REGRETS OVER MISSED OPPORTUNITY
Hi Stella
I have been trusting God for marital settlement. I am a 31-year-old lady.
I went to visit my friend Nneka in the estate where she lives. As I boarded a bike home. Along the way, a young handsome man also boarded the bike I took. As the guy alighted from the bike, he struck up a conversation with me and asked for my phone number.
I have been trusting God for marital settlement. I am a 31-year-old lady.
I went to visit my friend Nneka in the estate where she lives. As I boarded a bike home. Along the way, a young handsome man also boarded the bike I took. As the guy alighted from the bike, he struck up a conversation with me and asked for my phone number.
As if the devil had sent the bike rider to me, he started shouting that he couldn't wait for the guy to get my contact and that he was in a hurry to drop us off and get more passengers. I and the guy did not alight at the same junction. His junction is a bit far from mine. and I was already crushing on the guy.
My heart has been mailing curses to the bike man for refusing to wait for the guy to have my contact. What should I have done?
My elder brother said I should have confronted the bike man if he would marry me. I felt bad for the guy who was unable to get my contact.
My elder brother said I should have confronted the bike man if he would marry me. I felt bad for the guy who was unable to get my contact.
Why are you feeling bad? You should have done anything and the Bike man was working and had no time for what you both were doing...The guy should ahve followed you to your stop if he really wanted your contact....
Do you even know if you escaped a kidnapper or ritualist? A man who is not sharp enough to know how to get a woman contact no be man abeg...Maybe hes married.....Dont have any regrets, yours will come to you at the right time!!
If he was serious, he would have followed you to your bus stop. Your heart is mailing curses to the bike man on top stranger.🙄. What should you have done? Eh, you should have stayed back to give him your number na. 🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteStop being desperate my dear. Your time go come.
Delete@ Candy 👍That stranger is not for you poster. Did he even pay your bike transport? A serious man will go extra length
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DeleteI fell down laughing
Stella, abeg free us o! Na chronicle be this???!!!!😁😁😁chaiiiiiiiiii - okada crush-love!
DeletePoster there is something called happenstances...Please don't overthink and build castles in the air so quickly...Relax!!! You will find your man but don't be desperate about it...Man are like sharks; they can smell it from miles aways....
ReplyDeleteIf the man is from you and the universe is in alignment, distance can never be a barrier....Abi do you want to go the bustop and waka to be looking for him? Missed opportunities are blessings in disguise...
All the best
Funny. Poster please be calming down. . You are 31 and why this desperation? Don't let desperation get a better part of you. If you guys are meant to be you will one day cross paths. You don't need to regret anything.
ReplyDeleteIt was never meant to be....
ReplyDelete© TEEJAY
Gbam
DeleteMen are naturally 'cheesers', they go after what they want.. If he didn't go after u then he doesn't want u.. A guy that really want u will get down from the bike pay for both of u and follow u just to have ur number and know where u live..
ReplyDeleteSo stop feeling bad... He was never urs.
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DeleteI see no reason why regretting
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Leave her to keep day dreaming
DeleteAbi nightmare disguised as a dream @ Shooter Gyal. All this one for okada boarder, not even owner o. Hian!
DeleteAunty please take it easy, your own man will come, I am 38, and I don't feel this desperate. Being in your thirties as a lady is not a death sentence, whilst praying for a life partner, also live your life fully,, don't take marriage as something that must happen now or never.
ReplyDeleteOmg😁
DeleteLicious babe
Things have change some men nor they waste time again you like me yes or no men keep moving
Delete03:38
DeleteSuch men who are impatient never get the best men
wetin come be the Crux of the matter now ? 🙄
ReplyDeleteSometimes just enjoy
Deleteooh lawd ! 😂
DeleteThis one too na chronicles?? Ovoko! 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDelete😀😀🤣
DeleteLicious babe
🤣🤣🤣🤣 poster!!!
DeleteStop being desperate...if the guy really want you, he would have followed you just to get your contact
ReplyDeleteSo what if you guys exchanged contacts and it still did not work as expected. Let it go please
ReplyDeleteYou are too desperate
ReplyDeleteLike!!!
DeleteSo you’ve potential husband or potential ritualist or rapist. So any fine guy contact you lose you’ll be crying? Odiegwu
ReplyDeleteBabe please calm down and enjoyed your single hood. Marriage isn't easy oooo lol
ReplyDeleteWetin sef 🙄
ReplyDeleteMake una no dey push all responsibilities give man every time abeg,. Why must he follow her to her bus stop? A focused man no dey give fvck boy vibes like that abeg, he has started by asking her of her contacts, she supposed to meet him half way too..
So what's wrong if she sef stop at that bus stop? I'm pretty sure the guy would gladly pay for another bike for her sef..
Ritualist ko,. Ritualist ni🙄
So na okada ritualist dey enter? Ritualist wey no get motor🙄 the things (lies) women tell themselves to feel good ehn😏😏
Even her brother know say she no try, she sef know, but Una won twist everything come blame the man..
Make Una better begin tell unasef truth for Una good..
Men are naturally chasers ko, as bingos wey we be nah..
Mtcherw
Lawd have mercy 🤧😂😂😂😂.
DeleteThis is so hilarious 🤣🤣.
Lmao @So na okada ritualist dey enter
DeleteAt 31 fa? Aunty take it easy o
ReplyDeleteGifty
Stella stop thinking the worst of men naa. It wasn't meant to be.
ReplyDeleteHonestly, stella's blue pen is always biased against men in every chronicle and in favour of the female posters even when it is not necessary or when the full story is not clear.
DeletePoster, do not be desperate for a man or else you may fall into wrong hands.
Stella is not baised to mention about kidnappers and ritualistic, her advice, and opinion are very valid. I also think that the post should be very careful and not to loose guard even if the bike man seems to be extra nice, most of them are robbers and spies for kidnappers and ritualistic.
DeleteLicious babe
Honestly, God perfect ways and perfect timing is the best. If you are to meet that man again you will. You are trusting God but you lack faith. You want to tell me God does not have the ability to make that man cross paths with you again if he is the one? Why are you trusting a God you have no faith in? This is why God get angry with us and tired of us, we still lack faith, just talking empty talk and wasting His time.
ReplyDeleteAn expectant heart is a restless one, one will be watching and asking for signs from every interaction with our desired gender.
ReplyDeleteCalm down!
It's good that you're visiting friends and having an active social life, there will be other social events you can ramp up on.
About this incident, next time politely tell the bike man that you will add small money for delaying him(just add 50# to the t fare with a smile).
Times are changing subtly, men on social media are being told that women are a financial burden. So, don't be surprised that some guys are now more hesitant before asking for your number, these days guys don't pursue too much because some feel it's going to set them back financially (that's to say sitting back and waiting to be approached may not help much).
Be interested in people, strike up conversation and discuss intelligently, this will make you attractive and guys will find it easier to request for your number. My mindset is if e no work for marriage relationship, e go work for business contact at least (both ways I win because I do a lot of advertising on WhatsApp so I need plenty contact .
It will happen for you sis, just keep praying and working on your social skills.
PCX
If u really wanted d man...u should have told d bike man to go...then u take another bike
ReplyDeleteBike man that was just being a hater,. Cos how many seconds does it take to exchange numbers
Deletethat guy was never ready to get your contact, if he was immediately he saw you he would have started the conversation on time. Another way he would have collected your contact even when the bike man was still complaining, is to ignore him. He would have told the man he will give him additional money just to get your number if he wanted it. lastly the guy would have followed you to your bus stop if he saw his wife in you.
ReplyDeletePoster drink chilled wine without alcohol while you pray to God for your own. No need for regrets cos that guy was not sharp and ready to wife you. If is God sent somehow you both will cross path.
Write down your number in small pieces of papers and put inside your pockets and hang bags. Next time before a man even finish asking for your number you should already have it handy, even if bike man is inpatient and driving off, throw it at him and scream as he drives off “caaalllllll meeeeee!!!”
ReplyDeleteNo gree for anybody my dear.
I love this! 😂
DeleteVayolence taketh it by force. LoL 🤣🤣🤣.
Delete"Caaaallll meeeee! Really??? This is hilarious.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteLol
DeleteHmm...
DeleteHahahaha
Delete🤣 lmao you are not nice
DeleteLmao!🤣🤣
DeleteLmao 🤣🤣 Instead hand out your complimentary card na
DeleteBabe are you boiling like this because of a stranger that's not even serious in the first place?
ReplyDeleteI know desperation when i see one, relax 31 isn't too late like that o.Habamana!!
I doubt this poster is 31, because which 31 year old is this desperate, just because she wasn't able to give a guy her number 😒
DeleteI'm not gaslighting your pain dear, but you're sounding thirsty, and not in a good way.
Uhhm na wah oh ,end time has really come that the kingdom of God suffereth violence and only violent taketh it by force
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DeleteMaybe he isn't 'Your Man' afterall, So let it go, be prayerful and hopeful.
ReplyDeletePlease don't be too desperate because you've set a time frame for yourself
ReplyDeleteI boarded a bus 18yrs ago,my now husband boarded the bus because of me,he would have crossed to the other side of the road but he wanted my number. He sat beside me in the bus but I didn't even notice him,he had to drop at Sango other because of me
ReplyDeleteHe said he didn't want to ask for my number in the bus he thought I would embarrassed him but as soon has I dropped at Sango he also came down and asked for my number which I gave him.
He called me in the night to tell me he would want to marry me.
We got married 9 months later with 4 kids now.
Our children do make gest of us today after hearing how we met.
A man that wants you will do whatever it takes to have you, no distance nor barrier can hold love
This kind of thing bothers you to the extent? He may even be a play boy. That's how my neighbor stops people to get their contacts with all seriousness in his face. Abeg. I don't even fancy those that stops to get contact self. (that's just me ) Majority of them like that are players. You have never had a interaction with the person that caught your interest, you just saw the person walking pass and fiam! 'let me have your contact', Even if it works between you and him for a serious relationship, he will still be a play boy in that relationship. I don't have strength for such category of guy.
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DeleteOk dear
DeleteGod will bring the right man.just believe and hang around in the right places
ReplyDeleteI am 39 years old and single. Should I go and kill myself poster? please calm down. If it’s meant to be, you both will meet again. It’s not your fault. It’s good as you followed the bike man to leave, at least you didn’t show you were desperate. Every disappointment is a blessing. That guy is just an acquaintance and not someone you know. Trust God to bring a good man your way. Don’t be desperate so you don’t make a big mistake you’ll live to regret.
ReplyDeleteDoes it means that once you meet a guy and he says 'hi' to you just a greeting for your mind he wants to marry you???
ReplyDeleteYou boarded the same bike, I guess. Why did he wait till he was about to alight before asking for your contact knowing you were not going to the same destination??
Don't blame the bike man , the guy wasn't ' sharp' then.
True , love can be found anywhere but don't assume that any guy you meet must have this intention for marriage.
He is not your man,if he is he would have alighted with you and collected your number,dont worry yoir right man is coming,even if you are in a hole he will see you and marry you........Josaria
ReplyDeleteMy dear you are quite desperate. First of all which one is this love on top of okada. A man pressed up against you on a bike liked what he felt and decided to collect your number to feel some more. That’s simply what happened. The bike man knowing that the both of you could not possibly be serious minded decided to face his money and move on. Ask yourself why the guy didn’t come down or calmly tell the bike man to hold on. It’s you, Madam society has told me I’m aging out that is crying over what would never have passed knacks and texts. Sad. You think men cannot see the desperation and eagerness in your eyes when they approach? If he felt the same way you felt after you people were pressing against each other on one small okada, he would have risked the extra 100 - 300 naira to come down and toast you.
ReplyDeleteYou need to work on your self esteem and focus on your focus. Unless you’ll end up in a very sorry situation due to your desperation. Don’t be offended by my bluntness.
Hope this sinks into her desperate skull
DeleteNext time you would have quickly removed the key from the engine so that he can wait till you finish giving out your number.
ReplyDeleteYour elder brother is also aiding you in this nonsense. Imagine fighting a bike man aggressively because a strange man asked for your number. Not account number oh. Telephone number so he can fill your head with sweet nothings. Aunty please be calming down.
Have you ever wondered if this your desperation is the real reason you’re not yet hitched? Maybe God wants you to call in love with yourself and discover yourself so you don’t end up with the wrong partner?
It is well.
Desperation at its peak. If he is your husband,he will find you
ReplyDeleteYou seem to lack admirers so this one time a man finds you attractive is driving you nuts. Pele
ReplyDeleteYou are too desperate 🥤🥤🥤
ReplyDeletePoster don't be too desperate. You're just 31, God will bring yours. Do not allow some men to take advantage of you when they see that you're desperate. Pls, calm down 👎
ReplyDeleteI understand that it might be painful, but God knows best
ReplyDeleteThe desperate need to chose and/or be chosen. Poster is suffering form SEVERE PAGEANT SYNDROME.
ReplyDeleteI perceive desperation dear poster. You know, if that guy really wanted your number he would have, weda dat bike man vex or not. He would find a way somehow.
ReplyDeleteYears back someone followed me all the way from Church back home just to get my number... See these are significant efforts people make.
Even if he wasn't genuine, at least that effort was there.
We were friends for a while before we lost contacts .
So chill, I'd say he wasn't yours in the first place