MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

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Hey guys...hope everyone is OK´? Sending you lots of love..I am Online on Instagram....We are discussing some trending topics......

Lets cook sauce to be used for Rice..

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
SHAMELESS ACT HITS THIS NEIGHBORHOOD

I am not hooked on neighborhood gist but this stood out like a Nollywood drama for me so I'm telling it.

There is this Mr. Tunde who’s always pretending to be quiet and responsible on our street?
So, his wife stays in Port Harcourt, right? But last week, one fine lady suddenly showed up from nowhere, with a little child, oh, and said they just came for “a short holiday.”

Before anyone could say jack, she was inside the house, cooking, cleaning, laughing with Mr. Tunde like they were on honeymoon part two!

The child even calls him “Uncle Daddy.” Uncle Daddy? I almost dropped my garri when I heard that one! The woman didn’t even act shy, she spreads her wrapper outside every morning like she’s the madam of the house.

Now the neighbours can’t rest. Curtains are shifting, whispers are flying up and down. Some say she’s just a family friend, others say, “friend that comes with a child? Hmm, that’s not an ordinary friend.”

Since she arrived, Mr. Tunde hasn’t gone to church once. Even the gateman has started grinning suspiciously. As for me, I’m just minding my business, but this gist too sweet to keep quiet about!

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THE CRAZIEST RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT SEEN ONLINE.

While you're busy snapping to look happy online, some are very happy behind the camera without snapping.
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Relationships that sparkle are like two children playing and fighting and playing again.
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Don't be with someone you're afraid to release in their presence ... Na who mess?
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Love is not suppose to make you act normal. You need somebody wey understand your craze so una go mad together
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Somebody that will hide one leg of your shoe and you will be saying "please na, oya I promise to be a good girl, ok.. fine, I will take you out today after work"... and he'll smile, and instead of bringing your one leg of shoe, he'll bring you a new pair of shoes he bought as a surprise for you.
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Someone who you can play with, laugh with, and fight you with your pillows until the loser agrees to make breakfast for both.
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She'll tell you, oya come let me back you, u think say women no strong? I go proof you say women are stronger than men... As u dey climb na fall u dey fall be that o...
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Someone who does not work with schedule or time table, they love spontaneously. Full of life and surprises, take you unaware, do things abnormally to make it adventurous, always want to hangout with you and does not allow their spirituality prevent their romantic lives.
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Sweet love mustn't only be seen in movies because there are people living it. You may not see them online, but they know how to look forward to the evenings, mornings, and moments that passes by.
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They don't need the cameras to show the world how happy they are. They know how they feel within themselves and they treasure every minute.
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Its not all about Money, Position, class, tribe, or level of education.
Love no know book o... the only language love understand is happiness, care, fun, and affection.

Love no understand rules o... The society may say its the man who must pay the bill, but the girl in love doesn't understands that o... She can decide to surprise her guy by taking him out and spending on him.
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Love no know gender role o.... The society may say the kitchen is for the woman but guy whey dey in love no know that one o... He will wake up in the morning before his girl, go to the kitchen, prepare a wonderful breakfast for her and bring it to bed... Na breakfast in bed be that one o.
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Love no understand class o... That is why you go see guy with his Benz driving every evening to a ghetto to see one girl wey dey make him craze because she's just down to earth and fun to be with.
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So, stop burning too much energy trying to look happy in front of the cameras when you are feeling very lonely and miserable behind the camera.
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Stop pretending to be happy and start been happy.
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Keep the camera behind and put your heart in front.
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Love still happens!
Even if it is just 1% left, you deserve it.
Let not the 99% of failed relationships make you give up on the 1% left.
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Oya me sef need this love o... We're in it together. 

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Yoruba people will say 'Aiyé loyun, kó sí ení tó mo ohún ti ó má bí,' which means, 'Life is pregnant, and nobody knows what it will give birth to.' A lot of you who judge, cruise with, or find joy in another person's agony and misfortune today never know what tomorrow holds for them.

You may think a certain thing can never happen to you because of what or who you are today, but you can never know the situation life can put you in tomorrow to make you do what you never imagined you could do.

This Yoruba proverb reminds us that life is unpredictable and full of surprises. And what seems impossible today can become a reality tomorrow. When we see others going through tough times, it's essential to have empathy and compassion rather than judgment.

We never know what the future holds, and today's struggles can become tomorrow's triumphs. By being kind and understanding, we can create a more supportive and inclusive community where people feel valued and respected.

It's also very important to recognize that our circumstances can change in an instant. We may be doing well today, but tomorrow can bring unexpected challenges. By being humble and acknowledging the uncertainties of life, we can cultivate a sense of gratitude and appreciation for the good times.

When we respond to others with kindness and compassion, we not only make a positive impact on their lives, but we also create a ripple effect that can come back to us in unexpected ways.

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Reason A lot Of people make mistakes Or wrong decisions and choices.

Most times, it is because they fear being judged wrongly. They feel others may not accept what they truly desire, and they try to seek validation or stick to what others may find appealing, forgetting that their choice stays with them and only they bear the consequences of their decisions and choices.

This fear of judgment can be overwhelming, causing people to prioritize others' opinions over their own desires and intuition. However, it's very important to remember that your choices affect your life more than anyone else's.

When you make decisions based on what others think, you risk living a life that isn't truly yours. It's necessary to learn to let go of the need for validation and instead, focus on what truly makes you happy and fulfilled.

By embracing your true desires and making choices that align with your values and goals, you'll be more confident in your decisions and more prepared to handle the consequences. Remember, it's your life, and you are the one who has to live with the outcomes of your choices.

So, don't let the fear of judgment hold you back from being true to yourself. Instead, focus on building self-trust and self-awareness, and you'll be more likely to make decisions that bring you joy and fulfillment.
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