She ultimately chose to keep praying, pushing through, and expressed deep gratitude to those who supported her.
She posted
"I know how I suffered when I was pregnant
What I went through even though I was traumatized I was emotionally damaged, but I took in and kept on praying
I remember when I could not afford to pay my house rent
I remember when I could not afford to buy my baby diapers
I remember the first time when my baby was two weeks
I fed my child fresh milk
I remember when I was struggling
Physically, mentally and everything instead
I went silent for two years hoping things would change one day for my son to meet hos father but the father neglected him and I never gave up
I did what I did
I tried as a mother even when depression was about to put me down
I remember when I tied my son in my back
I went to the balcony
Wanted to jump because of the depression but one of my neighbors saw me in the balcony
She started shouting, No Helen , Helen please don't jump, we love you, we care about you.Please don't jump
I did not jump
I thought in my mind, even if I die with my child, God will not be happy with me so I keep on pushing days by day until the day it's was so hard on my side but I took this opportunity guys to appreciate you guys so much
I really appreciate you guys so much
May God keep on blessing everyone who always support me
Thank you".
She posted
"I know how I suffered when I was pregnant
What I went through even though I was traumatized I was emotionally damaged, but I took in and kept on praying
I remember when I could not afford to pay my house rent
I remember when I could not afford to buy my baby diapers
I remember the first time when my baby was two weeks
I fed my child fresh milk
I remember when I was struggling
Physically, mentally and everything instead
I went silent for two years hoping things would change one day for my son to meet hos father but the father neglected him and I never gave up
I did what I did
I tried as a mother even when depression was about to put me down
I remember when I tied my son in my back
I went to the balcony
Wanted to jump because of the depression but one of my neighbors saw me in the balcony
She started shouting, No Helen , Helen please don't jump, we love you, we care about you.Please don't jump
I did not jump
I thought in my mind, even if I die with my child, God will not be happy with me so I keep on pushing days by day until the day it's was so hard on my side but I took this opportunity guys to appreciate you guys so much
I really appreciate you guys so much
May God keep on blessing everyone who always support me
Thank you".
Silence kwa!!
ReplyDeleteYou have been nothing but silent dear
This one na new tactic abi wetin?
I watched one question and answer video of this chic and is just wild.
I am sorry to say, but I hope the hospital you are in is a psychiatric hospital. What you need is a huge mental haul/ Evaluation.
ReplyDeleteYou wanted to jump with a baby strapped to your back? A baby that didn't ask to be born by two unstable people?
shut your mouth...we all know people commit suicide out of frustration and depression so what are you on about? the he goat should go do a DNA test...
DeleteWhich country is this lady in? Is there no diplomatic ties between her country and Nigeria? Why can't she explore that option to bring the guy to order? Write to international women right bodies, complain about his refusal to have a DNA and let them flag him as a risk to other women to stop him from travelling to other countries until he takes the DNA test. Why is she making social media noise instead of tackling him heads on? Ignorance or she enjoys the attention?
ReplyDeletePascal will not be the first or last to behave this way, they're two adults, if one fails the other should forge ahead. She should've evaluated her capacity to cater for another human before embarking on getting pregnant whether she knew he was married or not.
DeleteAnon 18:50 that's quite a very irresponsible point of view.
DeleteNa them say make she go dey nack married men? This is what her likes will be getting! Women, one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself is your womb! Guard it, or you suffer!
Deletevery irresponsible....they sleep around that is why they don't want to be held accountable. you think it is easy to just forge ahead...both parties are responsible for having safe sex but these men come with their lies and sweet talk yet can be responsible...if you bring your dick out of your trousers then you should be ready for the consequences. he should go do a DNA and clear the air once and for all
DeleteHelen na you choose to embrace all those things you mentioned up there.. move on and take care of yourself and your child and leave paskal alone🤦
ReplyDeleteyou are stupid...so the man should be left alone how? he will go impregnate another person and still be not be responsible. he should go do a DNA test to clear the air period
DeleteIt is well Helen. Please can you advise and move on. It would be better for your well-being
ReplyDeleteIt well Helen, You will be fine ok.
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome
ReplyDeleteIf you have been talking calmly like this since something for don happen nah,not shouting ontop of your voice always🙄
Silence must mean a different thing than I already know. Helen and silence can not be in the same sentence.
ReplyDeleteHellen you have successfully ruined the chances of others coming to your aid, you lack respect.
Nobody forced you to get pregnant woman
ReplyDeleteDear Helen
ReplyDeleteGive your child up for adoption if you are tired.
You had a choice to abooth but you were early but you didn’t ,you felt you had game
The child is innocent
Whatever you do don’t harm him
Lick your wounds
You expected to reap where you didn’t sow
You didn’t come to hide and steal
You came to carry wholesale
Your plans foiled
If you choose daaaaaath
Do it alone
Hellen put up a GoFundme or something, there are ppl who will drop you something no matter how little they have.
ReplyDeleteSomeone I know put one up when she and her husband were going through some stormy waters with their baby and they received support enough to cover their rent and get essentials until the tide turned. People are generous and there is no shame in seeking help.
Also, look at improving your skills and education. No condition is permanent. Not everyone doing content is reaping success. Some of these content creators with even hundreds of thousands of followers cannot survive without another job. It’s only 1% of contentment creators who can survive on it alone. For most it’s supplemental income.
All the best
Go and get a day job. Your ranting is irritating
ReplyDeleteHelen why you dey lie? You have another child with another man so why you no try kpai yourself before?
ReplyDeletePlease what about her other son..? Baby daddy? Is that one not alive ? Or is the child being taking care of by the father? Oh I forgot.. he doesn't have money like this one. Helen Zuzu out biko.. this thing you are doing is now very ridiculous.
ReplyDeleteso the baby daddy should look after pascals son?
DeleteYou wanted the baby for reasons best known
ReplyDeleteto you and you have him. If it was that simple
many ladies would be baby mamas because
many engaged in premarital sex. We ladies
suffer more in situations like these so we need
to understand the weight of bringing a baby to the
world without the man's consent.
If you want to go this route, you can provided you
are able to take care of the child. I am too
prideful to do what Helen is doing.
This is your cross so carry it with pride... Next time close your legs.
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