BROKE BOYFRIEND OR NOT INTERESTED
My boyfriend didn't call me for a whole day so I decided to call him as the usual thing I do when he doesn't reach out and the next thing he said was that he is kinda broke and doesn't have airtime.
So I sent him 2k airtime. So that he can reach out to me. It's been hours and he hasn't called. Is it proper for me to call him to check up on him even though he hasn't reached out to me since I sent that airtime?
Do you need someone to spell it out to you that even if he is broke he will call if he is into you?This your alleged boyfriend is not into you and he may also be broke so he will never have your time..Please move on and move farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr......
Next time give the money to a beggar, instead of using it to give a man that doesnt give a hoot!
Bad advice alert - Unless you just wann be gbenshing him without caring whether he cares or not, then you can go ahead with the situationship.
Maybe he is busy. Wait till evening and if he still doesn't call, call him and ask why he didn't reach out even after sending the airtime.
ReplyDeleteIf he has no sensible excuse, give him space.
If while giving him space he doesn't still show up the way a man who loves and cares about you would, then know he does not deserve you and let him go.
Na you send 2k airtime, na you wan still check on him
ReplyDeleteChai, low self esteem
You sent him 2k airtime so he can reach out to you? Wonderful!
ReplyDeleteOdondo, I'm sure you plan to give him money to pay your dowry as well since na so e dey start.
From what you've sent above, it is an established pattern that he can stay for an extended period without reaching out to you until you do so. Why are you forcing what obviously isn't working? He isn't into you and you know it.
My dear I am sad to inform you that you are on your own as you no get boyfriend. You are in the relationship all by yourself, so save yourself some heartache and keep it moving but I know say you no go hear word
ReplyDeleteHow old are you my dear ?
ReplyDeleteThe delay means he has the credit but is simply choosing not to call. Save your energy and don't reach out. You solved the obstacle you identified (lack of airtime), so the ball is entirely in his court. Chasing him or over checking diminishes your value. It makes you seem overly available, It teaches him that he can be distant, and you will still do all the work to maintain the relationship. So wetin you go do be say, you go match him energy. If he is comfortable going silent, give him the same space. Let him realize his mistake and initiate the conversation. Redirect that energy toward yourself or other things. A good rule of thumb is to let the other person reciprocate the gesture. If he truly wants to talk to you, he will make the effort to use the airtime you sent. Wait for him to make the move. If he values you, he will eventually call. If he never ends up calling, his silence is a loud, clear answer.
ReplyDeleteI repeat...Resist the urge to check up on him or ask why he hasn't called. Respect yourself, Step back, and give him the space and opportunity to step up and prove he values your relationship.
You lack love at home I guess. If parents train their children well dem nor go dey crave I love you from stranger.
ReplyDeleteShe lacks love at home? You live with her for you to conclude that she lacks love?
DeleteThere is nothing wrong in craving love from an outsider no matter how much love you were soaked in from home.
Relationships are not perfect, we learn from each other.
The problem i have with some folks here is that they pretend alot. They have life all figured out, they are perfect.
Una weldone.
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DeleteShe lacks love at home abeg. What kind I’d desperate behavior be that
DeleteParents should always affirm their kids. They should sing it to them especially their girl children everyday that they love them. The reason most people stay in abusive situations is because the word love is scarce at home. They don't hear it often. Some don't even hear it at all. The moment any body choose to say I love you, they won't even consider if he fit into their journey. They would just fall cheapeashly and helplessly for that person even if he's a donkey.
ReplyDeleteThis your relationship road nor dey there. I am sorry.
Let him be, he's not into you.
ReplyDeleteIf he doesn't call you, don't call him.
ReplyDeleteSis, send one simple message if you're genuinely worried about him, but please don't start chasing him up and down. He told you he couldn't call because he didn't have airtime, and you sent him ₦2,000 airtime. At that point, the reason he gave for not reaching out was taken care of. So if hours have passed and he still hasn't called or even sent a text, the issue is probably no longer about airtime.
ReplyDeleteYou can send something simple like, "Hey, just checking to make sure you're okay. Hope you're having a good day." After that, leave it there and see what he does. Also, don't focus too much on this one incident alone, look at the overall pattern. Is he usually communicative, or are you always the one calling, checking in, and keeping the conversation going? Relationships work best when both people make an effort.
Check on him once if you want to, then give him the space to show you whether he actually wants to communicate. His actions will tell you more than any excuse ever will.
This is a situationship not a relationship. You are alone in it. Let go and move on
ReplyDeletePlease don't call him. He's just not into you.
ReplyDeleteI have also mumu for love too like this poster but right now, my 1kobo wen wash no go follow me mumu again. A man that love a lady will do anything humanly possible to get InTouch.
ReplyDeleteThere was no need of you sending him money to reach out to you. you would have just taken it upon yourself to be the one reaching out to him. I bet you say na another babe he dey use your 2k call. Money wen you for use buy sharwama chop drink water
ReplyDeletethis should tell you that money is not the reason why a man cannot reach out to you, anyone that love and care about you can flash you for you to know they think about you. You should face front, allow him check up on you. Move on joor.
ReplyDeleteMaybe MTN has chopped the credit as he already owed them
ReplyDeleteUna too dey vex
If the person usually calls , why not give him chance to explain
In Nigeria don’t send 2k
This your 2k made him feel like he’s getting “urgent 2k” 😁
People looking for evidence from the last show that they set camera in the room for? Where evidence here biko? How valid is this story poster? Hypocrisy amd the face gender. Long hiss.
ReplyDeletePeople looking for evidence from the last show that they set camera in the room for? Where evidence here biko? How valid is this story poster? Hypocrisy amd the face gender. Long hiss.
ReplyDeleteThat guy is a user, he mentioned airtime and you sent it, the next time you call to check up on him he might tell you that his mum swallowed a needle and needs money for surgery. my advice is, since you have already solved the issue,he mentioned wait until he calls you if he doesn't you move on
ReplyDelete1. How long have you been together?
ReplyDelete2. Has he ever spent money on you?
3. What else is going on in his life apart from the current financial situation?
Your response to the questions above will help to arrive at a conclusion.
He used the airtime to call who he wanted to talk to😀
ReplyDeleteAbeg calm down..vex for person who you hear from..abeg..is he safe??
ReplyDeleteI am not against you giving your BF money or buying him card.
ReplyDeleteIf you sent him 2k card immediately after him complaining of difficult time and he couldn't call immediately then something is wrong.
No let anybody deceive you..
I don't seems to understand giving excuses for something that is crystal clear..
If for example, I'm not married and I'm dating you as a lady. I called and u complained of not having a call that for not 🤙 me and I sent you a card and you didn't call immediately..I swear, nothing you fit tell me for night as excuse except say person die for u
No don't.
ReplyDeleteCount your loss and move on. Relationship iyaf hit the rock.
He wants to calm Mr President first
ReplyDeleteHe's clearly not that into you sis. So sad
ReplyDeleteThis energy you are wasting, just use it to sort out your homework.
ReplyDeleteIt's crystal clear, dump him
ReplyDeleteRUN 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️
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