TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings...........

TUESDAY MEMO
How is everybody doing? I dey read una comments and have been chuckling cos even those who committed crimes and were crucified are now dragging those who just committed in the comment section......

Imagine IR dragging Miss H?????LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL...I remember her comments when he was troubling himself (Not me).
I also see people trying to stop IR from dragging others...I have nothing to say concerning this except i wont enable comments that cross the line from him to anyone else or from anyone else to him...
What is currently happening boldly represents my hashtag of ''Neversaynever''.
I told God one prayer and responded!.....More things will unfold here and i will expose more people but please i will forgive and forget if you come into my inbox to settle....
The person who they have a video to send me concerning something that Miss H did, i guess that you were joking? cos i put my number under your comment and i have not seen any video yet...
There is a BV i trained in Nursing school in Nigeria...I didnt know her from anyone or anywhere.. She said she was crying in class and about to drop out and someone told her''CONTACT STELLA SHE WILL HELP YOU'' and she asked ''WHO IS STELLA'' and she did her homework and mailed me with a story that she lost her dad and could not pay the fees and everyone wanted to sleep with her before helping her, even her late Dads friends...When i heard that i went to look for money and sent her...Every time i had to send her money, i would borrow from my hubby cos i was not earning then.....Today she is a nurse in the UK earning millions every month and married with a son....She married a rich doctor and has the best life...she cries everytime she calls me to say thank you.....In fact i have blocked her twice cos of the crying to say thank you..I talked to her about us helping Miss H to the Uk when she was through..in fact we already planned it....

Miss H saying she studies nursing was what got me hooked to helping her..... I dont regret my actions, people are free to use or scam me but there are consequences...I will always follow my heart cos i cant help how i am.....

That said....enough of dragging me for allowing myself to be scammed..if you see or know anything always alert me as anon or in box and i will never ignore again cos my mumu don do!!!

LOL!!!

Shout out to US based glam granny gigi...Thank you so much for all the prayers you send me on whatsapp..I love you maami.....

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MOTIVATIONAL MARRIAGE NARRATIVE

''My Church wedding was cancelled a few weeks to my wedding day.

I was already counting down to my big day when I received a call from the marriage committee that my church wedding would no longer hold.
After my parental consent (introduction) in January 2023, the church informed me my courtship had started and we could begin wedding plans when we were ready.

I was still a master’s student in the UK at that time, and I had to write to my university that I needed to travel to my home country for my wedding.
However, they approved just two weeks in April.
I communicated this with the marriage committee, and they sent me some dates. I picked March 31st for my traditional wedding and April 1st for my church wedding, even though it was not the regular Deeper Life wedding weekend.

Everything was going smoothly. I was in constant communication with the marriage committee, and they approved the date.
So we started preparations, sent out invites, and I booked my flight.
Then one day, I received a call from the marriage committee chairman that my wedding would no longer hold because one of the marriage committee members said they were not following church rules.

I was like, Which church rule sir?
He said the daddy insisted my courtship was not up to six months.
But I had been communicating with the committee about why I needed to come home in April, and the date was approved. We had already sent out invitations.

He was so kind and apologised. He assured me the church would handle it and asked me to calm down.
We had a meeting, but this daddy still insisted rules are rules. Nobody is above the law. A three-month courtship is not allowed in Deeper Life. I either complete six months or I don’t get married in church.
I already knew the whole confusion was orchestrated by the devil because a record was about to be broken,

My siblings for personal reasons didn’t get married in the church, and my wedding was the only opportunity for my parent to experience a church wedding which was like a lifetime wish for them.
The marriage committee reported the matter to the regional overseer, but it still wasn’t resolved. They called to inform me that the wedding would still not hold in church because the regional overseer couldn’t resolve it.
I called my family, and we decided we should just go ahead with the traditional and court wedding. I had already booked my flight, and the wedding date was close.
I was really sad because my parents were looking forward to the church wedding it meant so much to them.
We designed another invitation for just traditional and court with the same date, and we started sending it out.
Then the marriage committee chairman called again to tell me the matter had been reported to the state overseer by the regional overseer.
But I had zero hope because I felt the state overseer might not even see their letter on time , not to talk of replying on time, considering how close we were to the wedding date.
I had no hope, but we prayed regardless.
But I told God, Let Your will be done, oh Lord. Nothing but Your will.
To think, when my husband approached me for marriage, I told him to go to the committee because I was very intentional about doing things the church way, even though he is not Deeper Life.
About a week later, the marriage committee chairman called and said the state overseer had approved the wedding date and told them to proceed immediately.
I am sure I was the happiest human on earth that day.
I want to give a big shoutout to the Deeper Life State Overseer of Oyo State in 2023. I really hope I get to meet him one day and say thank you.

Through it all, my husband was calm like a river Baba would just be begging me every day to stay calm.
After our wedding, I appreciated every member of the marriage committee except him, and it was intentional.
Rules are rules, and he was right, but I was just hurt he waited until preparations had started and invitations were sent before speaking up. But time has healed all pain.
I am sharing this to encourage someone that Even thou you have given up on that situation, God can still turn the situation around for your good.
But whose timing will you trust?
You just have to trust Him.
In the end, God’s will always prevails.
The Lord will prevail over every situation of your life in Jesus’ name.

- Pelumi Oluwawemimo Fatoki

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18 Signs You Can Sürvíve Living Abroad 

Honestly; Living abroad is not just about mönèy or food.....It’s mindset.

1. You enjoy your own company without feeling lonely ;you’re not the type that must move with a full squad like Davido 

2. You don’t need constant validation ;you’re not doing competition with Mama Nkechi because here… na OYO l’owa ;you’re on your own.

3. You can stay in silence without looking for noise ;not the type waiting for your neighbor to blast music by 8am so life can start.

4. You mind your business like it’s your full-time job ;
if you like “dem say”… my dear, sit down for where you dey.

5. You can handle DIY life ;braiding your hair, small barbing, fixing things, setting up your space from scratch. Bravo

6. You don’t depend on “who you know” to survive ; no “let me quickly branch my mama house carry one pot of jollof.” You’re the mama now 

7. You follow rules even when nobody is watching ;this one? Na una suppose first come.....You will love abroad.

8. You can control your emotions in public ;if you too dey vex and throw blow… abeg stay first before you go see international kiri-kiri and back home.

9. You can adapt without complaining too much ; because this life is unlearning + relearning. If you no gree adapt, your wailing go too long.

10. You’re okay doing things alone ;shopping alone, walking alone, even eating alone. Dey come.

11. You’re financially disciplined ;because abroad will show you pepper if you misuse mönèy. Ya gonna learn .

12. You respect time ;if they say 10:00, you’re not still tying gele at 1pm. Because you want to do grand entrance.

13. You’re not afraid to start from zero ;this one is VERY important. Because it is a total new beginning .

14. You can survive without constant family presence ;hello independent soldiers, this life na your own.

15. You understand that growth can be lonely and you no send anybody papa 

16. You don’t look down on small jobs ;because dignity of labor is real here.

17. You’re open to different cultures — not everything is “this is not how we do it in my village.” Stay for your village oh.

18. You’re mèntälly strong ;because abroad will test you quietly, not loudly.
Some people travel… and still struggle.
While Some people have never left… but they are already built for it.

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WEIRD FACTS

--- ‎Snakes can predict earthquakes. ...
--- ‎We spend a year on the toilet in our lifetime. ...
---. ‎Astronauts grow taller in space! .
---. ‎The tongue is covered in about 8,000 taste-buds, each containing up to 100 cells helping you taste your food!
---. ‎Jupiter has more than 90 moons

-“I am thankful for all of those who said, “No” to me. It’s because of them, I’m doing it myself.” - Albert Einstein

 --Sleeping through winter is hibernation, while sleeping through summer is estivation.

--You may gain 20% more muscle strength by working out in the afternoon instead of the morning, according to a study.

--Athletic Shoes are called “sneakers” because when they were invented, people used them to their advantage to move around quietly.

-- Of course it's hard. It's supposed to be hard. If it was easy, everyone would do it. Hard is what makes it great.

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A WORD TO EVERY WOMAN 

You are not called to endure disrespect in the name of love.

You are not created to compete with side relationships.

You are not designed to beg for loyalty.

Marriage should be a place of Security, not suspicion

Peace, not pain

Faithfulness, not fear

Yes, forgiveness is powerful—but forgiveness does not mean tolerating repeated betrayal without accountability and change.

If a man truly honors you, he will protect the covenant, not violate it.

Address cheating, don’t ignore it

Set boundaries with wisdom and dignity

Seek godly counsel and prayer

Know your worth in Christ

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