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BAD SENSE OF HUMOUR
Please guys I need your advice…. How do I manage with a guy that has a bad sense of humor.eg… I told him I liked chicken wings , he said” I know why you like chicken wings, are you a witch “…. Another example is he said he sees a girl in church that looks like, me and he really likes her but never approached her, then he said “ thank God for bringing you to me, you look like her so much''
I got upset but he said I was overreacting. Please what do you guys think?

Ah e get as e be!
Looks like he still likes that girl but is looking at you as replacement? Was he joking or serious? The Chicken wings own sounded like a Joke.....
If you both do not have the same sense of humour, it may not work out oh....
Dont take his alleged humour too serious but be watch ful of what he says....In fact i dont know sef

33 comments:

  1. See just throw this guy away. There's no headway here....

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    1. Exactly! Why start a relationship when he has told you plainly you are second best. Abeg flee!

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    2. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Chaiiiii BVS

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    3. Hmmm, poster I went through the comments so far, and honestly I can't fault anyone. It seems your situation is too fresh to really judge. All I'll say is if with time you find yourself constantly irritated or annoyed and your peace is affected, leave it. But if with time you get to know who he is as a person, and he aligns with you, go ahead. Also pray.

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  2. I hate who I can’t joke with. Pls go and find who matches your sense of humour.

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  3. Jennifer Garner and Jennifer Lopez comes to mind.

    Sluttychic.

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  4. I have a friend when she’s talking to you she’ll be saying get out get out , shut up shut up. I’ll just be laughing like wetin dey sup with this girl.

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  5. Hmmm Poster that guy is a Usher Raymond oh.. 🎶 You remind me of a girl 🎶

    Most people like him use 'dry' humour to drive home some hard truth. However, keep observing him but I know from the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.

    Just relax and enjoy the flow. You sef knack some dry sense of humour like this

    Question: Why don't relationships ever go to school?

    Answer: Because they can't handle the chemistry.

    All the best

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  6. When he said this: he really likes her but never approached her, then he said “ thank God for bringing you to me, you look like her so much''

    Your answer: Haaa, are you Usher Raymonding me? 🤭

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  7. You don’t have to manage anything. If you find the person annoying and they disturb your peace just consider it a misalignment and move on. Just because you desire to be settled does not mean you should have to “manage” anything. Nobody is perfect, but nobody has to stick with someone who annoys and irritates them. If you do not understand his type of human it doesn’t mean you have to stick it out and try to understand him, nobody set you here on earth to ensure. You are free and put your happiness first. Women always want to trade on their happiness, never do this.

    Truthfully, a good relationship will only bring the best out of you. The right person will brings peace not stormy seas.

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  8. 🤣🤣🤣. OP, your toaster actually thinks you are out of his league and he is very nervous about it. That's what all the crass jokes are about. Men tend to be so dumb when they meet a lady they've got the hots for. Amateur men who don't really got game on how to get a woman eating out of thier hands.

    With time and familiarity, his confidence level should rise then you will get to know who he really is. Cut him some slack for now.

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  9. You seem to be the one without a sense of humour..

    You said you like chicken wings and he joked about it;then you picked offense..

    For the second aspect;yea he crossed boundary with the comparison..

    An advice to all;date and marry someone with same sense of seriousness OR humour as yourself.

    Life is too hard already and the last thing you need is a partner that you always have to walk on eggshells when around them.

    All these una terms and conditions eehh for relationship abi marriage eehh,God abeg oo,kuku just join Nigerian Army.

    @MARTINS

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    1. For the second aspect;yea he crossed boundary with the comparison..

      So that’s not a good comment
      Why are you blaming her for picking offense

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  10. You guys are simply not compatible because i see nothing bad in his "jokes". My husband calls me "ogbanje" because i have phobia for water (i dont even let beach water touch my legs) and we laugh over it.

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    1. Exactly!
      I also had a boyfriend who used to call me beautiful devil whenever I did something to annoy him and we'll both laugh about it. Love makes you laugh at the silliest of things. Find someone you love and not "managing"!!!

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  11. You're not compatible "sense of humour wise "

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  12. I can't deal with men that talks too much and loose, just keep watching him as you go.
    Don't hesitate to dump him if he keeps talking about the girl that looks like you!!

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  13. Nothing to be worried about,it is just that both of you are not on the same level of humour which is not a crime

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  14. You're too uptight,though,his jokes are sarcastic.

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  15. You have zero sense of humour. Please leave him and find who matches your level of seriousness. I have a friend who came to pay her condolences. She told me then "you don finally kill momsy".... I forgot my grief and bust out laughing.. why? Coz I understand her level of humor, it's dark, and me? I'm full of it. If I gist with you, you fit beef me coz you go tire.

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  16. This your guy doesn't have sense of humor.He indirectly insults you.And is a red flag.

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    1. Yup. Calls her a witch and lets her know she is not his preference. Many insults have been given under the guise of joking.

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    2. That babe is in his head o.
      Keep him as a friend for now

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    3. The girl doesn't have a sense of humour. When he said she must be a witch foe liking chicken wings, he may have expected her to laugh and order more. That's what I would have done though!

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  17. What sort of joke is that? Witch cos of Chicken wings ? Personally I dislike people that make expensive jokes.

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  18. No, op it’s you who doesnt have a sense of humor. Free him pls.

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  19. Dating or courtship is to find out only one of two things - is he/she the right person or not.

    Congratulations on a successful dating or courtship. You have found he is not for you.

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  20. Chika(hello iya boys)27 May 2024 at 20:33

    Una Relationship ehen I can't put mouth ooo
    Cos after all this advice una Love go come dey stronger self
    Happy sense of humor o.

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  21. We can't have it all in a relationship but there are some important things that should be in place to keep it going.... Poster you know what you want. Does he fit in??

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  22. I’m the poster and I thank you all for the advice, for now I will take my time to study him and also let some jokes slide.

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    1. He has very dry jokes..just keep studying him. If it's something you can't take, please let him be

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