Thursday In House News....

Hailings....

THURSDAY MEMO

How is everyone doing? Hope your day is going on well...I see in so many WhatsApp that it is training all over Nigeria really bad.......Those of you complaining, please send the rain here, I really really need it.....
This weekend I am planning to go and buy things for isi ewu and try to repaper it or I will just settle for abacha...I went to Afro shop the other day and saw all the ingredients to prepare isi ewu or abacha...The only thing I no see na that red big crayfish wey I beg BV Eka Joy to buy and send me...Eka how far? Who is coming??? Please make the order and send me the bill, I will pay for two of us and for shipping it my way....Or just pay and send cos I know say you get money.
I bought tattoo eyebrow eyeliner from temu and all I can say is that God bless the seller...LOL
Maybe next week we will do SDK Blog cookathon again and do the 5k or 10k cookathon...Make i think wetin we go cook...
Today is my no cooking day and I am presently in a mall but will be enabling comments...I am looking at phones and laptop and phone charger...If I was into bizness I go do this phone charger thing oooooooo....In fact I just remembered that it is cheaper on temu..
My friend called me from China where he went to, to study the ground with his friends as na China dey reign and people are just trooping in and out with goods..He said that he was overwhelmed..LOL
Enjoy your day and avoid negative minded people..
I saw you dissing me under anon that comments have reduced...I complain to you?I will even rejoice if I see 10 comments..my traffic is still massive and I am still working and earning and thanking God for every day...Do same and stop monitoring me, biko! #endofchochocho



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FROM THURSDAY MORNING SPONTANEOUS POST


Dear Men, Who Told You That Feeling Is Weakness?
Somewhere along the way, many of us were sold a lie.
We were told that real men don't cry. Real men don't talk about their fears. Real men carry their burdens in silence and somehow emerge stronger for it.
But look around.

Men are struggling. Men are lonely. Men are burning out. Men are ending their own lives at alarming rates. Yet many of us still cling to the same tired script that tells us vulnerability is weakness.
It isn't.
The strongest men I know are not the loudest. They are not the most aggressive. They are not the ones who dominate every room.
They are the men who can say, "I'm not okay."
They are the fathers who apologise to their children. The husbands who admit they need help. The sons who call their friends when life feels too heavy to carry alone..and I am one!
Toxic masculinity doesn't make men stronger. It makes men prisoners. It locks us inside ourselves until the walls become impossible to escape.
And while we're talking about it, misogyny hurts men too.
When we teach boys that women are beneath them, we also teach them that compassion, gentleness, empathy, and emotional intelligence are somehow feminine traits to be rejected. We rob them of half their humanity.

A healthy man is not less of a man because he is kind.
A healthy man is not less of a man because he cries.
A healthy man is not less of a man because he asks for help.
He is more complete.
To every man reading this: you do not have to prove your masculinity through silence, anger, or emotional isolation.
Your feelings are not your enemy.
Your vulnerability is not your weakness.
And the courage to speak up may be the very thing that saves your life.
#mensmentalhealthweek #menarehumantoo #menfeel

-The Simp
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WEIRD FACTS

--- More than 1 in 5 teenagers experience some level of depression during their teens.

--- Hardest question to answer: "Describe yourself?"
---- Everyone has three lives: a public life, a private life, and a secret life

---- A Japanese zoo spent four years trying to mate a pair of hyenas before they eventually realized they were both males.

---- When maturity hits you, silence is better than arguing.

------ Going to sleep at the same time every night increases your chances of achieving a good night's sleep.

------ The difference between infatuation and love is that the first is when you find somebody absolutely perfect, whereas love is realizing that they aren't but it doesn’t matter.

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NIGERIAN CHURCHES THAT REFUSE TO PREACH THAT DIVORCE IS OKAY AND NORMAL SHOULD BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THE DAMAGE THEIR COUNSELLING HAS CAUSED TO GENERATIONS OF WOMEN.

From today, the Nigerian government should mandate all churches in Nigeria to include the following in their marriage counselling programmes:
That divorce is accepted within their church. That the Bible recognizes divorce. That Moses discussed divorce. That Jesus discussed divorce. That Paul discussed divorce. That women can remarry after divorce. And that women will not be stigmatized, isolated or treated as a second-class Christian because they got divorced.
Every intending couple should be told clearly that marriage is important, but human life, safety, dignity and wellbeing are more important.

In fact, any church that tells a woman to endure abuse, violence, coercion, persecution or destruction in the name of "for better for worse" should be held accountable for the consequences of that advice. And shall be closed down and the pastor prosecuted in court.

And mother should also start teaching their daughters that divorce is not the end of life. That divorce is not the unpardonable sin. That divorce is not a mark of failure. That divorce can simply mean a relationship did not work out. Divorce is no different from carrying over a course in school. That divorce it not different from a failed business. And most importantly, Dad should tell their girls that they can come back home if they discover that the man they marry is an asshole.
Divorce is normal. Divorce is okay. And nobody should be shamed for choosing safety, dignity, peace and life over endless suffering.
#DivorceIsOkay
#DivorceIsNormal
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WOMEN NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE YOUR MAN, PLEASE DON'T DO THESE THINGS TO PLEASE HIM

A woman who values herself teaches others how to treat her. Love deeply, but never at the cost of your peace, dignity, or self-worth.

1.Lose your self-respect to keep him happy.
2.Ignore your boundaries because you're afraid of losing him.
3.Abandon your dreams and goals for his comfort.
4.Accept disrespect, insults, or abuse in the name of love.
5.Change who you are completely just to fit his expectations.
6.Cut off family and friends because he demands it.
7.Stay silent about your feelings to avoid upsetting him.
8.Compromise your values and morals for his approval.
9.Carry the entire relationship alone while he makes no effort.
10.Settle for less than you deserve because you're afraid to start over.

LESSON: True love should never require you to lose yourself. The right relationship encourages growth, respect, trust, and mutual effort—not sacrifice of your identity.

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