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Sunday, June 11, 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
VIRAL DNA BROUHAHA AWAKES AN OLD STORY


Hello BVs, my last written chronicle to Stella was 2015 
and it was posted, i got advices of all sorts, including insults but i just filtered as i read thru, lemme attach it and refresh BVs memories and new BVs to understand the root of the problem, so i wrote;


"Hello Stella 
and SDK fans, with a heavy heart and fright i type this chronicle, i posted a bit about it some days back and BVs like Kiks said i should send it in as a proper narrative, i might feel better afterwards. Lies eh, the lies some ladies tell scares away Jesus from their life and neighbourhood, and they wonder why their prayers aren't answered.


I have soaked myself in lies, infact totally immersed from top to bottom, its been choking me for years, some how i found a way to suppress it but i feel it building up daily almost reaching the point of eruption, the feeling is when you try not to cough in public but after much trial it busts out... Apparently, some things cant stay buried, they germinate 
and come up as weeds, i have managed to keep mine buried for 8yrs and counting, deep down i know the truth will come out some day as German Juice said, but the truth will tear my family apart literally, but the question i am asking BVs is how do i break the news to my husband of 9yrs, see me even scared to say it out loud to BVs reading this, how much more my husband, and 3 lovely kids...


The nightmare is in the face of my 1st son, starring at me daily & calling me mummy, as he grows daily he's beginning to look and act like his biological father, that's the major reason why the nightmare is becoming so real, reminding me of a mistake i made out of pity.


My husband has cheated twice on me, of which he confessed one to me and i snooped and discovered the other, who am i not to 4give him when i know the huge lie am carrying around, i dont even have the right to vex, i just form vex sha, hes a good father and husband to the girls and 1st boy, i like him a lot for that, but my one true love i have ever known was my Ex, at a point it was obvious he wasn't ready to settle down and my husband was practically drowning me with calls and attention.


I admit my ex and i didn't use our heads to think but our genitals, when he whispered to me "lets make our last night a night to remember" indeed it WAS night to remember but sadly its just me having a constant reminder in the face of our son, i wasn't even sure who the biological father was, but i prayed and did everything possible to believe the pregnancy belonged to my husband, he was so excited and the wedding came so fast.


They say when you tell a lie for so long, you start believing its true, i experienced it for awhile till my kids school conducted a mandatory genotype and blood group of all their pupils, it was done that Ebola outbreak period, that's when my nightmare became a reality, my girls are AA, same as me and DH, but our 1st son came out AS, in my 32yrs on this earth eh, i don't think i have ever discarded a paper so well, i burnt it to ashes, leaving no shred of evidence, i no fit shout.


I know most of you would suggest i take that secret to my grave, i have also tried doing that, trust me... but each time i go to church its kinda like the pastor is directly talking to me, each time my gals cough or sneeze i fear it'd land them in the hospital and a blood sample would be required, each time i pray i wonder how it'd be answered when i am living a lie, each missed call i see from my Ex once in a blue moon i fear he has figured things out and needs to see his son,and the constant nightmares no be here i tell you...etc.


We're not all wired the same you know, what works for A might not work for B, so i have decided to drop this expired load i have been carrying around and face the consequences, God help me. i wish i could come back and tell you'all how it all went and if I'd be writing the feedback from my husbands house or God knows where."


OK! That was 2015, 
and i didn't write a feedback to update you all.

Fast forward to June 2017, 
and I'm writing this from my matrimonial home with chilled coke by my side and our family portrait with all smiles. i never wanted to breathe life into that topic anymore let alone put it down in words for fear of leakage or decoding, but I'm good in covering my tracks, trust me, I've done a damn good job over the years, So this recent viral DNA topic forced me out of my shell and i had to write down my quandary, i just might be helping or giving an insight to someone reading this. 


The guilt and fear that was consuming me each day has finally been put to coma by the help of my husband himself, i hope it dies a natural death from there, yes his words were enough to fight off the invisible hands choking me. i took the advice from a particular BV Atheists 
and it helped greatly, he suggested i find a movie with a similar story line to mine, not necessarily with the wife keeping a secret though, he listed "switched at birth" "Like father like son" "The fosters".. i should download it & try sitting down to watch with my husband on our free day, if we do such atimes and then ask questions psychological questions and see his reaction and responds, then i can key into my personal plight. 


So i finally downloaded the movie, but it took almost 2 months for us to watch it together, i couldn't just spring up that particular movie 
and have a zillion questions, that would have been a tad bit suspicious, so i took my time to make sure we watch other rubbish 1st, so while the movie went on, this kid was in search of his biological father, after going through the yellow pages he found an address, of course the man had no idea he had a son outside his loving family, so i threw my question "Honey, do u think the wife will divorce the man if truly he knew about his son out there and kept it a secret, i mean how could he do that?" lol..... i eagerly waited for his response, so he said "I don't think he was aware"..... that wasn't the answer i needed, so i pressed on and strategized saying.... my colleagues cousin kept such a secret from her DH for yrs and she felt so guilty and opened up, he divorced her immediately and did a DNA for the rest kids.... that got his attention and he yelled "Chai"... *my heart skipped*... 


he added, she has destroyed 3lives with her selfishness, she should have dealt with her guilt a different way, hmm.... na their i pick brain oh, i had to utter something, so i said "some women have guts sha"...


i knew it was a secret i should take to my grave, so with each passing day my 1st son is starting to act like my husband, as he brings him up like his son which he truly is *winks*.... I'm starting to see them in same light, 
and I've totally cut off my ex and changed my number long ago, #closedchapter #Bookburnt.



167 comments:

  1. Hmmm.....big trouble loading

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    1. Madam, I see u ending up losing everything u r fighting to keep.

      I will beg u to tell ur husband. Call people he respect together and confess ryt in front of dem.

      Save urself and ur marriage now!!!!

      I know a couple in my church. D wife had an affair with a church member wen they were going through hard times and she got pregnant. She ran to church and today she is back with her husband. She also gave birth to the child and the husband is taking Kia of him.

      Only God can resolve this ur problem. Please truth him

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    2. Most first child are like this according to statistics and majority go unnoticed. So I pray her case is same.

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    3. I swear I thought about this poster earlier today. Your issue came to mind too cos of the whole DNA bruohaha.lol...

      Whatever rocks your boat.

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    4. I remember this story so very well

      I pray ur plan works well n nothing leads to anything dt will demand any test which might drag ur legs out

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    5. Madam, it's a sin to lie but talking will end your marriage

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    6. @Anon 17:15.
      That was in the days were people don't know about DNA etc.

      Now people know. Also note that Naija men have started doing DNA test secretly.

      And with time the test will become cheaper bcoz of competition.

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    7. Madam poster,
      You don't need a prophet to tell you that your day of reckoning is coming.

      You got away with one by shredding d result, u may not be lucky next time.

      And the shocker for you will be that your son will look every inch like your Ex when he becomes a teenager cos right now, maybe he has a some of your looks. Pray someone doesn't just say something foolish to hubby like "your daughters look like you their father but not your son"

      Then your heart will start pounding

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    8. Madam poster what happened when the children grew up and start checking their blood group by themselves. They will all wonder why 5he girls have the same blood group as mom and dad and their brother has another blood group. You better tell the truth now or start lying your blood own blood group is AS. Whatever an epic disgrace awaits you in future

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    9. Madam Juliet, which one is epic disgrace? The way u guys throw words anyhow is alarming. Abeg shift

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    10. You this fucking whore, so you back with another sorry ass story. You want a trophy? Bitch!

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  2. Wawu!...
    I remembered your story madam!...
    Good to know you are not a Mumu!!...

    This never happened!...
    Forgerrit!...
    Most women are in your shoes and they are forging ahead!..

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    1. Result out! CGPA 3.58 oluwa is involved

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    2. Poster thank God you are not mumu ooo.
      Please take that secret to your grave.
      I also have secrets that will go with me to my grave...I've forgotten the secret sef lol

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    3. Congrats DeHeroine but there's much more ahead

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    4. That was a narrow one. Congrats DeHeroine.

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  3. I remember your narrative very well, im glad my comment could save 3 lives literally, lol... thanks for the feedback, now im gingered to dish out more "yeye advice"...

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    1. Lols
      I don dey fear u ooo
      I remember how scared she was then,but now she sound relive

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    2. am liking you more atheist...#bigfan#

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  4. Chai.....There is God o....Stella i join u close mouth o..Galore pls come and talk 2 dis woman...I knw u can

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    1. The matter tire me, I swear

      Let her take that secret to her grave


      Women, make all of una listen.. ...


      As a woman for husband house... "Our MUmu don do"....now we dey use our head reason things, no be by heart or Yeye love again mbok

      @Galore

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    2. Imagine, madam, I remember your story and I must say its better for you to take that secret to the grave. Abeg stop your guilty feelings, if possible, don't even think about the issue. That is the best bet. Just pray nothing will happen that will warrant you letting the cat out of the bag. Don't put sand sand into your Garri mbok.

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    3. All of you telling her to take it to the grave, pls also pray nothing happens to the child that would require the semi abi step dad to give blood or something. Am not judging you or anything but my bible says only the truth would make you free. But for your sake i wish you all the best any may your truth never be found out.

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    4. This is one of the cases in which an abortion would have given you peace. If you are not sure who the father is, Abeg use emergency birth control.

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  5. Please take that secret of yours to the GRAVE

    I repeat.,to your GRAVE

    Don't let anyone tell you, to tell your husband Jack.. .dont even tell your pastor's... Settle your conscience with GOD, let GOD forgive you, and continue to live your normal life



    This is a deadly secret that can make your husband to KILL you faa or even hate you for life.. .so, why do you want to tell him?

    In fact, don't even tell your ex anything

    I am sure, people may come and tell you, haa this your boy look like your ex, just shrugg it off



    Women oh women... We never just learn.. .to eager to tell a secret that will destroy them and everyone around them

    Destroy generations sef






    @Galore

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    1. Na true o, what if your friends that know ur ex thinks ur husband is not the father because ur son looks like ur ex? Kasala

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    2. I no fit shout... As she is taking the secret to her grave she should also pray nothing will happen dat will warrant the Dad or the boy needing blood from each other, cos he must find out.
      Just pray very hard and forgive urself nd den try forgetting it.

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    3. I am sure, people may come and tell you, haa this your boy look like your ex, just shrugg it off"

      How can you shrug that off? Her only saving grace is that maybe the child looks more like her & the hubby does not care.

      But believe me, any day the someone comes in contact with the ex and sees a little resemblance in that boy, that marriage is in trouble.

      Its bad u were sleeping with 2 men unprotected, more bad that u weren't even sure who has the baby and worse that you made a man care for another man's child just as his own.

      You are a killer ma'am

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  6. Lols๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€
    I carry body for u
    The man no know say,him don use knife kill himself๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

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  7. Poster! I'm very very speechless to tell you the truth.

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  8. Sorry lady you made two mistakes
    Listening to "an atheist" and making your life a movie.
    but the book is not closed, it will be opened;
    And I saw the dead, great and small, standing before the throne, and books were opened. Another book was opened, which is the book of life. The dead were judged according to what they had done as recorded in the books. Revelation 20:12
    A girl decides if sex should happen
    As soon as the man ejaculates and the penis relaxes, the sex is over. He forget the girl once they are out of sight.
    But for the girl, it is not so; she lives with the consequences; pregnancy, abortion or not, guilt of it all, heartbreaks etc.

    So girls, be wise and decide not to have sex until marriage.

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    1. See me see wahala oh...
      You save life sef na problem...
      An atheist translates to mumu abi??

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    2. Atheist nor vex it is just lady Igo's opinion. Shebi poster yaff praise you? Ehen wetin you dey find again?

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    3. Lady Igo, pls bring prayers for single ladies o. We haff tired of being single.

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  9. I keep telling girls, you are the ones that live with the consequences of having sex. And you know what?
    You are the ones that decide if sex should take place.

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  10. This is huge.
    All I can say is confess to your husband now and take responsibility of your actions. Someday the truth will come out.
    Have you thought about your ex getting to find out you had his child? It can be revealed through a pastor or by some other means. It's wiser you disclose now while you can without so much pains unlike when the child is grown and you have to face the embarrassment of telling him who his true father is.

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    1. Confess that Jesus is Lord or what???
      Poster abeg jump and pass this advice ooo

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    2. Confess what? I'm sorry but I disagree with you. I just hope the poster hasn't said a word of this to any soul not even her 'best friend'. Some things are better left unsaid.

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  11. Please somebody tell me what the position of the Bible is on this type of action. I for one know that HELL is real. When you choose to take your secret to grave, then think again. Thanks

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    1. In my opinion, I think once you settle it with GOD and you have peace withing, then you better take that secret of yours to your grave


      @Galore

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    2. You people are deceiving yourself's and using God's name to play. They can be no forgive until amends has been made, anyone telling you otherwise is lying. You have done a terrible thing and you think you will be forgiven without you purging yourself of that evil? God can not be fooled o, if that's the case those who murder and are successful in keeping it a secret will make heaven. That one is a big lie.

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  12. What will happen the day another blood test comes up infront of your hubby and you don't have the luxury of shredding the result...


    What will happen the day your son falls inlove with his sister(your ex daughter)...its a small world you know?


    What if? what If ? What If? Your ex finds out somehow???


    I hope you keep sipping your coke then... You weren't denied your biological father, why deny your son his? Don't let your son hate you forever if he finds out later in life.

    Don't because of little shame now and suffer greater one in future.The truth always has a way of coming out at least Nollywood will teach you that.

    Enjoy your peace of mind while it last, Don't forget to update us in future.

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    1. Let that time come...
      As for now,๐Ÿ™Š

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    2. Which little shame now? She is sure that her home will topple like a house of cards, that is why she nor get liver talk. If na you, you for talk? Poster better add schnapps to that coke sip it good.

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    3. Shut up...if na u u go talk

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    4. I can see my comment is pricking your dark soul...heya everyones heart is not as dark as yours.


      Yes If na me, E for no reach like this..Well no need to prove myself to you. Ka Odi

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  13. This is seriously serious.May God help us.

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  14. Women are smarter than we(men) think they are, but not as smart as they think they are.
    In your myopic mind now, there's no chance on earth your husband will ever stumble across this Chronicles!
    Well, it was God who created us all, let's all leave this matter to him. We shall all know the truth in the afterlife where there is no atheist.

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    1. No only thing i regret about being an atheist is, when we all die i wont be able to tell u " I told you so, thrs no God"

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    2. It's only a fool that says there is no God. On the last day I will definitely tell you I told you so. There is God get to know him and believe in him

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  15. You just postponed the day of destruction. One way or the other, your sins will find you out here or hereafter.
    Here: one day, you will not be around and your husband will take that child to the hospital etc.
    Hereafter: 8If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. 9If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1

    Rev. 21:8 But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars—they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death.”

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  16. Atheist just won a soul for hell

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    1. As atheists don't belive in heaven or he'll, god (s) or devil's, what you think matters nought.

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    2. Lols๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€

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    3. Make una leave my TM fake lewin shirt na b4 e tear... im in the bizzness of holding a marriage in one peace.

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    4. & technically, i didnt tell her to lie or sugarcoat the truth, i only adviced she watch a certain movie wit her husband n ask him questions in retrospects, then see his reaction which will help her knw wats coming....

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    5. Theres no heaven or hell, so kindly enjoy ur life

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  17. Lol...

    More stories will come up because of this DNA ish

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  18. And madam, you go to church but the person you believe in is called atheist?

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    1. Thehehehehehe

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    2. See can smell a sane advice miles away jst like shark smells blood, or nigerian babes smell money, the church will say " the truth shall set u free" indeed free from her matrimonial home

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    3. Dear atheist,
      If there is 1 comment I look out for, believe me its yours

      You gave the poster a sound advice. Confess or not confess was out of it but it worked as she was able to conceal her "wound"

      But you don't have to be religious to know that your sins will fish u out someday.

      Only the truth shall set you free from the prison of guilt and not your "matrimonial home"

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  19. Lol Stella I follow you close mouth.

    Hmmmm in fact make I read comments.

    Deception is not Christ like sha.

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  20. I would have said this poster is queen and boss but she doesn't have baby girls.
    Madam poster I'm not judging you o but trend with caution bcos the day wen dis ur husband go catch you, the thing sef go shock you


    #galore'scrush

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  21. Girl there are other movies;
    "Mama hell is too hot"
    "left behind"

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    1. Hahahaha. .that left behind go make her confess oo

      I saw that movie, and for good two weeks, I could not even tell someone "you are stupid "....

      It's like when you read the book of REVELATION in the Bible... To sin go just tire you faa



      @Galore

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  22. Stella I nor fit shout. Hianest! As they say here...Una go dey alright last last.

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  23. Some women sha, how do you manage to sleep at night with such secret,me I can't lielie.hmmmm

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  24. This is funny. You think I did not know all along? I've been waiting for you to confess and I'd tell you my mind. I love that boy to bits.

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    1. Ehen so now you know wetin you go do? Oya send us ya own side of the chronicles make we advise you wella... hope sey you nor wan break ya home? To err is human ooo...

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    2. 15:31 @Anonymous "Orubebe "

      I don't want to believe

      MABASI



      @Galore

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    3. Anon 15:31
      leave prank abeg. U r too old for that

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  25. Waiting for the last episode...



    #DontQuoteMe

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  26. Lord have mercy on us. Where we cannot speak, let the blood of Jesus speak for us. Let mercy prevail over our lives Lord.

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    1. Grace, grace, God's grace, grace that will...

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  27. Madam you better keep that secret as well as u can. Block away that conscience forever. It's life n shit happens. Don't speak of it again.

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  28. It's just a matter of time. The best you can do is accept your fateful ahead.Nothing remains hidden for ever not when it involves life. Your son will get to know his genotype someday, the first person he will ask will be his father. Enjoy while the case is adjourned.

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    1. Johnny, there are somethings that remain hidden forever. Do you know if u are your father's biological son? Lol
      *dodges shoe*

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    2. The son definitely would. One day he would need to know his genotype

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    3. Loud it!your son would know his genotype and discover it's different from his sisters.then he would want to find out that of his parents.be ready for then

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  29. Jesus! This one heavy. God please don't allow me do anything that will take my rest of mind away.

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  30. Truth they say cannot be buried. But if you can take it to the grave , fine because this lie will destroy three lives as you know

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    1. I remember your story poster .


      You are only shifting your sentence forward. Things like this don't stay hidden forever .

      If you talk now, you will be disgraced , if you don't and he finds out, you'll still be disgraced .


      Whichever way, you are doomed !


      Continue sipping come jare.

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    2. Dem don reply you for down ๐Ÿ‘‡


      @Galore

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  31. My dear, this isn't your last chronicle, I just doubt where you will be sending the next chronicle from, certainly not from your matrimonial home.

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  32. Women!!!
    Adam, why did you have to eat the apple with Eve?

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  33. Hmm we call this ikwikwi ekwensu aromansia in chinwe Talu's voice oh lord fix this.What prick will cause in this life eh

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  34. Wrongest DECISION, Madam.
    U are fighting to fight another day, why dont u finish ur fight now and have proper rest in mind.
    Pls face this monstrous fear and get it over with, even if it leads u out of ur hubbys house.
    How can u fear man so much, dat ur are ready to condemn ur soul to HELL???.
    Do u know that all d sinners of d bibilical age, HEROD, GOLIATH,CAIN e.t.c are still burning in hell till today, till tomorrow, till forever more, even after over 2000 to 3000 years on. Lets assume u live till 120 years and spend 5000 yrs nd beyond in hell, How grevious can dat be. U are still alive but u are dead. My pity lies with you.
    Its not an easy decision dear, but please face it, own up and move ahead, whether as married or divorced.

    Finally if u dont face this huge fear now,and wait till it finds u out or u confess at a much later years, these will happen.
    1. The years dat has passed will make the weight of dis confession too difficult to bear and to be forgiven.

    2. Ur husband will hate u so much then cos u ve wasted his entire life, imagine if d tables are turned and ur husband springs up a child of his, when u guys are sixty. U will feel are d life u shared together, was a total waste.
    3. Your son will so hate u still.
    4. U will ve succeeded in destroying TRUTH,from ur lineage, as ur daughter's will learn to carry their own mistakes to d grave nd d cycle begins.

    Pls dnt destroy ur life, ur eternity, ur childrens morals and ur lineage.

    CONFESS TO HIM NOW.
    Tell him u are ready to leave d marriage but u need to leave with his forgiveness.
    Trust me if u have engaged God first before d confession, it might turn out in ur favour. But if not, bear d cross and make heaven.

    Mrs CB

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    1. Confess fire, nothing will happen, unless they wanna travel abroad, that's when shit will hit fan.

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  35. Yet, women will keep saying men are liars. No matter how good a woman is, she must have an hint of deception in her character. A trait they all share with the first of their kind, Eve.

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    1. All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. We can only be saved by Gods'grace through Jesus Christ, man or woman.

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    2. Lol

      But you are shouting





      @Galore

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  36. My dear don't mind them my anty that lives in abuja has five children none belongs to the husband and nobody knows about these except my mum and her other siblings.so my dear take it to the grave ok

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    1. Thank you

      She for no even tell your mum sef


      My own secret ,I don't tell Jack.. When you tell one or two it's no longer a secret







      @Galore

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    2. Are you for real?I pity that man.

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    3. Your aunt is a hoe.

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  37. You people have mind o, so you were having unprotected sex with two different men at the same time? Aren't you afraid of the multitude of STI's out there?
    As for the paternity of the child, your day of reckoning will come. Nothing stays hidden under the sun. When it comes to the surface your husband might show uncommon grace and accept the child as his own as he is the only father he has know and it's no fault of the child what his mother has done. You on the other hand will probably be divorced with speed.

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  38. I understand the fear you are living in but madam book never burn and case never close.
    I guess this boy you are talking about is not up to 15 years. You are begining to see them alike in their character, behaviour of DNA. Even if they act alike now, how many years will it last. 10/20/40?
    Truth is, this kind of secret is not one taken to the grave when the evidence is glaring. Will you keep on hiding his DNA paper, one day, he will begin to act like his true father and your husband will begin to question how he got it esp if he is the chip off the old block.

    This chronicle Eleyi gidigan!

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  39. A lot of men have raised kids that aren't theirs and never found out.So she might be lucky.Almost all BVs are telling her to confess,how many of you would have confessed?Madam,best of luck

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    1. Gbam. God bless u. They r just shouting confess, confess as if it's that easy.

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  40. This one is strong o.I don't even know what to type.

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  41. Joy okanje who told u the truth can't be buried story for the gods my girlfriend that did more than. Five abortions when we are in school then just gave birth to triplets on tuesday all boy when I visited her in the hospital on friday morning all she keeps telling me was my dear upon all my sins that she don't need to tell me that I know her too well so my dear how the truth go take come out here again pls forget talk biko

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    1. Who be @Joy okanje?


      Isokay



      @Galore

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    2. Some secret can be taken to the grave if it involves one or two people but in this case a new life is involved and she fell on the wrong side having a child with something different from that of the rest of the family. If the said child was AA my dear I can say,she will get away with it. In this case there is a comma. That child will get to know his genotype and from there questions will be raised. If your husband don't get to find out,the boy himself will ask questions. Its a time bomb and karma is knocking... IT'S JUST A MATTER OF TIME..,The case is only being adjourned. If there would still be SDK blog by the time the bubble burst we may be lucky to find out how it ended.

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    3. What is dis one saying? U did abortions .... So bloody what! And then had triplets .... ehen

      U r still a teenager and this chronicle isn't for your comprehension

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  42. What if he manages to stumble on this chrons? Why explain the movie u watched together.
    Be careful, u gave too much info that will aid ur hobby decoding u.
    U can never tell who's reading

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  43. Atheist you are a great man ,woman take that secret to your grave finito.

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  44. This one pass me I swear, but it better to let sleeping dog lie......wawuuu

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  45. Don't be afraid to tell him the truth, he may get angry at first, but will later love and cherish you all his life, for not keeping him in the dark all his life. and besides, revealing that secret to him alone is a demonstration of love. so don't allow him to find out from someone else for he will not only hate you forever, but your son will despise you for the rest of his life.

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    1. It is easier said.. It is easy to type it... I bet you, if you were in her shoes, you won't tell anyone



      Poster Abeg, borrow yourself brain oo.. .tell only God and leave the matter to rest

      I don talk my own


      @Galore

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    2. Stoory! Madam pls die with that secret

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  46. Aside from feeling like a celebrity with my name up there,๐Ÿ˜‰ I really don't know how I feel about your decision to take the secret to your grave. I know I can't live with such cloud hovering over my head for the rest of my life. In fact I know I would have said something in the beginning and damned the consequences that's just how I am but we all are different. I just pray it doesn't come back to bite you in the 'bahind'. These things have a way of coming back you know? But I wish you well my sister.

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  47. Wooow
    This is time bomb ooh

    Better open up

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  48. Madam while you plan to take the secret to your grave also plan for dooms days.
    Prepare for the day it would happen by taking necessary steps like
    1)Been financially independent because when he finds out he might kick u and his biological kids out of d house

    2) Prepare for the humiliation by having quality dirty on him also so that should he find out he won't be able to broadcast to everyone in your family...example of dirty "Fix up with say a Gay guy" he won't be able to say jack shit when he knows u have him by the balls

    Finally let this be the last you discuss of this issue to anyone whether annonymous or not

    Remember walls have ears

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  49. This is a true life story.my eldest sister got married and waited for seven years for the fruit of the womb due to low sperm count of her husband. The last day she and her husband went for test, my sister went back and asked the doctor that if she is his daughter, what will he advise her, the doctor said medically, there is nothing he can do. My sister was heart broken. So we had a family meeting and everyone in my family including my mother advise her to go outside and try. She did, and she has 2 boys and 1 girl now. This is a secret me and my family will carry to our grave. There is no turning back now

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    1. And u think the man is foolish enuf to know that scientifically, he can't produce children?

      He knows that those kids aren't his but wat can he do?

      And its not a secret you and your family carries anywhere. The biological father is there also

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  50. My parents know all our genotypes and we all know ours. We are all AA the six of us .So,dont you think your husband would want to know his kids' genotype and the kids some day would get to know that their brother is AS when you and hubby are both AA. And then find out their brother is AS. Just wondering how it would be for your kids.

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  51. Madam you are not alone in this am guilty of this kind of ur story too but in my own case now my husband is late he died two years ago so nothing again is disturbing me

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    1. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

      Good for you.

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  52. I understand they way you feel. It takes maturity, patience and the grace of God to handle such situation. For all you calling her names and judging her ... Cast the first stone if you are not a sinner.

    The deed has been done and you paying for cheating on your husband and having to live each passing day with the evidence of your actions. Now moving on.

    I feel taking this to your grave is an option which time and God can only determine. If you keep quiet and God reveals it through a situation then what happens. Let me say that what you have probably done is create a soft landing for the situation when the TRUTH finally comes out. I have a feeling your husband will forgive you but my fear is that of the EX who might probably bring tension and friction just to get back at you for keeping the child existence away from him. Your husband hold the key and the earlier you start working on how to come clean and let him know the better. It will be a different case if you don't know but now that you know I think coming out will help all of you. He might accept him like his own afterall being a sperm donor is NOT the same as being a father in all sense of it.
    My humble advice is work out a way of telling your husband that you suspect a bit of issue concerning the paternity of your son due to his blood group. How you will do it is upto you cause you know him well and better than anyone on this blog. His stand might just shock you.
    Wish you the best and hope this makes your home stronger and more United.

    # come back and thank me later.

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  53. Hmm...in my former life I would v said pls tell him the truth. But Sumtn happened to me recently and I v realised men are never ready for the truth. They can't hande it. My husband recently found out sumtn, I told him the entire truth and I haven't had any peace of mind since that day. Calling my character into question everytime someone who isn't even an angel. If I could do it again sa I wouldn't marry too early nor marry him. Madam keep it to ur self u didn't even need to send this chronicle biko

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    1. Exactly! Why the chronicles poster? It seems your subconscious is pushing you to reveal the truth.

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  54. Dear friend, I will advise you go read a book titled "mercy repair my past" authored by pastor Segun olatunde of apply praise ministry and get the leading of the holy spirit on this issue.

    Thank you.

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  55. Madam, the earlier you relieve yourself of this guilt the better. This burden saps you of your inner peace and energy. It is heavy to carry alone. Do not postpone the inevitable. It might end up spilling right in your face unexpectedly and unplanned.....And that would be more devastating and leaves you with no back up plans. It's better he finds out now he's young and strong than when he's older, as his heart can't take it then. The worst case scenario is to hate you and send you packing. But time heals. It heals everyone...

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  56. Hmmmn. Women/ladies, be careful d life u live, be very careful. Save ur self, unborn children, lineage from the calamity of ur selfishness and stupidity. Even wen u r cheated on or grievously wounded, don't make hasty decisions and actions. Generations are counting on u.
    Madam, don't know wat to say to u, but I kept thinking; wen he finds a lady to marry and they go for genotype test.... Or he tells her not to bother cos he is AA, and after marriage der kids turn SS if d lady is AS!?, I remember during my year 1 registration we had to go to d SCH clinic and all manner of tests were carried out including genotype. When urs get there will u stop him or d SCH or destroy d results wic r required for registration? These and many more questions are wat are running through my mind.
    May God deliver us from evil and temptations DAT will overcome us.

    #Unbeatable

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  57. Woman are wicked kilode I be woman too
    Madam is not too late now just tell your husband now if he found out him self by some mean even stella won't be able to post your chronicle by then u are on your own

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  58. Fighting to fight another day...
    That boy will definitely find out about his genotype someday. Then he will ask u or his dad, "which of u is AS since I am?" Na there u go explain wella. Goodluck to you

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  59. Madam, your son will one day find out about his genotype and ask his father why he is AS.
    Asides that, what will you tell God.
    Continue reserving your place in hell, because all liars shall go to hell, the lake of fire.

    My advise.
    Pray. Talk to your pastor.
    God gave you the conscience for this issue to trouble you.
    Tell your husband.
    For your information your son is a BASTARD. Because you are not married to his biological father.
    Well done.

    I'm sorry I'm harsh. This is to save you from eternal fire.
    Remember, what shall it profit you to gain the whole world and lose your soul to hell.

    Don't think I'm judging you. It's only what the Bible has said.

    I have my own struggles....๐Ÿ˜ข

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  60. GALORE, why do you keep on insisting she takes the secret to the grave, as if you didn't read the post very well, she said it's bothering her, and telling her hubby is the only way to set herself free from that burden, and yes god will forgive her, but think of the joy she will have knowing she has been forgiven by both god and her husband, and I don't think you know how it feels to be hunted by a secret.

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  61. Thoughts of a young woman learning to trust God๐Ÿ™‡11 June 2017 at 19:22

    This is strong. Madam pls first give your life to Christ if u haven't. Find Jesus. That's my hope for you. Acknowledge the Lord in all ur ways and he will direct ur path. God's grace.

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  62. Madam take your secret to thee grave jare. Genotype doesn't matter we are 6 in our family my parents are aa and I'm the only as so it happens. I look like my dad so I know my mum didn't cheat. Its possible to have a child with a different genotype. Don't ever open the Pandora box. Shalom

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    1. Lol @ Adele love are you this stupid..

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    2. Adele u better retake the genotype test or ask your mum again because it is IMPOSSIBLE to be AS when both parents are AA. Just see the nonsense u typed "genotype does not matter". Stop displaying ur ignorance with such confidence. Dumb ass

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  63. There's no point telling !
    I'm presently in similar situation my dad is not my biological father.i got to find out 10 years ago ,I confronted my mom she denied it at first then I went on to let her know I won't judge ๐Ÿ‘ฉ‍⚖️ her plus the fact that she gave me the opportunity to live and not abort me.i also promise her to keep it a secret.
    My mom gave me the load down of what happened,gave me my biological father details etc
    Five years later (I was 25,done with my masters and working ) I started making findings about my biological dad,met him a few times(took up contracts from his company) we became really close.i never mentioned this to my mom neither did my assumed father knew anything.
    My biological dad has a 16 year old daughter ,he lead a lonely life (doing well financially ) he wasn't even aware he has a 30year old kid or so .

    So I met him last week and he jokingly said I look like one of his old friend he went to school with and I jokingly laugh it off,he was like you're just her younger version with massive wavy hair and coloured eyes
    Sadly my mom passed away four years ago.
    I'v promise my mother not to tell my dad or my biological father,I am not ready to ruin anyone's life
    Cheers

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    1. Chai oooo, alakoba

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  64. I want to tell you to take this to the grave, but am scared for u dear.. What if he falls in love with someone and the person happens to be his 'cousin'.. How will u explain that to him then? Or he finds out he is the only AS in the house? Or he needs blood and nobody can give him from his own family?
    I want you to keep this secret forever but what if!!!!!!!

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  65. You are one myopic lady who thinks herself smart sha. You see this little lie of yours, this weak safety net you found refuge under, this twisted convenience of a short term serving falsehood you are bragging about..... sipping coke on people's life all thanks to your irresponsibility..... I 'smile' you.

    You are so terribly naive for real and you think you are some baddoo.
    You are clearly taking the wrong notes.
    I almost thought there May be a slight chance to get away with this until you mentioned watching movies with similar story line with your hubby.....your funeral up there honey!

    You just simply primed your hubby's subconscious into thinking up the possibility of such event coming close to home. He only needs a trigger to connect the dots and have your fake world crumbling down. That trigger will come surely, May come soon so get ready.

    If you have any ounce of sense, start saving up. Pray like you have never before. Prepare to confess!!!
    You are in a very vulnerable spot having your secret staring at you, possible blackmailers and the never faraway truth.
    Hoping this will go away somehow is a tall dream and is you being unrealistic.
    This is adulthood, take responsibility for your action and win peace of mind.
    You may lose your marriage but you will be in the right with God, your conscience and your son.

    Keep pushing this and hubby finds out somehow and realises how you owned your manipulations, persistently passing off someone's child for his, poking his brain with those dumb movies....you will be buried under the avalanche of mistrust, hatred and unpredictable Reactions.

    Empress CHO




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  66. MADAM DO NOT CONFESS DONT TELL ANYONE DONT! Be at piece with God it's a mistake you made you regret confess to him not to man. I know a lot of women in your shoes .

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    1. The Bible says confess your sins to one another. Not to God.

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  67. Madam am sorry for you. Pls find a way to tell your husband. Take what to the grave? One day will come when a DNA will be required. what if you or your husband wins a lottery visa or gets a stay in any country that will require a DNA test ?moreover what did God says about liars? Remember the judgement day. They are telling you to take it to the grave

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  68. SMH! So madam poster, you think you are smart? Really? You watched a movie with your husband blah blah blah.. Madam the only way out is the truth! Write today's date down madam. how people like you can live with such lies ehn kai. *shivers*

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  69. My dear...it is better you be ready to confess sooner rather than later....fact is this cannot remain hidden forever due to the fact that your son is AS genotype.

    How are you going to navigate it when it is time for him to get married?. How do you make sure he knows he is AS and to stay away from AS ladies...you are simply storing up the problems and stored up problems only get worse with time. You need to find a way to do the needful

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  70. When I was doing an employment pre-medical exam..I found out I was AS which was weird because my mum and dad said they were AA..I was so sure I was AA,that I passed on countless opportunities to check my genotype..I was even seriously dating someone,almost getting married without necessarily caring about the genotype stuff because I knew he wasn't SS..After repeating the test again..I went home to look for answers..Turned out my mum was AS..she hadn't done the test before..she just 'claimed' AA..what if my mum turned out AA?..Go figure poster..Never say Never..Your son may act like your husband,that's expected he's raising him..but he is not his son..he may accept him or not but it's his choice to make..its not an easy decision to make I understand..I can only pray that everything turns out well for you.

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  71. If keeping quite will save your marriage please seal your lips, some secrets should follow you to the grave, some men have dangerous secrets than you have, stop reflecting back to your ex, you only see your ex in your first son cos you had that in your head. I pray all works out for good for you.

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  72. Your son might be your husband's son. There is something called recessive epitasis. You should check it out!

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  73. You guys should help me understand something here. She said in her last paragraph that the boy is acting like her husband and he's bringing him up like his son which he truly is. Now everybody is still saying take the secret to the grave blah blah and I'm like are these people missing this part or I am the one not understanding *lol* to me, the last paragraph is either saying she told her husband already and he's accepted or she did a Dna test that shows the child to be her husband's. Biko whoever understands this should let me know.

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  74. Madam,restitution is key here. Try and look for elders or people you know your husband respects so well and let them beg on your behalf. This kind of secret will haunt you for the rest of your life. You stated that this boy is AS right? Do you think he wont find out himself when he grows and ask questions and more lies again. Heaven forbids he has an accident and someone in the family has to donate blood . lo and behold everything come crashing in your face. Face the consequences now rather in the future and be miserable.

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  75. When we see our stories, no matter how it is coded, we always know, the best way to keep a secret is never to tell anyone or even write about it and pretending to be a master coder..

    If you sent this message with a laptop, your laptop might have issues and you want to fix it, let me tell you.............There is a software that brings all you have ever done with your laptop back, whether they were deleted or not.

    But in my opinion, secrete of this nature shouldn't be kept, because your husband may find out sooner or later.

    Your child may fall in love with an AS and he will ask his dad for an advise and not talk to you about it because you are a woman , this is in the " Long run", but there are many other ways to know anyway even before he grows. He might wanted to study abroad and need various medical tests, ...........................

    But I cannot advise you on the best way to tell him, for sure it will be hard to take, because many sins are involved here.
    1. you cheated while you were dating
    2. You hid the truth when you found out.
    3. you have betrayed him
    4. you both lived a lie that he has a son

    Maybe he would have forgiven you if it was one of the girls (LOL)


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  76. I would advise you to keep your mouth shut and wait for the years to pass while you continue to pray. Pray like never before.

    No man will like to hear that the child he has grown to love is not his. He will do repetitive DNA test on all the children, he will cheat on you openly if he stays back and he will eventually humiliate and leave you. He might stop loving the rest of the children.

    Men hardly forgive when you cheat on them and if they do, they cheat on you so badly and still leave at some point.

    Please keep quiet. We are not asking you to keep quiet because we like secret, It is the selfless thing to do. Let your husband live a happy fulfilled life. You have clearly repented so let it go. Except you have an incurable disease, then your husband definitely deserve to know so you don't infect him. Don't disturb another persons life with selfishness. If you didn't confess initially then save it.

    Do you know how many secret he is keeping from you? There are men with outside babies, some die without telling their wives therefore saving the woman from prolonged heartache and no closure. Some only reveal the secret in their will.

    Pray to God, then wait and watch.

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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