Chroncile Of HOPE -8

Never give up on whatever you are going through...you will pull through!

CHRONICLE ONE

GOD RESTORED ALL THAT THE LOCUST HAD EATEN FROM A COMPLETELY BROKEN DOWN MARRIAGE.

Hello beautiful Stella‎ I wrote you about 2yrs year ago of how bad things where between  my husband and i,remember?

Well here is my story,i met my prince charming 9yrs ago,and it was not love at 1st sight I no go lie but we became friends immediately ,he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend who was milking my pocket money dry,i am from a very average home so money was given to me regularly by my dad for my upkeep well and bobo mi,will milk the whole thing from me lol .

My husband and I were good friends so and later found out we loved each other so we kicked off a relationship and told our partners that we were in love,well they did not like it at 1st but had no choice coz we were already an item,dating was fun sometimes but crazy somedays till we got married.

Our wedding was so big as my dad was happy as I was the 1st child to get married in my family and my husband was also the 1st to get married in his family ,we had a beautiful honey moon,na there wahala 1st start .

I caught an infection during the honeymoon and I was sick and oga complained that I was dulling his honey moon trip,i bone till we reach Naija back,well we got to naija and his bad character doubled. 

He won't sleep at home, he will come home and have used condom papers in his pocket, there was a day I saw him at a shop with a lady and I walked up to him and said ''baby hmmmm you are groving ''and he just walked out on me.

Another day I saw him with a girl where I went to get shawarmah and my head spark kiaaa I told my taxi man to drive behind him coz he turned as he saw me he called me and told me I was a bitch and that I was stalking him, told me to go home and hug my pillow....

Me sha my mouth no good,I called him all sort of names, I came down when we got to a bad junction he could not pass coz he did not know how bad the road was, so I came down and I was ranting he told the people that cared to ask that I was his useless fling that was stalking him,i had to leave with shame And I went to my parents house I told him he would beg me which he never did,i went back to him as I was not pregnant yet and I had a home to keep,then months rolled by he went to the club with his friends and stayed out.

 If he would return maybe like 4 am and we would quarel till he would even insult my family and get out of the house,then I became pregnant .1 day I had a serious headache and I checked my BP as we have a small aparatus @ home and it was like 180 I called him coz it's was night I kept texting and calling till he came and we went to the hospital,that day he abused me till we got to the hospital even when we got there I had called my parents who came to the hospital and he got angry that I had called my dad and he immediately smashed my fone,

The next day I was discharged and my dad came to pick me he was no where to be found but hesaid he had traveled meanwhile he was in town seen at a hotel with another girl, I stayed at my parents for two weeks,as I knew my pregnancy was multiple and high risk,I was so sick during pregnancy I would vomit and spit and he would complain and say ''so you can't go to the market abii coz na you 1st get belle,before I would answer, quarel done start,but 1 day I told my self I would face God and work for the church,i joined the sanctuary unit in church and from there young married women who looked at me as if I was perfect began to share their marital experiences with me and even sought my advice and my advice always worked,even older ladies in my unit came to be counselled by me and I was shocked,even when I discussed it with my hubby he would say they don't know your home is finished and I would say sweets we have the perfect home,‎ and he would even push me aside but I told my self and my God I won't leave my marriage on the devil's account lie lie.

I prayed, fasted and even blessed him before he left the house everyday .months rolled by I travelled to give birth to my kids and I returned after 3months.these 3months he didnt call regularly and even when he called he would pick a fight but I would even apologise and appologise,he would call and girls would be saying 'baby ' in the background and I would just lock up and say ''goodnight sweets''.

 I returned and when I came he loved the kids and 1 day I took his hand prayed with him and said ''my dear you shall excel today'' and at this point he was not telling me anything so I did not know about him and his work, he came home that Day and told me how his contract that payment that had been delayed for some months now,had been paid that day, he called me heaven's sent and the best thing in his life,he started staying at home Helping wit the kids before he goes to work and even mixing water for me to have my bath.

hmmmm the one that one shock me self now he has unlocked his phone that was locked for two years and receives every call in my front ,and even says ''baby please answer my call for me I am eating or I am feeding the kids''

 I go just the look dey say my God too much shaa,now we pray together and eat as one family.I am eternaly grateful to God for everything and I did not tell anybody what I was going through not even my friends or family I left it all to God now I am so so happy 

sometimes I pinch my self when he says he loves me with his life.God is great God bless you all my fellow bvs and don't mind my gbaguns

Wow,so happy for you that he worked it out for you.Baba God never fails.




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