New month hailings.......
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TUESDAY MEMO.....
How una dey my people....
It is a beautiful day and i am just enjoying myself here..
Someone i dont know too well sent me a message that made me give him advice and next he says that no need for advice that he is weak and feels that he is dying.. I was quite shocked.. he says that he is shocked every morning he wakes up to see he is still alive cos he knows life is leaving his body.....
I pray Gods will be done in his life....
Does anyone need to buy parfum to gift someone? Gifting has been made easy and the parfums are all original and affordable....... I have been sending gifts up and down to test before i post and it works perfectly.......
I will post the advert tomorrow.......I wanna close my order now by ordering for one of my brothers.....I do things spontaneously as a surprise......
There is someone here that i want to surprise so badly but i will plan it well..heheheheheheheheeehehehe.
Enjoy the rest of your day and stay outta amebos sight so that they can see well wetin to gossip...hehehehehehehehe
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MEMO TO FRANCE
I can see that they are trying to jam our heads, please don't let them at all.....I have been deleting some kinda comments and then recently they are saying that i am forcing you and my blog boo to get married......
I am sure we all as adults know that we are joking but if at any point it feels good to do it for real...I will buy you a dream wedding dress and accessories.. its on me cos i love weddings so much...
Kai i still remember my wedding dress that was stolen......well it was not stolen, my brother forgot it in a taxi with all my stuff, even the shoes, jewelry....in fact everything i wore on my wedding day, even my underwear, i did not et eyes on it again.....i gave my brother to drop it for me at home but he was more interested in the money he had to change and came out as soon as the taxi stopped......
So as i was saying.......... this is my promise to you.
Its me
BLEACHING MIAMI WATER!!!
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WEIRD FACTS--- Following the 2016 Tennessee fires, Dolly Parton gave $1,000 a month for five months to each family whose home was destroyed
---Months later, as she helped deliver their final checks, she surprised each family with an extra $5,000 — giving $10,000 to nearly 900 families
A 25-year study of people over 80 with sharp memories found that diet and exercise habits varied widely among them — but strong social connection was the one trait they consistently shared
--Being nice to someone you dislike doesn't mean you're being fake. It means you're mature enough to tolerate that individual.
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TEACHER LIFE
A while back, we actually had a little exhibition, so after school everyone was busy clearing classrooms and getting ready to go home.Then suddenly I heard:“We're looking for Jay.”
Eh? Looking for Jay as in looking for Jay?
Jay was in my colleague's class and she had assumed he had gone home.
Then his mother arrived to pick him up.
That's when everybody realised that Jay was nowhere to be found.
His mother was surprisingly calm.
The security man started flipping through the logbook, apparently trying to prove that Jay had already been picked up.
The woman looked at him and said:
"I'm just coming now and you're telling me I've picked my child?"
Haaa.
At that point, the HM started calling the school buses that had already left.
Was Jay in any of them? And lo and behold...
My guy was enjoying a free bus ride.
Not only was he in a bus, he was heading towards a route nowhere near his house.
And this boy doesn't even board the school bus.
The bus attendant had to bring him back to school, and eventually his mother took him home.
Thank God she remained calm because, honestly, this was no small matter.
One missing kindergarten child is enough to make an entire school forget every other problem they had that day.
As for Jay?
I hope he enjoyed his complimentary tour of Lagos because summer school bus excursion was not on the days timetable.
The next morning? Wahala!!!!
I did this thing when i just entered secondary school......At the close of school and up until 10pm, I was nowhere to be found...My parents raised alarm and the whole neighbourhood was looking for me all over not knowing that i followed a bus that came to school to preach to gbagada to attend a crusade where i was given better jollof rice and chicken and assorted....
I arrived with the last Bus that left the venue cos i was helping clean the venue...When i showed up, my ada was too happy from shock to even cane me some strokes......I was shocked that i caused so much wahala and my mum had cried so much.......I i never did it again.....
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HOW I STOP OVERTHINKING?
The best and foremost solution of overthinking is to keep yourself too much busy,when your mind keep working and thinking of some work and you will detach yourself from negative or unusual thoughts. Once you will do hard work enough you will get tired and i'm damn sure you will fall asleep as fast as you toss to your bed even without any thoughts and dreams as well .
However,always relax your mind,nerves and smile
coped
The best and foremost solution of overthinking is to keep yourself too much busy,when your mind keep working and thinking of some work and you will detach yourself from negative or unusual thoughts. Once you will do hard work enough you will get tired and i'm damn sure you will fall asleep as fast as you toss to your bed even without any thoughts and dreams as well .
However,always relax your mind,nerves and smile
coped
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THIS LIFE NO BALANCE AT ALL
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DIFFERENT MINDSET IN MARRIAGE
So, as a man, my home will be dirty and I’ll be waiting for my wife to come and clean up the house when I don’t have a boil on my hands? If people visit my home and it’s dirty, I’ll tell them what exactly?
Or as a woman, I work, and I earn money and there is a need in the home, and I say I won’t meet that need because it’s my husband’s role to meet the financial need. And it’s not as if I am married to a lazy or irresponsible man.
I genuinely do not understand what many people think marriage is about.
I see young unmarried people already preparing for war before they even marry because they have been fed garbage online or they grew up watching marriages that were badly executed.
Marriage is not a competition over who suffers more or who performs more “roles.” A healthy marriage is two people helping each other carry life. Some people talk about marriage like a labour union negotiation.
“If I cook, he must wash plate.”
“If I pay school fees, she must do this.”
“If I do this, what do I gain?”
Everything becomes transaction.
If you are a Christian, the idea of marriage is that two persons have become one. So tell me, how do you refuse to meet your own financial needs or tidy up your own home in the name of gender roles and still think you are normal?
Yes, responsibilities exist. Yes, men and women are different. Yes, structure matters. But common sense, love, compassion, maturity, and partnership should matter too.
Sometimes your partner is tired. Sometimes life becomes heavy for one person. Sometimes one person carries more temporarily. That is life.
Many people are entering marriage with a lawyer’s mindset instead of a builder’s mindset. Everybody is trying to protect themselves from being cheated instead of asking how both people can actually build a good life together.
And honestly, social media is making it worse.
#copied
That highlighted part is what mostly crashes marriages.....Most Nigerians marriages are transactional cos most women marry to escape the hard life...I cant confirm if i am aong these set or not cos my guy fit read this place come feel bad but to see husband wey fit change your life no easy so if you see am make you marry and behave yourself......BEHAVE WELL!!!
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I do four out of these rules oooooo......
Good pm to y'all keeping it real on here. Big thumbs up to @Stella for consistently coming early for a couple of days now but you are a tad late today by 4 minutes. You rock still!
ReplyDeleteWhat's crack-a-lacking wherever you are at on a spanking new month of September to remember such as this one?
Keep being you and don't ever change cos of what people who have decided to be enemies maliciously yap about your person.
Quick One
Are you team Amstel Malt or Dubic Malt?
#TerrificTuesday
#TrollsInTheMudTuesday
#TurnUpTuesday
#ThinkTankTuesday
Amstel is tasteless, it's been a while I had dubic malt, it was so yummy like guinness malt,
DeleteI think the best malt now is beta malt
Amstel because they say it has low sugar.
DeleteNon. Malta Guinness 😊
DeleteMalta Guinness no bi Dubic mate na, why the comparison @Gifty?
Delete@Gods favour the same company makes them
DeleteFirst to comment today again, happy New month 💃💃
ReplyDeleteHappy new month to you.
DeleteTry again tomorrow.
Noooooo.
DeleteTry again🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪
Anty no way,try again next time inugo😅😅
DeleteKeep trying 😂
DeleteHappy new month
LoL not today
DeleteLol 😊 I like your positive spirit.
DeleteHappy new month 🎉
Try again tomorrow 🤣🤣
DeleteWhat makes me worried is that we struggle so much for a life which can end anytime, let’s LOVE ❤️each other, life is never guaranteed .
ReplyDeleteWelcome to the Month of September, my birth month.
Agreed 100%!
DeleteSending you lots of love this month. Happy early birthday!
Welcome to our birth month
DeleteHappy new month lovelies 💞💞 wishing us all blessings, goodnews and testimonies
DeleteAwww 🥰 thanks so much Stella for your kindness 🧡 God bless you
I know you want the best for your bvs, There’s no point where you have mandated or forced me to marry your boo, so I don’t really know where that’s coming from…some of dem just open their smelly mouths waaah to spew rubbish ,i honestly don’t have time for dem jobless trolls who have been dropping snide comments since, they can think whatever they want…some say Im forcing myself on him 🤣😂🤣😂 na better laugh i dey always laugh when I see some comments sha
My dear going online seeing how people are dropping dead everyday will make you wanna hmmmm!
DeleteThen why the struggles?
Life is still beautiful anyway.
Good afternoon SDK and BVs. Happy new month. Thank you Jesus. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteHappy new month darlyn 😍
DeleteHappy new month darling BB 🥰
DeleteHappy new month beautiful momma 💜 have a fruitful month
DeleteHappy new month Bb dear 😘
DeleteHappy new month 🎉🎉
DeleteGreetings fam..love y'all
ReplyDeleteMor Mor ❤️
DeleteLove you too babes 💞
DeleteSo there’s this woman that I pay to cook atama & editan soups for me sometimes, she also helps me to milk some wheat 🌾 grains
Two weeks ago, I transferred 50k to her to help me milk unripe plantain flour and wheat at 20k each, then 10k for her transportation…along the line I was to travel to Accra urgently, so I told her to hold on till when i will be returning back to Lagos cos I don’t want her to bring it to my house in my absence …I know the guys will just collect and dropped it in inside the cabinet without properly packing it well and weevils might enter it
I always packed them on airtight containers to avoid weevils, I called her on Thursday morning that i will be coming back Friday afternoon so that she can go get it done by Friday morning, then before evening she should bring it to my house…she said ok, I got back and called her severally on Friday, she didn’t pick up
Saturday morning I called again, still no response, she later called me back and told me she hasn’t done it , I was shocked 😳 I asked why? She couldn’t give me any reason, I later called her in the evening that same Saturday and she was begging that she has used to money to sort out urgent need ❗️till now her phone is not reachable
Humans are funny, this is someone I give foodstuffs,money from time to time oh❗️ hmmm 🤔
Love you all queens
Delete@Paris, the woman get mind oooo..
DeleteShe for tell you before using the money for another thing..
That woman just missed her luck because I strongly believe you won't patronize her again.
DeleteHow was you trip enjoyment minister.
Wellcomeee Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss
ReplyDeleteI Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ❤️
Hello iya Boys
Welcome IHN…..🤗
ReplyDeleteHappy new month everyone 😊
Mo s'orire mèje mèje 🎶
ReplyDeleteOri mi kó ma kó blessings 🎵
Credit alert...gratitude sa ni 🙏
May we receive massive breakthroughs this month of September in Jesus name 👏
Stella, your wedding dress story brought a lot of memories to my mind now 😊 Love is beautiful ❤️
Happy new month beautiful people 😍
Amen! Happy new month dear
DeleteAmen 🙏
Delete💃💃💃💃💃 make i dey dance. This month go sumptuous for all of us in Jesus name.
DeleteAmen to your prayers, Adunni. Wishing you the best the month have to offer.
Happy new month dearest Adunni 🥰
DeleteBeautiful Mary, our namesake 😍 amen & amen dearie 🙏
DeleteNN dearie, amen 🙏
Omo T Babygirl 😘 This month go sweet for us my dear. God bless our hustles 🙏
My darling Mercybee, wishing you a beautiful month 🎉😍
Dolly Parton was a force to reckon with. I had to watch Joyful Noise again just to hear her voice. Rare breed.
ReplyDelete@ France I have Luxury cars for rental 😄😄😄
My Life is easier because of my Husband.
Sunny day again, my craving says ice cream, my head says room temperature water.
Hello Everyone......
Go for the ice cream abeg this weather is too hot 🤣
DeleteMarie mi, na the luxury car me I wan buy....make money do come o 😃 God bless your DH for making life beautiful for you.
DeleteHappy September darling 🎉
Since men are the prize and women need men, what about lesbians???😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteAs for me I need money, lots of it
Okwu nkasi obi!!!!
Greetings to all yard people, greetings in the name of Jah.
DeleteMi pray for all the brethren and sistren. Jah bless all of dem. Jah protect yhu children. Thins hard now for everyone. Here we have mothers and fathers. Dem work hard. But thins still hard. Here dem are single men and women. Dem all struggle. Jah be with dem all.
Jah sanitize the yard. Some people dem come here here but dem bad. Dem call some "trolls". Dem be problem. Jah weed dem out. Jah distract dem. Jah chase dem away, and fumigate dis place. If dem no repent, if dem be men, give waist pain, just for one week. If dem be women, just tooth ache, just for one week. Maybe dem go learn
Jah protect we and give we daily bread. Pursue dem trolls!
Console and comfort Waju, she go through a lot. She be good people. Jah restore her joy and give her grace and strength. Help di family cope with what dem go through.
Bless us all O Jah! In the name of the Lord!
Yah man! Amen
DeleteNke a Rasta choosuru my comment I bia kpe ekpere, O Chukwu Nkem!!
Good afternoon 😊😊😊
ReplyDeleteHappy blessed September,
ReplyDeleteThat write- up about marriage is true,I totally agree with it, marriage should indeed be about companionship, respect,love,care,as long they both understand each other.
Lost a colleague yesterday,life indeed,God , please take care of his wife and kids,such an intelligent mind.Rest in peace illiya.
Someone should tell Diiadem not to loose too much weight because the muscle will be surplus. She already has this muscular akpruka structure. More weight loss, More muscle. She is recently everywhere in people's timeline like someone who is trying really hard to prove something.
ReplyDeleteSide 👀 at the bv who said she is gorgeous.
There is nothing gorgeous about Diiadem. It's all IV shots and organic bleaching creams.
Try tell her yourself
DeleteAh, sorry o, pastor of eyes! prophet of optometry! Your healing go need direct connection to national grid o. Wallahi! As na only you know why your recovery still dey blink like bad bulb till now.... even standard healing cannot touch your case because your emotional baggage is a whole substation,..regular power banks and solar panels too can’t cope. e go even burn regular wire sef. Jeez!
DeleteJust call my name directly, because na me be the official billboard carrier for her beauty and gorgeousness.
Happy new month jor.
Anon I honestly think she's beautiful with a skin like milk.
DeleteThanks @Bv Osundi! She is literally a walking ray of sunshine. The glow is blinding! 🔥 like neon lights! 🌟
DeleteHello, everyone. Happy new month. Stella, your story up there made me remember how my sister's trad dresses and accessories was "stolen" before her wedding day. We waybilled from Lagos and for over 5 days, it didn't get to Onitsha talk less okija. My dear sister cried her eyes out. We had to make emergency arrangements... The morning after the wedding, we got a call that the bag was in Imo.
ReplyDeleteOh dear. That must have been traumatizing for your sister 🥺Happened to me too....mine was my reception dress, accessories, new naira notes & confetti stuff. We found the bag a week after wedding at my sister's house 😩
DeleteChai after the wedding fa 😩 I can only imagine the trauma.
DeleteChai! Such a painful experience. I'm not sure i would even go on with wedding if na me be your sister. I hate stress 😩.
DeleteMy darlings, it wasn't easy o. It wasn't easy at all. She cried ehn, but we really tried to console and cheer her up.
DeleteIts has been a sunny weather for like days now that I'm beginning to get sacred of the heat / hot weather in advance.
ReplyDeleteWaking up each day strong and sound can't be taken for granted.
There is a new every morning, it's a new month again... God win.
Stella that person you said that is dying slowly needs urgent therapy.He needs to speak up before it turns to depression.
Chai,this heart carries unforseen battles .. life really happens but never give up.. It can only get better.
Be kind with your words and actions towards others,let your light shine .
Bitterness and jealousy dey choke... E go 'choke' you ooo!. Don't say that I didn't warn you.
Stay away from whatever that threatens your peace of mind,be it person, animal, place or thing....Loooool!
Don't get it twisted.
Oya spread your hands and receive all the blessings that follows September.......🫴🫴🫴 E no go pass you by.
Happy New Month.
Have a nice a day.
Amen and amen 🙏 I claim & receive my blessings in Jesus name.
DeleteGood day everyone,hope your day is daying well,mine di very sharp✌🏻
ReplyDeleteChei,Nne SDK dey steal the under wear join ehyaa😅
I can sight the original bleaching Miammi water up there🥰😅
I always like that line oops!
Your thoughts are seeds planted in the garden of your heart. Be careful what you water, for what you continually nurture will eventually bear fruit. Water your mind with God’s word, faith and hope.Not with fear, bitterness, or worry. For as a man thinks in his heart, so is he. (Proverbs 23:7)
ReplyDeleteGOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY 🌹
My people you sure say today na September 1st? Abi na August 32nd????🤭🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteSo the lady that Geh Geh did a video with and supposedly gave a car was spotted trekking under hot sun selling drinks. I don laff tire.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Lamba.com.ng
Wey d car na? Aunty sey dem give am the 'work' make e do as per make e pretend say e receive car and begin roll for ground like industrial mop. E fit no pass 10k wey dem give her to dey do like shigidi for ground. Audio car.
🤦🏼♀️ A+ for effort. F- for proper packaging. With those his half boiled brains deciples wey dey use their yearly rent by chyna tshirt.
Believe anything you see on social media at your own risk o.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hehehe 😄 You say? 🤣🤣
DeleteLmao@ roll for ground like industrial mop 😄
Hahaha 🤣🤣 this my Anon Amebo lover abeg get an ID na. You're crack me up real good.
DeleteSocial media is not real at all😂😂😂😭
DeleteHahahahaha 😂😂😂😂 social media is not a real place!
DeleteYou're too funny with your description.
DeleteLmao 🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteOsundi, one day one day my love.🤗🥰
DeleteOh wow! Dolly Parton did really well..
ReplyDeleteGod rest her soul 🙏
Hello beautiful people 💕
Enjoy your day ✌️
Amen. I think I will remember Dolly Parton more for her philanthropy than singing 🥰
DeleteI saw a quote that said:
ReplyDeleteHow can we judge people for their choices when we know nothing about their options? It stayed in my mind for a while. Because from the outside, it’s always easy to point at someone’s life and say they chose wrong. We look at the outcome, the mistake, the mess, and we think we would have done better. But what we don’t see are the closed doors they stood in front of, the pressure, the fear, the limited choices they had at the time.
Sometimes what looks like a bad decision to us was the only door they could open. Judgment is easy when we only see the ending. Compassion starts when we stop and wonder what choices someone actually had.
Good afternoon 🧡
©️ TEEJAY
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon all. How is your day going wherever you are?
ReplyDeleteTeacher's life, thank God Jay was found? Enjoy the rest of today
Good afternoon beautiful people of SDK blog.
ReplyDeleteHello ihn 🥰
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my people and once again welcome to your September to remember for good 😊
Teacher's life, the calmness of that woman needs to be studied aswear 😅 because these children can make one go crazy honestly. Thank God it ended in praise.
That write-up on how to stop overthinking is the absolute best and I do that too.
Bleaching Miami water 😘😘😘
Y'all should enjoy the rest of your day.
E go surely be ✌🏼
You too my beautiful Osundi 😍
DeleteHere is wishing you a miracle filled September 👏
Some people are really calm under pressure.
DeleteI am like that woman too,
I need advice biko, as a baker do I need to bake and give people around for sampling when I open my studio?
ReplyDeleteGiving people around will help publicize you
DeleteYeah
DeleteAll this women that beat their husbands how do you people gbensh. Is it you the wife that gbensh him or how. If you are horny you just tell him to come and do or do you tell him to lay down while you climb him?
ReplyDeleteAbeg I'm asking for my neighbor because guyman they collect beating steady and the wife is pregnant now.
Lol 😂😂😂😂
DeleteHahahahaha 😂 😂 😂 make your curiosity no keee you ooo, Anon.
DeleteLol 😂 me sef follow you dey wonder.
DeleteBV Waju. Hope you are staying strong?.. Take heart
ReplyDeleteMEN ARE THE PRICE!!!
ReplyDelete#dislifenobalance
Beautiful Evening Everyone 🥰🥰
ReplyDeleteHappy New Month once again everyone 🥰🥰😍
Welcome September 🥂
ReplyDeleteThe sign out rule of power is indeed a powerful guide. Stay woke ✌🏽
Yes i agree with you. Be guided
DeleteGood afternoon blog fam
ReplyDeleteHappy new month, I pray this month favours all of us
Good day Stella and everyone.Have a great day.you are blessed.
ReplyDeleteIHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥳
Today is the beginning of embers months it shall be the beginning of good success, happiness, health and prosperity, happy new month everyone
Good evening beautiful people.
ReplyDeleteLove me some Dolly Parton. I have about 15 of her song in my phone.
ReplyDeleteYesterday and today was very very sunny , now I'm missing the rains.
Welcome to the month of September.
Good evening house
ReplyDelete@teacherlife. This story is so funny. I pray my kids never put me through that stress. I'll just lose it
ReplyDeleteCan I suggest that manufacturers of cooking gas cylinders should add something like gauge or whatever on it, to help one to know when the gas is about to finish. Or is there any that has something like that?
ReplyDeleteImagine your food on the fire and the fire goes off just like that.How do you feel? 🙄
I know there is alternative but let them make it easier.
Good evening everyone
ReplyDeleteWe thank God for this wonderful month of ember, we march in. Na so beta go follow us