“ I have never spoken publicly on the internet out of respect for my family, and it simply isn’t my nature to do so. However, after four years of working hard to build my life and my reputation, I feel it is only fair to clarify my position rather than allow my name or character to be unfairly tarnished.
I am a man who values family, friendship, integrity and my faith. I am a brother, a friend to many and most importantly, I know the values I stand for. I am not an abuser.
For clarity, I did not cheat on Bella and I have been single since January 2026.
Much of 2025 was an extremely difficult period for me as I spent a significant amount of time in and out of hospital. I am genuinely grateful to be alive after everything I experienced. Following treatment and recovery in England, I returned to Nigeria in October 2025, where I became aware of information that caused me to question the honesty within our relationship. I had given several opportunities since 2024 for the truth to be shared with me but unfortunately, that did not happen.
It was difficult for me to process, particularly because I had loved Bella deeply and genuinely hoped we would spend our lives together. I also struggled with how the situation was handled and at times, I felt there was not the level of remorse or understanding I had hoped for.
The relationship ended in January 2026. We made attempts to reconcile afterwards but ultimately I came to the conclusion that there were issues of trust and respect that I could not overlook when considering marriage.
I believe a marriage should be built on mutual respect, honesty and the ability to communicate with one another properly.
I genuinely wanted the relationship to work. I even went as far as purchasing a ring because I believed in the possibility of a future together. Unfortunately, sometimes two people can care deeply for one another and still come to the realisation that the relationship is no longer right for them.
I understand that her family may have their own feelings about the situation and I respect that. From my side, I know that I tried sincerely and repeatedly to make things work.
I have no desire for hostility or public back-and-forth. I simply want to move forward peacefully with dignity and respect for everyone involved. I wish Bella nothing but the best in life and I hope we can all eventually move on with grace.”
Story!!!...Show us the ring you bought!...Na so dem de talk...You carefully removed yourself that you ddnt cheat but made it look like she cheated.....Or didnt i read the hidden meaning well?
Hmmm !
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I don't live with them but while he was in bbn stories were told that man na chairman for beating his exes and he showed all those traits while in the house but she stuck with him because she believes she be veeky James were go amend clothes were Carter efe don rub for ground finish.
ReplyDeleteAll the talks of "I wanted to do this and that" after a relationship ends is bs. What stopped you from doing that when the relationship was on?
ReplyDeleteAll the best to you guys
ReplyDeleteAbeg, we don lock Dadiiem gate before we open another one ?
ReplyDeleteNo be only dadiem na mummyiem
DeleteFlag was so red she was used used as the vixen in the song "red flag"
ReplyDeleteShe kuku said she wanted to experience Sheggs herself and also questioned why a woman has to be the victim in every breakup story.
Good luck to you and Bella..
ReplyDeleteAugust came prepared!!! Drama left, right, and center. Before netizens disgest one, another food don land 😋.
ReplyDeleteAre we now on keeping up with the Okagbues?
Toor..
ReplyDeleteAll the best then.
Shebi they warned Bella then but she gets coconut head,
ReplyDeleteSo what will now happen to all the matching outfits?
Life goes on
ReplyDeleteI wish them the best
Relationship of four years gone just like that. So you actually bought ring, so what then now happened.
ReplyDeleteSet awon gang 'I was planning something big for you'
ReplyDeleteIf it's not working, boy bye 🖐
"I EVEN went as far as purchasing a ring because I believed in the possibility of a future together"
DeleteGaslighting tactic
Manipulation trick
Reverse psychology strategy
Shifting the blame on you, making you think you are the guilty person, making you feel responsible for the situation, making you think you misunderstood his words and actions, making you feel you were too impatient and did not allow his good plans for you to unfold
So finally the scales have fallen from Bella's eyes?
It actually happened earlier than I expected
Bella was too naive to get involved with this narcissistic London boy
Anon 14:58
DeleteWell written.
Nawa
ReplyDeleteAll d love show don end baayi
All the best to them.
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ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
I hate how BBN fans treat ships like do or die. If you are NOT married to someone, you have no legal, cultural or spiritual ties or claim over them. Thus, when the relationship ends, pls have the dignity to move on . And for young single ladies, pls learn the following lessons
ReplyDelete1. Flee fornication, I can tell you that God's rules are for our own good. No matter what a man tells you, stand firm that you will not open your legs until marriage. And for this to work, do not collect exorbitant or significant gifts from him. The devil will give anything to get you to sin. Learn to be content and say NO when he takes you on top of a mountain to show you the world
2. Do not live with a man. Either live alone or with your parents or siblings. Speak highly of your family so he too will respect and even fear them. Let him know that to get to you, he needs to meet and impress your father. Always remember that God is your ultimate father, so speak highly of God too and let him know that to get to you, he has to come close to God
3. A man who does not know God cannot love you correctly. We are broken beings, naturally selfish, so it takes the presence of God to reorder our desires. God didnt just create love, God is love and if you don't know him, you can't perfectly love
4. Picture perfect is beautiful but it covers only one form of love - romantic love. The true glue that keeps love together is agape and that is the type knowing God gives
5. If a relationship ends, pls forgive. At first it may seem as weakness but it is true power. Holding unto grudge does nothing to the other person, rather it takes from you. And this is why its best to flee fornication, so you are not so heartbroken if it ends.
6. When you finally get married, then you have legal and spiritual claim over your spouse. It means you can stand in the gap and make proclamations over their life and your family and God will hear cos he recognizes the union. Even demons will flee cos they know marriage is a covenant. Boyfriend & girlfriend relationship is not
Wishing them all the best
Anon 16.06
DeleteExcellent! This should be pinned.
Thanks Anon 16:06. Best advice ever. I wish every single ladies would see this and adhere
DeleteManipulator oshi
ReplyDeleteWhat if Bella cheated @ Sdk
ReplyDeleteBecause he clearly insinuated it.
That trip he said he already bought ticket for him & Bella, as we speak he has gone on it with another uptown babe wey dem say na high flyer ,older & richer . It was not meant to be. Better a broken relationship than a divorce.
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