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Tuesday, 8 March 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE..
A MAN WITH BAGGAGE AND ANGER ISSUES....

Hi Stella,i wouldn't actually say it took me a lot of courage to write this because i know its going to be put up as anonymous which i would like cause i wouldnt want to disclose my identity. 'dont know if disclose was the right word to use here'? i would also like to say that i love love your blog, and it has a way of making my day, well my every minute too, i check back every second for updates by you. 


I also love the fact that you are so real......... its hard to come by these days, where everyone is a saint.
Thus goes my story, am going to try to be as brief as possible. (real names not inclusive). I met Bola December 2015 or so, we met on a group chat someone started, at first everything was so innocent, he was friendly and i used to call him my brother from another mother, he would always back me up wen there was an incident on the group chat or whenever a guy tries to DM me on the group chat, i would always insist that they spoke to my brother BOLA (mind you he isnt my real brother), anyways I was off the group chat for a while or so and he called me to check on me saying he hadn't heard from me in a while, we got talking and we seemed quite compatible, BOLA by the way stays in the UK while i stay in Nigeria. we would chat on whatsapp,facetime,instagram and so on, he was very awesome to talk to.


I told him of my plans to visit the UK and he asked me to come see him, while in the UK i met him once, not my spec physically but he seemed nice as always, even took my brother and i out for lunch, fast forward to the evening, i decided to spend the night at his place where i found out he had three children, three boys to be precise, and he had started telling me that he would love to settle down with me, (what  else would i give him after 3 boys). while at his place i discovered he had some anger issues, which i put at the back of my mind because i still was undecided as to if i wanted to be with him.



After i left the UK we were still talking and so on, he would tell me all his plans and ask for advise which i would give to him, in the cause of this relationship, we had given each other pet names (i wont lie, i started developing feelings for him), but i also noticed he was a bit stingy, which i didnt really bother much about, because i am a working class lady, with a good job and some businesses, (sometimes i would throw something out for example something expensive got stolen from me and i mentioned it to him, and he said ooh baby dont worry i got you, mind you i didnt ask, because i felt i didnt have to ask and i could handle it, guess what? 


I had to buy that thing all over again and he never mentioned it, i told him i was looking to move to the island and he said i should so that he can come and stay with me weekends so he can attend meeting, he has never said i cant wait to come so i can be with you, or even take you out to dinner, its always haaa when i come we have to go to the gym so we can look good together). 


Anyways fast forward to now, i took some professional exams and i really didnt feel i did good enough and i told him about it, there was nothing i did not hear from my ancestors, of how disappointed he is, how i should leave my businesses alone, stop going to the island etc, this is coming from someone who has never sent a penny to my account.


 I stopped calling him or chatting with him because i needed to cool down and wanted as a matter of fact to test his anger management, and all of a sudden he assumed: This is a screenshots of one the messages. 






Do i go back to such a person who could send me a message like this. should we say he loves me too much that was why? should i be scared? thank you Stella for posting this. forgive me if there are any mistakes, i did try to read through though...




OMG!!!...I cant deal with people like this.If it was me,i would read this message and take a walk,INSTANTLY...thats me.
I dont know about you and the fact that you are asking what you should do shows you might not be able to walk away easily.


What happened to the Mother(s) of his kids?
This looks like a one chance but i will leave others to advise you accordingly.

160 comments:

Joblesshousewife said...

Hmm…

Joblesshousewife

Ada-nne said...

Today's chronicle had better be real...

Real Nutty said...

Yawns
Yawnser
Yawnsest

pax dimond said...

Brb.

Watch and download new movies on afrilix.com said...

Hmmm.... I just dey observe!

Doppelgänger said...

Ehya it must be really hard not having men approach you.
See the thing you want to settle for.
Pele.

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

Stupid question, how can u even think of dating a stingy man, abeg shift.

patt ogar said...

Run

patt ogar said...

Pray

SANDA said...

My dear poster, kindly ignore him and move on... U shouldn't have given him so much attention.

crystal said...

Madam do you need to borrow walking shoes or what. You better end whatever is between the two of you, or your next chronicle will be mega. Pls leave him and his baggage, dust him off biko. That him swear no go touch you at all, he is just running mouth

Lara Peperenpe said...

He should be the most loyal and caring of all your suitors if you are ever going to give such a guy any chance. A word is enough for the swift...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

See as I dey vex for here...
Is he your God?...thunder fire him there...how can he send that stupid write up to you?...
Poster,from this your story,dude is short!...
Short dudes can vex for Africa...they irritates the hell out of me...
How can you expect him to be giving you money when he stays in the UK?...
Most people in UK are very very stingy!...

Biko,run away from this idiot!...he is not your class!...don't even try to manage him cos he is bad news....

Ideato/IlajeBlood said...

Run
No matter how independent you are, u need to care about his money. He must spend on you. Independence oshi. Stay dere and be forming independent while he lavishes his money on some other chick

princess kehinde said...

Judging by the way u talk u er no more a baby and should know when a man is deceiving u
Even though u r dangote daughter a man always find means of making their woman happy by giving them gifts hmmm I no know dis una own oh

Loveme Jeje said...

Chronicles. Children falling in love

Slikky S said...

Only him anger issues n terrible choice of words intentionally. When a man tells sends u ds kinda shit,u let him bounce. He has 3 kids n still behaves ds silly? Let him go please!!

salt E said...

For his message he is very stupid but for u all I saw was take me to,pay for, buy.What the hell? Is he ur father? Abeg abeg abeg he's stingy we know that shift.You know he has baggage n is either unserious or unsettled after 3 boys what do u want? Won't he pay school fees for his kids? What if he's divorced won't he pay child support? For what we know he might even be married. Stopeet abeg u failed ur prof exam read n write again no b everything we dey wait for man to tell us.Now he has insulted u u are writing closing remark.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

you are asking if you should go back to such a person? is that a rhetorical question?? cos its obvious you know you shouldn't go back to him. allow him deal with his issues and move on. stay with him and marry him and soon you will send in chronicles of how he is using you to test how strong his fists are

Tuscany said...

hehehehehe
all these dudes that have nothing to offer be thinking they are messiahs.
even if u dont have money, u dont also have a good personality sef for her to manage or love. just bone and move on. he already has 3kids, isnt your type physically and has this kinda attitude. from all indications, he wont make you happy. have a fab day

Beautiful lawyer said...

D signs are on d wall...walk now oo

IVORY said...

poster you never see husband o. This guy will not only batter your self esteem but also physically. he is the type that will never give you a dime but will expect fried chicken and champagne for dinner. have you asked about what happened to d mother of his kids? that guy is bad news! forget that message,he is the one that will wallow in bitterness as he obviously is.your own man will come. he is damn proud.

amanda favour said...

Poster biko leave that time waster ASAP
Stingy,hot tempered,baby daddy all in one man,biko leave him fast.
BTW stop forming miss independent,even if u are rich a man got to still spend on you
O.k bye

Nkylorah said...

Dear poster,please take a bow and leave. Run without looking back. It might be difficult for you but a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Goodluck

PinKy berRy said...

Anger can be very dangerous !!
Please take a very big walk and never look back.

He should go and make peace with his baby mama am sure that is why she left him.

Blackberry said...

Madam what do u want?
If he doesn't spend on u then his stinginess shouldn't bother u naaa..continue doing miss capable.

As for d sms! Don't mind him!
He ain't ur last bus stop.
Afterall he's not ur spec!
Damn him n his forgiveness/anger issues!
He's not God!

pax dimond said...

Chronicles this days is dull.

Anonymous said...

Immediately I notice a guy is stingy, that's the end. Even if I'm worth a 100 times more than him, stingy people provoke me so I can't deal. Poster please leave this stingy BAB 'Broke ass brother' 'broke ass babydaddy'

Anonymous said...

Poster, please if you truly love yourself and your future, I advise you leave this guy. Run like never before.

Honeybunny said...

Smh!!!
Pls take a long walk away from him.
He has issues he needs to deal with by himself!!!

Joblesshousewife said...

hmmm

Nelo Okpako said...

People with anger issues na one chance as far I'm concerned. Coupled with stinginess plus three children. Abeg the load too much to carry. Poster don't complicate your life.

Sweetheart said...

This week's chronicles get as e be.

This man is a child...Pls use ur head.Thank you.

BEDS AND ROSES said...

Sister a stingy man with 3kids and anger issue's ?
Are you still seeking for advice ?
You marry such a person and you pay ur rent, ur kids school fees etc and he will still beat you untop of it. Not to talk of d child support he will be paying for dos kids in d UK.
I have a friend who was dating such a person in the US. He told her when they get married she can only have one kid, as he already has 3. He was also stingy, and always complaining of being broke becos he was paying child support of 3kids to his jobless baby mama.
The ball is in ur court.

Anonymous said...

Dude straight up cursed you so you better go and pray! What are you doing with with this guy in the first place? So many red flags from your write up. Ladies, you can't fix a guy. Obviously this kinda hug go fit put his hands on you, the signs are there already. You sound intelligent so please apply the same sense you do in your business to your relationship. Ladies! Stop making excuses for your boyfriends just bcuz you want to be married!

Keji

Chidinma Grace said...

Run o! This kind of person will kill ur self esteem n reduce it to zero. Can u imagine? No man can put a ring... bla bla bla. That's a no no for me. He av a lot of baggages.

Empress CHO said...

Huh.......say what?
You see that guy........He is a time bomb.
I reject him for you though i do not know you.
Please, erase him out of your life........His abuser potential is on a first class level. You are an empowered lady...do not let this demon knock your financial hustle.
You want the breakdown of how it will end.

1. You continue with this under-achieving lowlife, he will "magalize" him........literally, insert a huge straw into your bank account and suck it all.
2.He will cut off your financial resources, blackmail you into quitting your job.
3.He will cut off your friends, relatives and every person who mean well for you........by deluding you into thinking you have a relationship everyone wishes.
4.He pushes his baggage.......his sons and others you might not know to you.........so you become professional kaya and long-suffering omodor of his many irresponsibilities.
5.The real demon will emerge.....Temper fits, public embarrassments, cheating, probably drunkeness, then outrightly beating you.
6.You will have no peace of mind, anger will be your company, you are broken, you will feel left behind, you are defeated with zero sense of self-worth, Every boundary will be pushed as you become weak.
7.Your name may be rubbished before neighbours, church members...... coz he is a gifted manipulator.
8.You may worsen your situation by having children and become helpless.
9.So you begin to think of suicide, the bridges in london start speaking to you...... the fan in your room calls you or you develop a taste for sniper cocktail........ and then end up in the news as.......
10. Or you may have a slight brain wave and send a scarier chronicle to stella, begging for help, to patch your children somewhere,to begin petty trading, to just have a life................Ok, enough of the gloom.

Just want to tell you that this relationship is satan -approved........dazzall.
You are a decent lady, hardworking with huge potentials and its annoying him. Can't you see, he set this idiot to ruin you. Run now.......this is not healthy. His final aim is to steal, kill and destroy you in hell. Do not fall a victim. Love you.

SDK Drama Queen said...

NNE take a walk biko...I pity you if you decide to settle with him

Anonymous said...

Just negodu! What breed of cow abi goat are you? A single woman who spends the night in the house of a man with three kids (boys to be precise) and then all of a sudden, you realise he's worse than Satan himself. Oh...I even forgot, he wasn't your type physically but you still hung around coz YOU'RE MAN-HUNGRY & LONELY. I honestly believe you got what you truly deserve coz this story doesn't add-up/make any sense at all.

Jostified Doc said...

He has too much baggage. Time to move on. He also sounds a bit diabolic tho' but whom Christ has set free is free indeed. This is the time to draw close to Christ and close your legs like a mermaid.

Everybody said...

The guy is a no no no for me..move on with you life.

Don't kill urself by urself

Anonymous said...

U r still asking question?? U beta give ursef brain o,leave his arse now if u marry him u go send anoda sorry chronicle. he is not ur husband,dont be threatened by what he said as far as u didn't do any evil to him,he aint God. Dont even think abt going back to him that love wey u think say u love am na when u marry am ur eye go clear.

Ladybrown... said...

Bloody hell!!!!!!!!!

Mad man in disguise

Arrant Nonsense!!!

Okezie Okezie said...

Do i go back to such a person who could send me a message like this. should we say he loves me too much that was why? should i be scared?

YOUR LAST WORDS SAYS IT ALL!
YOU DON'T NEED TO GO BACK TO HIM
HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU AT ALL
YOU SHOULD NOT BE SCARED
JUST CONTINUE MOVING FORWARD
DON'T LOOK BACK AT ALL; "REMEMBER LOT'S WIFE"
THERE BETTER GUYS OUT THERE
CHEERS

Mrs Albert said...

my darling!!one chance!! take 3 steps at the same time.. this one will panelbeat you till theres nothing left on your body to design...kmt..u better leav ehim ooo..and waka

Mao Akuh said...

hahahahahaha ...go to the gym so we can look good together

My dear leave that guy alone if you want to be happy.
Thank God he didn't beat you up join.

Prove to him that you have a God that can't never fail.

Yellow Diamondx said...

What kinda story is dis bikonu? All this happened in a space of 3months(dec2015-march2016) na wa o.....cud dis be love or utter stupidity? infact from your story u seem like a confused block head. I don't get it how pple get to fall in love and get attached in such a short tym.Biko Stella start screening dese chronicles make we no dey waste our tym reading rubbish.

QUEEN AMY D PEACE LOVER said...

This man can kill or drive someone mad. Feel lady I say flyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Anonymous said...

Is your boo short????see ehn ogun cripple your boo..dnt reply him block him frm your ancestors life..Cheiii women dey suffer shall..

Anonymous said...

I laughed out loud when I read this chronicle.I just find it so hilarious,I can't stop chuckling. Mtscheeeeeeew.
Godchic.

DeoFavente said...

Am so pissed right now by this chronicles. What are you scared of? You somehow get yourself bullied into a relationship,he is stingy,he has 3kids,he has a hot temper,he is foul mouthed and yet you are still here asking if you should go back? How old are you? Even if you are 40,that man is behaving as if he is doing you a favour and you allow it,why are you giving him so much power over your life? He will abuse you when you marry him and you will be miserable and wish you didn't ever meet him. Gosh!!! *fans self* now am pissed,this is domestic abuse waiting to happen.

lastborn said...

If na voting,i wld say
A NO for me
Babe dat guy will make ur life miserable,becos he thinks he is doing u a favour.

olori western union said...

But wait oooo what's happening with some single ladies these days? You went through all that from a man and he still sent you such a message and you open your mouth to ask if you should go ahead with him or not? Hain!!!
That's why we have high rate of domestic violence now, you see the signs and still go ahead with it all because you want to be MRS
Am sorry but I don't have an answer for you, use your head.

olori western union said...

Love you too much you say???? Are you for real? Is this how to express love, by not talking care of you,belittling you, and laying a curse on you?

SLEEKREEK said...

Poster, are u still asking if u should continue with this 'elepe' man?

BTW, you didnt tell us if u asked him about the kids and the story he told you about them and their mother(s).

Lastly, dont ever listen to a man who will tell you to leave your business or source of income. Once you do that, u have crippled urself and will have to depend on him for every kobo.....and that is how he can easily take advantage of u. Na so e dey start ooo. BE WISE!!!

aishat salawdeen said...

smh... Like you really need an advice for this chronicle of yours? Like, i really dunno what else you wanna know. I so much despise guys with stupid, egocentric attitude! Honey, plz and plz, gerrarra his life! seriously, ion know what warranted such text from his crazy self. Thank God he depicted such character soon. Stay positive sweetie x

Anonymous said...

End time one chance

aishat salawdeen said...

smh... Like you really need an advice for this chronicle of yours? Like, i really dunno what else you wanna know. I so much despise guys with stupid, egocentric attitude! Honey, plz and plz, gerrarra his life! seriously, ion know what warranted such text from his crazy self. Thank God he depicted such character soon. Stay positive sweetie x

aishat salawdeen said...

smh... Like you really need an advice for this chronicle of yours? Like, i really dunno what else you wanna know. I so much despise guys with stupid, egocentric attitude! Honey, plz and plz, gerrarra his life! seriously, ion know what warranted such text from his crazy self. Thank God he depicted such character soon. Stay positive sweetie x

Anonymous said...

Arrrrrrr, the guy is a keeper. Stay with him oh, he really loves you. But when he puts you on the ground with his right foot on your left cheek, and has a knife to your throat, about to slaughter you like a chicken, then you can run but until then the message he sent you is cryptic, try and read between the lines, all I see is love love love.

Anonymous said...

Get Dat fool off your life already! Wat nonsense..

Anonymous said...

Why is it that once the subject is "marriage" the feminine brain shuts down?

Why did you ever "spend the night" in the house of such a man; gave him vagina?

Why do you ever contemplate even having such a man as a "gate guard?"

Horse . .. what? Is he a pony?

Chigoo said...

My dear, if I tell you to leave the relationship, it will imply that you're already in one. YOU ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP! Leave the guy and his negative energy. He's just a distraction to you getting into a proper relationship.

aniefiok samuel said...

Boldly take a walk and u will never regret it. Trust in JEHOVAH.

Jennifer Lawrence said...

My dear u re seeing d signs now,u beta work away....he has 3 boys already plus his stingy..... u can not cope ooo,stingy men re always difficult to handle. True love gives

Anonymous said...

My dear ur spot on in ur analysis. Nothing more to add. You've said it all

MOTHER NATURE........ said...

Madam please leave that unhealthy relationship.

That was how one guy said I was doing shakara for him oh! lol. He said I should continue with my shakara till I become 50 and no man will marry me hmmmm. I insulted nonsense from his head that day ehn...he just deleted himself off my bbm.

I made sure he was the first person I invited for my wedding just to prove him wrong. Stupid men with stupid talks. He is not God to decide your status? Madam, please don't let anything he says bother you. I'm super sure that, that was how he got 3kids from different women.

He is a gold digger please don't let him into your life for any reason. You are a working class lady you ought to hold your head so high my dear. Improve on your self esteem because as long as I am concerned, you're a hot cake especially in this present economy. Any reasonable man that knows exactly what he wants won't think twice to wife you.

Please don't low your standard for that FOOL!

MOTHER NATURE........ said...

Madam please leave that unhealthy relationship.

That was how one guy said I was doing shakara for him oh! lol. He said I should continue with my shakara till I become 50 and no man will marry me hmmmm. I insulted nonsense from his head that day ehn...he just deleted himself off my bbm.

I made sure he was the first person I invited for my wedding just to prove him wrong. Stupid men with stupid talks. He is not God to decide your status? Madam, please don't let anything he says bother you. I'm super sure that, that was how he got 3kids from different women.

He is a gold digger please don't let him into your life for any reason. You are a working class lady you ought to hold your head so high my dear. Improve on your self esteem because as long as I am concerned, you're a hot cake especially in this present economy. Any reasonable man that knows exactly what he wants won't think twice to wife you.

Please don't lower your standard for that FOOL!

Anonymous said...

Sharrap dear. Anuofia! If you have noting to say then shut the fuck up. Mtchewww. Na u holy pass abi. (And no Im not da author)

Chigoo said...

There's what they call "summary". Next time please use it.
Love you

Bella's cakes and pastries, Abuja. 58DA8ADF, 07080305132 said...

Different people with different characters. Maybe he is just too bitter about his life. Would advise u to walk away and not focus on his empty threats

Anonymous said...

He is so nor worth you, Run as fast as your legs can carry you.

Purples Ivy said...

If you feel you won't have peace with this guy, just take a walk. People never changes especially people who feel they are doing you a favour by being with you Like they won the world's best available "man" award.
Take a walk dear

Suxesful Suzex said...

Use your head and run for your life my dear this man is sent from hell to destroy you. we ladies fail to realize that it is better to be single than be in a time wasting relationship. Ladies its Time to be wise ooo

Olori_1812 said...

my dear, take a walk outta that relationship. People with anger issues can be very mean. I used to have a bf like that, be talking to you like he was there when you were birthed.. My advice to you is this, since he has not eaten your cookie..i hope he hasn't? well who cares if he has sef..do not reply to that message and act like you did not even get it in the first place. Ignore the message but do not delete for future reference.
Then work on taking that professional exams again, this time you would come out excellently well that I know of. Just let go, Thank heavens he did not meet up to your spec physically like you pointed out. Keep your fingers crossed and see how God will work wonders on your behalf. Do not feel sorry for yourself and start to lower your self esteem. keep your heads up high to being that career woman you have always dreamed of. Do not forget to FAST AND PRAY WELL. Do not be bothered bout the last rubbish sentence he sent in because trust me your mind will keep going back to what that statement reads...(he fitinth fit).lol
I cannot wait till you send in another chronicles this time of HOPE that the stone that people rejected have now become a cornerstone.
This one I dey talk like reverend mother sef lol.I hope my 2 cents of advice would be of help..kizzez

well!

Anonymous said...

Most people in U.k are very stingy?
Should I believe that ?
Now I should test boo

Anonymous said...

Kikikikikikiki! You try! You painted a very graphic picture.

PORTABLE viv the queen of this blog said...

Chronicle of fustration.

Mother nature is a witch nature is a witch said...

@ Mother Nature, you are the bitter soul because you are the same person that said no SIL no MIL and you are enjoying your marriage. Wait until you are absent in your children's marriage...WICKED WITCH.

EESAH (SDK YEYEBRITY) said...

Lol. You are mouthed!

Miss Ess said...

This one na real salaro.....

Freshdew said...

You deserve better, please don't go back.

Anonymous said...

My problem with ms independent ladies are, when u allow them be their own madame they end up complaining! I have one like that, she's d boss, she doesn't ask me for a dime, I need to feel like a man, so I got me one babe, n d way she keeps her mouth when asking for money trips me bad! I will take care of her, maybe marry her, she makes me feel appreciated, who knows, maybe place her on a salary for life just to care for my kids n me.

Anonymous said...

She wants love. Is that too much to ask?

Ada-nne said...

Are you aunty gwes? Pleaseeew

Anonymous said...

Leave them let them form. And na dem complain pass. Mtcheew.

Bimpe said...

Lmao ....I'm sure the poster is not pretty , imagine sending a chronicle about a father of three boys.. ....rubbish

Anonymous said...

Leave her, another babe will be collecting tax, she will be doing 'neyo' *i love d way u shine miss independet.

May O said...

Please take a walk from anything, or anyone that pose a threat to your sanity. It's only a sane mind that can achieve great things. Put yourself together and let him go. Men like him will make you feel inconsequential. Lastly focus on your career. God bless you with the one that's truly yours.

Blackberry said...

The guy is pained obviously.

Anonymous said...

Because she ms independent.

Anonymous said...

She's a gwegs already, that's why.

Anonymous said...

She's a gwegs already, that's why.

Honey P said...

Poster, be careful so you don't end up carrying a burden you never bargained for. The man has anger and complex issues. Run for your dear life and destiny to avoid stories that touches the marrow.

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Anonymous said...

He should have better put "if I truly wronged you; Am so sorry, but if not and you are being unjust I won't 4give unless you apologize". Shiekina!! God is not man.

Anonymous said...

So no one else noticed that this poster sent the message to herself?! Please type a text or even a bbm and send to yourself. Compare with this. Comot from here jor with your trick shit.

karen emmanuel said...

With 3 kids already, you are still asking what you should do? Go ask his babymama(s) why they left. Hiss***

Jasmine said...

Take a walk but before then send his heavy curses back. He's mad

Grace David said...

I love ur comment

Shennel said...

*irritate*

sexy mama said...

Put on your running shoes, infact you are suppose to be running now sef. No matter how rich you are, a man suppose to buy you gifts. He's so stingy. And if you continue in that situationship what are you gonna born for him? Jesus of our generation? My dear, shine your eyes before you enter one chance ooo

Fine Sisi said...

Gbam!

Starjoy said...

Poster borrow shoes and run as fast as you can and never let us here that because of love you look back, he is not your type.

Fine Sisi said...

I sincerely want to kiss your forehead right now. Muah

Anonymous said...

Reality Slap!! Gboa!!!

Anonymous said...

Well analyzed and the most sincere comment.

Anonymous said...

Well analyzed and the most sincere comment.

Uyi Timi said...

You are intelligent no doubt and if you are also beautiful as claimed, are you then also not wise? are you desperate?? What da heck! please walk away cos his baggage will outweigh you no doubt.

Miss Ogbomoso said...

Get your running shoes and ruuuuuunnnn.. That guy is up to no good.

Ribenna baby said...

Nice one! U said it all..seems like u are talking from experience cos I have been there but God saved me.

Vivian Caius said...

Lol

busybee said...

Walk away and determine in our heart that his negative utterances will not stand in your life.

Anonymous said...

Poster, I know it's cos u want 2 marry "abroad husband" by fire by force.
I knw it's also cos u hv told every one about him, including ur ancestors, u hv boasted to all ur friends & showcased his abroad pictures. If u like no run.
U didn't tell us wat u did or said to him dt warranted him vomiting such to u.
Make una dey mumu dey go.
I left a guy jst cos he asked me why I didn't graduate with a first class. I thank God for wisdom.

Rose Moses said...

Abeg run for your life, how can a man with three boys, want to settle down with you and yet he is stingy, his words will do no harm to you, God got your back.

Anonymous said...

My dear you wouldn't have said it any better. UK guys are worst than church rat...I had I boyfriend just like the poster describe, I told him to his face and took a walk

Lilly simple said...

Am telling you

Imo Chic said...

Abi o. Poster draw ur ears and listen. You should have enough sense to know d decision to make. How can u still be asking questions about this guy? 3 sons? Plus curse he placed on u. Are u mad???

*smokes weed badly*

Anonymous said...

Don't mind her, she won't be a MIL at all cos she'll kick d bucket before her kids say 'I do'

Anonymous said...

Nne Abroad boys hv nothing to offer you, they are very stingy and the ones i hv met are narcissistic psychopaths.. our men in nigeria are one million times better. Empower yourself and move on.

Anonymous said...

Will u die before ur kids get married? Since u hate mother in laws. Just asking.

Anonymous said...

Poster, is he yoruba? Wears dreadlocks? And does his first name Start from T? Please reply

gadgeek said...

I LOVE U. Your analysis is the voice of God. Thank u, muah

Anonymous said...

You are highly intelligent.
Ps, I am a female.

bonny gal said...

Gbamest!!!

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Yes oh. People in the UK r more stingy than the ones in the u.s. everyone knows that anon

Anonymous said...

#flee

Iphie dearie said...

Olori Western!
Longggg time.
Happy new year.

Anonymous said...

Best comment so far.just december here n she's writing chronicle.her life must b so exciting if all dese happened in just 3months.she must Av bin sleeping with him that's y she's so pained.

Anonymous said...

Please, is his name Femi O?

Free soul said...

Wow.I was also in a "situation ship" with a bad tempered stingy "babies" daddy.They are not worth it pls.imagine a frustrated after 3 daddythreatening you that no one will marry you.walk away pls.Even if you are old and ugly.Nonsence and ingredient!!!!

Anonymous said...

Send in your own. Abi you too no be person? It is not by force to comment. And she no fit lie join make you get story read. These are true life situations please

Anonymous said...

Sender the tone of the whatsapp mgs sounds familiar, cos i know someone with 3 kids from 3 different women and he is as you described. He bears a feminine name which short-form starts with Bu.... if am right then you really need to fast and pray cos the whole of his family is fetish.... you really need to run as far as possible

Dre said...

Poster I hope you rejected that curse and threw it back to the sender. If you remain with this man, you'd only be digging your grave. Act wise.

memmie said...

U better walk...mschew

Nmasinachi said...

Lmao @queen. UK people are stingy, very stingy

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

ONE CHANCEST! Lol

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Who independence in relationship help? Women should know the times to hold their shit and the times to lean on a man. In relationships and marriage

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

No need for prayer here Biko! The guy is a weist

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Yes. Most UK ppl are very stingy. Take it from someone who's studied in the UK. They share bills too! Forget the fanfare on social media.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

He mingles with his kids so he's now behaving like them. Shioor

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Pointless

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

You can get love and money at once @Anon 16:32. Please let us women know when to pedal on the independence drama

KBS(proudlyalinguist) said...

Lol

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Shine it

Misy queend said...

Dear Poster, Reject and separate that comment the Papa of 3 Boyz said to you from your destiny n life. And then Stand your ground and move on. Peace of mind and True Happiness should be your watch word my Dear.

yasmeen s said...

Stella is ryt oo..one chance...ish
b careful on ur final decision on this matter abeg

Miss Trader said...

This is the real deal...
This is the koko of the marra!!!!

chijay said...

He must really be a butt hole. Settle down with that guy and this chronicle will have a squeal.

Anonymous said...

Adaka! Nkita rifolu gi nsi there...amu ewu! Since you DENIED your post, maybe na your sister be that, stupidity surely runs in the fam, usu!

Ronalda said...

My darling, you've inadvertently handed over to him your dignity as a woman thereby putting a cheap price tag on your head because you rushed in. You did too much, too soon.‎

When you end up dating a guy you used to be platonic friends with, it can end up being very good or horribly bad. There are certain things about yourself which you shouldn't be too opened about, because they demystify ‎you and may reduce the excitement. From your story, I can see you practically made him the human version of your "dear diary". Honey, I understand, some ladies erroneously believe that sharing all the day's experience with their men, will draw their closer. Unfortunately, the reverse is the case especially if the guy isn't particularly fond of that lady.

You've choked this guy with TMI, and he no longer respects you. You've become common to him, especially if you've shared bad experiences with your ex(es) with him. So what's left for him to be excited about you? Sweetie how can you meet a guy online in December 2015 and my March 2016 you not only graduated from the friend zone but started dating cross-continent and revealing your life's story while trying to study his person? It's barely 4 months so how could you go from 0 to 100 without colouring yourself desperate? Wow! We're talking speed of light here! No wonder he feels he is doing you a favour by "blessing" your existence  with his presence.

A man should desire a woman and be ready to jump through hoops to win her affections, that's the natural order. A man with 3 kids ought to put in triple the effort to win you over because he realises it's a blessing to have a woman willing to overlook the fact that you've robbed her the joy of having your 1st child thereby making her a stepmum by default. 

Sweetheart, please end this effrontery to your person and never allow any man treat you less than the queen you are. That he thinks he is the best thing since sliced bread and has the gumption to declare that no other man will marry you if you don't return to this caricature of a relationship, should give you a preview of the man within the man. Less than 6months of dating and he can disregard you like this? What exactly do you think being his wife will be like. I hope you realise marriage causes couples to take each other for granted due to familiarity? Unless both couples make a conscious effort to spice up their marriage every now and then, the marriage becomes monotonous and tedious. Please set a higher standard for yourself.

#e-bearhugs.‎

Anonymous said...

Wooooow! So on point, I love u already

Ideato/IlajeBlood said...

Weist???

Nyinyez said...

On point

Anonymous said...

Weist kwa!!

Anonymous said...

@ EMPRESS CHO, you just wrote my life history up there. where do i send your kisses to please. i dont mind having you as a friend. im a mum of three and newly seperated from a man that fits your description of what the poster will get if she continues with that sad man.

Anonymous said...

@ EMPRESS CHO, you just wrote my life history up there. where do i send your kisses to please. i dont mind having you as a friend. im a mum of three and newly seperated from a man that fits your description of what the poster will get if she continues with that sad man.

J.Analyst said...

sorry case, u need to slow down on the guy, what happen to the first wife/gf that gave him 3 kids. You have played so cheaply on his mercy.

Please stop this cheap way to get attention for love, even u travelled to experience the wild life with him, he may have been seeing u as a cheap lady that need a man by all means but to think of it, we have able men and more reliable men around, just cool down, God will give u ur heart desire.

Anonymous said...

I have been there as well but God save me after much embarrassment and all.

Ladies, don't be afraid to be alone, sometimes, its better that some toxic relationships.

Anonymous said...

Madam poster, Empress has said it all.
I live in this stingy UK, you can't even work bcus you will be home taking care of his 3 sons and maybe yours. Childcare here is not easy or beans. Your life will be finished bcos none of them will appreciate your effort.
Where's his baby mama sef??
Run ooo b4 your brain will be deceiving you with love in uk.

Anonymous said...

@empress cho you are a real MVP...you don't need a guy like this, you deserve much better that this crazy person. he isn't God and cannot determine your future. let him go a look after his 3 sons beg, this guy will add no value whatsoever to your life, trust me

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