FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Weekend hailings...

FRIDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

I salute everyone and pray that your day is going well.........

So many good things are happening in my space right now and its distracting me oooooooooooooooh........nice distraction though...

Please if you have any business that you are free to advertise our way in the comment section and please numbers as phone number......Please post well oh cos i may wanna patronise some of you just for patronage sake.

I am actively on the road right now so cant type much......

Can you guess who called me today? A big VIP and we talked for real and OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG...lol #dramaqueenvibes

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD

My birthday is four days away, and I am super excited. My kids have been counting down and talking about how they are going to have a good day on mommy’s birthday. I even overheard them talking about the gift they would be getting. I smiled when I heard them say it.

I will be getting them small gifts, though, just to surprise them. Receiving gifts is one of my love languages, and I love to give gifts too . Since I am planning to focus more on doing things I love in this new year of mine, why not.

I have been thinking in the last few weeks about what I want for myself on my birthday, and I decided that instead of celebrating just that day, why not celebrate the whole year. I want to do this by being aggressively intentional about myself.
My needs, desires, dreams, aspirations, and more.

I haven’t been reading as much as I did before having kids, I want to make sure I finish a book and go back to school . Rest more and go on a vacation (solo), this new year of mine.

I am used to being “there” for everyone.
This time around, I want to show up for myself, no more being on the back burner.
On the day itself, what I want is to hang out with my sisters and go on a food delite trip( as a food lover that I am). I want to visit several restaurants on my list, try out new dishes, and experiment with new food textures.

 I am looking forward to the mocktails, too. I would like to go back home with a lot of takeout since I can’t eat much in a sitting because I am a very slow eater so I can eat at my own pace.
So many times in the past, I have promised to be more intentional about myself, and I have fallen off the track, but this year, by God’s grace, it will be different.

Awww this is so nice...Dont forget to gist about how your day went......I would rather wish you a belated happy Birthday than an happy birthday in advance, we dont do that here...
You sound like a very spoilt Ajebota that motherhood slowed down, I pray that you catch your groove back soon.

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INTERESTING STORY WITH A FUNNY ENDING

There's this man on my street that found out I'm a teacher, so everytime, he'd try to come and ask for all types of information from me.
The moment he sees me outside, he'd ask me something related to school or examinations. The last time, it was why Health Education was not included in the NECO Timetable his daughter showed him.

For about a week now, I've been dodging him.
On Thursday, I told him that I was traveling to Lagos for the midterm holidays and that I'd be back on Monday morning.
I completely forgot.
This afternoon, I was inside when I heard someone knocking. I quietly went to peep at who it was. It was the man.
I wasn't in the mood for questions so I didn't open the door. Instead, I quietly went back inside my room.
In my room, I heard my neighbour's kids talking... two of them.
One of them told the man, "I'm not sure anyone is around o."
"But her car is here," the man replied.
"Sometimes, they don't go out with the car," the boy replied.
Bless his little heart. Sweet boy.
The second boy then said, "Senior David is not around but I think his mother is around. I saw her this morning... and I saw her yesterday and the day before yesterday. And I heard her in the kitchen not too long ago."

Okwupuru.
"I think she must have gone out." The first boy insisted.
"Okay," the man said as he turned and walked away.
I went to the window and watched him leave.
Then from nowhere, Okwupuru's head appeared at the window looking inside...
Our eyes met.
Us:

Hahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahaha

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THE MOST EXPENSIVE BURDEN A MAN CAN CARRY: A BROKE WOMAN

Let’s settle this like men.

----A broke woman is not a partner — she’s a financial liability.

The only thing she consistently brings to the table is sex. And truth is — you can get that cheaper, with zero emotional chaos, from a street corner than the toxic, expensive ride you're on now.

---- If her only source of income is her private parts and your wallet — you’re not a boyfriend, you’re a business plan.

While you’re catching feelings and breaking your back to keep her afloat, she’s running a quiet hustle where YOU are the product.

---- Remove your money and watch the 'love' vanish.

Stop funding her hair, nails, rent, data, and see how fast those midnight “I miss you” texts disappear. That ‘love’ was a lease — and payment just expired.

---- A woman who can’t fund her own survival is an irresponsible adult, not a partner.

If she can’t handle her rent, bills, or upkeep — what makes you think she can build a future with you? She’s searching for a sponsor, not a soulmate.

---- Love without financial independence is modern slavery.

You’ll stay trapped in a toxic cycle of guilt-tripping, fake affection, and sex used as a bargaining chip. Every argument will end with “you don’t care” just because you won’t finance nonsense.

----- Stop feeling guilty for refusing to carry dead weight.

You’re not a charity organization. You’re a man with a destiny, a purpose, and standards. A broke, entitled woman will drag you into financial ruin while smiling in selfies.

----- The fastest way to know a woman’s true intentions? Cut off the money.

No dates. No transfers. No surprise airtime. Watch how she moves when you’re ‘financially unavailable.’ 9 out of 10 will ghost.

---- Men don’t go broke chasing dreams — they go broke chasing broke women.

You’ll wreck your savings, lose your focus, and mortgage your future trying to maintain a woman who contributes nothing but attitude and entitlement.

----The right woman multiplies your peace, your money, and your mission.

The wrong one multiplies your debts, your drama, and your regrets. Choose wisely.

---- Don’t confuse sex for value.

Millions of women can spread their legs. Few can build legacies. Discipline yourself to know the damn difference.

FINAL WARNING

Brother — your time, energy, and money are weapons.

Spend them like a king.

A broke woman will drain your pockets, delay your destiny, and derail your progress.

If she can’t solve her own problems, she’s got no business being in your life.

Clear your circle. Guard your crown. Build your empire.

Stop sponsoring liabilities.

Start building legacies.

by Idwurldtalks

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha women don suffer

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