Tuesday In House News....

 Hailings....

TUESDAY MEMO

I salute you all and hope that all is well-......I need to ask this, can you smell Christmas already?That feeling, is it already there?I am slowly beginning to smell it ooooh.

Hmmm the way Universities give breaks here fora student to relax eh, i dey wonder.......... I think it is cool cos it also affords those with money problems to get part time quick jobs and make money.

Dont forget that the Stellas singles mingle post will be post on Sunday November 30, 2025........Are you single and ready to mingle?Then be in that post.....  

The last singles mingles post did people get better connections? Because of trolling, people have stopped talking about meeting on this Blog and getting married but i would like to know to encourage myself that i have built families with that single post......... 

I know for a fact that so many Blog visitors met here and married and going on strong...I do not know if any met here, married and divorced though.

I have started making strategic moves for advert from all political parties for adverts, una sabi say advert dey loadfor front and na who sell their product dey get buyers...make una pray for me to get eeeeeeh...I know that when i start posting, jealousy will rise again but na God go deal with una...Some people turned me to enemy on this Blog cos i posted advert for one party. next year, i hope to post for as many as possible so those that will get angry should buy panadol down.... I pray that i get something to be able to help those without businesses to start something ....Those of you who collected multiple business giveaway I hope that your businesses are doing well cos i will be really sad to see any of your IDs asking for help..........

There is a BV here whose husband went abroad in search of greener pasture over 10 years ago, she has not heard one word from him since then and they have kids oh...I am just wondering if he is OK or hiding away from her he has started another family..... She has been in my inbox and i always get upset on why this man has treated her like this....She will be the first on my list to empower..make thunder faya that man if he is still alive and put her thru this shameful living of begging...wicked man!!!

Today I am making chilli con carne and bulgur wheat plus all the veggies that you can think of..........

I am a little under the weather cos the cold season is slowly intensifying oooooooooo...So help me God!!!

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LIFE IS NOT THE SAME FOR EVERYONE

In today’s world, it is easy to assume that everyone has the same opportunities, the same struggles, and the same access to resources. But the truth is simple and undeniable: life is not the same for everyone.

The circumstances into which we are born, the environments in which we grow, and the opportunities we encounter vary widely. That is why fairness—not favoritism, not judgment—is essential in how we treat one another.

Understanding Different Journeys
Some people are born into privilege, with access to education, healthcare, and supportive families.

Others grow up in hardship, fighting against poverty, discrimination, or lack of opportunity.

Even within the same community, two people may live completely different lives, shaped by factors they cannot control. Recognizing these differences helps us approach others with empathy rather than criticism.

The Power of Fairness

Being fair does not mean treating everyone exactly the same—it means treating people according to their needs and circumstances.

A child struggling with learning difficulties, for example, does not need less attention but more.

A colleague dealing with personal challenges may not need judgment but understanding and support. Fairness requires us to see beyond our own experiences and ask, What does this person truly need?

Breaking the Cycle of Inequality
When fairness guides our actions, we create space for equity.

We open doors for those who might otherwise be left behind.

We give people the chance to rise above circumstances that were never of their choosing. Fairness builds stronger families, healthier workplaces, and more just societies.

Living the Principle of Fairness
Practicing fairness starts with small, everyday choices:

Listening without judging.
Giving opportunities based on merit, not favoritism.
Supporting the vulnerable rather than exploiting them.

Sharing resources where we can, knowing that some have less than others.

These simple acts ripple outwards, creating a culture where fairness is not just spoken but lived.

CONCLUSION

Life will never be the same for everyone—but fairness can be.
By choosing to act with compassion, justice, and equity, we can make the world a place where differences are respected and opportunities are shared.

When we choose fairness, we choose humanity.
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WEIRD FACTS

----85% of people have experienced a dream so real that they were not sure if it happened in real life or not.

----Be careful with your words, because once they've been said, they can only be forgiven; not forgotten.

----According to research, bilingual brains are better at ignoring distractions and are generally more efficient.

----Vegetarians on average have an IQ five points higher than those who regularly eat meat, according to research.

----You can have four to seven dreams in one night.

-----People who are too happy don’t see the warning signs of dangerous people or situations and are more willing to trust when they shouldn't.

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THE LOVE THAT YOU DESERVE

You deserve the kind of love that makes you feel valued, safe, and seen.
Never rush for attention, but wait for the one who would never risk losing you.

Wait for the person who honors your boundaries, who listens when you say “not yet,” and never forces you into something you’re not ready for.

Wait for the one who gives freely, without keeping score or expecting something in return.
The one who inspires you to grow, challenges your mind, and brings peace to your soul.

Wait for the person who makes time for you, not out of obligation, but out of genuine care.

The one who checks in to see how you’re doing, who stays consistent, and never leaves you wondering where you stand.

Wait for the love that shows up every single day ... not just in words, but in effort.
The love that protects your heart, that feels steady and kind.

Because when you finally meet that person ... the one who makes you feel deeply loved and completely at home .... you’ll realize that waiting was never wasted time ....
It was preparation for the love you were always meant to receive.
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This is simply telling you not to rush and marry out of desperation....

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