Tuesday In House News

 Hailings....

TUESDAY MEMO

Good afternoon my people........Hope your day is going on well?...Mine is...
Those of you with Parents, dont forget to check on them and let them know that they are loved....It is not always about money...OK; I get it, you were not taught how to show love? OK, you can teach them now...... check on them!

I like drama a lot but when it becomes like trolling, it disgusts me..let us drop that issue!..Stop mentioning that ID and stop the troll comments please......I fpeople wanna move on, let them do so peacefully...This place is a Barracks, people come ad it makes me glad, if they go, it also makes me sad but they have to go for tohers to come.......To those i met here who have impacted me privately, I say a big thank you........

Enjoy the rest of the day.......

Hugs and hugs to all

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A MEMO TO WIVES CONCERNING SIDECHICS

Hello Stella
My apologies for posting this here
Wives, stop attacking your husbands side chics!!!!!!
For goodness sake don’t! Stop!
I just witnessed a confrontation by a wife and a side chic, the girl kept telling the wife that he says that he’s a widower, but she and her gang kept on slapping and whipping the side chic, when all of a sudden she started fighting them back. She pushed one into the gutter, grabbed the belt from the other woman and flogged her mercilessly and finally faced madam, she pulled her braids and wrapped it around her arms really tight and gave her the beating of her life before neighbors came to separate dem. Her clothes were intact but all 3 had their clothes in shreds with their boobs and under pants for all to see.
This energy would have bn worth it if she faced her dog at home.

Na wah oooooooooooh...Thanks for dropping this...It was in the wrong post but that is why we have in house news..its a dump-post

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SOME OF YOU DONT NEED LOVE; YOU NEED COMPANIONSHIP

Companionship at a certain stage of your life is far more important than love.
Companionship is having someone by your side, someone you can talk to anytime.
Someone you can share thoughts with, ask for opinions, without fear or barriers, because you trust them and their words.
Companionship is someone who gives you a breath of fresh air,
Where are you? Why are you late? Who asks what's wrong, why you're upset, and lets you pour your heart out Because they can't bear to see you sad.
Companionship is someone who, when they see you fall, supports you without expecting anything in return.
Companionship is your crutch in life as you grow older.
Companionship isn't a ring on a finger or a place on an ID card.
Companionship is a soul that comforts another soul, a soul you'll find by your side no matter how tough life gets.
Companionship is a soul that's always with you, reviving your spirit.
Come on, everyone, we all seek a companion before embarking on the journey. ,
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This is so true...Everyday i see couples so old that have been together for 50 years or 60 years..All they have left is companionship...They hold hands and go out and laugh at their own jokes.........Hmmm!!!

So does this mean this love thing na scam and that companionship is better or what

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WEIRD FACTS

----If Earth suddenly stopped spinning, the atmosphere would still be in motion with the Earth’s original 1100 mile per hour rotation speed at the equator
Wind and tsunamis would destroy everything almost instantly

----History repeats itself but never identically

----Earthshine (noun):
The faint glow of sunlight reflected by Earth that illuminates the dark parts of the moon
----Love activates similar brain regions as those activated by cocaine, leading to intense pleasure and even addiction-like behavior

----If your arm or hand falls asleep, rocking your head side to side can release pressure on the nerves in your neck and wake it up

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THIS MAY BE THE REASON WE HAVE DAMAGED MEN

Damaged men are not raised by single mothers. They are mostly men who watched their fathers mistreat their mothers  and witnessed their mothers normalize that treatment as acceptable.

Stop blaming the women who stayed and raised them alone.

Just stop.

Because the single mother didn't damage him ,she sacrificed everything trying to give him a life worth living. She worked doubles. She showed up to every school event alone. She loved him with the portion of herself left over after grief and exhaustion and the weight of doing everything without anyone.

That's not damage....That's devotion.

It's the homes that looked complete from the outside that did the real work. The ones with two parents present one causing pain and one absorbing it quietly, consistently, without ever naming it for what it was. A little boy watching his father speak to his mother like she was nothing. Watching her fix her face, stay quiet, set his plate down anyway.

He was always watching.

Taking notes nobody knew he was taking.

It's not what he was told that shaped him , it's what he saw repeated so many times it stopped looking like dysfunction and started looking like normal. Like love. Like the way things just are between a man and a woman when the door is closed and nobody's performing anymore.

That becomes his blueprint.

Unspoken. Unquestioned. Carried quietly into every relationship he enters as an adult , not because he's evil but because nobody ever stood in front of him and said what he was watching was wrong.

She normalized it.

Not because she was weak but because she was surviving the only way she knew how in a world that gave her very few options and even less support.

But the child didn't know that.

The child just learned.

And the most dangerous lesson a boy can absorb isn't taught in absence — it's taught in the silence of a mother who stayed and swallowed it and showed him without meaning to that this is simply what women do.

Break the cycle.

Name it out loud.

Because what children witness in a home will always speak louder than anything they're ever told.

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MARRYING FOR KPALI VERSUS MARRYING FOR LOVE

Some people think marrying a foreigner guarantees citizenship; far from it.
Before you use love to carry yourself and enter somebody’s house because of passport dreams, have checked if you actually like the person; check their character.
Don’t mářry for papers if there’s no genuine love or compatibility.
Some people think wedding rings have magical pöwèrs .Marriage is no joke, and red flags won’t disappear after the wedding.
The red flags don’t disappear.
You will relocate to it.
From the dating room to the sitting room.
Then from the sitting room to the bedroom.
Then they start paying rent and living with you permanently.
If the only thing attractive about somebody is their nätíönality, one day reality will hold your shoulders and introduce itself properly.
In some cases, to qualify for Residency can take 5-6 years, and during that time, you’ll face the reality of being with someone you don’t truly connect with. Build relationships on love and respect, not desperation. Your peace of mind is worth more than any passport.
A passport can open borders BUT It cannot close strèss .
Choose personality ,Choose wisely except you prefer to be crying in a Bentley
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Hmmmmm thank God for love and for my red passport...hahahahahahahahahahahahahah

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