I wonder why people have problems with big bodied people.
Thursday, December 20, 2018
Nollywood Actress Eniola Badmus Says No One Can Body Shame Her....
Nollywood actress Eniola Badmus has sent this short memo to those body shaming her.........
I wonder why people have problems with big bodied people.
I wonder why people have problems with big bodied people.
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Everyone can't be lepacious like me
ReplyDeleteEnny, that's the spirit.... Go girl 👌👌👌
Bold and beautiful Eniola.
ReplyDeleteI dont understand some online bullies oh, is that what they buy data for? How can you see a hippopotamus and call it fat? Na wa o
ReplyDeleteAnd what are you doing now?
DeleteHahahaha. You are a devil aswear.
DeleteBut seriously,if her 'fans' are into that,they should free her.
I can't be 'follown' someone i don't like,that's stupidity.
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😆
DeleteOh dear 😂😂😂😂😂
chai. . anon you are 'loco'😅😅😅😅
DeleteThis anon no gbadun rara
DeleteMen like me actually prefer them on the big side. Not all of us want to sleep with skinny or thin girls. Meanwhile sometimes i wonder about the way people talk about/to fat ladies if truly God want every human he created to be slim...
DeleteWe care thats why we show concern, talk true even your family tell you youre "getting too fat oh wetin u de chop" thats cus theyre concerned, they love u, they know the implications & downsides to fat, healthwise and relationship wise, so we wont like to see u in that predicament, but how else do u tell someone theyre fat without hurting their feeling? And why will u even allow ur feelings be hurt? Is fat hiv? Is it low account balance?
ReplyDelete😂😂😂
DeleteShe is not blind, she knows she is fat. People should learn to mind their business. The only people.that need to tell her she is getting too big is her doctor and her man. If her health is not complaining, her man is not complaining, and she is comfortably in her own skin, everyone else should mind their business. Every one can't be skinny.
DeleteHmmmmmmm
DeleteBlessed one her man has no right to even complain cause he met her like that in the first place
DeleteGood for her
ReplyDeleteWay to go girl. big,bold and beautiful.
ReplyDeleteNa fat you just fat,Eniola you no kill person,pay no attention to negativity.
ReplyDeleteShe big, bold and beautiful... Haters should get used to that
ReplyDeleteI understand her plight. The way people body shame me also and i wear a UK size 14 and weigh 88kg.
ReplyDeleteIv never been stick thin but my weight before was 72kg. I controlled my weight by eating just once a day. Then migraines and ulcer set in. I won't eat breakfast,I will have only lunch,then apple for dinner. I will be so hungry. One day my dad caught me in the kitchen making eba at 3am. He was disturbed. I will even put my hand in my throat and throw up if I ate anything too fatty. It was just a viscious cycle. I will use all manner of weightloss pill,slimming teas.
Now I can't take the hunger and migraines again I started eating but my metabolism is messed up so I'm always hungry.
I've put on weight. Ppl have asked me if I'm pregnant,another aunty asked me if I'm on birth control pills making me fat. My mother even suggested I go to clinic that something must be wrong that I'm adding.
I only increased from a size 12 to 14 but the way ppl shame me. I try and eat healthy and i excercise daily but iv only managed to loose 2kg. Struggle is real.
Eyah sorry, I understand your struggle. You can try keto diet with exercise... It is not easy but it is worth it.. Goodluck!
DeleteYou just disturbing yourself, I'm 80kg n wear between 12 n 14, for tops, yet my parents will say I'm not eating well that I'm slim, to them from size 22 is what they n I call fat.
DeleteBb ur own na fuck
DeleteYou're UK14 and people call you fat? That is ridiculous. They must be as thin as a needle if that is the case. Msheww
DeleteNne have you heard of bulimia??? Please go to a clinic for checkup.
DeletePlease take it easy on yourself.
DeleteMehn, I just dey imagine size. 80kg??? Size 12/14 ontop. Bottom nko? 16/18.
DeleteNa when you get belle you go enter 40/44.
Kpele, just dey chop dey go.
No look Uche face jare.
Bb na sperm de follow u
DeleteWe are what we eat abeg, please stop with the excuses.
DeleteI my day job is 12 hours and I don’t consume more than 2000 calories a day and go to the gym about 3 times a week.
The more Eba, fufu, rice, yam, potatoes and bread you eat without exercise, you will gain weight. That’s not rocket science.
Fat people get self conscious and try to play the weight card. Personally I’m too busy to fat shame anyone but get irritated when people always moan about weight.
I understand you because I'm in the same situation. They don't know how it hurts. To lose weight is not easy for some people. I have always been chubby because its an inherited trait but last year I was working in a place where i stood and walked about for 12hrs a day and 6days/week and i lost a lot of weight. By March this year, I got a more or less sedentary job and within 7months i added about 10kg! I started watching my weight when i noticed by skipping dinner and eating little during the day but the weight kept increasing. I didn't have time to exercise because I leave for work around 5am and get home by 8-9pm. I eventually moved closer to my workplace in october, now i exercise for 30mins evry morning, eat little and drink lipton in the mornings yet I'm not seeing results as expected. I only stopped increasing but my weight has been fluctuating between 69-70kg which is still high (BMI is 25point because of my short frame 5ft). Some people say hurtful things like 'stop eating too much", "I can imagine how you will look like when you give birth" "see as you round" etc etc. My weight is the only problem on my mind now. It has affected my social life a lot. I hide from people that i know before, don't attend parties anymore, don't visit friends and family again because of this. In fact I'm not travelling home for Xmas because i dont want to hear all those hurtful comments. And no! it's not hormonal pills because I'm not even active. I have stopped eating as much processed foods as practicable (noodles, pasta, soft drink, pastries, fatty foods, I nearly stopped eating rice too etc). I have researched a lot on this issue and have done online courses yet no improvement. I'm just tired. I think I have metabolic syndrome but how do i solve it?
Delete@kiwi speak for yourself, you may have a fast metabolism. Some people sincerely have a weight issue and consciously have to work at it daily. Iv never been fat, but I have a sister who struggles with her weight but makes an effort to keep it in check. I don't have a problem with big people, we cant all be skinny. I only have a problem if you aren't making any effort thru diet/exercise. Some will never be skinny, but live an active lifestyle and eat well.
Deleteanon 13.49 do you know Blackberry's height or body composition before you start shaming her at 80kg. And you cant even wear size 18 being 80kg. Tahhhh
Delete@Stella, kindly do a post on people who have successfully lost weight plus what they did.
DeleteTruthfully, the more carbs you take the harder it is to lose weight!
Let me break it down for you.
1. Most Nigerian soups are filled with thickners (sic) which are carbohydrates!
2. Most solids eaten with it are serious carbohydrates!
3. We don't even respect portion!
4. We eat much eba, fufu, akpu, pounded yams etc and less of veggies, fish, fruits and mono saturated fat!
Bv, if you truly intend to lose your weight, examine your lifestyle, stop the self pity, visit a therapist and start a life long clean eating habit.
I wish you well!
Ps* I also have slow metabolism which makes me take green tea, pepper soup and light soup to help aid digestion easily and faster*
Please see a dietitian, asap. U cant lose weight by starving yourself. Portion control, whole grains, vegetables,low fat and cholesterol foods, moderate exercise will go a long way
DeleteHey poster,I'm a size 14 too,Iv been BTW 12-14 for a long time now,i do ALOT to take it down cos I come from a BIG family but I havnt gone down to 12 in at least 7years,iv had 2babies in the middle of that too,with the way I walk while shopping ud expect me to be a 10😂😂,I eat healthy and portion food like a 10year old,now I'm on apple cider+ginger+garlic just to maintain the tommy but I'm comfortable in my skin and I know WHAT TO WEAR,the point is,be HEALTY and SMART!!!
DeleteI'm sure she's really hurting, that's why she's complaining. Self love is the best
ReplyDeleteBut calling her fat is definitely not an insult and is not supposed to hurt her feelings because she's actually fat... . It's just like saying the sky is blue or Nigeria is a shithole, both are FACTS! only if they use rude words like hippo or elephant is she allowed to be butt hurt lol.
ReplyDeleteBut those are lovely animals u mentioned
DeleteWhat people don't understand is that fat people are not happy they are fat. Who no like beta,I know because I have been there used to be a size 18 but now a 12 with no drugs. E no easy o
ReplyDeleteI have a friend that is size 16 and she doesn't eat. I'm size 10 and I can say i eat way more than her. And we stay together even since school.
DeleteThis girl will be doing juice cleanse. We all went to Chinese restaurant for a bday she took only juice. Me can't refuse free food I chop all.
As today is thurs,she can fast and say she hasn't eaten solid food since Monday. She joggs on lekki bridge daily. She has only gone from size 18 to 16.
Meanwhile I eat anyhow with junk included and i don't add.
Her family they are all big with big hips. It's not all fat ppl that are lazy and glutton.
Pls aunty what did u do, help a 74kg sister
DeleteAbeg talk ur secret
DeleteThat's right anonymous....hope you do check your cholesterol, blood sugar and all other inner workings. Being slim doesn't make your healthy. My skinny colleague who eats all the kinks in the world is battling with high cholesterol and she's on the borderline of diabetes.
DeletePeople mistake starvation and juice cleanse as a proper way to loose weight. On the contrary, it is the worst way. You are destroying your metabolism and your body will try to protect itself from losing the essential nutrients for surviving by increasing the storage of fat and break down carbohydrates less quickly. This is the nature of body biology.
DeleteYou do more harm than good by starving to lose weight. The best way to sustainably lose weight is to eat everything in minimal proportion suitable for your body (This is where calorie counting comes in for you to first estimate what your body will need to lose/maintain weight). Once you’ve determined what your body needs, you don’t need to actively count calories because you can now mentally estimate it. Then of course you’ve got to exercise/be active (include strength training, it is super helpful and you lose weight faster because it increases metabolism). This way you give your body a wholistic regimen that is sustainable. You won’t binge eat because of starvation or restricting your meals.
These are my method to have remained a size 10/12 UK 🇬🇧 even after having a child too. You just have to really want it to put in the effort. Good luck!
Me dat uses size 12 people are still calling me fat after 2 kids o.yemi alade is a bet bigger Dan me.dis body shaming is real
ReplyDeleteSee i cant be ur fan and not care for ur wellbeing. Hanty you are not fat you are fatterter. And no i aint body shaming u, i am stating the obvious.
ReplyDelete*sips kunu*
Variety is the spice of life, everybody can't be lepa
ReplyDeleteEniola, you are beautiful just the way you are
Is "Fat" A bad word? Just like saying someone is "skinny or lepa". It's just a description like on the big size, orobo, thick etc. If they shame you because of your size that is their headache, most people trolling have miserable lives; but even in the midst of the fat talk I'm sure some of them are speaking from a place of love and concern especially when they know the health challenges that comes with being fat. But the irony is that one can still be slim but not healthy 😞.
ReplyDeleteIt's all good dear. Try and live a healthy life is all that matters. People come in different shapes and sizes and some people are big as a result of one underlying health issue like thyroid disorder but they will think one consumes 10wraps of fufu at a sitting. Na fat you fat, you no kill person.
Eniola you a OK just the way u are.
ReplyDeleteNa fat she fat,she no kill person.make una free am
ReplyDeleteI don't get angry when called LEPA or bonga fish by people because na them get their mouth, I wonder why it bothers you when they call you fat, nor go get HBP because of people mouth o
ReplyDeleteExactly, slim people don't play this body shaming game when they are called lekpa or dry body, but call a fat person fat and the world won't hear a thing..tchewww
Delete15:46 please can we start addressing you with dry body or sicky bones? If it feels good; add it to your name intro
DeleteWith her Size She still Carries Herself well.. Eniola actually looks Sexy o..Eni baby Dnt mind them gutton Mouth,You're Beautiful The way you ARE..
ReplyDeleteHaaaaa, what is sexy about a chin resting on a chest, thunder thighs and penguin arms.
DeleteWhat's sexy about thighs rubbing against each other, excessive sweating and not being able to find pretty clothes your size easily?
You must be all these local Ibo men that like women who look like bread soaked in tea.
I think Eniola is pretty.
Sigh
ReplyDeleteI feel if you have a fasting habit by eating only once a day, you will loose a sizable amount of weight. See,do a 21 days fasting and see if you would not lose weight!
ReplyDelete