Have you ever double dated?`multiple dated? Did it backfire or not?How did you cope? Have you stopped? Did you learn any lesson? Are you presently double dating or multiple dating`?
Some men even engage more than one person!
Saturday, May 17, 2025
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Interesting!
ReplyDeleteI'm learning ooh.
DeleteAt what age can someone starts dating?
@miss H, always acting naive but deep down you're not. Which kain question be this? Are you not 18+??
DeleteMtcheew
I couldnt double date they would all expect s.x and I didn't believe in fornication so I stayed on my lane.
ReplyDeleteDated one person per time.
A friend on the other hand, quadruple dated. Anybody that toasted her was automatically added to the list.
On her birthday and val's day is when her secret use to leak. Some boyfriends thought they were being romantic by showing up unannounced to surprise her but they were the ones who were surprised.
Lmao @they were the ones who got surprised.
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DeleteMy belle o
Double dating hardly ever ends well. You cannot have your cake and eat it.
ReplyDeleteI belive in one man at a time, that is the school of tot that I belong to. Is not easy to double date especially when you are a learner at it but some people are good at double dating that is very difficult to catch them while enjoying it.
ReplyDeleteDouble dating is not advisable no matter what just stick to one person at a time.
I never did. Na big work abeg.
ReplyDeleteI'm one to love one person and stay put! If it doesn't work, then I'll move on. I can't be with someone I don't love which double dating does (love one and play with one, na yeye behaviour abeg).
With double dating, one will just not be honest, na so so lie lie 🙄. Naa, it has never been my thing.
ReplyDeleteI was 20years in my 2nd Year in the University, i came back Home because of ASSU strike.
I met a Young Man working in a Telecom company, He was A Church Goer, Always inviting me for Church Services, i went twice.
We Held Conversations Well, he told me of his Future Plans.
3months after he Invited me to his Family House . I got there , we had our Dinner and I told him i needed to leave since i had Curfew.
He told me to come/ collect a Novel in his Room and i Innocently went with him, seeing that this was not my 1st time been in his Room.
This Demon Locked the Room Door and Removed his belt that i was cheating on him and he will teach me a Lesson.
I Fearfully asked him Who and Was i surprised when he Called a Name, this Name is Someone my Parent's Neighbor had introduced to me.
I wasnt Scared again because he was a Friend to a Friend. God i was Beaten Blue Black and Then He said he wanted S"x.
Meeee!!! I told him i would rather Dye than allow him have his way.
We Struggled 4 Hours, He continued beating me.
When he got tired, he started Apologising that he was misinformed.
I cried from 11pm to 5am.
1) My parents will Kill me for sleeping out.
2) I was Innocent.
3) My Parents stopped beating us all wen we were in Year 9. But see me been beaten.
I left from there to my Cousin's House.
I told those ones that i was almost kidnapped.
My Cousin told me Home, My parents gave me 1st aid and i slept off.
Later in the Evening this Pig came to my House and Guess wat he told my Sisters what had Happened and said it was because He Loves me.
That was the last i saw him UNTIL 5 Years later with 2 Kids we met in a Birthday party of A family Friend.
Guys..... This Demon is my Childhood friend of My Husband.
It was there in my Party i told my Husband and my Husband insisted He was going to intro me as his Wife.
He sai Babes, You are now my Wife and Mother of My 2 Children, Do not be Scared.
I had to Take Shots of Whiskey to calm my Nerves. When we walked up to him, This Demon said Guy" is This Your Wife??? Small World indeed.
Till date, i do not know How that Meeting when because i was Drunk.
So Yes i was beaten to every inches of my Life for not even Double Dating but for Been introduced.
I hold my Husband close, i now see Mr Demon sometimes in Parties/ i Look thru him.
He is a Scum!!!
He is a demon indeed.
DeleteImagine the nonsense.
Sorry for what you passed through, this is so 😔. If someone did that to me,id report him to the authorities,no jokes.
DeleteSorry for the beating 😞
DeleteYour husband is a Gee nice guy , what a mean man indeed you should have gotten him arrested.
DeleteSorry about your experience.
DeleteWhy resort to beating when you can simply let go. Don't you have brothers or cousins that should have given him a taste of his own medicine?
Una go still gbensh
DeleteHes indeed a demon.
DeleteI was quite the dog in my day. I kept multiple women but was technically not in any relationship. I only bothered to give a proper definition to what it is I and one of the ladies had when she pointedly asked me where was the relationship headed. No woman had asked me that before. It was just loving, shagging and the inevitable break up.
ReplyDeleteDo I regret double dating? Hell yes! I'll tell you why. Double dating beclouds your reasoning, dulls your perspective and blinds you from noticing glaring red flags.
Commitment is the first mark of maturity.
Yes, I have. Apart from that one time in school, I don't feel an ounce of guilt about the others.
ReplyDeleteWomen are polygamous in nature too. Our heart knows who it belongs to even when we sleep with a hundred men. We don't attach emotions when we shag side attractions.
Not one ounce of guilt!!!! I only stick with you once I see you are the real deal and the moment I smell ur hanky panky, it’s game on!!!!
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DeleteLikee....😂😂😂😂
DeleteThey be like women fall in love when you sleep with them yen yen yen, if I hear😂😂😂
Some men are clowns and very easy to deceive
Castle don scatter table. Woman are polygamous in nature too. No time to check time.
DeleteDouble dating is mentally draining, abeg. And besides I easily fall in love. I can't love two or more persons equally. It's not for me.
ReplyDeleteI’ve never double dated
ReplyDeleteBut I was raped and beaten by a Man I considered a family friend
Years later I saw him,he was disheveled,scattered and penniless
Before the time I saw him again,before he raped me he had trucks big trucks on the road and was a big contractor
I stood in his room and swore for him,he didn’t hear me because he had finshed raping me and left the room
I swore for him and I told heaven to close against him because I went to him for help for my school fees he raped me
He will never find help
While I was still there crying his phone rang
His truck had accident and was bad then when he dropped the call,he got another one one of the truck went off the bridge at itu brigade and submerged in water
He turned at looked at me
He came to beg me
I was still crying,my eyes were bloodshot
He was scared I noticed his eye
That was the last day he saw me
When I saw him again I didn’t let him see me
He tried to reach me through our other family friend he came to my school to beg,he came to my family house
He knew his losses came from that day but couldn’t place it because I look innocent and like someone that can’t harm anybody
Fool
His daughters will be raped in his prescence
I'm happy God fought for you. In his next life he'll never try to rspd. Sorry about the experience
DeleteSo sorry about your experience. This is really sad
DeleteHmmm! So sorry, Almighty will uphold u!
DeleteWow 😲
DeleteIt's as if I was reading a novel.
How do people enjoy rape? Sorry for your experience
DeleteVery wicked man
DeleteWhich forgiveness was he looking for?
Does he know the mental and emotional stress he caused you
It's like killing someone.
May God continue to punish him non stop.
Evil useless man
I never double dated,I see it as a big problem, I mean, how do i serve two masters at a time? 🤷, check it now, one relationship alone can drain your energy, if you are not careful, talk more of two ✌🏼.
ReplyDeleteThe funny thing is, you will meet some men suggesting, you do it, just to accommodate them in your life, and how they can't afford to lose you🙄, and I will be like bros are you whining me? . 😏😏😏
The only ones I owe my loyalty to are those who have never made me question theirs. 💯👏💕
ReplyDeletePro, when they leave u, no crying, u just fall back to the other one. Con, you go dey run dey hide kiti kiti
ReplyDeleteTeam one step at a time, if it doesn't work with A move to next
ReplyDeleteHey,🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteDon't get me started, if you fuck up, I kick you to the curb and add two more to the list, men were just fighting themselves anyhow, I didn't care 💅
Men see something for my hand
My wild days are long gone
A double date is when two couples go out together for lunch, dinner, drinks etc
ReplyDeleteTwo timing is when a man/woman is in a relationship with two women/men who are unaware of each other (cheating).
I can't lie abeg.
ReplyDeleteI was in school and dating this doc. He was really serious with me, like I was a sudechick so I tripled dated. He only comes to me when he's main chick isn't around. And he's younger bro was also in my school and knew about me and his bro. The brother was very kind to me, comes around buys stuffs for me and take me and my friends out. Nothing else.
ReplyDeleteSo one day oga doc came I see me. Said we should go out and I followed him. On getting to his house I started telling him how he's treating me bad and all the I said how I wish it was Cyril that I was dating (Cyril is the brother) Omo this guy descended on me! Like he beat me blue black saying I was sleeping with two brothers. Nobody has ever beaten me like that before. I was scared. I thought he was going to kill me and I was begging him. He wanted to rape me and I resisted with every fibre in me. He started apologizing and I went back to my hotel. My roommates saw me and asked what happened and I told them. They cried with me. The nexxt day he came and I refused seeing him. He kept coming and eventually got tired and stopped. I was still friends with his brother until he left school.
DeleteBecause he feels he is stronger that's why he beat you.
Very wicked evil fellow.
To even think he is a doctor. This one go be wife beater while people will be admiring him as doctor wey he be.
Big str3ss
ReplyDeleteMen feel they have the right to double date while women should not. I was in my final year in university and my then school boyfriend was in year one. ( he didn’t start university early, in fact I met him a business man and encouraged him to write Jamb, of which he was grateful for.) Anyway, this boy was dating other girls and will be sharing his escapades with me, while I was keeping only him since my year one.
ReplyDeleteHe slapped me ones, tell his friends to come and mock me to my hearing, saying things like I am not beautiful and no man will find me interesting. A lot of things he did to me. But the one I will never forget was the slap. I planned my exit very well and it worked as planned.
I ones came back unexpectedly after school holidays and found out he has gone to Benin with a jambite but because I had his spare key, I let myself in, only for them (himself and his jambite girlfriend) to come back after 3 days. He didn’t know what to do. He took her out and later came back. So many things he did that I can’t write now.
Then I went for my youth service and I bought a diary and started writing my daily activities which consisted of going out with someone who was madly in love with me and all the things he bought me. As a 25 year old girl I had a lot of men wanting me and they all live in Abuja and was doing well for themselves then (25 years ago). I refused to go visit him or call him on his landline. (Then GSM only just came out and was very expensive).
This man went to a native dr in Enugu Ezike and did juju for me to come back to him (serious juju ooo). One day like that I left Abuja to his house, this is someone that I didn’t want to have anything to do with anymore and because of all the women he was sleeping with he looks dirty to me. But I went oo, got to his house, he was not there and I went to market, use my youth service money and bought chicken to cook for him. He saw me in the market and couldn’t believe his eyes, he called all his friends to come that I am back. He was so happy and said I broke his heart.
After few days of my arrival, he saw my diary and read it when I went to have my shower. When I finished, I saw him crying and he told me how he loved me and now look at what I have done. He stormed out of the house and came back drunk, as if I cared. I tender a reluctant and fake apology and went back to Abuja the following week.
This man went and did another juju for me to be useless in life. Jesus Christ, This God is a faithful God. I will be dreaming always about going back to this man’s house and not finding him. For years I was dreaming about him and his house. I prayed oooo. I am tired please. In 2004, he called me out of the blue that he was getting married. I congratulated him and he asked me if I wasn’t upset? I said for what? Lekwanu okoko! Then in 2006, he called me again and said that he had gone for his youth service, I also said congratulations and that was the last time I spoke to him.
He is now the one looking for me to apologise, who knows what he is going through. Whereas, I am in a very good place in my life. God has been good to me. If not for God what would I have done. I am alive today because our heavenly father made me an isi kajara akaja. I am unstoppable. Ogbo mma ga ala na mma! Iseeeee! Meaning the juju he did for me will definitely go back to him. Amen!
You need help dear
DeleteReally? Help with what if I may ask?
DeleteWhen I was younger I double dated alot..at a point I was dating 3 guys at the same time and slept with 3 of them within 24hrs I felt so guilty but my libido was just unexplainable at that time..now in my early 40s and I tell people I have had enough sex and can do without it..now practicing celibacy 11months without s*x and I am so pleased because I knew the day I can overcome s*x my life will be very different...I have a very successful carrier and do philanthropy in my own little way, I have children. I am happy s*x did not destroy my life..
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