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Tuesday, 13 September 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative..

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE..
IF ONLY....

Hello Stella, I've been a BV for two years now. I read your blog always but I've commented just once. SDK you are truly an awesome icon.

Well I decided to share the story of my life (I'd actually tried tying this twice before but gave up before I started).

My life has been a story of how one wrong decision can alter your life.


I met a girl during my hustling days after my NYSC, she was writing her JAMB exams then, she did plenty shakara for me and didn't seem interested so after plenty wooing I just gave up. Months later I got my first real job and surprisingly I got a call from this girl and for the first time in almost a year agreed to come visit me.


 I initially felt I wouldn't take her serious since when I hustled she didn't appreciate me but now I had a corporate job she wants a relationship. Anyway, my feelings  got rekindled and we started a relationship. She seemed gentle and would never quarrel with me no matter the issue and though we were never intellectually and emotionally compatible we dated for 3 years. 


I eventually got a better job with a multinational company and became comfortable. Meanwhile my girlfriend got pregnant and we decided to keep it. I did a formal introduction with her family, well they've known me for years and even allowed her stay with me especially since I was supporting them financially. 

After that introduction she changed totally. She quarrelled constantly over flimsy things, became insultive and would never listen to me. I started wondering what i'd gotten myself into.

 I contemplated ending the relationship but I didn't want to have a child out of wedlock and besides she was already far gone to consider terminating the pregnancy. Though I told her father that we should not discus marriage till after child birth, one month later I found myself planning a wedding. My family was surprised but they just tagged along (note that they had noticed her new behaviour as she was now giving everyone attitude).

 She got so quarrelsome that I became so dismayed at the life I would live with her as my wife. One day after going to see her at her parents house, she behaved so badly that I parked my car on a street close to my house and started weighing my options. 

In my sad state I saw a lady walk by and I said hi, she stopped and looked at me and responded and I decided to cheer myself up with a conversation, we eventually exchanged numbers and two weeks later we went on a date. This lady brought joy to my heart once again and yes we had sex. 

After seeing this lady for about a month I had fallen in love with her and she also fell in love with me. Now it was 3 months to my wedding so I told my new girlfriend (let me call her Folake, she's Yoruba, I'm Ibo and my pregnant fiancee is also Yoruba). Folake cried and cried saying that she had thought that she had found her husband and that she was so much in love with me.

 The next 2 days Folake was admitted in hospital.  Folake and I had fallen too deep in love that we couldn't bare leaving each other, meanwhile I continued planning a deeply faulted wedding. It seemed my fiance just wanted the comfort of a marriage without any foundation of love. I wish I knew then what I know now, at this stage I wasn't a kid since I was  in my early thirties and my fiancee was in her mid twenties.

 I dated Folake for 2 years after my marriage till she met someone who proposed marriage to her, she told me about it and I encouraged her to accept his proposal since she was not getting any younger and I was trapped in a loveless marriage. It was truly painful losing Folake who had shared her total love, commitment, body and soul with me but I knew it was the best thing to do concerning her. The first time Folake allowed her new guy have sex with her, she called me and knelt down on the street begging for my forgiveness. I had to take her up and assure her that I wasn't offended since I had to let her move forward with her life (such was the love and loyalty she had for me). 


By now I had moved to another multinational company became more successful and later got promoted to a new position that placed me in the management team. I was celebrated across the company because I was the first Nigerian to be appointed to a hitherto expatriate position. Then my life took a downturn that shattered my life. Months into this new position I was terminated.

 I was shocked since all the company said was that they were downsizing to save cost. It didn't make sense because I was the only one involved. Well I thought with my qualification and experience it would be a matter of weeks before I got another job but that didn't happen. After 8 months I started praying concerning getting another job, all the pentecostal churches, white garment churches and even alfas (almost 20 in all) I visited all told me the same thing that my wife and her Edo mother were responsible. 

I was shocked because at some point after our wedding I found out about who MIL was but I didn't know my wife was involved in their thing. At this point I have prayed and fasted and more but nothing changed. Everyone seems to know the problem but can't help with a solution. Some just tell me that MIL is very powerful. I have had several interviews for jobs, some even better than the one I lost, but at the end after selecting me they all fail to give me an offer letter, they just keep silent and won't get back to me. I regret marrying my wife, had I known this was how my marriage would ruin my life and career I would have stuck with my Folake who still blames me for not marrying her. 

She is married with children to that same guy and is successful today but says I will always be the love of her life. Its been 5 years now since I lost my job, I'm broken, ruined, depressed and disgraced. From what I'm told when these people ruin a man's life its a done deal.

 I've asked and begged God to have mercy on me and change my situation. Sometimes I just wish I were dead because the disgrace has been too much. People who know me can't believe how I've fallen from grace to grass.

 I wish I had made a different choice of a marriage partner. If only I could turn back the hands of time.



I dont understand..what exactly did you do to them?I thot that your wife wanted a comfortable marriage?So,why would she make you then lose your job and then stay?
Are you sure it's not the Folake that you encouraged to Marry someone else that is responsible for this?Please check well cos it doesnt make sense at alll....

Folake sounds more likely behind your problems.

177 comments:

Ibukunoluwa said...

Poster I'm sorry but what u experienced is "Voodoo" which is the remix version of juju
Keep praying cos bro I'm tongue tied or meet love me jeje to connect u with her famous bishop

salt E said...

From ur write up my brother u may have good intentions but are u a good person? U already made urself a saint in all this forgetting u could also have u faults.
Your wife started insulting you, you work in a multinational company and all how did u treat her?u met folake and cheated, im not saying what she did was right but ur wife couldn't forgive your infidelity. Yes maybe that's your sin.
I pray things get better you should ask her forgiveness,at least now you know your thinking was wrong . Might not have been there for the money.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

So you left all the beautiful girls in Igbo land and went and hooked your self with a yaraba demon!...
Will I say it serves you right?...I'm sure you are one of those Igbos in Lagos wey no dey go their village....

My advise is that jazz pass jazz!...
If they used a black witch to tie you down,my brother,look for a white witch to bring your self out!...
You need a good native doctor that will untie you mehn...
Abeg keep bible for corner and fight for your freedom!...
In your next life,stick to your tribe women!...

white Berry said...

Am telling you, stella just spoke my mind, and why call her edo mother as the cause of your problems, one thing you don't know most of all this spiritualist do get someone confuse except for one reasons they make you go down, probably they found out you were cheating on your wife and decided to bring your job down, that might also be another point of since u said it's ur wife and her mother that are responsible. But my advice never lose hope, as far there is life there is always hope keep praying and believing God for a miracle. But a lady you were asking out when you've got nothing turned you down and later accepted you when she saw all is well, ur spirit didn't tell you, such lady isn't it good wife material. Stay well ok, all will be well by his grace.

Mrs anonymous said...

Dear poster,did u maltreat your wife or what exactly did you do to her?i don't think Folake is behind his problem since she's married.I will send Stella a pastors number to give you so you can call.My cousins wife had swollen stomach and they went form one hospital to another,they kept draining the water.The wife's brother then took her to see a pastor in jos and prayers started,three days later,water started leaking from her navel & she's okay now.I don't really believe in all this but when you experience life,you go sit up.May God have mercy on us

Becky Divine said...

Na wah o

*thinking aloud* I hope this is not another begging tactics? Hmmmmmmm *clears throat loudly*

Oh well.. what do i even advice you sef. You didn't love her, yet you still went ahead to marry her! Why? Oh because of the baby right? Issorai

I'm not here to apportion blame on anybody cos we all know that this is simply your own side of the story. I'm very sure your wife, Folake and MIL all have their own sides of the story.

So all i can tell you is.. if your hand is clean. Keep on praying to God and believing in Him. One day your breakthrough will come forth! Don't lose faith and stop running from one church to the other, have faith that you've been delivered and your prayers have been answered.

Ask for forgiveness from everyone you've hurt and forgive all those who have hurt you too.
Your blessing is at hand! Don't lose hope. It's well..

Pam said...

okay.
if your wife is now the breadwinner of the family, I'll suspect her but if she isn't, I don't see any reason why she'll want to make her family poor whether she loves you or not. Anyways since you know its a spiritual problem, I'll advice you to go to a quiet place for a month or so and cry out your heart to God...have faith and u'll get your life back..I'm sorry

O.Olive. said...

I was about saying the same thing with Stella. From your narrative, your wife accepted you because of your money so why will she ruin your source of income. As for Folake, she suits the cause of your predicament. Truly, I don't know what to advise you only to pray, pray and pray.

Blackberry said...

U want job?
U want monetary help from bvs?
U want another wife?
Cos ur story has no solution!
Sorry about ur job loss
S C A... make I no talk.

Anonymous said...

Thanks stella. U just said it all I can't say more.

Mia Brown said...

I suspect the folake too. she might be angry you choose your wife over her.

Nwa Nlecha said...

Thank you Stella for that red ink well used.

What kind of wife would want her husband jobless for 5years.

Your situation automatically affects your wife.

It might even be pregnancy hormones that made her change a you could not even manage her at that point.

You weren't patient with your wife at all.

I didn't hear you say you discussed her changes with her.

Communication is key in marriage, very key.

You cheated on her for two years, and yet you accuse her of your downfall.

Adam really left you guys some horrible trait called of blaming others when you do something wrong.

Make peace with your wife and make peace with God.

Loveme Jeje said...

Hmmmmmmm na wa. Make I read comments today. Not telling you what to do. Wrong and faulty foundation. See where you went looking for help. May God help you. Amen

Emilia Peter said...

Hmmmmmmmmmm ok oooooo

Loveme Jeje said...

When they have money God takes the back seat. When trouble comes they start looking for God inside hole. Abeg jare.

IJAY said...

Hmmmm, am coming back to reply

Shantelle's Empire said...

Stella leave Folake out of this. Dont put wrong thoughts into his head.
Folake is already married,with kids and even more successful. She isnt the prob,infact for her tears God blessed her with a loving Fam. She gained.

Poster does it mean the people telling you your probs cant find a solution for you?

One thing about people wey chop winsh be say,they dont know mama,sibling,spouse,father or anyone at all. That's the bad thing about following the devil. Say no to witchcraft.
Recieve the love of christ.

Miss Juliet said...

Loool...Singles should read the book, Principles of choosing a life partner..
Pray harder!

I'veBeenTouchedByAnAngelWithLove said...

No Stella, I doubt Folake is the problem as he said all Alfas and pastors he met pointed at his wife and MIL, they can't be all wrong. Bros, I pity your situation especially when you said you've been jobless for 5years, how are u coping? But something must have happened to make your wife and MIL ruin your life, why did you leave that part out. My guess is you made it obvious to your wife that you were in love with another lady. You said she was pregnant before the introduction, where's the baby and where's your wife presently? OK, why not go and appease the gods/MIL so they can let you be. Abi na, if front no gree u go, try waka go back nah.
Whenever I read stories like this, I feel terrible because I always wish I could help but truth is, na help them they help me self....
*God bless my Angel in human form*

Shantelle's Empire said...
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Gladys said...

Madam Korkus. I hail you ooooooo. Your bluntness is an epic one. Na wa oooooooo. Keep praying oga, there is nothing God cannot do

Akinbobola Korede said...

Hmmmnnnn

Anonymous said...

This Stella is so naive, I can't believe you don't know what the guy went through yet you think it's Folake that's behind his travails, no, the guy seek spiritual intercession and they all agreed on MIL and his wife behind his travails, guy, what happened to you is what it's called 'signed on', you have being marked,but the solution is incessant prayers and fasting,seeking spiritual intercession at this stage is not going to help, you will just keep on spending and striving after the wind, if a man diagnose his problem! That's his first step to the solution. Pray incessantly, back it up with fasting, give alms to those that you see and know that needs it, stay off sin,be careful and try rediscover yourself,don't get angry and try to take things with calm and my God will reopen all those closed doors for you a thousand fold .It is well with you

👑Eldaberry👑 said...

And he had to mention that his m.i.l is Edo. Mtchewwww. No advice for you.

Mosi Jubelo said...

It's confusing Sha, I didn't even suspect folake until I read Stella's view...... Hmmmm it's well

DonMayor said...

This look like the greatest challenge you ever and it's like you have given in. Pick yourself up and reshuffle your cabinet, shed all unwanted and unnecessary fire and become more lighter, believe it you will yourself right at a better place.
Forget that story say na one woman dey do you. If you no do yourself, nobody fit do you.

Tee Diva Organic Skincare 58C660AC said...

This is a story...

So what are you doing now?



Stella, chop knuckle 👊

Anonymous said...

So who has been footing ur bills since u lost ur job five yrs ago ? Is it that ur loveless wife ??!! Gerrahere.

The best amongst the cuties said...

Poster, I don't believe u know where the source of ur problem comes from. Think again.

School Life said...

Break your links wid that married girl then give your life to Christ. Your way go just open piam...

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

Moral lesson, don't ever marry out of pity, bros kpele oh, u are the architect of ur misfortune, u saw all d negative signs but u stil went ahead just bcos she was pregnant for u, I don't pity u cos am sure u dumped a good girl for this demon u married, carry ur cross.

Weed Chic said...

Shit happens. Instead of wasting money on alphas and looking for who to blame, go to a good redeem church pastor to pray 4 u. Avoid all those miracle pastors LIke synagogue. Have faith and it will get better

*puffs out weed smoke*

Anonymous said...

Dear Stella I hope one of your bvs can answer your question because I know of a case in Canada where a Nigerian wife used juju to make her Nigerian husband poor. So I ask the question of what did she gain as they would both suffer?

HR BABE said...


Hmm! na wa oo.... Me i dont know what to say oh....

Rhoda Rex said...

Hmmmmn. I don't think it's ur wife dats behind ur problems. Because, if she's d one, she probably would have left u for another man. I don't know sha. May God help u, that's all I can say.

Chidinma Grace said...

When a man dates two women or is in a rship with two women, he doesn't always know where his problem is coming from. That's how my ex told me a prophet said am responsible for his misery. Only for him to come back after a year to say dt its not me again but her now wife since after marrying d gal, he turned from rich to pauper. But this guy swore with his life that I was d only one he was dating then dt d prophesy came. He actually married d gal he av more love for and labeled me a witch. Now we av seen d real witch n he is asking for forgiveness. I don't trust all these prophesies dt don't av base, check ur life well n av a genuine repentance bc Christ is still ready to forgive.

Isolde Fontaine said...

Na wa oh! maybe they found out you were cheating on her, go and beg them to forgive you and keep praying to God!

Anonymous said...

when a married man messed around while married this is the out come, stop the blame and ask God for forgiveness

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

Yawns*
I didn't ready
🙅

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Visit prayer city, MFM......

PayUrsula said...

This is so worrisome. God have mercy.

E Sylvia said...

Nawaooo poster it is well with your soul.

Anonymous said...

Just intro and a yoruba family will dash u their daughter to impregnate and useless. A yoruba shameless girl that has a fiancee is kneeling on the street to beg a married man forgiveness for allowing a man about to marry her sleeo with her.
Very dirty story. This tribe always have extremely dirty stories following them especially in marriage.

scarlet overkill said...

How can ur wife mean bad 4 u? Like is dis past 5yrs, hw has she changed or contributed ur joblessness. Since u knw she's responsible, y nt confront her n beg her 2 free ur destiny, unless it's just u giving d alfas d clue dat u suspect ur wife n mil.

Ayodele Jay said...

Jeez! Dz is serious! Please don't give up! It's not a done deal, just continue praying to God! He will surely change your story!!

Anonymous said...

Stella, na lie you talk. This your red ink nor work today.

Mr man aka story teller aka Hints/Hearts magazine contributor, well done o!

Anonymous said...

Stella, pls WHY DO YOU THINK YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING WRONG TO SUCH PEOPLE FOR THEM TO ATTACK YOU? So u never meet the "kinds" wey go even tell u to ur face say u no do them anything say na just their "food?"

Anonymous said...

Stella you said it all. Folake is the cus of your problems mumu you think she will lev u like dat after braking her heart. Oga go and beg Folake to free and you will see good changes Onugwu always blaming wife for your misfortune

Anonymous said...

The best thing to do is call folake ask for her forgiveness cos she may be the cause of ur problem to me u offended her by breaking her heart.

onyii Asa said...

Blog Analyser: This is the work of a spiritual wife. You have a spirit wife who is bent on ruining you even the atitude on your wife was caused by her. Start praying against it and dedicate your self totally to God. It starts with making luv in the drean, disappointment, failure, rise and fall. Check your lineage, is this a family pattern? As in rise and fall? Then it could be your foundation. But I thank God that you have not dabbled in to juju. Stop visiting these spiritual places u are attracting more demons. Believe in God totally and not in man

Sewa Joseph said...

why do guys do this? too many times i have heard guys say i married my wife because she got pregnant... i mean if a crazy girl got pregnant for you dont marry her,thats why they say keep your pants up! sorry sha almighty God will heal you!

Ed said...

I agree with Stella,check well...it might b Folake.... Ndo o nnaa,tukwasi Chukwu obi....oga adisi mma...

MOTHER NATURE........ said...

Ha Stella! Please don't conclude jor. Abeg leave the innocent girl alone. I don't expect you will go this far to accuse someone else. Have you not seen where a wife destroyed her husband? Marine witches don't care about who you are to them. They can go to any level to destroy you.

Oga poster just keep praying and you will be saved.

Mrs. Romas said...

Poster don't believe what those pastors, prophets and alfas says to you! Majourity of them are liars and crooks.
Go on your knee, pray to God and ask Him for forgiveness. Nobody forced you to marry the girl (Your wife) you got pregnant due to premarital sex.

You found someone that both of you were in love, you could have easily called off the wedding your were planning. Nobody would have killed you for taking such decision.
You claim your wife wanted to marry comfortably, i don't think she is even the one behind your predicaments.
You cheated on her with the Folake lady. Please, go and also beg your wife and folake for forgiveness.

Keep job hunting, God will shine His face upon you and favour will locate you.

Most times, we do not marry the ones will love, but we love the ones we are married to.

Shantelle's Empire said...

Linda you mean there are no Igbo witches?
You ppl have the highest dibia's in Enugu,you forget??

Witch no get tribe.

Loveme Jeje said...

Haa Ibukun, he is blaming the wife but refused to acknowledge the problem is from. I no go help him. Make he carry his cross. Na his destiny be that.

Queen help him to TB Joshua

olubee said...

Madam Stella there are some people i mean wifes that use to swear for their husband if they cheat on them and been ur wife omo it will come to pass. I have a friend that use to say if his husband would not take care of his children God should not give him money serious prayer oooo. At times when in laws see ur cheating they look for solution which might cost everything. I pray that the lord will visit the root of that problem then be closer to God. Don't let ur situation may u say u won't serve God again remember either u serve him or not he still remain God so please ow join u in prayer. Go to a living church pls like Winners, RCCG and any living church u know

Anonymous said...

I come across your comments regularly and it is very obvious you are the queen of stupid. People like you hide behind your phone to display your unbridled stupidity and the state of your mind which can only be described as a sack of smelly dead bones is reflected in the continuous horse shit you post. You are one uneducated idiot and Stella needs to lay down the rules that no hate comment is allowed on this blog

Dat Business Woman said...

Totally what was on my mind.
She was pregnant....cmon, you should realise that a pregnant woman can change..
You cheated on her,and continued for 2years, even if she was back to normal,nothing will make you see that
Men! Men! Men!
Don't give up sha,keep praying and hoping...go back to your wifey

Loveme Jeje said...

Queen it is now am reading your comment. Kai you are bad ooo. See me laughing.

Ngwanu take queen advice. I don suffer. Chai

Joke Mowunmi said...

SDK watching African Magic Yoruba since 1880.... lolzz..

Ibukunoluwa said...

Wey he for come see ur bishop bah😂

Miss K said...

Poster i dont know what to say..But most times men cheat and give theirselves reasons and excuses for why they cheat
Cheating on every level is wrong, i cant forget how my ex told me he cheated cos he didnt want to break the girl's heart
Just ask forgiveness from your wife and keep praying

SDKprincess said...

Nawa oo reading comments and am like Kilode oga go to the mountain for 1 or 2months am sure God will answer ur prayers

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Everything happens for a reason*

Anonymous said...

Holy Ghost fire

Anonymous said...

My brother, no body is doing you. God has chastised you for your sins because He loves you. Ask Him for forgiveness, be nice to your wife and move on with your life. All that you've lost will come back.

Anonymous said...

You are a very useless idiot, all these stupid men once they start fucking outside their matrimonial homes their wives at home become witches to them! Amadioha solder your anus there you fool you even have the nerve to drag her mum into it and say "Edo" you are an idiot! So u didn't know her mum was edo when u went to marry her now u have gone to chop efo riro outside your marriage she is now the misfortune after your slimy life cheiiiiiii I dey vex, what a loser it will not be well with you bastard!

Otaswifey said...

You never disappoint
Bastard

Jasmine said...

Exactly. Stella doesn't understand. Some people will just tie another person down so the person won't succeed. Ask them what they gained, nothing. I think the wife and MIL tied him down just to see that he doesn't succeed and to control him. That doesn't mean they won't feed him but at least, he's begging for food from them which is what they want.

Anonymous said...

Give us number madam; which one is to send to Stella...

Jasmine said...

Stella, never jam nau. She think say na everybody dey get reason why them wicked

Anonymous? Lol said...

Looool! Linda go soon 'come out' & open shop, lol! Linda my dearie! After my darling TGW na u!

Anonymous said...

Lol

Anonymous said...

Your wife may have been acting up due to pregnancy hormones and as usual instead of confronting it with patience and dialogue you cheated on her for 2 solid years. Even the Folake no even happy say God still showed mercy and gave her a husband after destroying somebody's family. Love my foot. Blame whoever you want to blame because you didnt still mention whether your 'witch' wife is still by your side or not. Take some responsibility Mr. Man, blame evrybody except yourself.mtcheeew

Elle_for_love said...

poster what do you want us to do now?

Oby O said...

Thank you! Youve said it all...

Anonymous said...

Ode every story is now a begging tactics. I pray life won't deal with you.

Anonymous said...

Ode

Anonymous said...

I don't believe your mother in-law and wife are behind your misfortune in life. You brought it on yourself by cheating. You went against your vows to God and your wife. Marriage is a soul bounding and sacred contract. Some woman like myself have a strong spirit...you cheat on me one way other and you will pay for it. That is why i call myself"the apple of God's eye". Go and repent of your cheating ways,ask your wife for forgiveness and all shall be well with you.

Anonymous said...

Please give the poster your famous Bishop number

Anonymous said...

Please give the poster your famous Bishop number

Anonymous said...

I tell u. Witchcraft no dey know family o. Na some wife dey do their husband o while some husband dey do their wife. Some Pikin sef they do papa n mama. May God have mercy

Anonymous said...

As in real voodoo
Yoruba + Edo = Catastrophy!!!

Ene said...

Hmmm,40% chance your wife found out you were cheating and she and her mum decided to do this to you. 80% chance folake was angry u did not get married to her, she was getting married to someone else, she wouldn't be getting the whole pleasure n spending u do for her,so she probably decided to end your job and I heard sometimes all these people change their faces to someone else so it's possible instead of her face showing, d alfas and others could be seeing your wife n mil. There's only one person that can change your situation and prove that he is truly God, no matter where your name has been tied, only Him can untie u,make u fruitful and the enemies would still bow to Him. Pray to Him in spirit and in truth,confess to Him and he is faithful and Just to forgive u.

ademola ifesanmi said...

Many times I read Y̶̲̥̅̊o̲̣̥υ̲̣̥я̲̣̣̥ comment, it always reeks of sentiments and tribal stuffs. Its people like you that give bad names to peeps from Y̶̲̥̅̊o̲̣̥υ̲̣̥я̲̣̣̥ region. Haba! Try and drink plenty of water

Bad people are everywhere, Y̶̲̥̅̊o̲̣̥υ̲̣̥я̲̣̣̥ tribe inclusive. Advice the bros and stop this Y̶̲̥̅̊o̲̣̥υ̲̣̥я̲̣̣̥ schadenfreude

teetee said...

Oga look no further, dats your karma for cheating on ur wife, for havin sex wt anoda woman while married to another. And for all foz saying karma doesn't visit the men, it does, dis z an example. Jst seek forgiveness from God, he is ever forgiving. Start treating your wife right and watch God do his miracles in ur life again.

Vivilicious said...

Stella how can you even ask what he did to them? He cheated on her with Folake and of course he mistreated her while dating Folake cos the truth is you cannot be in love with two people equally, plus he had already fallen out of love with his wife even before their marriage. Poster I'll advise you to give your life completely to Christ and have a complete change of heart. Cry out to God with a sincere heart and ask God to fight for you and stop absolving yourself of blame cos you also played a part in your problem.
Or better still you can contact love me jeje to take you to her pastor 😁

Anonymous said...

OK. That is the problem, there is no way u will go to a spiritulaist and hw won't have nothing to say. According to them, there is always someone after a persons life. Poster, u might think ur wife is BAD LUCK, or her mother is bewitching u. But, don't forget, u stll continued to see Folake two urs after u married ur wife. My opinion is this, u live very close to Karma. U know Karma they say is a bitch, and bitches hardly 4get or 4give. U have just 3 solutions to ur ISH.
1.PRAY
2.PRAY
3.Ask for FORGIVENESS from every one involved.(Ur wife, ur kid,Folake and ur inlaws).
Remember, no problem is recent to God, he sees everything.

Vivilicious said...

Am sure he mistreated his wife when he was dating Folake

sassychick *i am stelladimokokorkus best friend* said...

Folake give me love o
.. you get big cassava it has ruined your marriage

Sparkle said...

Really

icebag said...

Hmm I be warri girl oh! Witchcraft no dey for whether na their papa, mama, husband, wife pikin or friends oh. Once them see person with bright future they will try to bring you down.if them send u the message u no gree go them go threaten to kill you oh so witch people wey dem send message no dey look face whether him go suffer physically because him be big man for coven. My dear even if you do deliverance self after a while they will still get you. The Bible says when an evil spirit leaves a man and goes looking for another dwelling and finds none he will come back to his former house and see it empty (no Holy Spirit) he will go and bring 7 more spirits mire wicked than himself to come and dwell in the that man making his situation even worse than before. This is the meaning of having deliverance and not staying rooted in Christ. My advice is for you to give your life totally to Christ, tell him it's his will not your will anymore, I urge to stop casting and binding and start to be praying only in tongues morning and night. Praying in tongues is your personal prayer language because the bible says men know not what they ought to pray for so the spirit interceded for man. Pray in the spirit with tongues and just continue to believe in the Lord ask him to lead u into that personal relationship and focus on him only. Read your bible diligently and you will see visions that he will use to direct you into his will for your life. Leave casting and binding and focus only on Jesus Christ he will fight your battle not you and he always prevails.

Fuck you said...

i don't agree with u Stella...have seen a situation when a mother directly caged her daughter cos of disobedience...witch no Dey know whether u be family..
Poster u started dis urself..I feel u put it in ur wife's face dat u were more in love with folake than her..u hurt her feelings and she resulted to another route...now dat Uve known ur problem there's no need lamenting on it dan to find solution to it..in all these u never mentioned u told ur family d source of ur problem..Dey should be able to help u find a way about it or u look for ur wife's mother n confront her..Guy no need to shout on her just tell her u know she's behinds all these make she free u..5years counting d year is running out...u have a prbm u have to be on ur feet for it and leave d other lady alone sought urself out.

Anonymous said...

Look for "The Battle of Midnight" by I.G Newman. It has both 9 & 21 days prayers. It's the most powerful prayer book I have seen. If you can't get it, reply under my comment and I will send it to you. Yet still, you can travel to Abuja and do the program there where you can have one on one discussion with I.G Newman himself. It's not important who is responsible for your predicament at this point... what is most important is how you will come out of it. Act fast!

Anonymous said...

My dear..ur wife Cld av acted dat way den due to pregnancy hormones but u Wre nt patient with her..u didn't mention anifin abt ur wife in dis narrative..I will advise u better start changing ur mentality towards ur wife and u guyz shld work somefin out..my dear start attending a faith believing church...I will say day star so ur mind can be renewed..all I can say is u need christiana and not religion

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Na wa oh! Let me comment let it not be as if I didn't

Anonymous said...

Thank you for being the only person wey get sense here. Witches no send o they can make a person poor n miserable yet they will form sticking by that person. Their minds are twisted

Anonymous said...

It can't be Folake d lady has already move on with her life.

TRIPLE S said...

Well you wooed her for sometime,,she came around on her own and you guys dated,,, that means you loved her at first. You didn't do any thing to save your marriage then you enjoyed cheating on her for two years... Are you sure you aren't paying the price for your wrong deed? Ok o

Anonymous said...

Some men are evil,see the way he painted Folake like an angel,that was a woman who dated a married man for two years.You see,i dont blame some women that never forgive a cheat because when calamity befall them,they will fault the forgiving pathner .Listen good Folake is behind your problem you made her so comfortable and lied to her that you never love your wife and you are going to divorce her.
The bibel says he who find a wife,find good thing and gain favor from the Lord.The day you starter sleeping with Bukola or Folake wtf was the the good thing left your life,you have removed yourself from convenat of favour and plugged yourself to convenat of judgment cos fornicators and adulterers God will judge.Typical child of destruction ,their heart are always obstinate.The more you speak evil and think evil about a woman that stay with your broke asse the more God deal with you.
Only God knows what that woman has gone through in your hand,Since Folake is on standby nothing about that woman will be good,you must have frustrated the hell out of her life just because you wanted to marry another woman.Oloriburuku.If Folake is married ,she will know no peace in her own marriage too

beeolah said...

Folake don use ur star, Yoruba adage says esu ti eyan timo sanju Angelo tiko molo, u should HV stick to ur wife, that's d result of cheating

Chinwenwa Lawrence said...

Na wa Oo... Did you just type this "Abeg keep bible for corner and fight for your freedom!..." if you show me a man who has gotten help from a native doctor without appeasing his gods whether in cash or in kind then I can agree with you. As far as I'm concerned no native doctor even with their powers can conquer " the word of God " The Bible is more powerful than lucifer and his agents. Please do not give such advice again.

Anonymous said...

Because you got no mind of your own

Vivilicious said...

Why not give him bro IG's number if you have it

DonMayor said...

Foolish you. Is that your piece of advice ? Omo ale

Anonymous said...

Look Oga, no fabu us for here. Na that folake thief your good luck go. Shebi things were rosy for you while you were with your wife before marriage and even after, na when folake carry your glory go, na him kasala start?
When you men of our time are told to stio womanizing una no go listen, if you had stuck to your wife. You would have been certain what exactly the issue is, now you are blaming your wife simply because you Dont like her again or because you enjoyed fucking two pussies even as a married woman.
You don't offend world people!

Anonymous said...

Yes o! After fucking her pussy free for 2 years and hanging her legs on the window will, turning her to a sex slave. Giving her bad gists about your wife thereby giving her hiors of sending wifey out and marrying her, you come talk say you free am make she go marry another bobo. Before nko na she scatter your life joooor.

Anonymous said...

My former boss is victim of this kind of story, so I don't think it is flake because she married

Anonymous said...

You never hala! She moved on in bitterness.

Anonymous said...

Poster! I know you will not stop here,cos you didn't hear what you want to hear.If you dont leave that your poor wife out of the vengenace of God that has visited you,the affliction that will Join it is still doing press up in the third heaven.
The bibel say He will fight for us and we shall hold our peace.As i am writting,i just can'nt stop thinking of what that woman must have gone through in your hand.How you must have humilate and disgrace her,how you will consantanly compare her with Folake,how what ever she do can never be good in your sight.I really feel like dishing out some curses on you but Stella will not enable my comment .You will only find peace if you repent from your evil way.

estelle tosin said...

U messed up big time.
after wasting folake's 2yrs u expect her to be hapy .
My dear ur suffren just began.
Ask God for mercy.

Fierce of SDK blog said...

You cheated on your wife because your baby growing inside her was making her act up,you think it is easy to be pregnant? You're not a good man. How would you feel if tables were turned?

Anonymous said...

Pls I also want d pastor's number Niko...

Anonymous said...

Why are your comments always so stupid and lack Dept? Did he anywhere here beg for money? Loudmouth empty head bitch

NC said...

So sorry for what you goıng through....really unfortunate...... Would love that you see Rev. Joshua Talena of Shepherds House Abuja. It wıll defınıtely be well as Long as there ıs God.

Anonymous said...

U are not even serious... All ye that go to church only in problem. Why will u be praying and fasting to jehovah God and then still be visiting Alfas? Become born again and take God serious you will see results...

NC said...

But really @ poster, how are you so sure, she did not check you out spiritually. She knew what you will be in life, acted all good, up until she got pregnant. Then started acting up....according to your stories. Even when you wantted to call it off....you couldnt, coz İ think, as regards your story....There was already a spiritual manipulation. However, İf your Mum is still alive and you Love being rich again, you should find help.....not with a diabolic means, Go and talk to God......

Anonymous said...

I hate it when people say come n c my pastor rather than seek the face of God. When a man finds a wife, he gets favour from the Lord, you brought calamity on yourself, u didn't just cheat, u made it a serious affair, she doesn't need her witch mother to bring you down, God fights His own battle. My dear, you would be the luckiest man in the world if one witch or dibia did that to you coz there is a God greater than any dibia, man of God or Alfa but if your wife cried to God and He is fighting her battles for her.....hmmmmmmmm

Stop blaming anyone n sincerely ask for forgiveness from God and your wife coz when you two pray for your predicament you will c breakthrough

Another guess is if you have a spiritual wife or if it is a generational curse, then you can seek higher anointing from your church not from different churches, please pick a struggle.

Kusopa Dude said...

Thank you sister, you've just spilled it.

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All this crazy Men that start blaming their wives when karma for cheats locate them. You messed with the wrong gang.

Anonymous said...

Mr man it's your adultery that is the cause of your predicament. You didn't even think about that and you are here saying your wife and mil are doing you. Ode you better repent.

Anonymous said...

U dey mind d irritant? Smh
U better go on ur knees and pray for God's mercy,and after that beg ur wife 2 forgive u cos u obviously treated her badly all d while u dated folake.
Na only when una get problem una dey remember God. It is well with u.

Anonymous said...

Hi Poster,

Running from one place to another is never a good way to solve "spiritual or life issues". Seeking God on a personal level is the way forward. Forget about all the things that the "pastors, alfas, babalawos" etc have told you. . . they did not tell you the solution; did they? Their father the devil comes to kill, steal and destroy and they can't give him away; don't you see? They simply do not have the power to overcome evil because they are all in the same boat. What to do?
Repent and turn to Jesus Christ. Turn away from sexual immorality; a man is brought to a loaf of bread through that (Proverbs 6:26). Begin to fast on a daily basis and study your scriptures; the Holy Bible. Concentrate on the New Covenant. You will not only see changes in your own life but in that of your wife.

I will go ahead and share a book that taught me to study my scriptures in a way to understand the supernatural. Bought it online:

https://www.amazon.com/Sin-House-Revelation-Blood-Covenant/dp/1453505679

Thanks poster for reading me.

From a man like you saved through a worse situation than yours.

Elastic said...

See the way Yorubas are defending Folake.. Kiwikiwikiwikiwi kwakwakwakwakwa. Ndi uwa!

Anonymous said...

Ur wife is a blessing to u not otherwise. Pregnancy comes in different way and could be de reason of her insultive nature. Go back to the woman God gave u. Ask her for forgiveness. Tell her to pray for you . Then watch out how things will fall in place. Man ! Pls stop taking ur wives as if they're nothing , she's ur better half and no woman will love u better.

Anonymous said...

My thots exactly. If its his mil & wife, he has a strong battle ahead of him. I have witnessed a man who went thru same ish. He had to pack out of the home! Before he started having breakthrough. OGA, pack out of the house. Stop eating her food. Run far away from them then begin throwing your own missile, witchcraft is not something u threat with kid gloves. witch no dey like good thing. If u want to attack them, do am from outside or else....

brown suga said...

Well said scarlet cos his write up is so one sided

Anonymous said...

Is it Prophet Daniels in Jos? I think he should contact that Prophet he is an anointed man of God

Anonymous said...

My people only those in this posters shoes will understand. It happened to me too and I wasn't cheating. I have never been a womanizer and don't intend to be. I was just tired of my wife constantly partying, clubbing, smoking, drinking and sleeping out. Before married her she acted good girl to the core. My first signal was that on our wedding night i slept alone as she said she wanted to sleep at her moms place. It was a horrible experience.
I was a top shot in the banking industry. Funny enough she's from Edo state while I'm Yoruba. Several times while wooing her and I visit her, she would bring honey in a small plate and ask me to lick. I mumuedly licked honey o. To cut story short, i got tired of her wayward lifestyle and asked for a divorce. That is where trouble started. Just like the poster, i was number 2 man in my company, a very popular bank, suddenly i was transferred to Abuja.... Haaa, why? They said management said so. I wasn't aware o. While in Abuja trying to settle down, the worst happened. Sack letter.... I died 1 million times. I called my oga ( number 1 man) he said he wasn't aware o.... At the end I came back to meet madam and her mother laughing at me and telling me I was finished and the only way out was for me to beg them and withdraw the divorce papers. Wow. It was a battle... I sold everything I owned, including my one and only house at Lekki.... I went down.. To zero... I begged for food. I squatted, I prayed.... I fasted... I asked God to intervene and after 7 years God answered. All the men of God said my mil had decided on my matter and she has refused to let go but God had the final say. Today she is critically ill. She has confessed to everyone and I have forgiven her. I went on with the divorce though. I am single right now and living with my children who witnessed everything and don't want anythin with their mom. I no get power for women so I am not in any relationship. How do I cope? I will tell you at another time but for now, God saved me so I am fully focused on God.... I am not a young man by the way lol... So poster, the God who delivered me will sort you out. Keep faith...MDW...

Anonymous said...

You are the only person that made sense here. People don't have idea of the effect of adultery.

Moncoeur behbeh said...

Am not in support of your past semi wayward way, but those of you who think witches cant do anything bad to you, even though they will be affected, you haven't experienced real life yet.
Poster, go to another state, start life afresh, severe all ties with them (minitoring spirit), make peace with your maker and watch life turn around for your sake.
One way or the other we all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, those castigating you, i pray for their souls. It is well with you dear, don't give up on God.

Anonymous said...

Stop visiting prayer houses,they would only confuse you the more, repent of your sins and develop a personal relationship with your creator.

Anonymous said...

How do I get the book,I'm not the poster oo.

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Anonymous said...

He is not igbo o. An Igbo man cannot type Ibo.

earthquake said...

Poster the solution to your problem is simple go back to your wife with your whole heart and love her! Forget about foluke she is not nice. Your problem is just karma and you know she is a bitch so try and bear with her(karma)

Anonymous said...

It's karma at work jare. All the people arguing about karma, hope you people can now see it's real?
When karma comes knocking, they will blame everyone else for their problems but themselves. No pity from me. Ife onye cho ka ofu

estelle tosin said...

God will help u

kowmah said...

Hello, pls I would love a copy of the book too. Thanks and God bless

Anonymous said...

Yes o! After fucking her pussy free for 2 years and hanging her legs on the window will, turning her to a sex slave. Giving her bad gists about your wife thereby giving her hiors of sending wifey out and marrying her, you come talk say you free am make she go marry another bobo. Before nko na she scatter your life joooor.

Anonymous said...

Please watch War room as see exactly what happened to the man,only then will u know whom to blame

Anonymous said...

For which Folake tears? She slept with a married man for two years..Girl isn't that innocent...

Anonymous said...

Oh plzz shut ur trap.y ar u so pained,idiot.all of u will come here nd b writing rubbish,pretendin that u never dated a married man.and who d hell told you dat its cos he cheatd he is going through this phase?dat his idiotic wife married him cos of his money,y didn't she agree to date him when he had nofin?all dis stupid married women will com here and be saying nonsense.his wife and mother did it.by the way im neither the poster nor folake

Anonymous said...

Thank u joor nc.his wife nd her mum ar behind his downfall.all this married women will come here nd b saying trash,pretending they neva dated any married man

Anonymous said...

Shut up your mouth,its not his adultery so sharap,idiot.d girl and her mother manipulated him spiritually so he'd marry her nd takia of them bt d juju startd fading and him coming back to his senses

Anonymous said...

Abeg na wetin b the name of d church?

Anonymous said...

All of you commenting here,naa clear eye unaa hubby take marry unaa?u jazzd him up so he would marry you nd when the juju starts to clear nd him realising what happened dcides to stay in d marriage cos of the children bt seeks love outside,ul all start cursing nd rantin bt dnt no all d curses goes back to u all.taa mechinu onu unuu

Pweety G said...

Na wah o..things dey happen o. Could it be that Edo people are really to be feared?

Anonymous said...

Men are soooooo useless!! She wasn't that way before u said so yourself! Stupid man do u know how pregnancy can change a woman? Every woman reacts to a stimulus! Man u get what u give a woman simple and clear. Which woman will not appreciate a living man? Na juju?? I put it to u that ur cheating as is looking for an excuse. There are women u should not offend o, heaven responds to tear tears.my dear go back and beg ur wife, if u think she doesn't know u cheated on her lol think again. The grass looks greener on the other side because someone is watering it! Olodo men everywhere, marriage is not for babies, if u aren't ready to work, don't even bother with marriage. Ode, it's ur sins that have closed ur heavens not ur wife.stop visiting fake prophets! Only u 20 prophets? U just compounding your problem

ellé said...

Kisses for this comment!

Anonymous said...

I laugh in Swahili. Na wa ooo. See something. Poster you are the architect of your misfortune. When you noticed her bad attitude why did you still marry her? Secondly you destroyed your own life by your extramarital affair. You think you have a justification to cheat? Go and read your Bible very well, a man who cheats wastes his substance and will be brought to a piece of bread. Instead of you to focus on making things work in your home you were enjoying the other cistern you were drinking from abi. When you were successful, your wife was not a witch abi, and her Edo mother is a witch, abi? Well done. You ruined yourself. That is how one guy wanted to date me and he said his mother is a witch, his ex wife is a witch, that that was why he was not progressing. I ran away, because I knew soon too he would call me a witch. Go to God and pray for forgiveness and ask your wife to forgive you too and treat her well. Your story was too one-sided. You painted your wife completely black, yet you are the one doing the dirt. Better borrow sense, mtcheeew. I keep advising men, if you want to succeed in life, make your wife happy so much that she is always praying for you. So poster, help thy self.

Amacastel said...

Hrloo folake has moved on.all d pastors, Alfas, cannot lie @ d same time, poster ur wife actually made a charm to hold I down for love but it backfired to your wretchedness cos u can't tie Ur husband down without affecting his bizness besides witches are heartless & cunny they hate progress even if it favours them that's why they are witches. U made terrible choice Yoruba girl with Edo mum is disaster, pls park out 1st n start fighting from outside dts when u win the war & is a very tough 1 only prayer can save you cos witches are higher than any occuiltic or juju power. I have never seen a man go poor cos he cheats on the wife king Solomon has 300wives & 700concubines yet he is f richest king on earth . Cheating ain't Ur problem @ all

Becky Divine said...

Anonymous Pig! I say a big AMEN to your prayers! Life will NOT deal with me In Jesus Name I pray... Amen!
Anuofia mmuo like you! Tueh

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Amacastel said...

My Der u are alert o have similar case with my ex & his mom my crime is making money more than her son. I had to leave with my head intact still fighting bit today Is better dn yesterday though av not recoverd fully but am better now and the ex is still living in his mum house @ 46 , broke n has remarry 3times after me no kids except the 1 he got from me , SDK don't underestimate the power of wicked spouse they can do anything to run Ur success down even when they r d sole benefactors of ur success.mine is 6yrs now & God has been faithful though it has not being easy @all

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Godhelpus said...

Hmmmm.. This same thing happened to my brother and his wife was bold enough to say she had a hand in his downfall. Why was he attacked? She was careless and lost her womb and tubes. She Lied to my brother that the scar on her belly was appendix and my brother accepted only to discover after marriage that she would never bear kids as both her womb and tubes were removed. She now wanted to force my brother to adopt. My brother refused and all hell was let loose. She dealt with my brother spiritually. He had to give her lots of money to buy his freedom after pleading and lots of petting lol. Guess where she's from lol but I believe some people not area are just wicked. My other brother married an Edo angel. She's one on a million. Evelyn I love you. God bless you.

Anonymous said...

Don't mind him, eulogising Folake, the real truth might surprise you. Things are not always what they seem, appearances are deceptive and only God knows what is in the heart. Go to God and to your wife for forgiveness. Change genuinely and stop demonizing your wife and her family. When you obey Gods' Word it will be well with you. Your going upandan for a solution shows that you have no faith and not really born again. Try to know God and obey Him, have faith in Him and watch what He will do in your life.

anon1 said...

Oga nit akl wives are blessings to their hubby.what about the women that got married to their husbands through diabolical means?so please shuuuush ur mouth

Anonymous said...

Poster well done. You asked for advise, you got it and now still complaining. Don't take the advise, remain there.

anon1 said...

Yes naa @pweety things do happen.u need to c and know the kind of diabolical things women do to get married to men.many of them are in this blogg ranting ,their husbands didn't marry them with clear eyes

Anonymous said...

I cannot verify your story, but will take it with a pinch of salt 21:03. No matter how poster tries to justify himself, he committed adultery and is still doing that in his mind, still communicating with Folake and wishing he was married to her. And Folake is gloating and telling him "ntoor, I told you so, you cannot do better than me", but his eyes can't see that. If this man does not get on the right path, there is no hope for him. You that claims you are now sold out to God, are you saying adultery is right? Also you people trying to demonize Edo people, well done. There is no tribe free of witchcraft, even abroad there are witches, I know you people emphasized that to gain public sympathy based on stereotyping. This indicates to me you are not ready for a solution. Until you quit the blame game, take responsibility and do what is right, you will not only be stuck, but descend lower.

sisi eko said...

How can your MIL whom u claim to support financially, be the reason u lost a good job? That would be foolishness on her part. Won't she be the one to suffer the consequences with her daughter who's your wife?

Not that I don't believe in the devices of badluck or witchcraft, but you haven't stated any tangible reason why they'd cast a spell on u to fail. Not unless u abandoned ur wife or ended the marriage, will I see reasons with u.

On the other hand, you became more successful after marrying the said wife, so we can't assume she's badluck na. So many loop holes to your story that I can't place. Let's just say you find it convenient to blame someone for your woes. Ndo

OK bye

sisi eko said...

Anonymous 22:11. So you noticed too? And when he mentioned visiting an "alfa" I knew he couldn't be igbo. Lol

sisi eko said...

Hmmmmmm. It therefore means that poster is dealing with some "witchcraft of poverty" or whatever it is called.

I earlier failed to see reasons with why his MIL may be the spell caster, but after reading this I think I want to agree with you @Ama. Na wa

Anonymous said...

Anon 01:51, please read again o. Where did I say adultery is right? Some people have a problem with reading and understanding. I never supported the posters cheating and I clearly wrote that my ordeal wasn't about cheating on my part but when God forgives , helps and saves someone not you or any witch can hold that person down again ok? Again I do not need you to verify anything abi are you part of them, or monitoring spirit so please if you have nothing to say why not pass? I just narrated my experience and its hurting you please how does that concern you? For your information I have been set free by God and will never be stuck again so that prayer of us being stuck is coming right back at you ok? I am victorious and will remain so in Jesus name, Amen. Dear poster you have offended God, pray for mercy, receive mercy, focus on God and no witch either from your wife of Folake can harm you again... It is well.

Anonymous said...

Poster, too many men are in your situation. Many married women used jazz to catch their husbands because he has a bright future and there would be money. They use jazz to control the man so they can use his bright future for their own enjoyment. Some go as far as transferring the man's glory to themselves so that when the Jazz wears off, he would be wretched, broke and totally under their control. When they have had enough of him, the man dies mysteriously.
Oga, 7 days fasting and prayer is the answer.Use Psalms 51 to ask for God's mercy and compassion and seek God's forgiveness on first day and before your prayer sessions. Pray Psalms 35, 109. 2, 20, 91 and Isaiah 47. Pray at 12 midnight, 9am, 12noon, 3pm and 6pm during the 7days fasting. You must move out and have no contact with them or they would weaken you. Your prayer MUST be heartfelt cos you are inviting God into your situation. After the 7days prayer and fasting, continue praying at 12midnight until you are totally delivered. Please note - they will use everything possible to attack you back but hold on to God. God has never lost any battle/war. Treat this as war to restore your glory. You shall have victory in Jeses' name.

Anonymous said...

My brother your case is small o, its not even affliction self. Locate any Charismatic church in Benin City, Reference: St. Joseph ask for Fr. Ogu & Sapele Rd ask for Fr. Agbonlahor.

There was one strong charismatic in Air force base, Benin City sadly they posted him to yola. The man na wa, heard a lame woman walked during his service. Guy you need to waka oooo.
They planned worse but God sustained you.

That Linda can talk nonsense sha, today TB Joshua, Tommorrow white witch, God have mercy o.

Go to the soil they used in tying you.

Anonymous said...

Sisi Eko, nice one from you. No Igbo man irrespective of his waywardness visits an alfa. Bottom line is, this story is either fake, or the poster intentionally changed scenes to hide his identity.

Ralu M said...

"Keep bible for corner and fight for your freedom" did you really type that? I fear for you, the people around you and your children if this is the kind of advice you dish out. If you are trying to sound badass and "out there" stop it cos you end up looking like a fool. One can only get freedom in christ take it or leave it.

stephan said...

Are you the folake?

Olori_1812 said...

Marriage they say will either make you or mar you.In this situation, it is marred you.How has your wife been since then? has her attitude towards you changed?maybe you are doing something wrong,why not go back and check it.
i know your light will shine again, do not lose hope my brother.

stella, i do not think it is the folake that is doing him o,from what i read he has been passing through a lot since he got married or should i say since the lady got pregnant.

Anonymous said...

Very dirty story! I really do not care about d tribe involved but i can get down with this story. I'm not a saint but why do some men think is normal to commit adultrey. Well, since u want spiritual advise, there's a girl with a special gift called sis Chinonso based in owerri. She's a catholic but runs a ministry on wednesdays and saturdays. I ve seen God use her to restore hopes. Take a cap from anywhere in owerri to orji, stop at Hadel, ask any okada people to take u to her ministry. Forget anything people tell u, there's nothing God cannot do. Just have faith and believe

Anonymous said...

That is a lie. I'm igbo and I use alfas too.

Anonymous said...

@Anon 08.31 sept 14. I relate with you and the poster. I am into married an Ibadan girl I knew vaguely in the university. I was Wealthy in more ways than I can say. Over 4 houses in Lekki 1. A thriving business and then I married her when she got pregnant. Spoilt, Provided and supported her, family et al. She changed less than a week after marriage though evidently I saw the signs long before but chose to ignore. There is nothing on earth(curses and violent pronunciations) she hasn't said to me. Everything changed for the worse after marriage. She is the greatest mistake any man could make. Apparently she has 3 sisters and all their husbands are in similar shoes but I have removed myself from their evil equation, their luck has run out with me. My God is Jehovah Elohim, He is God and He has never failed. Dear poster, plan for your kids if any, keep your plans private and get out of that marriage fast. Destiny destroyers abound everywhere. Truth is many of us don't seek Gods direction before committing to marrying these girls .

Anonymous said...

@Anon 08.31 sept 14. I relate with you and the poster. I am Ibo and got married to an Ibadan girl I knew vaguely in the university. I was Wealthy in more ways than I can say. Over 4 houses in Lekki 1. A thriving business and then I married her when she got pregnant. Spoilt, Provided and supported her, family et al. She changed less than a week after marriage though evidently I saw the signs long before but chose to ignore. There is nothing on earth(curses and violent pronunciations) she hasn't said to me. Everything changed for the worse after marriage. She is the greatest mistake any man could make. Apparently she has 3 sisters and all their husbands are in similar shoes but I have removed myself from their evil equation, their luck has run out with me. My God is Jehovah Elohim, He is God and He has never failed. Dear poster, plan for your kids if any, keep your plans private and get out of that marriage fast. Destiny destroyers abound everywhere. Truth is many of us don't seek Gods direction before committing to marrying these girls .

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