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UNREPENTANT CHEATER
The way my husband now cheats openly now without care is alarming and to think his father is covering up for him, what do I expect a 80+ man sending his son to check up on his gf…. Where do I go to now with 2kids, I’m working but salary is not sustainable.
The way my husband now cheats openly now without care is alarming and to think his father is covering up for him, what do I expect a 80+ man sending his son to check up on his gf…. Where do I go to now with 2kids, I’m working but salary is not sustainable.
I have begged him for money to even get Christmas clothings for the kids he refuses. I have be buying since January but now that I have to give my December salary for debt. No food at home.
He has told me to leave if I don’t want to stay again . My heart is so heavy ehn but I know God is alive.
Where do you women see all these kinds of men to marry? What is all these with cheating cheating cheating that you are all crying about? The Nigerian man/African man does not see cheating as on his side as a deal breaker...Our mothers did not leave when their husand s cheated, I dont know how they did it.......
How can your husband tell you to leave if you want to leave?Such cruelty?wow..
And you dont know where to go? You did not equip yourself for times likes this?I am so sad for you!!!..Please leave if you cannot stay anymore
Christmas clothing isn't important right now o. Get money from him and be saving up not getting Christmas clothes. Be planning for the unknown
ReplyDeleteSo what do you want us to say since he has told you to leave if you can't stay?the decision is yours not ours
ReplyDeleteWhere do you guys see all these useless men.. And you are still calling him your husband, you are better off single, than this thing you call marriage
ReplyDeleteWhat I have realized is that Nigerian women reject men with good intentions and then end up with irresponsible ones. I am not saying you should settle for less, but when it comes to choosing a life partner, you should go for a man who is hardworking, responsible and God-fearing. Don't ever marry a man who doesn't have someone he looks up to and listens to. From the look of things, there is no one you can report to that can talk some sense into your husband.
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DeleteAre you a man?
DeleteOnly broke men talk like this in Naija. Or that is what the vocal section of Naija women tell us.
How good and pleasant it would be if all women read chronicles like this one. Surely a lot more women will respect and appreciate their husbands more.
Be like say some men should screenshot, print, laminate, and pin up this chronicle where some madams go see am sef. Lol.
Wrong, no man is perfect. His good intentions may be bad for the woman self.
DeleteAnd don't forget many of these men go searching for hardworking and independent women to marry, so they can comfortably do their thing.
Many hardworking guys I know don't diss our money at the request of their woman, they only like to incur necessary costs.
So, this is still not a guarantee.
Many of the men are thrash so good men with empathy and kindness are few, so a wide variety of nonsense with enabling toxic loyalty family who don't see women as human beings
DeleteAll I can say is our mother's are strong women. But then, our fathers are different from the men of nowadays. Then I also blame our mothers for taking so much nonsense from these men. Like you and your brother(s) will return from school, tye6 will fling their bags and uniforms and your mum will order you to clear it up for them. You will be in kitchen cooking and clearing dishes while they sit and watch TV or play games. They correct girls a lot and train them cause "ile oko" so you end up being q responsible wife while men are barely trained to be responsible husbands. They are so rotten
ReplyDeleteThe truth
DeleteEven with the cheating and emotional abuse and lack of care for their own children, you'll see comments like "endure", "what are you not doing right " etc. It's a man's world, sadly
ReplyDeletePoster it's up to you to decide whether you want to stay or leave . May God help you
ReplyDeleteNawaa o... Please just save up and leave now the tide is still low, you don't know what he might do next
ReplyDeleteI hope you know if anything happens to you today your kids will till move on without you .
ReplyDeleteIf you know you are not happy please move out. God will make away for you .
You have posted this chronicle before.
ReplyDeleteDon’t go anywhere
ReplyDeleteLet him take care of his kids
You have to be strong for yourself and kids. Double your hustles. And make sure not to birth more kids.
ReplyDeleteHow do women stay in these kind of places where there is no love ,respect or happiness for them? This is not a marriage anymore cos a marriage is more than just living in the same house with a man. It is being loved,respected,valued and at the least,provided for. Your husband obviously doesn't love you anymore,doesn't respect you and doesn't even provide. Is that one still a husband or are you still in a marriage? You alone can decide what you want to do with what you have.
ReplyDeleteSave!
ReplyDeleteBut with limited income and increasing liabilities, how is that possible.
You should get a solid backup before you end this marriage else hunger will melt you and your boys.
ReplyDeleteStella why you dey use my comments cook soup?
ReplyDeleteMany men are cheats.
ReplyDeleteMajority if their wives simply lookaway
And may run their own shows on a low key, some are still loyal.
The problem here is money 💰
Poster it is well, you got your kids an irresponsible father
Big Stellz abeg check this story Wella he fit be format this person dey give you . 80years old man dey cheat
ReplyDeletePoster pls do not leave this man yet,as long as there is no record of domestic violence.if you leave,you may have to struggle to pay for the kids school fees and some basic needs alone.
ReplyDeleteHow can a father encourage his son to visit his ex?does he want his son to have affair with several women?you have got to increase your prayer life.how can a man have kids and refuses to take care of them?the devil is fighting to mess up your marital life, pls pray and remain kind and humble to your husband.he has no choice but to return to you.Another woman will not reap from where you sowed.
Hmmmm.
ReplyDeleteMe that have millions In my account no reason Christmas clothes for my daughter cos I don’t want to deplete my capital. Thank God for the generous guy I’m seeing right now, she for wear her old clothings. Madam save for your future. You no get husband
ReplyDeleteNa the generous guy capital go deplete abi?
DeleteThis is how a typical Nigerian man behaves. As if they are doing someone a favor. And this economy cannot allow someone save the way they would prefer. My sister, I wish you would ignore him. Find other ways to make yourself happy. He would be on the edge and wonder where you are getting your new happiness from. My friend and I had this conversation yesterday, we realized that men don't like peace. Shake things up a bit. No more quarrels. Find happiness in your kids or chatting with friends, watching comedy, etc. Na hom go dey find your face
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