Its Thursday shoutout and hailings!!!!
I hope that your day is going on smoothly? shout out to you and you and you...lets make today a shout out day...
Give a shout out to an old, new,ex or late BV.....
Honestly with all this unalifing talks going on, I have had BV Oluyomi on my mind and how she drank that nonsense.
I remember that BV Miss Ess saw her obituary on Facebook and attended the burial...Oluyomi was a victim of bullying.....She ended it all cos of bullying from her mum and sister.....They shamed her for everything and used to laugh at her........shout out to you Oluyomi, God keep you where ever you are and thank you for all the times you would call and say ''Stella are you in Paris? In house news is late!!''........hahahahahahahahahahahhahahaha na Sandra take over oooooh Oluyomi.
Ooops istill dey type and 2 don nack....
LOL......Sandra maami biko eweyliwe....hahahahahahahahaha
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BV EXPLAINS WHAT HER SON DID WITH HIS SCHOOL FEES
Thank you to everyone who shared their advice, both the good and the bad. I truly appreciate it. Above all, I thank God that my son is responding to treatment. The doctor has assured me that he will be discharged once he starts passing out stool.
I am not here to defend my son or hide his mistake. He gained admission into the university at just 16 years old, and since his first year we have always transferred his school fees directly to his account. He has never disappointed us before.
Yesterday, I showed him the comments people made and asked him to look into my eyes and tell me the truth about what he did with his school fees. And he said, “Mum, I’m sorry. I should have sought your advice before making that decision.”
I then asked him what happened. Immediately, he collected my phone, logged into his account, and showed me the person he borrowed the money to. I asked, “Your friend? and he said yes. He explained that he lent the money to his friend when his friend’s mother was admitted in the hospital, hoping that when the friend’s father returned, they would refund the money. But unfortunately, up till now they have not been able to raise the money. He also said that even his friend’s school fees have not been paid yet.
As a mother, my heart was heavy, but at the same time I understood that he only acted out of compassion for someone in need. It was a wrong decision, but it came from a good heart.
To the anonymous person who said I will cry in the future, let me surprise you: God has blessed me with God-fearing, obedient, and brilliant children, and I remain grateful to Him. What more could a mother ask for? My children do not smoke or go to parties. In fact, this particular son of mine is a real bookworm.
As for my husband, I will continue to pray that God delivers him from the spirit of anger and grants him the wisdom to control it. Since yesterday, he has been very remorseful about everything that happened.
Once again, thank you all for your concern, your advice, and your prayers. May God bless everyone who stood with my family during this difficult moment.
I removed this from spontaneous post to being here cos i saw there was a different argument going on and i wanted everyone to say their mind there and come here to see the reason this young man used his school fees on something else....... Those of you that insulted him, I hope that you are sorry?
To that his horrible father i pray your son grows up hating you and never ever looks for you for what you did to him without finding out first what he did with the school fees...
This is the reason it is good to always have a conversation with your child...BE THEIR FRIEND AND TALK TO THEM!!!
I am traumatised, how doyou beat your child to the extent that you break their nose? cause blood to come out of their body?Madam BV you are trying, I would have left that marriage the day i see blood on my child caused by the father!
WHAT DA EFF!!!
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---- Someone who is ambidextrous can use both hands equally well
----Someone who is “ambisinister” is equally clumsy with both hands
----- Taking a short nap after learning something new can actually help your memory.
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----Someone who is “ambisinister” is equally clumsy with both hands
----- Taking a short nap after learning something new can actually help your memory.
----- Walking for just one hour twice a week increases the size of the hippocampus, the brain area in charge of verbal memory and learning.
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ALL ABOUT MARRIAGE AND GETTING MARRIED
Since many marital conflicts come from money pressure, this is one of the most practical areas to prepare well before you propose marriage to a sister. Financial peace is not about how much you earn, it’s about how well you manage what you earn. To stop money from controlling you, view it as a tool for building your future rather than a master dictating your self-worth.
Marriage needs responsibility more than luxury. You cannot afford to compromise on your financial duties in the marriage, hence there will be crisis. In every religion financial provision is primarily the husband’s duty. As a man, you must be a spender, once you are stingy, even your marriage will suffer. Infact, your inability to discharge your financial duty can lead to unhealthy behaviours, separation or divorce.
To get married is encouraged, but responsibility can never be removed. As a brother that is planning to get married, live within your means, do not depend on random borrowing, and understand cost of living. Wedding lasts one day. Financial responsibility in marriage remains.
It is not your wife's duty to render financial obligation in marriage, except she chooses, and do not punish her in any form because she is not providing. However, it is important for you to marry a woman who knows how to manage your finances, avoid unnecessary debt, etc a financially disciplined woman strengthens the home.
Poverty is a major challenge against marriage in our environment, people fight and abandon their marriages because they lack the basic things of life. If you remove the menace, you will discover that most women do not hate polygyny. You can have peacefully and successfully in a building if you know how to spend money wisely.
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Marriage needs responsibility more than luxury. You cannot afford to compromise on your financial duties in the marriage, hence there will be crisis. In every religion financial provision is primarily the husband’s duty. As a man, you must be a spender, once you are stingy, even your marriage will suffer. Infact, your inability to discharge your financial duty can lead to unhealthy behaviours, separation or divorce.
To get married is encouraged, but responsibility can never be removed. As a brother that is planning to get married, live within your means, do not depend on random borrowing, and understand cost of living. Wedding lasts one day. Financial responsibility in marriage remains.
It is not your wife's duty to render financial obligation in marriage, except she chooses, and do not punish her in any form because she is not providing. However, it is important for you to marry a woman who knows how to manage your finances, avoid unnecessary debt, etc a financially disciplined woman strengthens the home.
Poverty is a major challenge against marriage in our environment, people fight and abandon their marriages because they lack the basic things of life. If you remove the menace, you will discover that most women do not hate polygyny. You can have peacefully and successfully in a building if you know how to spend money wisely.
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ReplyDeleteHello Esther
DeleteHello 👋
DeleteEsther Aya Oba 😍
DeleteToday's sun did not come out to play.. good afternoon House
ReplyDeleteNice write-up 😁. Keep it up!
DeleteGreetings Dearest
DeleteThe Hot Can Fry Plantain ooo
Very hot 🔥
DeleteNo be lie,
DeleteGood afternoon everyone,the sign out is funny but true,
Thank God for your son,it's ending in praise.
Fear dey catch me to step out like this
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I don tire for the heat like this
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DeleteOmo!
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How are you purest pure baby.
Anon 14:21 my darling friend 💋
DeleteGreetings to you my beautiful chikalicious chika 💖
Very hot ooo all my body is on fire 🔥.. good afternoon beautiful ijele Nnukwu Nwayi 😍
Good afternoon beautiful Tochi 😍
My darling Paris baby the sun is not playing today oo😍
Sun is too hot, it's making me feel sick.
DeleteHow are you Pure dear?
SDK!😏
ReplyDeleteStarted a new series today 'Scarpetta'. Nicole Kidman, it looks interesting. It's about a serial killer and the way he commits his atrocities, Kidman is the medical examiner. So many twist and turns.
DeleteHonorable Time Keeper
DeleteLol 😂
You & SDK don enter the same trouser like this 😂😂
DeleteCheck out this new interesting series
The Young Sherlock
My kinda series. Thanks baibay. 😘
DeleteYou're welcome candy.
DeleteThanks Paris, I will.
Hello NN☺️
That should be movie adaptation of novels by Patricia Cornwall. The medical examiner in the novels is Dr Kay Scarpetta. Very interesting books. I’ll try and watch the series.
DeleteWhere is my friend and brother Isaacbaba? LOL.
ReplyDeleteI told you
Dem don run hide 🤣🤣🤣 well i collected the money that I wager with a colleague this morning tho, we bet 10k each …he was for victory in Paris, I was for thrashing 🤣🤣😂 in fact I told him they will lose like 4:1 he didn’t agree, saying they’re going to humiliate PSG at home …the way I laughed him eh , Kai 😂🤣😂🤣😂
DeleteGENTLE REMINDER TO MEN!
ReplyDeleteAs a man, know that you are the prize.
Don't marry down or a broke-ass baby mama.
Any lady below you financially is a liability and cancerous to your finances. Avoid them like the plague.
Even if you marry a baby mama who is on the same financial level as you, do not train her kids. Let her use her own money to train them.
The Chronicle of 9th March is the evidence.
Go and read Otwetwes story with your one sided judgement . Only this week we have read on two evidence contradicting your claims
DeleteAnon: 14:02, I think you should do posters and handbills on this your matter, post the posters everywhere, share the handbills to anyone that cares to receive and read it, create awareness on all social media accounts, carry placards and do protest, pay the bloggers to blog it everywhere, go to churches and mosques to announce it, maybe there will be more awareness on what you've been crying and having sleepless nights about, because no matter how you do or what you write, the facts still remain that, most men will always marry down and most women will always marry up.
DeleteI'm sure you also read The one written by Notorious FJ yesterday on IHN but you choose to lock up your sense of judgement on the matter
DeleteMarrying either up or down is as sure as day must break
DeleteGod Almighty made humans rich and poor so the two must mingle. Please know this
Slim shady, I hope you read about the Sniper detergent consumer that his mother is pampering.
DeleteMaybe, that was how that one's mother enabled and pampered him then and he turned out to be an ungrateful monster.
Am I the only one who thinks @ALL ABOUT MARRIAGE AND GETTING MARRIED is too myopic and only sees a one-sided model of responsibility, which doesn’t fit many real households today?
DeleteI like the idea as the message tries to push men toward financial responsibility before marriage, which is sensible. Marriage does demand planning, discipline, and the ability to manage money. The reminder that weddings are temporary but financial responsibility is permanent is a sound point.
But this idea is an endangering mindset in the practice of a healthy marriage. It is built on very rigid assumptions that do not reflect how many modern marriages actually work.
First, it treats financial provision as exclusively the husband’s duty. That view exists in some cultural and religious traditions, but presenting it as universal ignores reality. Many stable marriages today run on shared financial responsibility. When both partners contribute, the pressure and power imbalance often reduces with that leverage.
Second, it risks tying a man’s worth to spending. Saying a man “must be a spender” can easily push people toward unhealthy financial pressure or performative generosity which erodes the implicit importance of women's empowerment.
Third, it underplays mutual partnership. Financial discipline is not only the wife’s role as a manager of the man’s money. Both partners should understand earning, budgeting, planning, and long-term goals.
The real message I find true is: don’t rush into marriage without financial stability and discipline. But that principle is not gendered.
Many of the relationship stories shared here quietly show the harsh cost of financial dependence. When one person cannot stand on their own feet, their choices shrink, and their ability to leave a bad situation weakens.
Every adult should be encouraged to build the capacity to earn and sustain themselves. Women especially should be urged to pursue this with seriousness, not as a backup plan but as a foundation for dignity, security, and freedom of choice.
Una good afternoon
ReplyDeleteWe welcome IHN
Financially supporting yurself without relying or disturbing anyone is a ultimate flex
Delete@WEIRD FACTS
Delete---- Someone who is ambidextrous can use both hands equally well …..my niece is one of them
Shout out to @TWE @Beds & Roses @Side Chic @Mrs A @Engraced @Shinning @Sunshine @Kim Nana @G n M @TMW @Mamamia @Erika Ebony @Sonia @Ogoja Dude @Eujiparv @Jessi @Rainbow @Golibe @Itunu @Riri @Nkechi @Saphire @Rosie & Kids @Ms Tee @Snarker @Esperanza @Shantel we miss y’all on here
Awwwww....Paris, don't I just love you?
DeleteYou remember all these bvs? 🤗
Hey Paris thanks for always looking out
DeleteYou're so sweet
Things are expensive, but I realised if you compromise, you will regret it! Why? I bought a canned sardines thinking I got a lesser deal, omo, when I opened it, canned SHAWA!!! 😢 😭
ReplyDeleteI got sausages, I compromised again, cuz of 1k difference, Fried the sausages,,edakun, why is sausage tasting like Akara? 😢 😭, People, we are in danger! 😆 🤣 #Truestory
Kelvin Dat Edo Boi...
Quality over quantity my friend!
DeleteLmao 🤣
DeleteHi Kelvin i miss those movies that you used to recommend for me.
DeleteI can relate 😂 never again❗️I bought one sausage like that a while ago cos the price was cheap, Omo the thing melted before I even got home
DeleteLol 😂😂
DeleteSausage like akara ke 🤣🤣
DeleteThat sardine has been compromised, just buy quality.
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DeleteSandra: Your point being? 🤨 there's a reason for this post, you know? When I need Quality, I for Quality, stick to the script!..
DeleteRose: Awwww, will try and be dropping once in a while
Paris: 😆 omo I no fit cry! Very sad situation..
Kelvin Dat Edo Boi...
Huh? I was supporting your comment oga.😄 Calm down.
DeleteLolll, I don't know if it's the fat or the receding hairline that is always making this one aggre. Pesin dey support you ,you dey gboro. Afi stick to the script.#yimu.
DeleteShout out to you, Paris. I hail you, Sis.
ReplyDeleteI greet you all....
I greet you Specially!
DeleteI celebrate you sista mì 💖💛
DeleteAs for those Anons supporting the Dad, when you have a Son and he wants to kill himself (even though you are angry) if you like don't show emphaty and save him you hear? Now place your hand on your head and say, "I have attained level 15 in withcraft/ wizardry , now it's time to soar" ...stupid people!...
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi...
Kelvin when you give birth and your kids squander their school fees, welcome them back with hug and give them more money to squander.
Delete@14:39, you are wicked and heartless so after this explanation, you are adamant he squandered his school fees or are you writing this to trigger people...you must be a sadistic loser.
Delete.tueeh...Pyschopaths everywhere!
Anon you think losing a child is a walk in the park? Okay I wish you the best .
Delete14:39: Now let me tell you, I did the same years ago, my Mum only did fake Fainting, 😆 did she kill me? But before I got the repayment, I suffered a bit, but here I am, so the Father messed up by beating till his nose got broken, then you hear your son wants to die, and you did nothing? I say you be Winsh!..
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi...
Kelvin no wonder, like minds.
DeleteWhen your kids squander there school, hug them and celebrate them because an apple doesn't fall far from it's tree.
Let the cycle continue.
16:40: Oloshi niyen! When you kill your child, don't forget to season it and heat the Grilll up, stupid thing!..
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi....
Went your child do d same eh, buy gold 🥇 put for e neck you hear. And please stop calling those dat didn't support your ideas stupid. Respect yourself.
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DeleteI don’t think I believe this new version of the story of the woman, son and husband. Seems more like damage control to me but that’s me sha, I’m not saying you should follow my thought process.
ReplyDeleteAnd that doesn’t mean I’m in support of what the father did! This is why kids grow up loving just their mums properly! Discipline should be combined with common sense as far as I’m concerned
God bless you Eka Joy for saying the truth.
DeleteMadam continue enabling your son, by making him feel you are caring and his father is evil.
Instead of you training your son to be a responsible man, you are busy making up emotional story to cover up for him.
Intelligent boy that drinks sniper after squandering his school fees.
Madam continue playing politics with training your kids.
Whether the second story is made up or not, my agro is the way that man pummelled his own flesh and blood..never discipline your child out of anger...you will regret it!
DeleteYes, 15:17, nothing justifies it at all! They will have to kill me first before I let anyone beat my kids like that no matter their offense!
DeleteI'm taking this moment to express my heartfelt gratitude to each and every one of you who took the time to send me birthday wishes yesterday. Your kind words, thoughtful messages, and warm greetings truly made my day extra special and filled my heart with joy.
ReplyDeleteThank you for being a part of my life and for sharing in my celebration. May God bless you all abundantly for your kindness and love.
Good day people...💋
Belated happy birthday to you
DeleteAwwww....belated birthday wishes to you Sir Ugama 🍰🎉
DeleteBelated happy birthday sir.
DeleteMany more blessings .
Sandra, on behalf of Stella...biko eweliwe ehn 😁
ReplyDeleteBv with the son who squandered his fees, your son didn't do well at all.
But the father went about the punishment in a wrong way. I believe they are other ways to reprimand a child when they err. Your son needs therapy and reorientation, pls draw him closer 🤗 It is well.
Bv Fidel, Bv Emerald and our bvs MIA 😍
I hope you are all fine? Hugs from me2you 🤗
Thank God our light has been restored 💃 Enjoy your afternoon beautiful people 😁
Lol Stella and Sandra matter ehn 😁
DeleteEnjoy your afternoon Adunni 😘
DeleteHello my darling Adunni baby, how is you😍
DeleteMy darling Mercybee, na tom&jerry matter 😄
DeleteBaci dearie, been awhile 🤗 Hope your day is fine?
Pure dear, am fine o 🤗
DeleteTade, one sweet and "on her lane" bv, may her soul continue to rest in peace. Sonia, Playstore,Daddy code, hope y'all are doing good.
ReplyDeleteAmen 🙏 such a sad story.
DeleteHope your day is fine dear?
My phone still types her name. I'd never forget her .
DeleteToo many bvs we haven't read from when i think of anyone i just hope they're doing okay .
Hey boo how are you.
Adunni darl, sad o. My day is there o.
DeleteChoco baibay, I hope they're good. I'm fine babes, hope you are.
When a woman stop liking you, Please stop bothering her...
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my people!
ReplyDeleteHow are y'all doing?
That's why is not good to jump into conclusions fast.
WE MOVE!!
The rain doing hide and seek game here. As if it want to rain and it will disappear. The cold last night remind me of somewhere far away from the shores of Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteReminiscing the good sweet old days.
©️ TEEJAY
Fabu Master @reminiscensing on gpod sweet old days far from the shores of Nig. Anyway, it cant be far from Equitorial Guinea or Cameroun for you. Yu-tu-lai
DeleteSurviving will be my major achievement this year...
ReplyDeleteThank God your son is doing well..
ReplyDeleteStella if you happen to be the lady and leave the marriage, the father will marry another wife . A man that knows himself don't bow to treat like leaving marriage , denying him s€x or emotional blackmail like drinking sniper.
ReplyDeleteIf the stupid boy grow to hate his father, it is good riddance of bad rubbish. The father will train his remaining responsible children that will love and appreciate him for his sacrifice.
Poster, that is still one sided story because we need to hear from your good and responsible husband, how that boy behaves.
A good and intelligent person will not try to take his life just to punish his father.
This is how some of you ladies enable you kids and they grow up to be nuisance.
Tomorrow now if you caution him, he will drink another sniper.
Your husband should hand him over to the law to receive the punishment for trying to commit suicide, when he is done will the punishment, his brain will start functioning well.
Ehya! He showed kindness to his friend ... that's what you want to hear abi? You try well well with your emotional narrative.
But my question is? Is that a way to punish or discipline a son, by beating him up so as to break his nose? All the criminals that have been treated this way, have they stopped their crimes? A man that can not control his emotions is as helpless as a tower without walls! I still maintain that, there are better ways of punishment and discipline than inflicting injury on ones offspring!
DeleteAnon 15:37, where is the evidence that the father broke his nose?
DeleteYou don't know how some ladies manufacture story to paint their husband black.
Was it not here we read about a lady narrating with tears how her husband grape his 2 daughters and it was all lie.
He broke his nose and he is only receiving treatment for sniper and not receiving any treatment for broken nose.
Good afternoon blog fam
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone. This heat is something else. Phew...
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon Bvs
ReplyDeleteThank God that your son is alive.
Shout Out You All My Beautifulicious Sisters Here ❤️
ReplyDeleteLate BV Oluyomi May Your Soul Keep Resting Well 🙏
The Weather Is Hot ooooooo
My Kids Are Even Shouting That Tape Water Is Too Hot
Wellcomeee Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss ooooo
I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ❤️
Hello iya Boys
I greetlicious you too Chilicious ❤️
DeleteShout out to you too, my darling chikalicious chika 💖
DeleteI greet you too mi dearie 😍
DeleteI made it to in house news today
ReplyDeleteLord, I am GRATEFUL 🙏
Shout out to Stella for being a rockstar, crushing the blog owner role with style. You are doing an awesome Job keeping this blog lit.
Shout out to all the SDK sweethearts of this phenomenal blog who spread love, positivity, kindness, harboring no Malice or resentment towards one another on this platform...You all are truly incredible..
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Shout out to you too sisterly, you Rock 💖
DeleteMy dear, life's to short not to be enjoyed...positivity all the way 💃
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon Mor
DeleteGood afternoon beautiful Mor baby 💖
DeletePoster i am glad your son is recovering that's what matters. It will end in praise.
ReplyDeleteMadam with the suicidal son, I'm sure the man beats you too, you have been enduring his anger all these years? I hope he doesn't kpai you or one of your children before you leave.
ReplyDeleteStella , maybe she doesn't have the financial means to leave him cos I'm sure he beats her too.
Hot-tempered men beat both wife and children.
Lol 😂
Delete@anon 14:40, not far from the truth, such men treat their wives like children, pumelling them while transfering the country's hardship on immediate family members!
Delete@anon 14:40, not far from the truth, such men treat their wives like children, pumelling them while transfering the country's hardship on immediate family members!
Delete14:40, continue with your feminist twisted narrative. When you born your own and they squander their school fees, kiss their forehead, hug them and give them more school fees to squander.
DeleteContinue enabling Boys like that sniper consumer, when grows up to be a woman beater and beat ladies like you, you will continue crying.
I hope you can give that sniper boy your daughter to marry ?
Aww God bless your son, Madam BV
ReplyDeletePoster, God gave you God-fearing, obedient and brilliant children yet that one went and drank Sniper. Does a God-fearing person keels himself?
ReplyDeleteYou better start praying hard. It's not by mouth.
Are you minding the women. Intelligent boy that drinks sniper and detergent like mineral and bread.
DeleteGo cook up more emotional stories because I ain't buying this one, not now, not ever.
Wow! So emotional @ the one whose son drank poison. Your son is a kind boy and that's the reason I pray the Lord God give him back his complete life. Amen!
ReplyDeleteThank your son is getting better, his healing is permanent in Jesus Name 🙏
ReplyDeleteBaba God abeg na🙏 make rain fall make everywhere cool small..
This heat is not friendly at all..
Keni nice day if heat go allow😩
Amen to your prayers dear.
DeleteLet it rain ☔
Good afternoon SDK and BVs.
ReplyDeleteMost of those defending the father and what he did are men...they think fists and violence maketh a man...they dont know that that is the reason for their madness...red flags walking amongst sane people in society ...who keep asking what women bring to the table! Try this sort of brutality in the west and you will be locked up where your fellow thugs will either grape you or slaughter you! Fools and simps!!
ReplyDeleteMy happiness is that fools, enablers and emotional blackmailers like you will suffer it in life when you are done raising that menace sniper drinking manipulative monster.
DeleteYou have or will have daughters for "intelligent sniper detergent consumer" like him will marry, abi?
Continue raising sniper drinking sons.
Una go cry blood Las Las.
You think life is about gender politics?
Thank you Anonymous 15:10
DeleteMadam thank God your son is responding to treatment..
ReplyDeleteMay God perfect his healing .
The weather is very 🔥🔥🔥
Good afternoon everyone 💞
ReplyDeleteShout out to everyone who keeps this blog alive. You you and you. God bless us all.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon all.
AMEN OOOO 🙏
DeleteI don't care what the boy used the money for, whether he lent it to his friend that his mother was hospitalized or he squandered it on meaningless thing, but the fact still remains that his father is a very wicked soul for him to beat his son to the extent of breaking tooth and nose, and even when the boy drank sniper, he didn't show concern, that's witchcraft, if he doesn't beg that boy very well for forgiveness, that boy will hate and resent him for life.
ReplyDeleteHe thought if anything went wrong as he was beating the boy, people and government would want to hear story, he would have been cooling off his wicked arse in kirikiri.
I'm not saying what the child did was good and I don't even want to believe his mother's story, but his father shouldn't have beaten him to that extent, that was not correction, that was abuse.
Note to a lot of Nigerian men, you guys always punish your children in anger and frustrations, and not in love, that's why you will always ask yourself why a lot of children don't have deep rooted love for you like their mothers.
And to that bitter frustrated anon that has been jumping all over people's comments that have opinions different from his own, abusing and c*rsing them, don't come under my comment, if you do, all your c*rses shall return to you and your generations in a million fold, and all your abusive words mean you're referring to your family.
The one thing I do not get with some parents is how they expect perfection from their children. It boggles my mind that parents see all ills that other children do daily yet expect that their child will never do anything wrong. Some of these parents even have dark pasts themselves but expect perfection from their children. Forgetting the terrors they used to be and the possible horrible persons they are today. Mtssscccchhhhwww
DeleteTruthfully, what this kid did is annoying and aggravating but when compared to all the wrong things that a child could possibly do, it ranks quite low for me. There is no family disgrace involved, no criminal offence, no violation of a person, nothing diabolical or fetish, no immorality. I could never beat a child for something like this, worst beat them to the point of bloodiness. They may have to work off the money somehow, but that’s it.
Thank God I have made mistakes and know His mercies, so I can today have a forgiving heart and give mercy and lenience to others.
1000 likes to your comment @grateful soul.
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteit is very wrong for a child to use his parents' hard earned money for something else other than what it was intended for. Then he went ahead to try to hurt himself just cause he was scolded and you call that an intelligent child. Be serious naaa.
ReplyDeleteBut was he scolded or beaten to a pulp, or you just want to play daft?
DeleteAbi, you just echoed my mind!
Delete17:19, if all children who were beaten to a pulp and chased out of the house commit suicide, how many people would remain in Nigeria?
DeleteIn our days, we were beaten, starved or made to sleep outside for lesser offences, did we d!e? Some children nowadays still experience these things.
The guy is a weak man, he is not Strong, he is a coward for trying to kpai himself over being beaten and sent out of the house for using his school fees on something else.
The woman did not do a good job, now he needs therapy and prayers cos he's gone past the age to be trained.
I hope she raises the younger ones well if there is anyone less than 18.
The whot sign out post is so true 👏
ReplyDeleteIt's fine. Pls teach your son financial empathy. Your school fees and house rent should not be tempered with especially if you have no plan B of replacing it some how.
Good afternoon everyone🥰
ReplyDeleteHope you guys are doing good
I'm too busy here oo
Shout out to Adaoluchi,long time no see, shout-out to whistle blower my in-law mk sure you are taking care of my son-in-law well 😅shout out to black Berry long
Una Weldon oo🤚
Please is some people in this blog actually supporting the ultimate penalty (death) for the boy because he squandered his school fees? Is that how to discipline a child ?
ReplyDeleteIs there someone here supporting the dad to watch his own son die because of loss of school fees?
Let us calm down biko
The son did bad infant very bad
The dad too over vex why flog your child till blood starts coming out ogini
And you mummy once he comes back home, have a serious conversation with him so such never repeat itself again. Be firm and uncompromising, your son will get the message. I hope your husband is not beating you ooo
I wish your boy quick recovery ❤️
Anyone has attempted suicide for whatever reasons doesn’t need serious conversations but a therapist. I don’t support what the dad did, neither do I support the mum’s cock and bull story. Madam pls ensure you son sees a therapist and completes his sessions.
DeleteNaija is not for the weak. This boy will still meet with challenges and difficult people even failed romances as he manoeuvres through life, how does he want to cope?
I also wondered if it was a DV household because children who get into university that young are not usually troublemakers. They really are studious and very obedient and walk the line, and never step outside of it, worst of the family is religious, which it appears to be. Plus the child would have known the father’s temper should he do anything immoral or illegal, so what the boy said about the loan to the friend sounds plausible. Kids like him have all the book smarts but no street smarts. Anywho, I wish them all the best.
DeleteMom with the son in hospital, thank you for clearing up the misconceptions. When I saw some of the ugly things other bv’s wrote about your son and defending the beating, I knew why there was so much wickedness in the world. The only way to break someone’s nose is to take an object and hit them in the face, push them into something, or punch them with a fist.
ReplyDeleteThanks be to God Almighty he is pulling through. That young man does not have enough life experience to know that most ppl who borrow money will never repay it. His heart was bigger than his wisdom. He learned a harsh life lesson in a very vicious way, and experienced betrayal from both his friend and father.
I still believe you should look for other living arrangements if possible and to not ask your husband for any school fees when he returns to school. Your son shall be great, he will bring honour to your name. Like Joseph, what was intended for evil God shall turn to glory.
All the best to you, mama. Take care of yourself too. I can only imagine how drained you are by all of this. Please eat and rest well. Pray on without ceasing. You are a good mother, let no one tell you otherwise.
I mean other living arrangements for your son, at least for a while. I hope the beating does not turn him into a person who allows others to walk all over him in life. Who knows what damage has been done to his soul.
DeleteTIME AND TIME AGAIN.. IT'S BEEN PROVEN THAT A WOMAN CANNOT TEACH A MAN HOW TO BE A MAN.
ReplyDeleteGOD FORBIDS.
WITHOUT REAL MEN, I MEAN REAL MEN NOT THR FAKEASS REDEFINED SISSIES, WOMEN WILL SELF DESTRUCT AND EXTEND THE DESTRUCTION TO THE SOCIETY.
THE WORST MEN ARE SIMPS. THEY'RE THE REASON CAUSE FOR MOST OF THE PROBLEMS WE FACE IN THIS WORLD. MEN CONTROLLED BY WOMEN. MEN LIVING TO PLEASE WOMEN. MEN SEEKING WOMEN VALIDATION.
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DeleteYou are right. The young man should have fought his father right back. Fist for fist, pound for pound, make the better man win. He breaks his nose, break his knee cap, puncture his eye. Why sit down and let anyone beat you to a pulp parent or not. You may just be right that no man should allow another to beat him without fighting back. Perhaps they raised him without a backbone why he didn’t do the same to the father as he did to him. Because sometimes a man just has to stand up to whomever the bully is and fck him up straight. No sentiments about it. At 20 years old I ain’t standing up or kneeling down and let anyone beat me to a pulp parent or not. Sorry not sorry. But they raised their child to be submissive to them and that is the price of raising a child that way, no gumption to defend the self from harm.
DeleteIntelligent and God fearing child that drank sniper without thinking of his mum and all her suffering on him.
ReplyDeleteDey play madam.
Good evening my beautiful SDK family
ReplyDeleteDear BV,I thank God your boy is getting better.. please have a deep conversation with him about 'sucide,be firm about it,let him know it's not an option at all.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is heartless,I hope he doesn't beat you too.. pray for your children always.