Wednesday In House News

 Midweek hailings.....

WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

Alles Klar leute?

I hope everything is going on well with you? Its raining on my side and the wind is massive...and I LOVE IT!

Who never eat? I never eat ooooooh........I am about to make vegetable omelette to snack on...LOL

You know what? Loyalty is RARE, if you find it, keep it!

As for you SMH @ you!

BV BBC Correcter is in the US and has a Job as a very big executive somewhere....I am very very happy for her though...She still visits the blog but doesn't have an ID......shout out!!!

PS.. those people wishing me happy holidays, I have not gone anywhere yet nau, I said i was planning......Thanks...
E go be.....

Hugs to you.....

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LADIES YOU NEED TO WIPE OR YOU SMELL!!!

This truth might sting, but it’s better to feel the sting of knowledge than the weight of shame later in life.

So, permit me to say this, most of you don’t smell because of witchcraft, spiritual attack, or because your village people are following you.
You smell because after you urinate, you stand up and dress up, without wiping.
And that’s the beginning of the problem.

When you don’t wipe after peeing, the leftover drops of urine settle into your panties. After hours of walking around in them, sweating, sitting, standing, the warmth causes that residue to ferment and smell.

It mixes with discharge, friction, sweat, and poor ventilation and boom! You start perceiving a scent that makes people around you uncomfortable, and eventually, you too.

 What Every Lady and Young Girl Must Learn:

1. Always wipe gently and properly after you pee.
Use tissue. Use unscented wipes. Use water if you're in a culture that permits it. But whatever you do, don’t stand up wet.

2. Carry tissue or wipes in your bag.
Not every public restroom will favor you. Be wise. Be ready. Don’t say “they didn’t have tissue,” and excuse yourself for smelling uncomfortable all day. Be intentional.

3. Change panties regularly.
If you're wearing the same pants for over 24 hours, you’re not clean, you’re simply used to the smell. And that’s not hygiene.

4. Learn front-to-back wiping.
Always clean from your private into your private area.

5. Avoid synthetic panties.
Go for cotton panties. They breathe. They absorb better. They respect your body.

6. Watch your discharge.
If your vaginal discharge smells fishy or sour even when you clean well, it might be a medical issue. Go see a doctor.

Too many girls were raised in homes where these things were never talked about. Too many women are walking around uncomfortable in their own bodies because no one ever taught them what proper hygiene looks like and that’s why we are speaking now.

Cleanliness is not being fancy. It’s not about expensive soaps and creams. It’s about awareness, daily practice, and intentionality.

If your pants smells after a few hours, check yourself.

If people avoid hugging you too close or complain about your smell, stop blaming your soap and start learning how to care for your body better.

Ladies, let’s stop masking smells with perfume.

Teach this to your younger sister.
Tell your daughter early.
Fix yourself first, then show another woman the way.

KEEP WINNING SAINTS

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I hope this advice comes in handy......Please also clean up or wash up after you fart.........

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ALERT FOR WOMEN WHO GET PREGNANT BUT ALWAYS LOSE IT

You’ve Been Pregnant 5 Times With Nothing To Show For It.?
Let’s talk about it.
You see that woman on this picture?
You’ve blamed her before.
She looked at you somehow last week — now you’re bleeding again.
Another miscarriage. Another heartbreak. Another round of tears, blood, and silence.

You’ve taken in multiple times.
You’ve felt the symptoms. You’ve peed on sticks.
Positive. Faint line. Blood work. Hope. Then…
Blood. Again.

And the doctors will say “chemical pregnancy.”
Like your womb is one failed chemistry experiment.
Let’s make something clear:
If you keep getting pregnant and keep miscarrying early, it is NOT ordinary. And it’s NOT always spiritual.

Sometimes it is biological sabotage disguised as a spiritual attack.
Let me introduce you to two of the real culprits:

1. LOW PROGESTERONE — THE UNSUNG VILLAIN
Progesterone is called the “pro-gestation hormone.”
Let that sink in.
Its literal job is to:
—Hold your pregnancy in place
—Support the uterine lining
—Calm your immune system so it doesn’t attack the baby
—Prevent uterine contractions
—Protect early brain development
Now imagine this hormone is LOW.

Your body will “take in”… and then “let go.”
Like a house with no foundation.
The baby starts forming… but the ground is shaky.
No support. No glue. No grip. Just loss.
And what do we do in Africa?
We start calling our mother-in-law.
We run to pastors.
We accuse our neighbor.
We start suspecting everyone that wore red.
But who checked your progesterone levels during ovulation?
Who checked it 7 days after ovulation?
Who asked if your luteal phase is too short?
Nobody.

Because we think every miscarriage is a curse.

 2. RHESUS INCOMPATIBILITY – WHEN YOUR BLOOD IS AT WAR WITH THE BABY

Let me shake another table.
Are you Rhesus Negative and your husband Rhesus Positive?
You better sit up.
Because your own immune system can start fighting your baby like a foreign invader.
Yes. Your own baby.
Your blood will see the baby’s blood as a threat and attack it — especially from the second pregnancy onward.
This is why after a first miscarriage or birth, some women suddenly stop carrying pregnancies to term.
But guess what?
A simple anti-D injection (RhoGAM) after a miscarriage or delivery could save future pregnancies.
Yet many women never get it.
They just keep bleeding and blaming witches.

3. Chemical Pregnancy ≠ Fake Pregnancy
Let’s also kill this lie.
A chemical pregnancy is NOT in your head.
It’s not imagination.
It’s not “you were never pregnant.”
It is REAL.
It just ended too early.
Usually because of hormonal imbalance or a uterine environment that couldn’t support implantation.
So let’s stop telling women to “just try again.”
Some of you have tried five times.
And each time, your heart broke.
Your body carried life… then let it go.

 The Real Truth?
Pregnancy today is not like it was 40 years ago.
Our grandmothers didn’t drink plastics.
They didn’t microwave everything in BPA containers.
They didn’t eat hormone-pumped meat and gulp 12 packs of noodles during period cravings.

They didn’t spend 12 hours a day on chairs,
Breathe in mold from AC vents,
Or live on birth control pills that flatten progesterone and trash ovulation.
Today, your hormones are under siege.

 What Should You Do?
1. Test Your Hormones
—Especially progesterone, LH, FSH, thyroid panel, prolactin
—Check progesterone 7 days post ovulation (not just randomly)
2. Know Your Rhesus Status
—If you’re Rhesus Negative, get the anti-D shot after miscarriages or deliveries
3. Eat to Support Your Luteal Phase
—Ditch the low-fat, low-protein starvation diets
4. Balance Your Blood Sugar
—Blood sugar imbalance = hormonal imbalance = miscarriage risk
5. Track Ovulation PROPERLY
—Not just “I feel pain on my left side” tracking
6. Don’t Normalize Recurrent Miscarriage
—Your body is trying to say something
—Listen to it

Final Word?
You are not cursed.
You are not barren.
You are not unlucky.
You are possibly misinformed, under-supported, and biologically overwhelmed.
And you deserve better.
You deserve a womb that can hold, not just conceive.
You deserve answers.
You deserve support.
And if nobody is telling you the truth, I will.

Don’t wait for the 3rd heartbreak.
Let’s create a healing plan that protects your hormones, your womb, and your peace.
Don’t forget to reach out for a diet plan. Share and tag a woman who needs this.
Let’s fight ignorance with truth.
Let’s fight hormonal loss with wisdom.
Let’s fight infertility with nourishment.

- BY Doctor Of The Future

I hope this helps someone..I was worried cos about three BVs lost their pregnancies this week....One messaged me early this morning and my heart just broke.......

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WEIRD FACTS

----People who are too happy don’t see the warning signs of dangerous people or situations and are more willing to trust when they shouldn't.

----Once you realize you deserve better, letting go will be the best decision you will ever make.

----There’s a lesson hidden in everything. You just have to find it.

----A study found that before finding the man of her dreams, the average woman will experience four disaster dates and two heartbreaks.

----When you become really close to someone, you can hear their voice in your head when you read their texts.

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