Reality TV star Angel Smith is back in the headlines as her estranged wife Tumi, announced that she has officially filed for divorce and released a series of explosive claims about their troubled short lived marriage.
What started as a quiet separation has now turned into a full‑blown scandal, with Tumi revealing the issues that allegedly tore their relationship apart.
Tumi posted...
''Before closing this chapter, here's a full summary of what happened:
I brought Angel to America and personally covered all the visa expenses. I was the one who asked her to move here. Before she arrived, I was honest about my past relationship with Mally and made sure she knew everything upfront.
For three months, I supported her completely-financially and at home. I cooked breakfast, lunch, and dinner every day, trying to make her comfortable. Instead of building a life together, she repeatedly left me at home to spend time with people she met on a dating site. She would go out with them, then come back and still expect financial support from me.
Her behavior became increasingly troubling. I even involved her mother when things escalated, especially when she started acting recklessly and nearly got arrested. Because of her legal situation, we rushed into marriage so she could stay in the country legally.
At the same time, she surrounded herself with people I considered dangerous, including someone who had just been released from prison after serving eight years for robbery. This raised serious concerns for me. I tried multiple times to talk to her and set boundaries, but she refused to listen.
Within less than three months, she became comfortable engaging with people she barely knew, going out late, and putting herself in risky situations. I felt disrespected and used, like a maid in my own home, despite everything I was doing for her.
I made repeated efforts to communicate and resolve things, but there was no change. Despite warnings from my friends before the marriage, I still tried to make it work and gave more than I should have. Eventually, I reached my limit and issued divorce papers.
At this point, I am stepping away completely. I have done more than enough, and I will not allow someone to damage the life I've built here.
Moving forward, I want it clearly understood that I am no longer responsible for anything that happens in her life.
To be clear:
• I did not take any of her belongings. Some of her items are still with me, while the rest have already been moved to her strangers friend residence.
• Her wedding ring was left behind when she left
• I have attempted to resolve this privately and respectfully, including apologizing for any inappropriate words said in frustration, but she has not been cooperative.
My requests going forward are:
-The return of my $40,000 I kept in her means
-She requested for 8000 for emotional damage I have agreed .
-Completion and signing of annulment paperwork so we can be legally separated.
-A formal agreement ensuring that I will not be used for any immigration-related claims or financial obligations moving forward”
For three months, I supported her completely-financially and at home. I cooked breakfast, lunch, and dinner every day, trying to make her comfortable. Instead of building a life together, she repeatedly left me at home to spend time with people she met on a dating site. She would go out with them, then come back and still expect financial support from me.
Her behavior became increasingly troubling. I even involved her mother when things escalated, especially when she started acting recklessly and nearly got arrested. Because of her legal situation, we rushed into marriage so she could stay in the country legally.
At the same time, she surrounded herself with people I considered dangerous, including someone who had just been released from prison after serving eight years for robbery. This raised serious concerns for me. I tried multiple times to talk to her and set boundaries, but she refused to listen.
Within less than three months, she became comfortable engaging with people she barely knew, going out late, and putting herself in risky situations. I felt disrespected and used, like a maid in my own home, despite everything I was doing for her.
I made repeated efforts to communicate and resolve things, but there was no change. Despite warnings from my friends before the marriage, I still tried to make it work and gave more than I should have. Eventually, I reached my limit and issued divorce papers.
At this point, I am stepping away completely. I have done more than enough, and I will not allow someone to damage the life I've built here.
Moving forward, I want it clearly understood that I am no longer responsible for anything that happens in her life.
To be clear:
• I did not take any of her belongings. Some of her items are still with me, while the rest have already been moved to her strangers friend residence.
• Her wedding ring was left behind when she left
• I have attempted to resolve this privately and respectfully, including apologizing for any inappropriate words said in frustration, but she has not been cooperative.
My requests going forward are:
-The return of my $40,000 I kept in her means
-She requested for 8000 for emotional damage I have agreed .
-Completion and signing of annulment paperwork so we can be legally separated.
-A formal agreement ensuring that I will not be used for any immigration-related claims or financial obligations moving forward”
I simply want to resolve this matter peacefully, retrieve what is mine, and move on with my life.
I have been the one held hostage not her ..
my house door was broken I have taken all loss I can ..friends and families have reached out I just want away ..a fucking 20,000 door ok
She moved my money to Kayla’s account she moved $10000 they are spending
Give me my balance and sign annulment II .. I do not want to get the laws involved and get you deported.. I have tried”
Make sure you don’t associate with her after all of this is over. She will learn sooner than she thinks. Let her mum sort that out.
ReplyDeleteNa wa. Even with their same xes they still have issues 😳
ReplyDeleteOmooo....
ReplyDeleteJust just now, haure don end? 😮
ReplyDeleteThis is shameful!!
ReplyDeletePoor parenting and no modelling is the biggest problem facing Nigeria. Children born to the streets, not raised in hones or communities. This girl keeps going from one bad choice to another like a child devoid of any kind of love and attention growing up. Shes a very troubled young girl and may need mental health intervention. Thats is if she doesnt die by her own decisions before then.
ReplyDeleteAre you jobless like me? Going from one blog to another commenting almost the same sh!t. Find a job or go back to school. I need to listen to my own advice too. Happy Sunday.
DeleteWhy won't she be troubled, like mother like daughter
DeleteLol @ anon 13:36
DeleteIt's the way an average Nigerian lady reasons.
ReplyDeleteYou don't need to do any research, you can find it all here.
Cheating is a normal lifestyle to them..
They disguise it under various names:
- Plan B
- Not putting eggs in one basket
- Your boyfriend shouldn't stop you from meeting your wife
- That I'm in a relationship doesn't mean I shouldn't go on dates
- Ask your ex and men that are asking you out money etc etc
Make sure she gets deported. Angel is not loyal and can never be. Wash your hands off her.
ReplyDeleteFree the girl. She has done nothing unusual. All alleged as done or actually done are as today's women (wives) demand in marriage.
ReplyDeleteShe is a wife. Legally and certificatedly married
She is not a cook - husbands are supposed to pay rent, pay school fees, pay for utilities, pay in-laws support, pay spousal salary, clean and cook. You only cooked and you are wailing?
She is not slave to be prevented from her nights out or frolicking with her choice of friends.
My money, my money. It is your both money. You were not informed during pre-marital counseling? Husband's money is "our money", wife's money is "her money". She has the right to spend your money as chosen while keeping hers or her empty purse to herself.
Only your door was broken. You are not grateful. What if she had pounded you as "a one bone woman" she is. You know wives get away with beating husbands, right? Or women with beating men. We have seen videos of Naija wives abroad slapping and pounding their husbands to stupor with the men cowering. Yet you ...
Still on broken door, why did you even lock her things away from her. Till dissolution of marriage, the home is both yours. That reminds. Why no talk about splitting your matrimonial home as if she has no right to her 50% of it?
You are clearly getting off this marriage bus so easily hence this rants. Why is Angel dulling and falling hands so badly. Instead of doing what the typical Naija woman taken abroad by marriage would do to her Naija husband.
Sorry poster, in this kind of relationship, there is no husband. It is actually wife wife. Or husband husband for male gays.
DeleteWhat a shame
ReplyDeleteAriri o!!
ReplyDeleteUmu ogwu ogwu oge🤣
Please don't deport her o, let her remain there, we have enough crazy and wild people in this country as it is.
ReplyDeleteAunty the one that concerns me is that $20,000 door… lmao… when you’re not living in the pentagon… and ordinary Angel could still damage it? I seriously doubt you my dear because the way some of you fling around numbers is shocking
ReplyDeleteYes a door can be that expensive, doors are by grade.
DeleteYes a door can be that expensive, doors are by grade.
DeleteYou'll be surprised at how much we pay for doors in the UK
DeleteEnd time couple 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteLMAO 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteAbeg I will Back And Read ooooo
This "Angel" needs God's help in addition to professional intervention!
ReplyDeleteNigerian women, you see your life, Nigerian women all of you don cast. The world is seeing you for who you are, wicked, greedy, entitled lots. A woman can’t take what a fellow woman dishes, yet on this blog for years, you all bash Nigerian men, what names have you not called them here, yet, your fellow woman cannot stand your miserable entitled woman. Last month on X, you were also casted for spewing trash, your fellow men tweeted in ways only Nigerian women does, clock that, it’s high time women changed for the better, the world is watching you, by the way I’m not a Nigerian woman
ReplyDeleteSo,finally,in summary,Angel came out to the world for nothing?is that what this Aunty is saying?
ReplyDeleteBunch of clowns, men are scum wailers. They still can't keep same sex relationship.
ReplyDelete