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Saturday, September 17, 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
RUNS GIRL TURNS EVANGELIST.

Dear Stella and fellow BVs

  My mail will be disjointed so I apologise in advance . I was a child prodigy which turned to a sort of freak. I graduated from the university at 18 (I skipped classes), got married and had my daughter who is 6 years already. But I had high expectations which was one of the reasons my marriage failed.But that's not the reason I decided to air my not so clean laundry on BN.

          I matured early sexually at 13 (by choice), then later I discovered I had this  side people were unaware of , because of my level of intelligence and smartness ( not being boastful , I know it's unbecoming), I could hold meaningful conversation on different topics ranging from science, religion and even sex and more. It earned major points for me and lots of men were attracted to me because of this and also , I'm petite,  very beautiful like Naomi Campbell (although I started bleaching recently. Lol) also I'm very kind and I have 6 kids I train in school which makes me feel fulfilled.
        But in all these I was a 'silent runs babe' . Although  my preys had no idea i was a whore because I use a different approach to make them pay for sex which they do inadvertently.
       2 years ago I gave my life to Christ,  I realised I was manipulated by marine powers which was the reason I was wayward. I'm now an evangelist but I sometimes I think of my past and I feel nasty.
I'm married now  to a german dude with 2 kids but the problem is I still think about my past.
My husband is aware of my past life because I'm an open book and he's shown me genuine love.  I still think about karma, does it mean I escaped it because I gave my life to Christ  or will it visit my children?
I shamelessly dated 2 married men when I was living this lifestyle..
     Thanks for posting
Former runs babe


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
COURT MARRIAGE

My boyfriend of two years recently proposed marriage to me. However, his dad passed on and he had to use a bulk of his savings to attend to the burial arrangements. We have fixed January for the introduction. But as it is, with state governments owing salaries there's no money in sight.
He suggested we do a secret court wedding after the introduction and postpone the traditional and church wedding till when there's money probably by the end of the year, to throw a party for our family and friends.
Please I would like to know if it is legally ok to do this especially since it's going to be a secret affair. I would also like to know if the court wedding must be done in the city where the white wedding is going to hold. Lawyers in the house should also kindly provide us with information about how to go about with the court wedding.




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    1. I hate to,but I really have to agree with you.'Just Negodu' indeed!!! What nonsense?

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    2. In dis hard times even born again dey sleep wt 5,6 married men to buy bills becos 1 no reach anymore wt their yeye 5k na, so u slept wt just 2 na hin marine manipulation come enter, dis no be marine work na, if u see marine manipulation u no go even get chance write chro-chro for SDK
      Poster 2, u no get prob na only poverty u dey fear

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    3. Poster 1, your first paragraph just gave you away!!! "BN"?? Bella Naija abi? Clap for yourself *in sister Nkechi's voice*

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    4. You just ran and copied and pasted without even editing your mail. You just added "Stella and fellow BVs" in the first line because you were too lazy to go through the rest, forgetting that the Bella naija poster that you copied the "chronicle" from had included "BN" in her write-up. As I said earlier, clap for yourself ohhhhhhh. As a sharp girl that you are now *still in sister Nkechi's voice* smh!!!

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    5. Poster 1. God is merciful o. If u av truly repented his mercies will speak for u, but remember no sin goes unpunished. Eg david in d bible.
      Poster 2, why does he want a secret court wedding? Court wedding shouldnt be in secret except he is trying to protect u frm his family members in future. Location for white nd court wedding doesn't matter

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    6. Poster2 :dont agree to any secret wedding
      He should do trad or white wedding... It must not be a big wedding

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    7. 2, let him go and pay your bride price. Don't do any secret wedding o

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    8. Poster2, what's Legal is legal. Doesn't matter if it's silent. What u mean is silent. Except by secret u mean dt ur pple n friends won't know.
      The Registry wil do its part by publishing ur names for any counters.
      If it were doz days, I go say yes go and also later u wed. Times r very hard. U can do ur court marriage and reception as u desire.
      Court marriage cannot be secret bcos it's a legal thing however, court marriage can be contracted without d world knowing. Pls verify his motive. Thanks

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    1. Did I see BN as in "Bella Naija", or BN means another thing

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  3. Stella the first poster sounds like you. I said yesterday that you're a sperm receptacle.your vagina is wide and damaged like dual carriageway

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    1. Bvs please u Pple should not answer this one.

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    2. You are an idiot. Who did you rob to collect phone? You should be locked up in a dungeon for addressing a woman like that. He goat.

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    3. Lekwanu personal atakamus o.Who do you this thing don die o.

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    4. Whoever you are, May God forgive you.

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    5. So much bile spewing from what you call your mouth. And I can't even imagine what the fingers you used to type this look like. May God have mercy on ur soul. Faceless being...more hate comments from you, more money for Stella. Hater oshi

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    6. Hanhan,haba is it dat there was no one around to train u at all or you just decided on ur own to be an asshole?you are so uncouth#AppleofGod'seye#

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    7. Hanhan,haba is it dat there was no one around to train u at all or you just decided on ur own to be an asshole?you are so uncouth#AppleofGod'seye#

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    8. Anon15.06, continue trolling. The Almighty God sees all. Think you can remain anonymous and abuse Stella? When karma comes visiting, pressed down and shaken over, don't cry o.

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    9. Even if it's Stella, is it your vagina, so U can't mind your business? Let's see where this hatred will take U. By the way, this is not Stella.

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    10. Oh my! Why so bitter? Who hurt you? I pray you get well soon

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    11. Oh my! Why so bitter? Who hurt you? I pray you get well soon

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    12. Port Harcourt's Finest17 September 2016 at 16:29

      You fool! I don't know why imbeciles and nitwits like you are allowed to comment on this blog. You're an idioramus scallywag and bombastic element. I'm sure you were conceived and raised in a zoo.

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    13. Virgin mother of our lord Jesus Christ
      Welcome!
      Next time u want to insult Stella pls let me know what ur extra tight pussy has earned u

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    14. Stella why do even enable comments that insult you... Not everybody is sane... Don't enable all comments... How can someone come and be insulting u on ur own blog space

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    15. So, you think that if she was the one, she'd include that her husband is German? May your irrational hate for this woman not kill you. Say Amen.

      #WhiteDiamondOut

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    16. you are mean. I am sure you're new here.God forgive you.

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    17. May those fingers of your wither, and thunder strike you dead demented son of a dog.

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    18. Hmm,german husband and mother of two?on bn?hmm

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    19. This statement shows you're a biggest idiot known to man. Why did you comment as anonymous if you're not timid and foolish? Keep hating on Stella while she succeeds exceedingly. Ode oshi.

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    20. Ontop sey the born by mistake goat saw "German" ewu
      #KungfuPanda

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    21. JESUS really truly died for you "anon", Stella and whoever the "real" writer is BUT you Never still help your life with wetin Jesus do for you... You too REPENT, u hear. PLEASE ehnn. U no reach/ big pass Jesus.

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  4. Poster 2: I don't get u? Why does he want a secret court marriage wen he has not paid ur dowry n fulfilled all traditional rites required of him. Abeg u had beta shine ur eyes.

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    1. You are a derailed witch.

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    2. Yes oh shine your eyes well well, you can do indoor trad marriage without inviting the whole world.
      Poster 1, you don't have to live in the past, that is past and should be forgotten. Trust in your future

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  5. Poster 1, what is the meaning of what you sent? Oshisco
    sorry poster 2 i know nothing about that

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    1. As in Eh, like we asked for *diary of a former runs girl* mtcheew

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  6. Poster 1,
    Every one has a past!...
    Stop thinking about yours mehn and move on!...
    Yours is small compared to what I did and what I'm even doing ATM..so go and look bush!...
    Most girls are ashy!..so far you are having sex with someone that is not your husband,you are an ashewo!...

    Poster 2
    So you want to enter poverty with your koro koro eyes?...
    Hian!...
    Don't come here and beg for baby foods and school fees later that's my own...

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    1. Lmao... Linda ajo onu!!!
      I just love you jare.
      Anybody wey dey follow your advice for this blog is on his/her own.

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    2. Hahahahaha you hv said it all

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    3. Queen the Queen! Owo meji fun eyan kan

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    4. I'm not perfect too17 September 2016 at 16:11

      The realest chic.

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    5. The first poster no even make any sense...runs babe wey date only 2 married men...she just dey yarn balls,ppl do worse things na..

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    6. Yes o, we all are ashewos even chikito.

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    7. Port Harcourt's Finest17 September 2016 at 16:30

      Queen and Boss. You nailed it for once. I'm impressed.

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    8. Weren't you claiming your spiritual life is now good? You are just a hypocrite.

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    9. Not everyone has got a dirty past ok.

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  7. Poster 1 are you from Edo state??

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    1. What if she is from Edo state?

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    2. No na from Congo State...ps talk wiv small sense or borrow from your neighbour before stopping by next time.
      Poster 1: This is a matter between u and God be sure that He has figured out a plan for you and trust Him to lead you through the process. You have an experience you can save many for from taking or continuing in that path. Wasn't Saul turned Paul the biggest prosecutor of the followers of Christ at the earlier state of his life and then he had an encounter with Jesus. Eventually he took the Gospel to the Gentiles and his passion was channeled into doing Jesus' Work like no other apostle. God truly has set you free, walk in that consciousness. For who the Son of God sets free is FREE INDEED.

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  8. Poster1, ask for mercy... God's grace is sufficient
    poster 2, court wedding is ok. Don't over stress your man on a big wedding that people would just eat and forget about

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  9. Poster 1: lemme sit back n read how the queen n boss of ds blog will advise u, this ur loaded cv pass me. *sips kunu ayan*

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    1. Just look 👆 up. Lol.. People that take the boss queen serious, I pity una.. Klaklaklakla

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  10. I'll pass. Anyway karma doesn't mean if u fucked married men, some girl will fuck yours, though it's inclusive, karma could come in different nasty packages.

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    1. Yes dear...karma comes in different packages. ...

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    2. I slept with married men when single, inow I'm married, I know my hubby cheats, so I continued from where I stopped, whossai? We married people are more coded, we don't aim to take over d man's home, we just satisfy ourselves sexually and nobody is hurt, I'm working so I have enough chance to create time for my romps, can't worry myself over a cheating nigga,u can only call it karma when u r sad about it.

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    3. Anon 16:33 i Comot cap for u Oooo....karma may come to wed you in holy matrimony...who knows

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  11. Court Wedding whether in Secret or Opened is actually a legal form of Wedding.
    Nothibg do u guyz. Preferable Ikoyi Registry is OK,recognized everywhere

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  12. Poster 1, in your church they never told you about 2 Cor 5:17 and Romans 12:2? Pls read those verses over and over again until they become a parr of you. For now I don't think you have given your life to CHRIST like you say.

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  13. @poster one, madam what do you want us to say? I don't think u want advise, see u subtly listing all ur achievements, in a way telling us u have escaped karma despite being a runs girl. Carry this ur stinky chronicles that stinks more than your stinky bleachy bleachy skin.
    Bia poster 2,u say what is your own again ?

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  14. Poster 2 its court therefore its legal, you will ofcoz need witnesses which can be from your both families. Again, what's the fuss about coz introduction has been done (that's tradition isn't it)?

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  15. Poster1 pray for mercy and the bible saysTherefore if anyone b in christ he is a new creature old things have passed away, all things have become new. Poster2 I hope your family members and his family members will b there.

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  16. Poster 1 what do u want to hear from us???.
    Poster 2 there must be a reason that guy desperately wants to tie you down, please don't try any secret court wedding with him, u ll regret it, if he is not ready to marry you properly with the consent of ur parents, jejely move on with your life. But how does he intend to start a family when he is financially unstable?

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  17. anonymous 15:06 .can you please ask Jesus for mercy. why say such evil about a person. do you know Stella? even if she did all that why bring condemnation upon yourself by writing such? I pray God have mercy on your soul. don't let the wrong use of social media make you miss heaven.

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  18. poster 1: you are a new Creature , old thing have passed away pray to God almighty for the forgiveness of sins and NEVER GO BACK to it.

    Poster 2: pleasse donot be blind with love, marriage is for everfever be wise.

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  19. Poster1 ok.
    Poster2 the Lord is your strength

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  20. Poster 2, turn your introduction to bride price payment (people do it), go with your close family and friends to court.....and live happily ever after. When you have your 1st baby, throw an elaborate party.

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  21. Poster 1...Abeg fuck na fuck...ure not different from those dat stick to one guy for 10yrs n dis 100 abortions..at least u were smart about it n u got married to someone who worship d ground u walk on...if some should open their mouth and tell u wat Dey have done u go know say ur own no hold ground...u are new in Christ and old things are passed away...free ur children and always wish dem well.
    Poster 2..Abeg I no get Wetin to tell u..

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  22. Poster 1, karma will eventually come but since u've given ur life to christ God will give u strength to bear them rember d case of David wen he had an affair with another man's wife d child d woman birth 4 him died but God gave them anoda child whom later became d king.
    So be steadfast and be prayerful and always ask 4 4giveness. He's a MERCIFUL GOD.it is well.
    @poster 2, Use ur head.

    @tee_y

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  23. Poster one are u sure u r repentant or ur just seek validation.
    Poster two, get married already nau abi u wontu become lord of the rings *in jenifas voice

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  24. Poster one are u sure u r repentant or ur just seek validation.
    Poster two, get married already nau abi u wontu become lord of the rings *in jenifas voice

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  25. Poster 1: Just let it pass and forgive yourself ok...Hmmm we cant say how Karma is gonna act but I believe you can do some restitution here and there and it will be fine I promise and please stop bleaching or u wanna make ur hubby to think you are white..have some self esteem baby..

    Poster 2: There should be no secret anything cos OYO will be your name. not like am sounding insensitive but why spend all your life savings on burial?? I don't get it. Please you must do the right thing by doing your Trad and White wedding..Secret court wedding ko, kotima wedding ni..abeg

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  26. If d marriage were to hold in a licensed ple of wrship no need 4 court wedding cuz d licensed place of wrship wud legally have authority to conduct such marriage and it wud b regarded as a marriage done under d act if properly done,if d church aint licensed it'l just b regarded as. Customary marriage,4 d court wedding it's just a normal thing u go dere 3mnths b4 d wedding and give them notice they'll lso paste a notice requiring pple to give reasons y u guys shud not b married if within d 3mnths dere's none u go back dere and get hitched comprende???4 ur last question it doesn't matter u u'd do ur white wedding in kfanchan and d court in lagos in as much as d place where d court is located is d place of ur domicile(i.e a place uv'e been staying).except d church aint a licensed place of worship dats wen u need to b4 d church wedding u go 2 court and d church just blesses u guys.so babe go 2 d marriage registry in ur locality nd do yo thng.

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  27. You are too sincere p1 I love u for that

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  28. chikito and one anonymous,your read comments in an old post. it got me smiling all through and the reason is because I was just really surprised to see I have people like me in the world.My mum is strict, very strict but my dad is liberal,very very. To me he seems like someone who had so much fun growing up.My mum was so strict, she made me lock her entirely out of my private life,she knows literally nothing deep about me except that I am a medical student and of course her daughter,she knows nothing about my future plans, about my other talents and whatever I will be besides a doctor. I get jealous of other children too a lot. lol,but I still love my mum, I just wish we could start all over again, although we talk better now,but it will be very difficult to let all of me out to her again,it was so bad when I first saw my period,i told my dad,who told mum for me. Take note all mothers reading this, make your child your best friend,lock her out in her early days, lock her out forever.I have learnt too from my own experience,my kids will be my all in all, I will love to know all about them,be there shoulder from crying etc. *kisses*

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  29. What is karma?
    The word karma means action or performance. In its most basic concept, karma is the belief that our actions bring corresponding reactions. In more popular terms, we get what we deserve or “what goes around comes around.”

    Similarity with Biblical Truth
    There are some similarities between karma and truths we find in the Bible. For example, the Bible teaches that God is just both in the sense that He punishes evil and rewards good. The book of Proverbs gives many principles that show good or bad actions bring good or bad consequences. Some point to Galatians 6:7 which says, “Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap”
    Furthermore, the Bible teaches that these consequences for our actions can be experienced in this life or in the next. In this life, bad actions can have negative consequences like hindering our fellowship with God and people, poverty, physical illness, death, etc. Good behavior has the contrasting good consequences. Though the Bible does not teach reincarnation, it does teach that believers have a future in the kingdom of God.

    Dissimilarity with Biblical Truth
    Though some may think that the Bible approves the concept of karma, the dissimilarities are great. The Bible’s teaching is vastly superior to the concept of karma.
    The Bible does not teach that the universe is locked into karma or any universal law. Yes, God did design the universe to operate by some basic principles of justice and retribution, many of which are mentioned throughout the Bible. But God can alter the laws He has created and is not a slave to those principles. Though He is just, He is also loving, and His love for us can supersede His justice toward us. When it comes to our salvation, “He made Him [Jesus] who knew no sin, to be sin for us that we might become the righteousness of God in Him” (2 Cor. 5:21). God fulfilled His justice by exacting payment for our sins, but He did it through His Son dying in our place. That is contrary to what karma expects.
    Because God loves us, and because His innocent Son satisfied His justice, God can give us His eternal life, His righteousness, and His forgiveness for all of our sins. By His grace through faith in His Son we are given what we do not deserve. While karma locks a person into a cycle of retributive justice, God breaks that cycle with His grace. While karma guarantees that a person gets what he deserves, grace guarantees that a person can get what he does not deserve. By definition grace is a free gift that is not deserved.

    The Bible teaches that God’s grace can break into the cycle of sin with blessing. For example Psalm 103:10 says,
    He has not dealt with us according to our sins, Nor punished us according to our iniquities.
    And Rom. 5:8 says,
    But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
    Conversely, God also allows bad things to happen to very good people. In the Old Testament Job is called the most righteous man on earth, yet he suffered horribly. In the New Testament God’s perfect Son was unfairly condemned and crucified. God is free to act outside of His normal design. This upends the rigid dictates of karma.
    Unlike reincarnation, which teaches that a person gets another life to improve his or her karma, the Bible does not teach that anyone gets a “do over” after this life.



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    1. Thank you for this. God bless you.

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  30. There is nothing like court wedding. It's you going to the Registry to register your marriage. Meanwhile, why not tell your parent to collect your engagement things on that introduction day? Let the bride price be paid.

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  31. Lady one: You need to renew your mind through the word of God and know that the word "karma' is not in our scriptures. When someone repents, God forgives and the person begins a new life.

    Poster 2: You are about to take a VERY FOOOLISH STEP. There is nothing like secret marriage. In fact, it is not marriage if it was secret. Questions:

    Supposing you get pregnant and he dumps you?
    Who will get stuck; become a single baby mama and sulk?
    Who is the one that will rush to "marry" another lady traditionally and have kids?
    Who is the one that will not have another marriage because she has a "child outside wedlock" and "an existing legal document showing that she is married"?
    Who will be depressed and suicidal?

    Foolish woman, foolish decision. How about waiting till there is money for the ceremonies?

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  32. P1... Past is dead and gone. Live in d present for God
    P2, y secret.. So no family followed u..

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  33. 2. GAlatians 6:7 teaches that we reap what we sow. But several things should be noted. First, though it is stated as a divine principle, God has the freedom to override His own principles of retribution and reward. If He did not, no sinner could be saved.
    Also, to be faithful to the context of Galatians 6, this verse is not discussing the condition for eternal salvation (that was discussed earlier in chapter 3), but the consequences for Christians who live either according to the Spirit or the flesh (Gal. 5:21-26). The emphasis in the context is admonishment for Christians to do good works as they live under grace instead of law. If Christians live by the Spirit (not the flesh), they will have a richer experience of God’s eternal life in the future (6:8-9). The apostle Paul wrote in Galatians 6:8-9, “The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
    This is not karma, but divine motivation and reward for personal responsibility.

    Grace trumps karma. In karma there is no hope apart from what we can do for ourselves by our own effort. The Bible teaches and experience shows that we are sinful by nature and left to ourselves we will do evil, and thus deserve punishment. Grace, however, does what we cannot do. It gives us eternal life that we do not deserve and gives us God’s Spirit to help us do good things.

    we must always remember that it was Jesus whose death on the cross resulted in the reaping of eternal life for us, and that it is faith in Jesus that gives us this eternal life. Ephesians 2:8-9 tells us, “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.” Therefore, we see that the concept of reincarnation and karma is incompatible with what the Bible teaches about life, death, and the sowing and reaping of eternal life.

    Culled...hope this helps!

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    1. Na wa ohh see as u copy note on top person matter...

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  34. Poster1 if you are truly born again as you have said then move on i don't think there's anybody without bad past, some people bad past is more than yours and are doing very well, and yes karma is real but with the grace of God one will over come.

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  35. Poster 2....you need to do ur trads 1st b4 d court wedding(without d trad,d court wedding isn't legal)a little trad wud do

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  36. Poster 1,accept the mistakes you made and stop blaming marine powers. Na you do yourself. Glad to know you've found Christ.


    Poster 2,you want to have a secret wedding with a Nigerian man. The chronicles you read here aren't enough to activate what's left of the little common sense you have? If he can do a registry marriage with you, he can as well pay your brideprice now and do the big ceremony when he finds his feet later on.

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  38. As long as u are born again all ur sins has been washed away so relax and enjoy God wonders in your life and forget karma. Poster 2. Secret wedding won't your parent be present? As long your parents give their consent then u are good to go, who big wedding epp...

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  39. Poster 1, The Bile says confess to one another. You have confessed your sins and repented, your sins are washed away, thus you are a new creature. Forget whether there is karma or not. Many whose husbands or wives cheat today, did not cheat. Face your future and forget the past.

    Poster 2: Why do you want to secretly go for the registry? Do you want to start having babies? or does the man want to tie you down? If you have the registry and get pregnant afterwards, won't people think you got pregnant out of wedlock? Think well before you take any action.

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  40. Poster 1: God has forgiven you already it's you that need to help yourself by forgetting the past... Leave your kids outta this, they are innocent , just continue in prayers

    Poster 2: why secret court marriage in the first place? Because there's no money doesn't mean you should make it secret pls, u never know men oooo..... Smh for you, that may be the only thing he will do and neglect the traditional wedding. Why you so much in a haste? You don preggos?

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  41. Anon 15:06 u are just a mega fool.

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  42. Poster 1, i want to believe you have truly repented and confessed the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and personal Saviour! You have to learn to forget your past.
    Don't allow your past to cause commotion in your present life. Continue to pray for grace. God's grace is sufficient for us all.
    But, make sure you do not secretly go back to living a wayward life.
    God bless you.

    Poster 2, why do you young women always like to cause problem for yourselves? Why don't you ask your fiance why he want a secret court marriage?
    You want to have a court marriage, no problem, but doing it secretly with just the both of you raises some suspicions.
    Make sure your fiance pay your bride price though, since you both live in Nigeria. I wish you luck.

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  43. Poster 2 the truth is court wedding is the recognised legal wedding because all registries including churches need to get their licenses from the court registry before you can be married. Many churches who are not registered as a licensed marriage registry will insist the couples go to church first because the white wedding is just a formality. Anyhoo, the age of consent is 18. Once you are past 18 years, you need not seek parental consent to get married. It is assumed that you know what you are doing. However, it is advisable that you tell your parents or someone close to you because you will need a sponsor or someone to sign for you. A friend of mine whose hubby wanted to travel out promised her wedding in two years time. My friend didn't want empty promises, so they got married in court. Two years later he came back and paid her dowry and they forfeited the white wedding. In your case poster, you can do the court wedding if you love your guy and you know he has potentials not to be broke in the future.

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  44. Post 1: If you've really given your life to Christ you know "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. 2Cor5:17.
    Poster 2: Court Marriages are legal. But you can't do them in secret as you will need two witnesses.

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  45. Anon 15:06 u are just a mega fool.

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  46. Poster 2: its registry wedding not court marriage. Registry marriage can be celebrated in any marriage registry in Nigeria but its advisable to do same in the city where you are known and no it cant be done secretly because the registry will put up a notice for 21 days for the public to see and react properly if there is to be an impediment to the intending marriage.
    Requirements for registry wedding:
    N1000 for 21 days notice
    N20,000 for certificate & wedding
    2 cartons of can malt
    1 bottle of non alcoholic
    2 witnesses (1 from each side)
    2 wedding
    photographer/camera phone
    Just visit any local government office in your area and ask for the marriage registry.

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  47. Poster one: Anything you see, you take in good faith. What goes around, comes around.

    Poster two: Better be patient and get married properly. I'm not saying that a court marriage isn't legal, but seeing as he wants it a secret and you've not been married traditionally, it looks fishy.
    Just saying.

    #WhiteDiamondOut

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  48. Only two married men and u are feeling guilt?... I ve had plenty married men, two some with my girlfrd and a married man... And twosome with two men together.. I'm happily married now with kids... I don hang boot.

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  49. Poster 1, I don't see the reason for this ur post. Just gid for forgiveness.

    Poster2, u guys shld explain to hothouse families. And pay the bride price. Then do ur court wedding.

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  50. poster one, your sins are forgiven go and sin no more
    poster two #u nid jesus

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  51. Poster 1 If you are sure you . have given your life to Christ then you have nothing to worry about because the Bible says old things are past away and if we confess our sins and are truly sorry for them God will make our heart as white as Scarlet. So sis you have nothing to worry about. pray more to forget your past and always pray over you children that the repercussions of your sin will not befall them.
    Poster 2 You better wise up and talk to your hubby so that you guys can do a low key wedding only very close family at most 20 people and you will be married instead of saving money to feed people for a few hours and some will still complain about not eating and others not being invited. Use the money you have to make Investment that will benefit you and your unborn children. Times are hard and everybody knows young ladies widen up unless you want to keep begging for diapers. my 2 Maria.

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  52. Poster 15:06 I say you be OZUO' and again I say OZUO'

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  53. Sdk bvs I hail.who say karma no dey bible?u too I dey greet.what u sow u shall reap,gear up and recieve ur harvest.

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  54. Poster two while secret, you can inform your family about it, poster one I don't no oh, just keep praying

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  55. I think say BN means blog narrative, why una dey accuse sdk nana?

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  56. Secret court wedding? Am not in support of DAT. Let him pay ur bride price den proceed to registry wit few family and friends. Contact us today for d supply of all ur vet drugs

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  57. Poster 1 , if you have genuinely repented then you should know 2cor 5:17.
    Poster 2, Close family members and friends should be there.You both can have a small get together after the court wedding.

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  58. Poster 1 , if you have genuinely repented then you should know 2cor 5:17.
    Poster 2, Close family members and friends should be there.You both can have a small get together after the court wedding.

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  59. 1. Only believe that Jesus saves. You have been redeemed, focus on God and sin no more. Alleluia

    2- Get yourself empowered and do not enter into marriage empty hand. Registry is ok since your parents and his people will be there.

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  60. 1. Only believe that Jesus saves. You have been redeemed, focus on God and sin no more. Alleluia

    2- Get yourself empowered and do not enter into marriage empty hand. Registry is ok since your parents and his people will be there.

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