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Thursday, February 01, 2018

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

Hmmmmm...






STAND ALONE NARRATIVE...
A NARRATIVE TO LEARN FROM....



OK , I don't know where to post this, maybe chronicle or ihn gist.It is the story of my life,used to say I will take it to my grave but on a 2nd thought,someone can learn one or two things.

I am 30yrs old. My father isn't the type that likes to spend his money,he prefers to store it up the bank. My mother did the best she could while we where growing up. He never gave us money for clothes and other stuffs he sees as not necessary, except you had to tell some sort of lies to get the money from him, unfortunately I wasn't good at telling such lies so I managed the little I had.

I had my first boyfriend in 100L but lasted only 3months,had s3x with him twice.

I moved over to 200l, had a new boyfriend who dealt with me emotionally, I later got over him and moved on.l

Then in 300l, I had a boyfriend(he returned from UK after masters), his name should promise and fail, so much talk and less action, the only action was on the bed. But I was in love with him, he managed to do some few special things for me though, but not as I expected, before I knew it I already had aborted 2 pregnancies in this relationship, so many things I never imagined could ever happen to me was just happening, I was helpless,believing he will marry me,but it never happened ( I thank God for that o,cos I wouldn't want to be in his wives shoes presently).


It was time for 6months student industrial training and I was excited to leave school environment ,hoping to get a new boo. I met another guy after rejecting some,I felt I have arrived, he ticked some boxes for me. I got the shock again when I found out I was pregnant,I didn't know how it happened because I always insisted on using condoms, (I promised God I would never have an abortion), same time I got to know he was a yahoo boy and had another girlfriend,once I told him I was pregnant, he said I should keep it,but the other girl was threatening my life, she always used his phone to call and abuse me, he would later apologise and I said to myself this isn't what I want to be doing my whole life, I told one aunt my predicament and we decided to have an abortion.


 This boy was no where to be found, he disappeared, no sort of support emotionally/financially, I had a successful procedure, but I was emotionally low, I thought I would die of shedding tears, I couldn't sleep. Finally IT ended, I didn't date anybody, but had some flings. It was then it dawned on me that nobody was ever going to provide for me like I would love or like my parents never did. Because I always had this mindset that if I dated someone who was financially well I could get what I wanted but I found out I was wrong. 


I finished school, went for youth service, met some men, but I couldn't fall in love with anybody, I was just after fun,had lots of fun ( dated two married men, they were really nice persons) so no pregnancy stories any more,I was very careful this time. But unfortunately I met another single guy ,I thought he was in love with me, we started dating and b4 you know pregnancy has happened,this guy just went blank on me just after he heard the pregnancy news,he came up with stories about a fiancΓ© somewhere and that was all I heard from him last.


 I died multiple times thinking this has happened to me again.


 I was totally broken, I thought of keeping the pregnancy but how can I explain that the person responsible is no where to be found? I confided in a male friend,nice guy,he has been asking me out,I didn't want to date him because I'm simply not a fan of dating people I see as friends. He helped me get a doctor friend and we both combined money and the pregnancy was gone.

This friend that helped me was there for me,and one thing led to another we were having s3x and all that, he even begged me to be serious with him but I felt I was not good enough for him and I let him go. He is now married.


 After him I just made a review of my life and found out that I have been letting the good guys go,he wasn't the only one, one really got to me badly, a family friend, I let him go because of some flimsy excuses about his character. I also noticed a pattern which is that I usually had flings with these nice guys before letting them go, and I never take them serious only for me to go to people that end up breaking my heart, and these good guys never get over me,they still care and call, want to still be in my life,(so tempting right?) but I always find a way not to meet up with them because I don't ever want to sleep with a married man again.


I tried dating again but the said man isn't a serious person, always about his job 
and not caring about any serious commitment, we barely see(well I like it that we don't see often), it helps me focus.I haven't been able to meet any reasonable man for now, plus its really hard for me as I'm not gainfully employed @ the moment,sometimes I feel God is just punishing me ,but my family is planning to set me up with something since I'm the only unemployed in my house. It has been rough all these years as long as I can remember.l feel its because of want of material things and wrong judgement that made me make so many mistakes I remain positive about life, of all these things that I have been through, I never thought of taking my life,so it baffles me when I hear of people committing suicide.

I know some people will call me gwegs or whatever but it doesn't count for me . Instead I have this to say,never expect so much from people, don't live your life thinking another will give you what you couldn't being celibate, not that people are not showing interest, but I don't want to date just anyhow,I have had enough for now.


Thank God we don't look like what we have been through, mum still thinks I'm her innocent baby girl. Girls/Ladies cover your legs, men are scum until proven not to be.

93 comments:

  1. Where is aunty abortion of this blog?,..
    Food has landed for you!...
    Come and dance kilomitty on this post....
    Poster,you are not alone!...
    Most girls are going through the same!...
    So stop blaming and feeling guilty about your self!...
    See,the best guys to marry are those ones without swag!...
    Trust me,they are the perfect husband materials!...
    Face your career,you are not a gwegz biko...
    Gwegz are ladies from 45 up!...
    You will meet your Prince Charming soon!...

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    1. Awwwww best comment ever!😘😘😘

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    2. Wow queen is this you? Lol. Great advice. Poster this is the best comment

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    3. This poster no get sense at all.. After everything she did, she has the guts to say Men are scum..

      No wonder her life be as e be.. Ode

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    4. Girls will mess up themselves and then wait for Prince Charming. You think men don't deserve decent girls??? Even on FIN, you will see all those thick mamas say 'Don't worry a good man will come for you'. A good man will come and carry a hoe that can't think with her brain cells abi.

      Of course feel free to sing the 'don't judge' anthem under my comment. And don't forget to tell me how hoes have the best husbands. Keep deceiving yourselves.

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    5. Only one advice. Go for HIV, Hepatitis & Syphylis tests.

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    6. Queen and Boss, your comment brought me some emotions. You're right by saying that men without swags are the best husbands.

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    7. I’m no saint but gosh you were so careless.

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  2. God cannot do evil, so GOD isn't punishing you... He loves you and His thoughts are that of good towards you.

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  3. See this one o... you think you're talking to kindergartens abi? Which one is 'before you know it pregnancy enter'? Aunty you better caution your self very well. How can you keep repeating the same mistake over and over and over again?!

    Na wa o

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    1. I totally agree with you.I am 29 now and I can relate with her stories.had my fair share likewise.

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  4. Nawa.
    Poster from your year1 to present date, have you ever had a period when you have been single.
    All I'm seeing is man after man, pregnancy and abortion over and over again. One would have thought the first 2 mistakes you made will always make you have condom inside your bag always.
    one fling after the other. Do you have a problem saying no to men ???? Even the ones you didn't date, you had flings with.
    For those that will call you gwegs, men shouldn't even be your problem now. You need to do some soul searching on your life, get a job or start a business.
    Please you need to sort yourself out emotionally first before you open your legs for the next man. Leave anything marriage for now honestly.

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  5. At 30 you're already calling your self a gwez. I thought it's from 37 and above?

    btw, I lost count of how many abortions you've committed.
    Where is that anonymous that is black berry's friend, your attention is needed here. lol.. Come and write your epistle for her. Hahahaha...

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  6. well..thankGod for you.
    i wonder how u open legs knowing fully what you getting yourself into and you call men Scum.how about you jumping from one guy to another in search of financial security.. what do they call your type?

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    1. Best Comment anon 19:15....don't mind them always turning and blaming there mistakes on someone,aunty you made a MISTAKE! a huge one, severally!,anybody not telling you that isn't honest!stop blaming men! People now cover truth with these 'don't judge' anthem

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    2. Gold digger nah

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  7. "Men are scum; really?"

    I think we ladies that open legs for them whenever they like without any marital commitments; bride price are the SCUMS!
    We the ladies that kill for them; just like you executed at least 4 babies (could be more if twins were involved) are the SCUMS.
    None of those men raped you; did they?
    A man will for the pleasure of sex promise to harvest the moon and bring it to you. Once you open your legs and he satisfies his lust, he forgets every promise.

    Valentine is coming and so many girls reading this will still open legs asunder and collect and murder babies and keep the STIs.

    Girl, your story has not finished. No need to judge or condemn you. All you need to do is to set records straight with your creator who is the ultimate judge. Mourn for those kids like you lost them; your kids and look up to God from whom all good gifts flow. Read his word the bible to renew your mind and free your conscience from torments.

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    1. May you live long.Many girls are real murderers if they can kill their own baby I wonder what they would do to an adult who stands in their way. Loose women are the real scum.

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  8. Ya papa send you school to go read, you go dey open holes aghara aghara for "scums". Una no go leave scums alone. Every chronicle is looking for scums. Every girl wan marry scum. Every girls wan make scum provide wetin all her generations no fit provide.

    Scum, scum, I taya for girls wey no go leave scums alone.

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    1. hahahahahaha LWKM! anon abeg cool down

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  9. Mtschewwwwwwwww so u had 10 abortions. Abeg ma friend shift

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  10. Nawa o.. how will u b gainfully employed @30 when u dedicated ur life to "do" men as a full time job.

    U 're not smart at all. Like u said u sent this so young girls can learn a thing or two about men. I hope they do. Not all men are scum. When you have nothing else to to offer in a relationship but sex thats what you get.

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  11. You open your legs. You get pregnant. You abort. You now tell us men are scum. Well done o. Nobody can fill any space for you but you. Stop looking for men for what you can get. Those women married to the good ones, did the men come from outer space? I'm tired of all these "men are scum" "women are scum" generalizations. You really should have foneto the grave with this

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  12. God is a merciful God! He'll always be faithful, turn your heart to Him. Jesus came for sinners remember? So cling to that Old rugged Cross, He went there for YOU!!! He'll never judge you, He'll open His arms very wide and receive you. Just go to Him and watch Him fix you.

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  13. Proverbs 6:16 There are six things the Lord hates,
    seven that are detestable to him:
    17 haughty eyes,
    a lying tongue,
    HANDS THAT SHED INNOCENT BLOOD,
    18 a heart that devises wicked schemes,
    feet that are quick to rush into evil,

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  14. Take it easy madam!
    Since fuckery didn't work for u, try celibacy.
    Ur waka didn't pay off sha, dem no dey use ordinary hand enter jungle.

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    1. Lol! BlackBerry I taya for you. You crack me up 247

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  15. Wait! You mean you were having unprotected sex and getting pregnant left right and center for almost all the men you dated?

    Well i don't see any advice or lesson to be learnt from this chronicle rather i'll advice you to get tested. plsssssssssssssssss i beg you, go get an HIV test done

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  16. Give your life to Christ Jesus and you will have better life in Christ!!! Sin no more. It is well with you

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  17. Poster only you one did 4 abortions.
    It's like you have a pain killer in your body for you to endure the pain of 4 abortions.

    You can't date or marry someone you see as friend but you can have sex with them. That's your village people at work.

    See your life?

    God will give you a good husband... Amen.

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  18. Thank God you've learnt your lessons. Don't think God is punishing you just ask God forgiveness and move on. In your next relationship avoid sex.

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  19. PUBLIC TOILET!! Your body count is appalling! And you are casually talking about it. Na wa oh! Woman where is your shame???

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  20. I'm sorry but the only thing I noticed in your chronicle is how easy it was for you to get pregnant. Pregnancy every, and I'm here sincerely looking and praying for one. Lord please have mercy on me.

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  21. Stop opening your legs for every Tom, Dick and Harry so you won't end up saying men are Scums. Work on your emotion and remove materials out of relationships in the beginning and see how it goes.
    one minute we will read the man is very nice but yet they end up treating you bad. Biko let us hear word o ye chronicles senders.

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  22. There’s no chronicle or even lesson here. Just a silly misguided lost girl. All your issues are self inflicted. Your self esteem is abysmal for NO REASON. You want us to have a pity party because you casually tumble into bed with every man that says hi to you? Or because you finally did the right thing and stopped flippantly killing your children? Or because you are 30? Are you the only one? The time you would have spent developing yourself you were busy mating like an animal. What is wrong with women? When did we become so damaged? I’m so irritated. And this one will now raise a child.

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    1. Thank you for this comment πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘‚

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  23. No Sweetheart, God is not punishing you. This is you punishing yourself. You don't expect to sow corruption and read goodness, right?

    What u sow is what u reap so don't blame God. He is not responsible for ur decisions and the choices you make. You are, take responsibility.

    It's sad how the Creator who created us, and knows what will make us function better in this life, gave us a manual - His Word, so we can live by it. But we feel we know better. We disobey Him, engage in sexual immorality and every manner of sin, and when we begin to reap the seeds we have sown, we turn around and say, "God is punishing me," Why?

    What has God not done for you? Has he not shown you how to live free? You see, all these wahala you faced and are still facing would have been avoided if only you lived by God's Word.

    "How can a young man (or woman) keep his way pure? By keeping God's commandments." Ps 119:9,11

    A man of God said, "Beware of the way you live cos your living is your 'seeding'" So each time you sow good, u reap good but if u sow bad, u will reap bad. It is impossible to sow bad and reap good.

    For those who think Karma doesn't exist, wake up. Don't deceive yourself. What u sow, u MUST reap. Wait for it. When u sleep with other people's spouses as a single, don't bother sending in ur Chronicle when another woman sleeps with urs when u get married. Truth!

    Most times, the problems we facing in our lives is as a result of the bad decisions we have made in the past. When things start happening, u ask why me? Sweetheart, go back to the roots, that where your problem started...from the day u sowed the seed of sexual immorality.

    But thank God there's still hope for such a person in Jesus. His arms are wide open to you. All u need do is repent of your sins and ask Him into your heart. Make a fresh start with Him today.



    Mitchelleobatu.blogspot.com

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    1. You know this reminds me of a phrase I caught yesterday, "forgiven sins, lingering consequences"... May God help us to leave sin alone cos he would always forgive but it doesn't exempt us from the consequences

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  24. To God be the glory. You have learnt your lessons.

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  25. I won't judge you because nobody holy pass..but damn..I really feel pity for you poster.
    You need to seek they Lord's face, pls ask for forgiveness for all those innocent babies you cut their lives short. Am glad you've learnt your lesson even though you learnt it the hard way. May the precious blood of Jesus purge and sanctify you. May all your sins be wiped away. And may this confession and repentance bring you peace ,tranquillity, and open door.

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  26. Just kukuma title this your story as 'Chronicle of my body count'. See as different keys dey open your padlock. It is well with your libido...

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  27. So your dad is a scum too? Sorry dear. No wonder you attract scum and reek of scum. Scum begets scum. That I am a woman doesn't mean I should blacklist a whole gender cos of my foolishness. Thank God you have closed your legs. Sad thing still, is that you wouldn't own up to your stupidity as you still put it on your dad for not providing for all your stupid demands. You are very cheap sleeping around and aborting pregnancies for it "financial gains" You are still very far from repentance.
    Don't come here saying that your past hasn't made you to attempt suicide. Does it really look like anyone cares about a scum like you?
    Young girls please don't take whatever this loser said as anything inspirational. To me it's a sorry chronicle of a tired abortionist and a self-perceived repentant white.
    Aunty na only you waka come for this your story. Sorry u hear? Tufiakwa!

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  28. I had to go read through again, to count the pregnancies you terminated.

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  29. Hmmm..... You all blame men when your greed lands you in trouble. I was trying to understand your condition until I got to your last paragraph where you said men are "scrums". As much as I don't want to judge you I see your greed and laziness in thinking men are your means of making money is why you have fallen prey to your likes. You even mentioned you using used and dump the good caring ones and I guess it's because the are sincere and not as rich as you would have wanted. Until ladies start to understand that the good guys are not always rich and the rich guys are not always good and strike a balance by having one and help in acquiring the other aspect then they will continue to fall Prey of scums like themselves. You did not mention the qualities you want in a man or the qualities that you see in men that attracts you. All you see is men that can give you money. And the were also looking for cheap babes like you who will spread their legs at the flash of a few naira notes. Search yourself, love yourself and see yourself as a blessing to others and an asset to any man you are attracted to then you will see men will start treating you with respect. What you have is a low self esteem.

    # come back and thank me later.

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  30. What manner of poster are you, having unprotected sex here and there without fear of contacting any deadly diseases or infections. May God have mercy on you and grant you your heart desire

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  31. It is a wah!
    So things are happening like this. Anyway like chief & boss has said, just move on with life,you are not the only culprit in this,you no be gwegz,the deed has been done,stop feeling guilty,be smarter & wiser, face God & things will be great again.

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  32. I almost didn't understand this story. Someone should explain it to me pls

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  33. Oshey!
    Special adviser to Vuhari on sex and abortion matters. Oya clap for yourself. You should've jejely carried your life history to the grave. Learn from what?
    Quick question hanty what grade did you graduate school with? What did you expect was going to be the result of your sexcapades? A pencil? Ooh no! Maybe chewing gum? Radarada! Ooh you think the manufacturers of latex are fools abi? Didn't they say not 100% safe in fact to avoid stories that tickles the b*tt crack, total abstinence should be practiced. You feel God is punishing you, hanty your stupidity is abi punished you. Don't call the Lord's name in vain. These names have "suffered", God, devil and village people even when the 2 latter are sleeping. Don't even tell me you were looking for a father's figure in these men because you only said your dad was stingy not dead. To think your mum supported you. Those whose parents are either late or broke didn't have to sleep with half the men in the world to be successful and you're still wondering why you're jobless! Hanty take a good look at your fingers you used in typing " I was just after fun. I had fun. Dated two married men... I was very careful this time so there was no pregnancy stories anymore."
    Oshey maami! Protector of pregnancy realm! Hanty, go for check up. While you're at it, tell them you need to run various tests: stds, hiv/aids and lastly, to see if you still have a womb. It's very disheartening that at 30 you still lack common sense! Indeed of getting your craw craw a** up and get a life, secure a good future and make your family proud,you're thinking of relationships. AREN'T YOU TIRED HANTY? You're scared of being called gwegs? Kwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa. No darling. Your a foolish, selfish greedy and unrepentant 30 year old!

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    1. hanty Cassie you can vex o. Poster see what you have caused now.

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  34. You and that aunty of yesterday, are you sure nna no be twins.
    All I am seeing is fuck fuck fuck, abortion abortion abortion. Let me tell you something when I was in school I was one of the hottest girls, I go out, club everything. Throughout my stay I only dated 2 people and I didn't have sex with them because I was even young. Not because I'm good girl, I just didn't see the need for sex as I was young. Entered school age 16, finished age 20. I met my husband when I just started working, and we collect well before marriage o. But atleast I was 21 years, and as some even see me as wayword girl because I clubbed well, drank etc because I rocked school. I have only ever had one sexual partner. if you see me, you wont believe. I didn't marry as a virgin, but it just so happened the person that disvirgined me is who I married. I so much valued myself in school, and I knew I will not have sex until I was in my 1st serious relationship with a man I can marry. This one wasn't even religious matter cos I hardly went to church back then.
    I'm sorry to say, you don't have self worth young lady, all that is in your narration is so so fuck fuck and abortion. What are children of nowadays turning into ????

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    1. Mrs holy...so now..who you epp

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    2. Bia poster shut up and learn!! calling her Mrs Holy...She is way better than you and has self respect!

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  35. Poster, after the first two abortions, you could not think about your life - the effect of the abortions on your womb? and even your family and God. Thank God you are sober now, God is not punishing you but you need to seek sincere forgiveness from Him. Henceforth, close those legs of yours with gum, zip up and focus on mending your life either by getting a job or starting a business.
    At the end , its your type that will give birth to triplets once you are married. Wonders of life while the innocent ones will be TTcing.

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    1. Keep deceiving yourself with the triplet story.

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  36. Our God is a meciful God... I have aborted countless time too but now i have two beautiful children with my partner.... The problem with me is that i live men too much

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  37. The truth is 99% of people on this blog are guilty of this..... I don't know why you are judging a repented lady .face your damn lives ! If Stella opens anonymous post now.... with the way people are judging this poster now with thier IDs...u will hang mouth till eternity with anonymous confessions ! She counted not up to 10men but most of the judginas here are on 600 and counting.

    Meanwhile πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ queen and boss did u just say kilamiti dance .... I'm also waiting for aunties epistle on abortion

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  38. Lol...'pregnancy happened' indeed.
    Another runs girl like yesterday chronicle.

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  39. Won't judge you cos shit happens but thank God you are smarter. I wish you the best life can positively offer.

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  40. Princess Scheherazade1 February 2018 at 17:11

    Dear poster... I don't really blame you. Your real problem is that you have absolutely no sense of self worth. You are just a result of poor parenting and it's really sad.

    Every parent here reading this narration, pls ensure you bring up your children, especially the girls, to know their self worth and that they are capable of achieving whatever they want to in this life without needing to trade their bodies or ideals for a mess of pottage.

    Poster, pls go and read the post Stella put up this morning about Toke Makinwa's advice on relationships.
    Those men who you think are scum because they treated you badly will marry and practically worship AND do everything within their power to provide adequately for the woman who will respect herself. The woman who holds herself to high moral standards in an uncompromising manner.
    Men know that such women have strength of character and will do anything to be married to one.
    Go and work on yourself and your sense of self worth first. Are you a Christian? If you are, know that you cannot do this without God... surrender to Him totally and ask Him to help you.
    When you become a queen, a king will locate you.

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  41. All I see is someone playing 10-10 with her life. I pray sense fall on you this month......

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  42. What have you been through? Pains from the abortions?Pains from numerous sex?Pain from an intact family unit?Pains from a university education?Pains from a proposed business entirely funded by your family?Pains from a hard working mother?
    I bet you look exactly like what you are; a brainless,self-centered person.Men are not scum.You are.

    You don't need a job. Your private part is steadily working hard,extremely hard for mankind.Full time at that.How are you hoping to work two jobs?
    More power to your pussy.

    P.S- Go for HIV test and start treating your STDs.

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    1. Brutally harsh but true. I'm all for ignoring the messenger and focusing on the message, but kami, your life had better be less messed up than poster's, cos if not, hmmmmmm

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  43. Lmao!

    You have had enough 'for now'!
    Ha!

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  44. Nigerians ARE SO IGNORANT........... has it occurred to you she is this way because she is looking for love outside that she didn't get from home in the process falling every time somebody says they love her. this is a pattern that happens and usually it comes from having serious self esteem issues and not being exposed to life to decipher who is real and who is fake. Nigerians are the most well read but i am sorry to say Nigerians are not EDUCATED. see as people dey insult the babe gosh

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    1. Which nonsense love? Is she the first? There are orphans out there suffering untold hardship that haven’t descended to this level of uselessness. She has low self esteem, I agree but she ain’t no victim. She is not naive.

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    2. nonsense love

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  45. hope opening up to Stella and bvns made you feel better. My dear, things happen even when we thought we were above certain behaviors. The decision to abort your babies is a hard choice that left you guilty, you'd live with it for a long time if you don't learn to forgive yourself. You feel you don't deserve happiness because of your past. I see you self sabotaging and it's affecting you. Men are not all scum, just don't set yourself up to get hurt.
    Please make resitution at a motherless babies home, and watch your thoughts daily. Think positively

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  46. Gosh! Relationship is two way, so I wonder why some women make it seem like they are just observers being pushed around!
    Before you knew it you were pregnant, like you were a Robert in the relationship.
    You seem to be using all your time serial dating instead of building yourself hence the lack of gainful employment.
    If you do not develop yourself and choose to be depending on all these guys you will end up sleeping with the whole country.
    Take a breather and realign yourself. Men are not the answers to your problem neither is any Devil or ancestors. It’s always easier to blame things we cannot see. Cheers

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  47. Learn to take personal responsibility for your actions. Saying men are scum but you have admitted to 4 abortions , sleeping with men you know are married and generally making terrible life choices.
    You need to grow up and learn that you make the decisions concerning you and no one else. Ask your self why you keep attracting such men.

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  48. Madam u are get mind sha oh, lolz well God is an all forgiving God keep that in mind always,that said people like you who are not afraid to take risks like this usually make it in life, I think u should take all that boldness into building yourself, put all your energy into you for once,Do this and i believe every other thing will fall in place in due time.

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  49. I decided to send in my story because after everything that I did I saw where I did some things wrongly. I also know people will definitely say their mind & judge all they think that happened.
    But let me just clear up things a bit,I can't say everything here.
    One, I am from a responsible family(even if we are not perfect)
    Two, I am not the whore some of you labelled me to be. I am that girl out there who wants a normal romantic relationship. l didn't attach a price tag to my self, I moved with people who were cool enough , wasn't eyeing any rich man/rich kid, the guys I dated where for love & friendship not because I expected they were going to foot my bills, yeah even if I did expect a boyfriend is supposed to take me out on my birthday, or any other special day, casual outing & shopping(well according to his pocket) which isn't abnormal in any context. As for the 2married guys,that was the only pillar I had to lean on during the dark moments.
    And then you all acting like you don't have sex, everybody isn't the same, I have siblings who married their first ever boyfriends. Agreed I over did it with the sex @ some stages, as long as I was in a relationship with somebody I felt I could trust I didn't see any problem having sex, all those pregnancy episodes where situations I couldn't control, I did use condoms but things happened that I never expected plus I cannot rule out that I was ignorant @some point in my life, & its something I really regret & asked God for mercy.
    The 'men are scum' issue comes to play here,you getting away @the point someone you claim to care about needed you most? Well I know better now. For those chanting go get tested for HIV,never miss doing that.
    I know why I shared my story in the first place, bye!

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    1. Incorrigible. You’re still justifying nonsense

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    2. Poster, as you are seeking mercy from God, God will surely have mercy on you. Please, if you have not, surrender your life to Christ. Jesus turns our mess into messages that bring glory to his name. From your story, you clearly understand that what you did was wrong and I appreciate that about you. See, what you should do now is, surrender to Christ, confess your sins and dedicate your entire life to Him, you can start over on a new slate at any time and God will give you an outstanding job/ business and a God fearing husband, one who will know about your past and love you still.

      First, men are not scum, you just haven’t met the righ one. Meet Jesus first and let Him repair your life.

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  50. Anon I assure you,it is not about how messed up her life is or about the mistakes she's made.She is just 30 and can pick up anytime. My problem with this chronicle is how she has refused to own her mistakes instead tells us how much she has endured.There are very few adults life is easy for.Or is it easy for you? Nothing will change until she starts to take responsibility for her mistakes not stay blaming men. When I thought she would end it like a phoenix rising out of the ashes of her past,she says men are scum.How fair is that? The lesson she has learnt from her story is 'Don't date for now'.Okay.

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  51. Poster,don’t mind all those that’ll come here n pretend asif they haven’t made a mistake before in their entire life ..Nobody is above mistake ,the good thing n good step is that you realize that you v made the mistake n you r using the mistake to teach yourself how to become a better person..I pray the right man locates you n makes everything better ..Thank you for sharing

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    1. Good you said 'right man' and not a 'good man' cos no man deserves to suffer the consequences of a 'public toilet'. Right for your type, probably a public ejaculator.

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    2. hahahahahahahahahahaahah! laugh wan tear my pant!

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  52. You are very irresponsible. You better own up to your issues and fix your life. On your own!

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  53. Anon 21:41 did poster ask you to come help her fix her life? Mtscheeew!

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  54. I did not intially want to comment,but i had to..dear poster,those people tongue lashing you and forming saints are in worse conditions than you,some are so jobless and frustrated with their lives,and their only way out is to tongue lash ,someone bold enuf to tell her story....
    Let me tell you my story ..i have an excellent upbringing...from good parents. .but i have had a really messed up life in the past,i am just 23,yet i have done 4 abortions myslf..,oh yes you heard right.oh no,am not a runs girl...nor a prostitute,i am just a gurl who has made really bad decisions.i have a well paying job..work my ass out...came out with a 1st class in school...i have my ican.. my messed up life doesnt define me....see.the difference between you and i ,i have learnt to love myslf selfishly now...and i dnt blame anyone for my problems ,i dnt do pity party nor do i hate myslf...see dear. When those shit happen...i dust it off my shoulder inmediately..,and try to achieve more...i try to make me happy...now..i am a very happy gurl..no single person knows my past...my independent mindset has always been helping me nd all...nd most of all..i dnt believe God wud punish me...misfortunes happen once a while,but you just have got to let it go and push on...pls.. stop dwelling the past...do something,take charge of your life...and bfre bad mouth posters start typing rubbish under my comment...i dnt f**king care about how you all think...what matters is how i feel..i am a beautiful,smart,intelligent girl and i have achieved so much more than u saints have..i dnt blame any God for my predicament or think i wud be punished.and I just found Mr right and we getting married later this year,and whether or not i wud conceive again...oh yes. I am 5weeks gone already..for my hubby to be..wedding is in 2 months..thank u

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    1. No we are not, sorry to disappoint you. We don't sleep with every male that looks in our direction.

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    2. I pray something doesn't go wrong, I'm not sure yo womb can handle abortion number 5' remember you ain't married yet, months can be a very long time.

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  55. Poster how comes you are getting pregnant with everyone that sleep with you? Am not judging you but just trying to tell you that you are so lucky. I was rapped in year 2000, find out I was pregnant early 2001,had abortion and till date I have never missed my period, I wish another one getting pregnant at least I would have had a child and lock up on men. Just try and build your self esteem, love yourself, really package yourself,someday your prince will appear. Mind you am now married, trying for a baby no show, God help me.

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  56. Dear Poster,
    The truth of the matter is that you are weak. You emotionally volatile and vulnerable. Also,though you're from good home but you are not spiritually.
    Hence, the weakness.
    Please, engage yourself in productive economic activity and have a good orientation about life.
    No man owes you anything. No man,be ur husband or bf owes you any responsibility. If they give or take you out, fine. And if they don't, fine.
    Please learn to be strong.
    Well, I will like to be your friend online or offline.
    I have met and coached many ladies like you.
    I know you have a good soul and rich heart which need to be harness in a positive way.
    You need to be disciplined and equally need strong people around you.
    I'm a single guy without gf or sex close to two years now and I'm currently not interested in relationship stuff cos I have lots I'm working on.
    I could refer you to trust worthy hands:Cousellors,Pastor,Career Coach, Doctors and Legal practioner who will help you a great deal.

    My mail addresses are
    √√olawaleclement37@gmail.com
    √√lordclement37@gmail.com

    Cheers!

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    1. Thank you..the rest have been " throwing away the baby and the bath water". Elders say you spank a child with one hand, and draw him close with the other...
      Thank you sir for daring to love a societal perceived " condemned sinner"..
      God bless your heart. I'm all for discipline and at the same time positive change.
      No, I'm not the poster at all...I'm only just reading this story 1/9/18 despite the fact that it was posted 9days or so ago .
      Shalom

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