WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings......

WEDNESDAY MEMO

Good day..... Wetin dey happen?Whats on your mind? Na food dey my mind oooooooh..I need to eat my favourite Veggy sauce soon.....

I also have puff puff on my mind but the time i tried it.it was flat like pancake and strong like table tennis...hahahahahahha.I have so much respect for people who spend time cooking foods that i cant recreate......

I can bake cake...I can make meat pie but anything that has to do with moin moin, puff puff, buns, egg roll,please forget it....

Whats the best soup you can cook? The Nigerian soups i can boast of cooking are white Okro and Banga soup but i stopped eating the banga cos of the oil....

I am on a controlled eating but everyday na so so to dey think of food!!!...A h Ah...

Anon from spontaneous post trying to join Teejay and Baci, please stop it, before you know now they will start cooking up lies that the have gbenshed.....Baci are you married?Someone wants to know!

As concerns the Temu wigs.hmmmmmmmmmmmm ,they are not so bad at all, just that you will see that it wont last long...I cant even dash anyone and i cant throw it away......abi make i sell am...if you wan buy my laptops you must buy wig join...simple...ahahahahahahhahahhahaha

hugs

Eka Joy what of our fish and red crayfish??

On Tuesday i posted two chronicles but reverted one...it will be posted today so dont read and start making noise like police van all over that i have posted before oh...ehen!....

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

So in January, I took myself out to this restaurant. I had a lot of work done the previous week and since I work hard, earn hard, I decided to spend hard on myself.

When I got to the counter, a young man, the waiter, emerged from the rear and wanted to attend to me but I politely declined. I wanted a woman. I'd rather take my orders from a woman. I am very passionate about women's growth.

So this cool lady (waitress) noticed my uneasiness, she walked up to me and requested my order.

I was super relieved.

She was so calm and warm. She stated the food prices in clear terms, and even recommends drinks that I might like from the menu

After I was done ordering, she respectfully told me the food was on the way and directed me to a corner where I could chill till the food arrived.

I felt at peace.

In that instance, I began to think. It was pertinent to note and appreciate that women are taking back their dignity. She's working hard. Not waiting for a man to feed or clothe her. She remembers her body is not for profit but to work and earn. She is very pretty too.

I was wowed.

As she was approaching me with the meal, I began to think of a way to encourage her. So when she reached my table, I drew out a mint #500 currency and pressed it on her palm.

She was overjoyed. I needed to tell her why I tipped her so I briefly told her my observation. She was smiling, and grateful. I could tell I had made her day as she thanked me repeatedly before returning to her duty post.

Please that wasnt a nice thing to do at all at all...why would gender discriminate like that?na wah oh.

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A MESSAGE FOR NEW COUPLES

Some men are not ready for marriage, but they're sxxually prepared. This is common, after the wedding, then comes intimacy, the reality sets in, responsibility, expectations etc, these men withdraw because they are not ready for that aspect.

Also, there is a psychological shift that can happen. The chase, begging, anticipation and uncertainty often create excitement. After the first night sex, that tension drops. There will be rejection, if the connection was not built on solid foundation, commitment, emotional compatibility, the interest can decline quickly.It is not exclusive to men. Wives can also lose interest after sex for similar reasons. Couples sometimes realize the connection is not what they thought.

If this happens, you do not throw away your marriage, it means both of you need to sit down and talk about the issues. Pray and get professionals to help you navigate things.

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WHY DIVORCE HAPPENS

#Divorce is undoubtedly high, those who have gone through divorce two or three times are more than those experiencing it for the first time. Divorce feels more common today because several changes have reshaped how relationships work.

The major factor is poor preparation for marriage. We are guilty of this, we are not as serious as our forebearers. Many enter marriage based on emotions, pressure, or physical attraction, without deep understanding of compatibility, values, patience, and conflict management.

It does not look like the rate of divorce is slowing down because we have refused to follow proper processes before nikah. Choose wisely before you marry. Many problems start from the wrong foundation.

Accountability for the divorce should be specific, hold yourself responsible if your eventual marriage leads to divorce, before accusing the next person. Indeed, marry for more than feelings. Interestingly, feelings go up and down but principles keep people steady.

Avoiding divorce is not about luck, obviously it’s about how you pray, build, choose, and maintain the marriage over time. No marriage is perfect, but some habits make divorce far less in our environment. To reduce the high rate of divorce, it begins with you.

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WEIRD FACT
---A smile doesn't always mean a person is happy. Sometimes it simply means they are strong enough to face their own problems.
----A friend who understands your tears is much more valuable than a lot of friends who only know your smile.
----- The oldest fully preserved human body ever found actually has tattoos.
---- People who walk at a quicker pace are generally seen as more confident and happier than those who walk at a slower pace.

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