Hello and happy woman crush Wednesday
WEDNESDAY MEMO
Hey you!......I am too happily excited.....Chei God is awesome!!!
Wetin dey play for your side?
wetin dey cook?
Have a good day!
U don collect salary? I paid my workers well this month oooooooooooooooo...Everywhere good!
My workers abi i lie????LOL............ letu me praise maisef
Enjoy the day!!!
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
My father-in-law’s first daughter’s husband is a retired police officer. From what I know, he’s a very dirty cop.
You would think that now that he’s retired, he would be enjoying his retirement, right?But no. He’s down with a serious stroke, and my husband and I began discussing how dirty cops always end up miserable.
My husband shared the story of a police officer whose two sons were knocked down and killed while riding a motorcycle. He also shared the story of another officer whose children are hooked on drugs. Then he told me about another officer whose wife owned a beer parlour. She brought a young girl from the village to work for her, accused her of stealing one day, and put hot, fresh pepper in her private parts.
Listening to all these stories and hearing about their ordeals left me with the impression that nemesis always catches up with bad cops.
Hmmmmmmm!!!!!
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Plenty Positive Thoughts For Negative‑Minded People
Some people carry negativity the way others carry handbags everywhere they go. But remember that your peace is not up for negotiation.
Positive thoughts are powerful; they remind you that you can rise above anything trying to pull you down.
When people choose doubt, choose confidence.
When they choose negative gossip, choose positive growth.
When they choose bitterness, choose gratitude.
Your mindset is your protection. Not everyone will understand your joy or your calm, and that’s fine.
Some people are committed to misunderstanding you, but you must stay committed to staying positive.
Let negative‑minded people keep their storms.
You keep your sunshine.
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WEIRDFACTS
----Reading your favourite book repeatedly can have similar benefits to watching your favourite movies over and over
---The familiarity of the plot, characters, and even the texture of the pages can provide a sense of comfort and security, particularly in times of stress or change.
---- The smell of new books is due to the volatile substances used in the production process, which creates that distinctive 'new book smell'.
---- The sound of rain on the roof is, in fact, a soothing signal that can promote relaxation.
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KNOW THIS
--. Gathering information won't reach you a lesson, actually using that info will.
--. What other people think about you is actually none of your business
--. Save, invest, save, invest!
-- Be kind with your comments or don't comment at all.
-- Silence is usually the best option
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
My father-in-law’s first daughter’s husband is a retired police officer. From what I know, he’s a very dirty cop.
You would think that now that he’s retired, he would be enjoying his retirement, right?But no. He’s down with a serious stroke, and my husband and I began discussing how dirty cops always end up miserable.
My husband shared the story of a police officer whose two sons were knocked down and killed while riding a motorcycle. He also shared the story of another officer whose children are hooked on drugs. Then he told me about another officer whose wife owned a beer parlour. She brought a young girl from the village to work for her, accused her of stealing one day, and put hot, fresh pepper in her private parts.
Listening to all these stories and hearing about their ordeals left me with the impression that nemesis always catches up with bad cops.
Hmmmmmmm!!!!!
*************
Plenty Positive Thoughts For Negative‑Minded People
Some people carry negativity the way others carry handbags everywhere they go. But remember that your peace is not up for negotiation.
Positive thoughts are powerful; they remind you that you can rise above anything trying to pull you down.
When people choose doubt, choose confidence.
When they choose negative gossip, choose positive growth.
When they choose bitterness, choose gratitude.
Your mindset is your protection. Not everyone will understand your joy or your calm, and that’s fine.
Some people are committed to misunderstanding you, but you must stay committed to staying positive.
Let negative‑minded people keep their storms.
You keep your sunshine.
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WEIRDFACTS
----Reading your favourite book repeatedly can have similar benefits to watching your favourite movies over and over
---The familiarity of the plot, characters, and even the texture of the pages can provide a sense of comfort and security, particularly in times of stress or change.
---- The smell of new books is due to the volatile substances used in the production process, which creates that distinctive 'new book smell'.
---- The sound of rain on the roof is, in fact, a soothing signal that can promote relaxation.
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KNOW THIS
--. Gathering information won't reach you a lesson, actually using that info will.
--. What other people think about you is actually none of your business
--. Save, invest, save, invest!
-- Be kind with your comments or don't comment at all.
-- Silence is usually the best option
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WHAT IF THE PERSON WHO LOOKED FINE THIS MORNING IS ACTUALLY FIGHTING TO HOLD THEMSELVES TOGETHER?
They woke up, got ready, smiled, and started the week like everything was normal But inside, they are worried about rent.
They are thinking about school fees.
They are wondering how they will feed their children.
They are carrying a heartbreak they have not told anyone about.
And maybe they are tired of saying, “I’m fine,” because nobody seems to notice when they are not.
If that person is you, please remember this:
You do not have to solve your whole life today.
Take today slowly.
Handle what is in front of you. Give yourself permission to breathe. Ask for help when you need it. Pray when your heart is too heavy for words.
You have survived days you once thought would break you.
There is still hope for you.
Copied
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ARE YOU A GBOROMIDELERU???????
There is a fascinating Yoruba expression: Gboromideleru. If you are a Yoruba man or woman you must have been familiar with that word.
Infact Yorubas often say 'Gboromideleru ma fi lomi ndasi'
Loosely understood, it describes the person in the Yoruba culture who hears about a matter, picks it up, and begins carrying it around as though it were his personal assignment.
Nobody invited her, nobody appointed her mediator, he/she doesn't have all the facts. But somehow, he has become the Minister of Information for a conflict that is not his own.
Social media has industrialized Gboromideleru.
A husband and wife have a disagreement- she has an opinion. Two siblings are fighting- she chooses a side.
Someone tells one side of a family dispute on a podcast - within thirty minutes she has written an epistle identifying the narcissist, the victim, the wicked in-law and the family member who should be disowned.
The danger of Gboromideleru is that he often arrives looking like a helper.
By the time she finishes helping you, a disagreement that could have been resolved over coffee now requires lawyers. And strangely, when the consequences arrive, Gboromideleru has moved on to the next trending matter.
I often stumble on social media and always in shock how people's private matters become content with many Gboromideleru's having opinion.
This is why we must develop relational intelligence.
Here are four ways to avoid becoming or empowering a Gboromideleru.
1. Don't Carry a Matter You Were Never Given - Not every story you hear requires your intervention. Before commenting, calling, posting or forwarding, ask:
"What exactly is my role here?"
If you are neither affected, invited nor professionally responsible for helping, sometimes the wisest contribution is silence. You don't have to attend every fight you are invited to by social media.
2. Never Make a Verdict From One Person's Story - Painful people tell stories from painful perspectives. That doesn't necessarily mean they are lying. It simply means you are hearing an experience through one person's eyes.
Family conflicts are especially complex because today's argument may have a twenty-year history.
Listen with compassion, but don't convert empathy into a verdict.
You can support someone without immediately making their relative your enemy.
3. Don't Confuse Escalation With Support - A true friend doesn't pour petrol on your anger.
Anybody who consistently makes you angrier after every conversation may not be helping you. The quality of counsel should be measured by what it produces, not by how good it makes your anger feel.
4. Become a Bridge, Not a Broadcasting Station - Before repeating something someone told you in confidence, ask whether repeating it will produce healing.
Some information should die with you.
Some screenshots should never be forwarded, some voice notes should never leave your phone and some family stories don't belong on Facebook.
So before joining the next trending family fight, perhaps we should all ask ourselves: Am I bringing water or am I carrying petrol? Because families have enough problems already.
They don't need another Gboromideleru.
-copied
WHAT IF THE PERSON WHO LOOKED FINE THIS MORNING IS ACTUALLY FIGHTING TO HOLD THEMSELVES TOGETHER?
They woke up, got ready, smiled, and started the week like everything was normal But inside, they are worried about rent.
They are thinking about school fees.
They are wondering how they will feed their children.
They are carrying a heartbreak they have not told anyone about.
And maybe they are tired of saying, “I’m fine,” because nobody seems to notice when they are not.
If that person is you, please remember this:
You do not have to solve your whole life today.
Take today slowly.
Handle what is in front of you. Give yourself permission to breathe. Ask for help when you need it. Pray when your heart is too heavy for words.
You have survived days you once thought would break you.
There is still hope for you.
Copied
*************
ARE YOU A GBOROMIDELERU???????
There is a fascinating Yoruba expression: Gboromideleru. If you are a Yoruba man or woman you must have been familiar with that word.
Infact Yorubas often say 'Gboromideleru ma fi lomi ndasi'
Loosely understood, it describes the person in the Yoruba culture who hears about a matter, picks it up, and begins carrying it around as though it were his personal assignment.
Nobody invited her, nobody appointed her mediator, he/she doesn't have all the facts. But somehow, he has become the Minister of Information for a conflict that is not his own.
Social media has industrialized Gboromideleru.
A husband and wife have a disagreement- she has an opinion. Two siblings are fighting- she chooses a side.
Someone tells one side of a family dispute on a podcast - within thirty minutes she has written an epistle identifying the narcissist, the victim, the wicked in-law and the family member who should be disowned.
The danger of Gboromideleru is that he often arrives looking like a helper.
By the time she finishes helping you, a disagreement that could have been resolved over coffee now requires lawyers. And strangely, when the consequences arrive, Gboromideleru has moved on to the next trending matter.
I often stumble on social media and always in shock how people's private matters become content with many Gboromideleru's having opinion.
This is why we must develop relational intelligence.
Here are four ways to avoid becoming or empowering a Gboromideleru.
1. Don't Carry a Matter You Were Never Given - Not every story you hear requires your intervention. Before commenting, calling, posting or forwarding, ask:
"What exactly is my role here?"
If you are neither affected, invited nor professionally responsible for helping, sometimes the wisest contribution is silence. You don't have to attend every fight you are invited to by social media.
2. Never Make a Verdict From One Person's Story - Painful people tell stories from painful perspectives. That doesn't necessarily mean they are lying. It simply means you are hearing an experience through one person's eyes.
Family conflicts are especially complex because today's argument may have a twenty-year history.
Listen with compassion, but don't convert empathy into a verdict.
You can support someone without immediately making their relative your enemy.
3. Don't Confuse Escalation With Support - A true friend doesn't pour petrol on your anger.
Anybody who consistently makes you angrier after every conversation may not be helping you. The quality of counsel should be measured by what it produces, not by how good it makes your anger feel.
4. Become a Bridge, Not a Broadcasting Station - Before repeating something someone told you in confidence, ask whether repeating it will produce healing.
Some information should die with you.
Some screenshots should never be forwarded, some voice notes should never leave your phone and some family stories don't belong on Facebook.
So before joining the next trending family fight, perhaps we should all ask ourselves: Am I bringing water or am I carrying petrol? Because families have enough problems already.
They don't need another Gboromideleru.
-copied
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Una good afternoon
ReplyDeleteWe welcome IHN
It is well in Jesus name
Amen π
Aunty ofon, you people should stop this we welcome ihn. Ihn don land. Shey we that open it don't know it is ihn?
DeleteGood Afternoon
DeleteWhat the heck is my father in laws first daughters husband. Why not just say your sister in law or your husband's sister. And please reduce the way you use AI
DeleteGberemidelu is someone like bv candy
DeleteI don too they use of using my phone to check time, to the point if I even wear watch and I wan check time, I go put hand for my pocket bring out my phone to check time, but I wear watch.
ReplyDeleteMtcheeww
Mtvhewwwwwwwwwwww. Always doing first to comment l
DeleteGood afternoon to y'all on this space and hey, hope your day has been going on smoothly without hassles?
ReplyDeleteQuick One
Would you rather spend your hard earned monies/Benjamins on fruits like pineapples, bananas et al or chocolates like maltesers, snickers et al?
#WittyWednesday
#WonderfulWednesday
#WinWinWednesday
#WomanCrushWednesday
I will rather spend my money on bananas, avocado pears, cooked corn, pawpaw, watermelon and cashews..
DeleteYes
DeleteBananas any day anytime. I love π it so much
DeleteOmo, sometimes silence isn't the best option. When you continue to keep quiet, people think you're a fool.
ReplyDeleteI accede to this that you have said even though it looks like you are gaslighting someone. Gbas gbos be nice sometimes.
DeleteTrue
DeleteTrue...
DeleteYeah ππΎ. Defend your self when you should
DeleteCoercing someone*
DeleteWhere's the lie? They will take advantage of you.
DeleteStella you didn't pay me πππ
ReplyDeleteI've had such am exciting day , God is good .... getting ready for a bbq.
Am how
DeleteHahahaha
Delete*an
DeleteWasn't concentrating thank you anon.
Lol π Choco darling, you and your bestie are big girls na π€
DeleteYou no lie oo, Stella. Everywhere steeeeeeeeeeeew!!!! God bless you abundantly.
ReplyDeleteAbeg, my queens una dey see this pad trends? People sharing their experiences from using sanitary pads made in Nigeria? Omo!!! Such a scary experience.
Where's that obsessed anon that said you don't work for her anymore when we need him/her?
DeleteWas that Blacky or who?
Y'all should enjoy your time jare.
Please share the info here thank you.
DeleteSo Blacky actually knacked you too?
DeleteAnon 15:09, Believe what you want, I owe you nothing. Just take your foolishness elsewhere. There will be no explanation, no back-and-forth. Come and beat me for whatever you think I did wrong, if you can. Mtsheeeew π
DeleteEnjoy. You worked for it
DeleteAwwww, thank you Stella with the good heart π Enjoy OmoT babygirl, you deserve it π₯°
Delete@sanitary pad update, abeg post here dear, Lord help us o.
Be a gboromideleru at your own risk. Most times when they settle, you become the enemy especially husband and wife matter.
ReplyDeleteMy people, how una dey? Hope there is no flood around you.or your area?
Good afternoon my people, how Una dey?
ReplyDeleteHappy woman crush π₯° Wednesday to all hard working women.
WE KEEP MOVING!!
Happy women crush wednesday to all the amazing women in the house
ReplyDeleteSDK fam It’s my birthday today and I’m so grateful to see another year. I’m stepping into this new year with faith and I’d love to have your prayers, good vibes and well wishes. (Also accepting urgent birthday cash alerts and gifts if you're feeling extra generous π ππ) Wish me well π π
Happy birthday !!!!!!
DeleteHappy Birthday Wishes π₯³
DeleteHappy birthday to you
DeleteThank you Choco π«π«
DeleteHappy birthday π dear. Longer life to you
DeleteHappy birthday darling Pearl π₯³ππ
DeleteWishing you more of God's awesome blessings π
Good afternoon my people. Stella, l don collect salary, but nothing changed.
ReplyDeleteWe have plenty gboromidelerus on this blog.
ReplyDeleteHonestly! A couple of them have left the blog sef.
DeleteWhile you you want to die here, like your placenta is here. Better fuck away from my comment.
DeleteIHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone π₯³
Happy Women Crush Wednesday to all the amazing, strong, and inspiring women out there. Keep shining π₯°π₯°π₯°π₯°π₯°
I’m watching a movie featuring Soso and Chris Attoh, they are both terrible actors!
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon SDK and BVs
ReplyDeleteMy darling Bb, a beautiful afternoon to you π
DeleteMy darling Bb, a beautiful afternoon to you π
DeleteToday's weather is sunny.
ReplyDeleteI love the weather.
Good afternoon,
ReplyDeleteThere is still hope for you and it will eventually make sense.
That sign out is heleleπ€£π€£
That African proverb is da bomb πππ.
ReplyDeleteNFJ you see policemen abi, very few of them will make heaven.
Congratulations to SDK workers and happy enjoyment. A worker deserves it wages.
Sunny ππ afternoon to everyone.
You no lie ooo, Stella. God bless you always.
ReplyDeleteGood Afternoon Beautiful People ❤️
ReplyDeleteUna wee dey collect salary I envy una, market now dey dull. Una good afternoon
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon bvs
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon Asst Jesus.
DeleteGist us the exciting news sdk.π
ReplyDeleteGood day everyone.Thank God for a sunny day.Stay safe.
ReplyDeleteWetin concern buttocks and polygamy bayi?
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my people. I trust our day is going well. Na wah for that African proverb oo ππ
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone. It's sunny today and I still praise God for it even though I still prefer the rain
ReplyDeleteYou all, enjoy the rest of your day