evidence join, Madame quit cos 1 Sense like this you no get, let us bet you ll end up miserable if you don’t leave that marriage now and go and meet your lover Dog like your husband lol , Mad woman wey Dey claim smartness, e go shock you
ReplyDeleteSo if your husband jump inside fire , you will jump in too? You also infected your side cock too if you don't know . See, just leave now that you can because as you are planning so also your husband might be planning his too.
ReplyDeletePlease leave now it might not work out the way you plan, leave now
ReplyDeletePoster you and your husband are one and Same kind of people. These your revenge won't end well. It never does. It might take your life or that of your child. No response man will impregnate a married woman. You are the one losing in this revenge. How are you sure it was your hubby was the one who infected you with std and your Baby daddy. Imagine six months in marriage and you are carrying another man's child. It is better you leave now
ReplyDeleteAnd your husband is still having sex with you,nutting is sperm on another man unborn child .what about the pregnancy owner is he aware of it?reset your thinking.
ReplyDeleteU think u are doing him, madam u are doing urself, stds right? Wait for the next one which might be herpes or hiv, by then u will wish u left earlier on, i want to ask, won't u be having sex with him btwn now and 5yrs tym. Think with ur head, getting pregnant for another man under his roof is enough revenge, don't over do it. I dnt even know why u think revenge by cheating is the best revenge.
ReplyDeleteI guess the two of you are coin of different sides. He cheated, instead of you to call his notice and leave the relationship like you promised to do before you got married, you decided to cheat and do the abomination of getting pregnant for another man. Kindly confess and leave the relationship now that its still early. Doing what you plan to do in the future will likely end in disaster that you might not be able to tell.
ReplyDeleteI think you should leave the marriage instead of paternity fraud,two wrongs don't make a right,there is no point raising another man's child while you are married to him.
ReplyDeleteA dog who sleeps around trying to justify her actions. If you have never cheated, it's difficult to start cheating and cheapening yourself. You knew your guy was cheating long before he married your silly ass. Overtime, if he is from a decent family, they will know the child is not theirs. This blog has been giving women the opportunity to justify their foolishness for more than ten years. 6 months was enough for you to be pregnant for another man right? In your delusions you believe you are punishing your husband, the joke is on you. Move out from his house and go meet the guy who impregnated you. Wait, do you even know the owner of the pregnancy. Harlot
ReplyDeleteMy darling, both you and your husband have taken the wrong direction that leads to damage,
ReplyDeleteFor how long will the deceit continue....walk away to have your body, spirit and soul together.
Poster you are wrong! Where is your honour and dignity? If you can't condone cheating, just walk away. Don't stay in the marriage and be doing cheating competition. This route doesn't favour most women, it is destructive. Princess Diana tried it and she went down with it. Leave that marriage before you both destroy yourselves. Just 6 months marriage o! E shock me.
ReplyDeleteOmo e..... Marriage is not child's play where you just ask someone if he will cheat or not; and when he says he wouldn't cheat, you just dive into the marriage like that.
ReplyDeleteYou ought to have watched him closely if he actually has self control when it comes to sex or not, since you can't condole cheating
God will help us that are still searching...... Just 6months🙄
I am the poster ….those people saying how will u take care of ur child when u leave ? Do u think I am a broke wife what happen to those women that lost their husband and never remarried didn’t they survive .
ReplyDeleteThe song of truth is not melodious.
DeleteYour life and that of the innocent child you are breeding into this mess do not have meanings to you because you only plan your actions in 5 years but dont reason what your husband's could be.
Anyway, you have concluded already and it seems nothing anyone here says could stop you, fine!
In as much as your husband is not justified, neither are you on this dangerous path you are treading.
Remember, "there is a way that seems right in the sight of a man, but the end thereof is destruction" says the Holy Bible.
Leave now so that the issue doesn't get more and more complicated!
Just some questions. The man you cheated with is he single or married and knows you are married and pregnant with his child?
DeleteYou are certainly better than your husband because you were pushed into your action as you say. But if the man who impregnated you knows you are married, in what way is he better than your husband. If he is married, and does not know you are married, in what way is he better than your husband?
Since you are financially capable of caring for your child, why do you want to stay 5 years in this marriage for the child to know your husband as Father, even if not as Daddy, before you take the child away to the real father if you do so.
Because you are financially capable, do you plan to deprive the real father of his child also by just keeping silent all round till 5years and walk away from both men? And after that who will you point at as father when your child ask for his/her father? Your then ex-husband or your now lover?
Your husband is thinking only about his pleasure. You are thinking only about your pleasure from cheating and revenge? The man who impregnated you thought of his pleasure. Who is thinking about the child? Or is the man a part of your revenge scheme?
What if your husband changes and the marriage becomes sweet for you beyond imagination, will you go ahead with your 5years revenge plan or will stay put.
What if medical challenges or the real father show up later for his child when your marriage has become so sweet, and real tests must be done.
What if the test become necessary when your child is already capable independent thinking. Do you expect praises from him/her?
Questions, questions...
Like husband like wife, you both are the same no doubt about that.
ReplyDeleteFor your life and that of your unborn baby leave before it is too late.
It is better better to leave or walk away with your two legs intact than to leave lifeless..
1 over 1
He cheated on you and you cheated back with pregnant check na
You better pack your load and leave immediately..
Good luck and safe delivery
Thank you. Except the marriage is now more than 6months.
ReplyDeletePoster you and your husband deserves each other , why will he cheat on you and you decided to cheat on him plus you are pregnant for another. Why didn't you walk away from the marriage.
ReplyDeleteThe end may be bloody
Please O, I want to ask Poster some questions.
ReplyDeleteWere you sleeping with your husband and the other man during the same period. Since your husband is an incorrigible STI carrying cheat, are you still conjugal now? Will you still conjugate till the 5years is complete? And will you still be collecting STIs for 5years?
Is the man who impregnated you single or married? Is he aware of and party to your 5years revenge plan? Will he be contributing to your and the baby's care or you both have planned to leave that for your husband as his 5years punishment. Will the man wait for 5years to marry you or you both plan to marry while in your husband's house? If the man is married, is he planning to leave his wife for you or you plan to stay as his baby mama. Or do you plan to marry another man. How many men do you Know who will agree to marry a woman who cheated in revenge and wants to come into his matrimonial home with a child of revenge infidelity.
Life is a University. This blog is a full fledge Faculty
Anonymous 20:15 I follow you ask the poster the same questions.
DeleteThe thing about revenge is somehow you will also be affected no matter how little. It takes a mature mind to be able to put things behind and move on. However I understand the pain of betrayal, I won’t even judge you on the so called revenge cheating but when you decided to involve an innocent unborn child you strayed beyond the path of what your husband did.
ReplyDeleteHave you considered all the possible consequences? You have the child, your husband forms a bond with the child then boom five years later you tell him it is not his child. What if he decides to commit suicide? Decides in grief to kill you and/or the child? He takes the child from you and disappears? Remember too you will be the one vilified in the meantime not him because you brought another man’s child to the marriage. What about the sperm donor? What if he finds out he has a child with you? Last and most important what of your child? Did he/she ask for this type of drama in his/her life? When he/she finds out the circumstances of birth do you think you two will ever have a good relationship? You’re revenge cheating was enough, but with the pregnancy it is like you brought a bulldozer to a butter knife fight.
Poster, two wrongs don't make a right.
ReplyDeleteSo what's now the difference between you and your horsband? He cheated you cheated . 1:1
ReplyDeleteOya two of you should confess your sins to each other and cry together forgive each other and go your separate ways.
Don't stay in this marriage anymore to carry out your plans think of how that your plan is going to affect that innocent child your are carrying.
In conclusion, there is no marriage here. Stop deceiving each other already!!!!!
ReplyDeleteDear poster, there's no difference between you and your cheating husband, passing another man's child or children would definitely end bad for you. You may probably be thinking of traveling out after, madam except he's not an African man, hand go reach you. Because people will not blamed him then again for cheating on you bec it's a norm for most African men. There are these"agbọrandun" that will take up his matter on behalf of him, surely it will not end well, my advice for you is to walk away with your pregnancy for another man now peacefully.
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