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Misunderstanding and Unfounded Resentment

My mums elder sister's son and I had so much in common - same age, same secondary school, same class, and even left school on the same day. However, our paths diverged after that. I went on to university, while he started working immediately. He began earning a steady income before me, and I thought nothing of it.
God was kind to me and I did my youth service in a good company. I saved every penny I made while serving. I got a job immediately after service and started saving also. My only goal was to build a house for my mother and sisters. Dad married two wives. Mum had all girls. This made dad marry a second wife who gave him 3 boys. 

He stylishly push my mum and my siblings to two rooms in a 8 bedroom apartment he built with my mum. My step brother was even threatening to chase us out of the whole house so I pleaded with God to help me build a house for my mother and he heard me
With the help of my maternal uncle, I used everything I saved and started the house, within one year, the house was zinced and mum and my sisters packed in. We gradually fixed other things.
Last year when I visited home, I decided to visit my aunt , I met my cousin who is age mate again. We had a pleasant conversation until I accidentally hit his arm while laughing. To my surprise, he became enraged, warning me never to touch him again. He accused me of trying to suppress him, calling me names like "ashawo" and "witch."
I was taken aback, as we had never had any issues before. I opened my mouth to talk but could not. His wife was peeping from the door.
I went home and told my mother and she waved it aside saying it's jealousy. How can he be jealous of me. Like how?? I am still single, while he is married with children. He started working before me..
I later discovered that he had a dream where I was chasing him and was told that I was using his star to shine. His elder sister revealed that he had been harboring these misconceptions for years. She pleaded with me to forgive him and promised to call him.
I am still trying to make sense of his accusations. How could I have possibly suppressed him when we are not from the same parent, his progress does not add or remove anything from me. Moreso he has so much going on for him as per marriage and child bearing while I am still looking up to God. His words still hurts
I am at a loss for how to handle this situation. Should I confront him again or just let it go?.

Confront him? what if it turns physical? Please just let it go and stay away from him please...Some people believe in their dreams and nothing you do or say will change their mindset......Stay away cos it may also be jealousy passed from mother to child....