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Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

Hmmmmm Manipulative ish...




STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CONFUSED BACHELOR


Hello Stella, I really need some advice.....

 My story goes thus...

 I am a medical doctor, dating a fellow doctor.she is about rounding up her NYSC. 

We started dating in part 4, which is like 4 years ago. In all honesty, I was a typical Yoruba demon before I started dating her..but when we connected, I changed because of love. She is a good girl I must confess. Even people were surprised how I changed because my record was loud. Everything went on smooth with normal relationships fighting and making up. 


 I was really in love with her that I took her home. All my peeps accepted her. We were all cool. Around mid last year, we started having series of quarrels but we keep settling after each episode. The love started depreciating from my end. We drifted apart a little..There was a point we asked if we should breakup, but we let it pass and settle and because we were friends before we started dating . 


Around same time, I got a message from a pastor(family friend) not to promise anyone marriage,and focus on the future. I was like I know who I want to marry so the message is for side chick( that might come my way). Late last year, I relocated to UK..just few days before I left,I told my pastor to pray for me and same revelation came again not to promise anyone.. when I got here, I joined a fellowship. 


The pastor called me and said he got a revelation that I shouldn’t promise anyone marriage, that I should secure my future first! I became confused..now the love is not there anymore but I can’t tell her. I still call her to know if she is good and all. And no, I am not cheating.i am even yet to get my footings here at the moment..just yesterday, I met another pastor at an event and same revelation came up again, he even said I am yet to meet the right one but very soon, it will happen.

 That I should just fast and pray .now I don’t know how to handle it..help a brother...



*what is it with all these prophets of doom manipulating you?why is it that it is only Nigerian pastors that take it upon themselves to forecast who one should marry or not?This is really annoying and i dont believe in this at all...
Marriage is not easy and a lot of hard work and even the one you are destined to marry can go wrong if you stop working on it......If you are leaving your woman cos of all these you explained then i am so sorry for you!!!


79 comments:

  1. Just stylishly tell that girl not to waste her time waiting for you, you're yet to know what you want.




    *Larry was here*

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    1. When a prophecy comes that's directed towards things that save us from losing money or from having bad experiences we believe them, now it's about marriage its manipulation. Smh.

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    2. Poster pray and ask God you want a confirmation of the prophecies from Him. God can reveal it to you too.

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    3. Anon 15:38 shut up. Is your type that marry lazy ass because my pastor says this and thathe. Rubbish

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    4. Best advice you have ever given stella. Every word makes sense.
      I dunno which one is marriage prophecy again. Every good marriage takes dedication and a lot of hardwork.

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    5. Aren't you still a "Yoruba demon?"
      All these pastors telling you "not to promise marriage"
      Why are they not telling you that fornication is a sin?
      When you say you are "not cheating", you mean that you
      were having sex with this girl but not with any other in the UK?
      Mmmmh . . . "flee fornication" says the Holy Scriptures.

      From what I know about these pastors, they have someone in mind to
      prophesy to you to marry, it is a matter of time. And it is someone in
      their churches so that you get "tied there".

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    6. After God created Adam, he did not help Adam identify his wife; did he?
      And Jesus said; "my sheep hear my voice and I know them and they follow me" Jn. 10:27

      He did not say; "my shepherds hear my voice"; did he?
      If you are his sheep; a follower of Jesus, why don't you hear his voice; why should pastors be doing that for you?
      What's their motives?
      Why aren't they telling you that you should not commit sexual immorality instead of telling you your life's time table?

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    7. If the 3 pastors knew themselves, would have said it was a gang up. But truth is no they don't. So why don't you just fast and pray and ask God for his will in your life. Don't think that's too much to do. Mediate on his word,and you would get your and.

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    8. Stella just shared my thoughts. I don't understand people and prophet s. Whether u like it or not, no marriage is perfect. It needs hardwork and tolerance. Love is not even enough. Jeez

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    9. Bia poster, Bible says 'he that finds a wife finds a good thing', so last last, na you go choose ya wife my bro, so if anything happen na to blame yaself be dat.

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    10. stella pls if you dont go to church in Germany then dont say only Nigerian pastors....prophecy operates anywhere in the body of christ and its not only among nigerian pastors..we know about this cos are nogerians and go to churches with mostly nigerians...and honestly why do people bring spiritual matters to a blog? you are obviously not born again if not you should know you need to pray and fast for God to confirm his word to you...the 3 pastors donot know each other so that should be a sign God is speaking..the lord might have need of you in future that is why he is interested in your marriage matter...honestly dont know why u are asking this question, go and pray and fast yourself. nobody can help you. call the babe and tell her, simple

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    11. don't know the rubbish you people are spewing....do the pastors all know each other?poster be here asking unbelievers spiritual questions..give your life to Christ and seek his face in prayer and fasting

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  2. Why not pray to God urself and ask for directions? Even marriage wey pastor no put mouth self, some no dey work out,just pray over it and ask for divine intervention, good luck to u

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    1. Stella leave him let him keep saying my pastor said my pastor said since the pastor is his creator and can see his future. People like these always end up marrying the wrong person.
      Meanwhile, let the lady know you are no longer interested and don't waste her time so she can move on to someone better. The world does not revolve around you.

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    2. Abi ooo, poster my konsign na the lady, as you be Yoruba demon. Nor waste her time. Tell am say your mind no dey there attall attall pomkwem!

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  3. God please don't let the devil use any Prophet to take what belongs to me away mbuk, cos this prophets I fear them kia

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  4. Mr chronicles poster, I think you have finally gbensh her to the point that her vyjee has lost taste now you are trying to use pastor nd Co to make you feel less guilty? So because you manage to secure visa to UK to work in mortuary you feel you have arrived? Karma is real nd has your address.

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    1. U wicked I swear. E Don see u.k fresh pussy. Come here they yarn dust. Lolz

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    2. Hahahaha... Stella ur BVs no go kill me for laugh... Secure visa to work in Mortuary.. Nna eh

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    3. Chai, maggi cube.....ur craze is on another level. U are mouthed! LMAO. I never had the intention of dropping a comment but this comment of urs wont make me face front.

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    4. He is in UK.. He won't work as a doctor till he writes plab and all that.. Levels don change, u don find excuse.. Mstcheww

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    5. Maggie of life! Lmao!

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    6. Maggie the Maggie, i hail oo

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  5. The most important fact here is, you dont love her enough anyway, so free yourself. Free yourself from bondage by coming out to her that you dont think this will work rather than leading her on and wasting her time and emotions. Woman curse dey follow man enter hin generations o!

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    1. MamI I tire for the guy. Don't be a time waster to the lady. Tell her straight nd let her move ahead.stop keeping ladies biko, no time. We age fast. Save the sister the stress and move on with your pastor or your u.k lover. Kiikik

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  6. I don't even care about what you were told or not. All I know is you no longer love this woman and while you didn't pin it to a particular incidence or issue I'd ask that you stop dilly dallying and let her know.
    Stop stringing her along with the hope that this thing you people are doing would materialize into marriage.
    This is what majority are guilty of then you'd marry someone out of pity and years spent together and start having more problems in future. Save yourself and us the stress of a bitter chronicle in future and let the cat out to this lady to move on that you don't love her. When and if you love someone what pastors tell you wouldn't matter because you're the one to marry them and the pastors.

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  7. My only issue here is that you have your own mouth and access to God, why don't you pray on your own. Abi is there anywhere in the bible that says "Only come through me with the aid of your pastor"????. Sides that your relationship don tire you just break up instead of wasting her time.

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  8. Is it not common sense not to promise marriage till u secure ur future? Na wa for u o.

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  9. My question is "Does God trully intervene in who we marry"?? If yes, how does he divinely reveal to us that special one??
    Its funny how alot of attributes we find in our man/woman, came directly from our personal desires, i stand corrected though, one might argue its our subconscious speaking to us based on our already made choice. while we're on the subject, those disabled ppl, how many slay/swag self crowned has the Lord directed to their paths to carry down the aisle, & how many diligently obeyed? just a food for thought...
    Poster, i put it to you that ure wearing ur heart on ur sleeve! If ur live didnt deteriorate, i bet u, no tithe collector will bring his nightmares to u in broad daylight, free urself na, afterall love has evaporated.

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    1. Chop kiss. One million likes. I don't belive in those pastor this and that.

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    2. Love didnt deteriorate*

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    3. John 10:27 My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me:

      28 And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.





      God does not just speak to "shepherds or pastors", his sheep means any follower of Jesus. If this guy is having sex with this girl; fornication, he will not hear from him except "repent"

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  10. Poster, you have joined the clique of UK based Nigeria guy. Una no dey gbadun. Las las, u go dey alright.
    I don't always believe in prophets say this or that. I go to my own God and ask him to show me the way. You don't love the girl anymore, so stop using prophecies as excuses. If you are in love, you are and it will be hard for you to stop loving.

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    1. No mind d idiot

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    2. The guy don chop clean mouth dey talk another thing

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  11. Oga poster, will it be safe if I conclude that you go from pastor to pastor? If you do that desist from it, you'll only confuse yourself more.
    Rather read your bible more, go to God in prayer, and focus on your career.

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  12. Tell the girl the relationship is no longer leading anywhere. Hopefully it will be a mutual thing since it has come up before. Quit the long story. Everybody knows not to promise anything you are unsure of fulfilling.

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  13. Hmmmn . well prophecy are real . some are real
    But why not ask God to show you the way himself .

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  14. Aunty Agnostic8 March 2018 at 15:30

    Prophet ko prophet ni. So you're toi small for your God to speak to you directly right?? Please leave her, let her be. Your woman would come like a thief in the night to liberate you. Ode! Grown man like you and you havr no idea what you want. You people would be deluding yourselves claiming it is vision and prophesy. As a doctor you should know that is one of the hallmarks of schizophrenia. Hiss!

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  15. Poster it's very clear to me. You no longer love the girl and you are looking for a reason to dump her. As if you deserve a prize for being faithful As a doctor you should know better than to drag things out. Man up and free her. Tell her plainly you will not marry her so God can give her a man that truly appreciates her. You can then be free to pursue your former lifestyle. Mchew.

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  16. Simply put, the yoruba demon in you is back, stop using prophecies as excuse, that's BS.... Biko don't waste the girls time, let her go her way and trust me, she will eventually find the MAN that truly deserves her because you don't. Enjoy your Uk.

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  17. You have already stated that the love is no longer there....so what else is there to talk about? Simply tell her the state of your feelings for her and free yourselves. I dont take all those marriage revelations seriously...i would advice you act based on your current state of mind/thoughts about her. If you meet someone else later, fine...if not..just be true to yourself and her.

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  18. This one my guy they leave me travel go U.S abeg make una advise me too. I want him to engage me or pay bride price if not I no dey wait any tin. He keep saying I should get pregnant for him before leaving. Jezz!! Am confused oo. Because his mom also stay in U.S.

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    1. Please don't get pregnant for him o. Lol...this man will use you as Nigeria fuck babe/baby mama/ olosho/ free pussy anytime he comes to Nigeria. He is getting married to someone over there. Pregnancy ko, pregnancy ni. Find your own bobo in Nigeria and don't wait for that your US guy.

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    2. See, don't pressure your guy into engaging you or paying your bride price. That should be his own decision, and that depends on how much he loves you, and his level of readiness to settle down.
      Also, don't get pregnant for him now, if not you might join the league of abandoned baby mamas and your child could hate you for that. These days, pregnancy doesn't tie anyone down.
      If he goes, just move him to the back burner and start dating other people.

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  19. Mr poster. Just tell us you have seen another girl in U.K. we won't flog u OK. Stop d lies. Are u mad!!!!

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  20. Poster, you don't have that special spark you used to for her. That's why you swallow and accept the prophecies. Have you prayed to know God's opinion? And please if you're not interested again kindly let her go and don't want her time.

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  21. Most guys that travel out are liars. Guy tell your babe to move on if you don't love her anymore OK. Broken relationship is better than broken marriage. Learn to know what you want in a woman . No woman or man is created for anyone that is why God created the power of CHOICE. A woman that loves and understand your person is the one for you. Choose wisely and forget that nonsense prophesy shit! !!

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  22. what i understand is that you don't love your woman anymore. it happens even in marriage some times we fell out of love, but it will be the friendship you have built over time that gets you going. But you can stylishly tell her simply. forget prophecy. meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen always want to eat their cake and have it

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  23. Either people believe it or not, there are still true prophets only that the bad ones are more.
    There is what we call the will of God...... A lot of people Pray and seek the face of God before marriage.
    Some see the revelation by themselves while others go to prophets.
    Marrying the will of God does not mean every thing will be smooth,but God will give you the grace to overcome all the challenge and at the end you will have peace of mind.
    This is done in all religion and even unbelievers does it too.
    Poster, for two or more people to be telling you this, move on with your life and let her know too.
    A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage, the kind of partner you choose can either make you or break you.
    Seek God's face before you accept or decide to marry anyone.

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    1. So if you marry against "God's will", he will not give you the Grace to overcome every obstacle.
      How does that sound, even to you.
      There is no place in the bible, it is written that God will find your wife for you. It says "He who finds a wife". There is no marriage that was designed "in heaven", as pple like to believe. That religions practice it, does not make it right.

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    2. if you marry against Gods will and trouble comes except you ask for the grace then you don't get it....if you marry in Gods will i.e you get express confirmation that this is Gods will then you know that no matter what it will work together for good cos he clearly approved....it is not everybody you find that aligns with Gods will for your life..e.g if God has called you to be an evangelist and you marry a woman who cannot stand you preaching from place to place how will your home be? she will not help you fulfil destiny...what if a woman is business or career minded and the mans like a woman who stays home how can they both have a successful marriage? if the woman has a career that God has gifted with do you think she will enjoy marriage with a man who will not allow her work?sometimes people don't see ahead cos of love, but God reveals the true heart of men and women in the place of prayer..he sees years down the line....whether we like it or not the spirit of prophecy stills operates in some pastors and God gives them messages for their parishioners...God does not choose or apportion a wife for you but there are some people who are suited to helping you fulfill your destiny..

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  24. Poster, if you are no more in love with your girlfriend.. Fine and please let her know immediately, but for the prophetess say this and that forget them. My husband called me last month to asked for forgiveness from me and I asked why? He confessed to me that when he first traved to the UK a certain prophetess told him that he should forget about me that his wife is UK and we were already engaged. That was why he was acting somehow then, he later found out 2 years later that the lady they choosed for him has 2kids for 2 different men. He jejely came back to Nigeria to married me rightly and we are blessed with 2 lovely kids.

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    1. Your husband cslled you last month to ask for your forgiveness and immediately you're blessed with two kids? Easy with the lies.

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    2. Your husband doesn't respect you. You didn't win, ma. You are an option

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    3. This is a wawu! For him to confess he has been feeling guilty, which likely means he is enjoying his marriage with you. Kudos my sister. May God continue to bless your union.

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  25. Truth be told, you need to find your feet first. You don't need a pastor abi soothsayer to teach you common sense. I wish your girl was reading this, it's common sense for her to keep her options open. Please let her know how you feel

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  26. poster the only thing I understand in this your chronicle is that you are tired of the relationship.

    Abeg free person pikin so that she can move on.

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  27. All these revelations et al... I understand that part of falling out of love with somebody even when you don't have anyone by the side. Pray for God's will in your life.

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  28. If he is the one seeking the prophets,he can have a doubt but if the same revelations came through different prophets that u didn't seek out,you should have a rethink,you are a prophet too if you seek Gods face,pray yourself and ask for guidance while telling the lady her to go ahead with her life since you don't love her anymore!!

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    1. That was how one pastor told
      Me that Mr U was my husband,not knowing that God had revealed that he wasn't my husband. Since then I don't involve pastors in relationship issue. At times I used cunny to ask them question whether they'll give me the actual answer.
      Poster, do not lose that girl because of what that man said. Trust God more

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  29. Years ago i went to a church while looking for a job. The man of God instead focused on my personal life. He told me i had three suitors but none of them was my husband. That if i married any of them the marriage will not last. I ignored the prophecy and got married to one of the suitors. 3years later the marriage broke down. Please leave spiritual things that you don't understand.

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    1. It could be coincidence or your subconscious at work to fulfill the prophecy. Positive thinking is really liberating.

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  30. Rubbish!!! When will people start waking up? Are those real revelations or they are just advising you because you're still new, so as to get yourself together. Advising is one thing and "prophecy" is another. I believe that these "yahoo pastors" go to the same scam school. Their style is alway the same very slight differences. Be careful the way u go from pastor to pastor o, very soon they'll say ur mom is a witch or your dad is the reason you haven't made it in the U.K.

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    1. i would have say they both seek the face of God themselves but if perhaps they are already engaging in fornication then how would any of them hear from God.Poster it is not a coincidence that more than 2 pastors have talked about it. it can be tricky atimes but know that God sees the end from the begining. he has seen the future of the marriage already. best of luck.

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  31. Love is not feeling but acceptance, accepting d imperfection, the whala of the other person. The day someone start deserving your love is no more love......

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    1. Including accepting that ur partner devalues and abuses you abi, some statements are sweet to the ears but you always need to think things through

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  32. Please drop the girl"s number and go ahead with the one who will give you a stay abroad.

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  33. Go to God yourself in prayer and let him speak to you

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  34. Different pastors same revelation-
    I suggest you take their advice but ask them that how will you know the time you are supposed to promise someone marriage abi u no go marry again

    What does focus on the future mean anyway?We are all always striving to be better and bigger so we are all always focused on the future IMO
    Marriage sef is part of the future.

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  35. Poster on 2005 a woman at a church told me that i hope i knew that iam not going
    to marry the lady i was dating then,my exgf,and i ask her why?she said time will tell,
    later after years we had problems and alots about her comes out,,and i later find
    another lady and we married fast cos she was pregnant and another words came to me
    telling me that i hope i knew that the woman iam living with as a wife is not even
    my wife ,telling me that my real wife will come and will show to me when the right time come,telling me that my real wife has something i has being looking and
    has being searching for,something very dear for me to find,,this is 2018 and its
    was last years i started having a big problems with my yet to be ,exwife,that
    GOD reveal the woman to me and show her to me,,behold she have that i was searching
    and has being looking for since 20years ago,the first research i did with that she have i got more than 50millions plus,she dont even know what she have,next researching am working,as its was revealed to me so its
    happen,,my ex wife to be is the one asking me to GO and forcing for a divorce
    now,,while she dont even know what is happening cos she think that she have got
    what she wanted from me,,not knowing that its the will of GOD,,SO WAIT,,,2005 till 2018 all come out fine ,,petients and prayers

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    1. This is definitely a double wawu! Guy can you just chill a little? Na wa ooooo

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    2. 01.00,,,YOU DONT NEED TO SAY A WAWU IN A TRUE LIFE STORY,,
      YOU MAY HAVE A GIFT IN YOU WITHOUT KNOWING IT,TILL SOME ONE
      DISCOVERD YOU,,,EVEN YOUR BIRTHDAY CAN BE A BLESSINGS TO SOME ONE

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    3. your English too bad

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  36. Interesting @ Anon 21:07
    Abeg u fit dash me 1m to help my destiny?

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  37. those pastors dont know themselves and cant be lying biko. brother face ya life, tell ya babe not to wait for you she shud move on.

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