In his words;
"The lady that doesn't give to you should not get from you
Do you know why it is easy for a woman to walk out for a relationship? She didn't invest much
The kind of relationships we see today is all a mess and abuse of what a relationship is all about
Young man!
When you meet a lady, and you're not married to her, be a minimalist , don't do much
The lady that doesn't give to you should not get from you
When a lady remembers what she has invested in a relationship, she would say you're not leaving me o
When you hear, am done she didn't invest much
Christmas, New year, birthday, Valentine, so many events...you keep buying gifts
Birthday, you but phone, send money
Your own birthday, they will write a poem...on this day, a king was born, that's nonsense, that's not relationship
Do not present that dimension of you
That dimension is only required in marriage and even in marriage, it should have a limit
Because there are some women who become arrogant when they are empowered
Even in marriage, it should have a limit, it should have some control".
Story story???? Storrrry!!!
You are the one that thinks men aren't receiving anything. The fornication they are receiving is more then enough for them. Did they complain to you? most men only care about receiving s.x.
ReplyDeleteEven when I purposely wasn't collecting anything in relationships, the men still wanted s.x and were stylishly given attitude thinking I would give in.
If the lady likes, let her give him gifts ,advice, prayer if that s.x isn't there, in his eyes, he hasn't received anything. So how about you tell your unmarried men to stop fornicating so they won't feel pressured to give gifts since a lot of them even give all those things just to get laid. They don't give gifts because they are generous, they give to receive.
See how you've reduced a woman's contribution to just sex. If the man pays for sex, what makes her different from an ashawo?
DeleteEven if we are to reduce it to only the sex, is it only men that enjoy sex?
We read countless Chronicles from women complaining how their boyfriends/husbands are not satisfying them in the room. Names like "one minute man", "indomie man" etc.
There is now a prevalence of women using different intimacy gadgets. Go on social media and see how women are proud of mastu.rb.ating.
So, why do we constantly deceive ourselves that only men enjoy sex?
I love how you twisted my comment.
DeleteIf you are not the only one enjoying it why would you still be pained when a lady tells you no sex when she still accepts absolutely nothing from you?
If you expects sex from your girlfriend when you know she is not your wife then what exactly are you indirectly calling
Read my comment again or back off!!!
*what exactly are you indirectly calling her?*
DeleteAnon 12:14, Even if you meet a lady today and she is not crazy about sex and she doesn't collect anything from you, will you stay with her and not cheat?
DeleteYou reduce women to sex and claim they are the ones reducing themselves. You people make relationship transactional that is why a male bv always advice ladies not to let a man spend on them because the man will feel entitled to sleep with them. He is always saying don't collect anything from a man you don't intend to sleep with. Please what does that mean? He even said a virgin lady was raped by the guy because she went to the restaurant with the guy and she allowed him to pay for her food so the guy felt entitled to her body. Why should sex be the entitlement for spending money to buy food for someone or gifting or spending on them? Someone you asked out? if not that you all see yourselves as ashawo customers?
What's the difference between you and ashawo customers that feels entitled to sleep with a girlfriend who is not your wife simply because you spent?
Even if a lady rejects your gifts in relationship and doesn't let you spend you will still not be happy until she sleeps with you
A woman who has invested in a relationship or marriage won’t just walk away. I understand where he’s coming from.
ReplyDeleteA parasitic relationship isn’t a good one. It isn’t healthy.
Don’t forget, there are relationships where women are the givers and the men are the receivers. So when you hear about “giving,” it’s not always the men giving. Some women do too.`
Everyone should just be useful and valuable in their relationship and marriage is all I'll say.
©️ TEEJAY
It's only this your comment I have ever agreed with on this blog teejay
DeleteHmmmmm...na me dey always give as a female, even when I was barely getting by, either the guy is on the same level with me so I can't really ask him or he doesn't have, even met one that has more than me and was still trying to collect from me. When I hear people always paint females as gold diggers, I just laugh, gold digging goes both ways.
DeletePreach on sir
ReplyDeleteI gave my ex and still walked away. I don't have the strength to be suffering rubbish all in the name I invested in a relationship
ReplyDeleteI've been married for 18 years. I'm the one that buys gifts for my husband. He never buys me anything. He says he's too busy at work to even know where to buy me anything. On birthdays and anniversaries, I buy him gifts and when I go out and see things that he likes or may need that I can afford, I buy it for him. Sometimes he's embarrassed by my actions. I'll leave him when my kids finish from the university by God's grace
ReplyDeleteIn most relationships like that it is either the woman is too young to afford gifting back equally - like a 30+ man dating a 19yr old, her gifts can never measure up to his...
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The men are paying for their sin, they are giving those gifts in hope of getting sex when wanted, in return. Cos the devil never gives anything free. You will sin and still pay for that sin, you can't outwit him without God's grace and presence. Most women end up in a cycle of greed where it is never enough once they start collecting gifts and money...
My advice to women:
1. accept no gifts at all from men until you are engaged or courting.
2. If you must accept, accept only what you can afford and only when in a serious relationship/courtship. Collect reasonably and Gift back reasonably
3. Flee fornication, if you haven't accepted any gifts or money, you will have the confidence to say no to fornication.
4. It is possible and God provides the grace. My husband and I consummated on wedding night for the first time, we were both above 30 and I didn't accept his first expensive gift, only accepted what was reasonable and gifted back in equal measure. May he grant us grace to live in obedience.
On This Day A King Was Born 🤣
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
King was born indeed 😆 🤣 😂
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