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Friday, April 05, 2019

Boredom Eliminating Post


Big question!!......If he lives alone and has prospects of improving his situation and moving to a better place......

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  1. Let me read comment so I can choose one among the sincere ladies here, for na one room me self live hahahahaha....

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    1. The curses are coming, dock!

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    2. Poor men are not loyal,I am looking for a billionaire husband

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    3. That billionaire you are looking at was once a poor man you know. By the way, who told you poor guys aren't loyal? Na them loyal past ooh.

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    4. They are only loyal in poverty cause once dey blow dey turn demons

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  2. #RealLifeStory

    I married one & we moved to a 3-bedroom flat about 2 months after the wedding. And 8 years down the line, i can confidently beat my chest and say, "I MADE THE RIGHT DECISION"....

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    1. I hope say this one no be reallifePhariseeyarns?

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    2. Better pikin na you be. I saw your sister pics the other time, please can I be your in-law?

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    3. @TJ
      How many people you go be them in law?
      You be serial in-law?

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    4. @19:11 I haven't gotten approval from any naa. I am still spreading my net for a catch just like Peter and the disciples did. So I beg you to allow me shot my shoot abi shoot my shot in peace lolz.

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    5. Nor go get chest pain o.

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    6. TJ, do u have taaati billion in ya akant? If yes, then she's yours already, no lele!

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    7. Hahhahaha no mind teejay, him na seria in-law, remember ur Lagos bae is still waiting for u.

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    8. Hey Ron we are in the same Whatsapp group. Lol
      When I met my hubby he was living in a one room in his mother's family house with so many other relatives who share one bathroom and toilet. When I visit him he will take me to bath beside the house by a gutter say around 5am when nobody is awake. If I want to poo I get a bike to a family friends hotel that was nearby. I only bath early hours and late at night when everyone is asleep. I wouldn't stay long sha say three days, a weekend and I'm gone. I was living in a two bedroom flat all alone. I loved him and he loved me more. He kept telling me to hold on it's a phase. One thing I noticed is that he wasn't in a haste to impress me, not like I needed to be impressed anyway.
      Three years later we got married and moved out of there to a tight two bedroom that in a normal circumstance it's not even fit to be a one room apartment. Still I managed. When I had my first child I complained that we needed to move out of that house. The house is so small, no air at all. He said he'll only move from there to his personal house. I laughed.
      Because of work though we don't stay in the same state. He visits us often. So I just let him be since he's like the only person staying in the apartment and we only get there when I'm on annual leave or say a short visit during a festive period or something.
      I bought a car when I had my first child.
      Few months later he bought a car too. Long story short, very soon say in a months time after four years we'll be packing to our own personal house. A three bedroom bungalow and two bedroom for rent all with his money. My one kobo is not inside but everything is in my name. We have two kids now. This post just brought back memories. We were talking about the past last night and I shed tears of joy. It's been God and God alone. He started with a 10th hand Nigerian used Benz, I often teased him that his car is Nokia 3310. If we want to go visit his brother I will say baby let's drive your 3310 you know my IPhone x can't enter that bad road we'llboth laugh. He works haaaarrrddddd mehn. He has upgraded(sells the old and adds money to buy a new) his car three times all C-class. Latest he got in Jan is that sleek one with a sucking key abi wetin them dey call am. We came visiting earlier this week and I've been aching to drive his car mehn. I'm driving tomorrow to nowhere in particular. Lol

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    9. @Oluwa
      Na only you waka come o.
      Wetin I write there na SERIAL

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    10. Wow! More grace to you Ma

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    11. Story of my life,from one bedroom home to a massive four bedroom house now. From trekking all over phcity to owners of two luxury cars 😁😁😁

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    12. 21:21 see how I was smiling reading your comment. Such a nice read.

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    13. Nice read,
      A good person is a good person

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    14. Lucky you Anon 21 :21.

      I won't advise ladies to marry down from my experience.

      Marrying down either turns out very right or very very sour when you find yourself with an egocentric, narcotic man.

      The worst thing that can happen to any woman is when you are paying your bills, your broke husband is evading his responsibilities and leaving it all to you and he still wants to frustrate your soul every way.

      This is why Tonto is so erratic online nowadays. It can so pain.

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  3. Nooo..cos then my parents no live for even two bedroom,but a room n parlor before wedding is a little acceptable, then two bedroom after the wedding @least would still support him financially if need be!

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    1. This ya construction don dey collapse o.
      I read am finish come confuse.

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    2. Me self I am lost. Let me read again.

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    3. Teejay n Anon,I am married that's why I wrote "then".One bedroom is acceptable before wedding cos my parents wouldn't accept a selcon and after it is 2bedroom and would help him financially fr it if need be.

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    4. @Nnezi
      You come confuse me kpata kpata!

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    5. Ok I get you clear now.

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    6. Hahahahaha I don laff tire,mesef confuse kpata kpata..Dietitian Nezz u break the table finish hanhan wot are u writing

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    7. Person go need night vision goggle for this nkutumba

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    8. Dietitian Nezzi
      Dey receive some serious matrimonial legitimacy, her brain no dey work at the moment.

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    9. all these commenters sef. I have laff tire

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    10. Abeg make una no vex..English this season dey hard me to construct, all thanks to pikin.

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    11. @Dietitian
      Leave the innocent pikin alone. You know what you are doing on a Friday night and typing at same time.

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  4. Okay what if his head started to shake, and he started following gang and who are already in the marriage, what principle will you apply here, is to either for better for stay or for worse for go ?

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  5. Yes if and only if its a temporary thing. i love space, being in an enclosed small space messes my psyche.


    BEP by 5pm haba sdk. mai ya faru. ni bangane miki ba fa. yaya kike posting post dawuri haka kwanannan haka?

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  6. Correct yarns Stella, I agree with ya input.
    But Why you dey too find my (friends)Naija girls trouble?
    The wahala be say liver no go gree them send thunder to ya smooth nyansh like they do to my own. Whosai.
    If them send am to ya own, both the comment and the thunder go dissolve like sugar inside water.
    😂😂😂😂😂
    For my Naija girls, anyone wey dey live inside one room na winch! Any persin wey suggest make them marry am
    na senior winch. 😉😉
    But them go go even to half room collect fork o, collect pay join. 😆😆😆😆😆

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    1. Mtcheeeew

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    2. @19:07
      I don see ya first sneering.
      Waiting for ya second comment as usual inugo?

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  7. Ajuju nke uwa...😕😕😕😕😕😕

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    1. Ajuju n' ese okwu be say, you go fit marry persin wey live for one room?

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  8. Only for a year.

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  9. I cannot abeg.. Let him suffer his suffer alone, I CANNOT live my mothers duplex to go live struggling because I want to form Mrs love.... I cannot marry down abeg.

    LEP

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    1. @Toto chopper
      Sic. spanner
      I cannot LEAVE my mother's duplex

      Okay so after you leave come go marry "up" one dude like that
      You still continue to dey chop toto aside?
      Na only ajuju n' ese okwu I ask o.

      Wetin happen to ya ID?

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    2. Na your type de reach 40yrs and single... ask Riri how far

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  10. Stella I live in one room already I don't even have a girl friend so me am just managing my life jeje..

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    1. Correct guy. I bet you must have save a lot for yourself. Keeping a woman isn't an easy task lolz.

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    2. You should have used your id. Not tomorrow now you go to S&M, and claim Mansion in Lekki.

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    3. Teejay,not all women please.

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    4. @Etsako
      It's all Naija women

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  11. yes I can if he has prospect and I have something doing too. so both of us must bring something to the table in the nearest future

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    1. Sealord aka Ibadan to Sokoto how far ?

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  13. Lol when he came to my father's house, did he see me in a one bedroom apartment? Abeg I no fit. There are some things I cannot just manage, I have passed that level.

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    1. tohh but if you love him. U support him codedly to upgrade nah.

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  14. When I met my husband he was unemployed managing his own barbing saloon and living in one room...I didn't see it as a big deal because he's hard work...By God's grace he left Nigeria and saved up to bring me here to Europe , we stayed in one room where I have birth to my two kids...Now we both have our permanent residence,kids are doing fine and we have our own mortgage and houses in Nigeria...So ladies all that glitters now are not good..

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    1. Wow. All that glitters ain't truly gold 👌 .

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    2. Will they learn from this comment? I hope they do.

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    3. *all that glitters is not gold. I'm not shaming U dear, just want U to be aware..

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    4. sic. spanner
      He is HARD WORKING
      Where I GAVE BIRTH
      We both have our Permanent Residence cards
      We pay mortgage in our own house
      All that glitters is NOT GOLD

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    5. Anon 18:53.
      That's obviously a typo error.

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    6. I'm sorry for the typos....I just want to share my own journey with someone...What matter is a God fearing man, Stop chasing after swag especially if you come from humble background....Thank you friends

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    7. Good yours turned out well. Its not everyone that can say same. My mom struggled with her so called husband and sold all kinds of things from buns to biscuits to anakra to help but once he saw money he changed and started following women, he's currently with his new gf and has packed from the house

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  15. Yaba left escapee5 April 2019 at 18:32

    I once pranked a chick that wanted to visit me, i made her believe in live in one small room and share bathroom n kitchen with 2 other ppl...
    Her response was "It better be in lekki or VI sha

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    1. One bedroom too get level. A one bedroom in VI or Lekki is different from a one bedroom in Mushin.

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    2. Tessbaby, you de this blog at all? Yabaleft is male

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  16. Can only be acceptable only if he has the intention of moving out to a more comfortable place after the wedding.
    A man that wants to wife somebody's daughter should be financially ready for it, please if you ain't buoyant enough don't think about marriage for now. Go hustle.

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    1. Dont mind them.....they always expect too much from ladies nah. Abeg theres something called standard. Besides where ajebo pikin wan meet man wey dey live inside one room???

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    2. of course he will have the intention nah..

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  17. In lekki or banana abi na ogede island big YEs

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  18. I would agree to marry him,but we would get a two or three bedroom apartment before the wedding. So we can move in few days to the wedding or after it. If i have to support i wont mind.

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  19. Yes as far as his head game is superb

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    1. @Blessed Princes
      Na so you go dey collect head fork ooo sote you go collect curses plenty.
      And you come dey answer that Pharisee name eh?

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    2. Till them bite ur clit comot. B like u n suffer relate.

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    3. Beg for money sotey beg for head join, hope u don't have a smelly pu

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  20. If it is a room apartment with its own toilet , bathroom and kitchen, I can manage it BUT he must have a good and steady income.

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  21. Legally blonde5 April 2019 at 18:54

    A self contain in V.I goes for 500k... Thats like a two bedroom apartment in some states

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    1. See as you actively dodge the question eh?

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  22. I won't get married to him and move into the one room, I'd rather add to what he has so that we can move into a mini fiat.

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  23. If he is hard working and has prospects. And also responsible.

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    1. @Too blessed
      Okwa working very HAAAAAAAARD?

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    2. Anonymous taaahhh zuzu from my comment

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    3. I no go call you that Pharisee name again as you don curse me.
      "taaahhhh zuzu from..." = common get away from...you fool
      As you don dey curse me, na confirm Pharisee you be so.

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    4. lmao... this smooth nyansh anon is cracking me up badly tonight...

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  24. what does he need more than one room for when he is single?

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    1. Hahahaha... Thanks for spilling away my zobo with this comment of yours.

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  25. I married him in a room face me I slap you from there to 2bed when we were expecting our first child, we are ten years in marriage with 3 adorable kids in our own house.
    To God be thy glory

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    1. If you hear in our own house na unpainted unplastered oo

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  26. I did. And over time we have moved from a one bedroom apartment to a two to a three to a four bedroom. I've never regretted it.

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  27. My people, I got married to a man that lives in garage turned to a room wt only stove n kitchen stuff,then one inche form....stood by him,we built a 3bedroom bungalow, then a 5bedroom duplex wt 4children...whn it ws almost ready,oga came up wt d story that is parent went to a church n d pastor said I wnt to kill my husband n take over his property blabla.na so they push me commot...after many attacks to kill me.I had to return to square one..none of my girls will marry poor man

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  28. I did...I agreed because I know he's hard working.By God's grace, we moved into a three bedroom flat two days after our wedding.

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  29. Yes I can, if I see a better future in him

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  30. Nope, never again will i even consider any men i make more money than. I will never look at a man who at least does not own a house and cars, travels abroad and can afford to gift me presents and holidays abroad as i do for myself. I married an ingrate who i helped become a millionaire and started acting up till he went to cheat on me with a small school girl. After my divorce, i still dated 2 guys who were unemployed and i was helping asi believed true love can only come from people with humble beginning, again they had to turn out to be ingrate. I have now taken the decision to date only wealthy men, i am currently with one who does not just respect me but spoiled me silly without me lifting a finger. I make good money, but never will i be with a man i am richer than. Ladies, men have changed,,,they used to be loyal but this generation of men have become lazy and unappreciative. Shine your eyes...i don't even consider remarrying but if it comes from a rich man, i will.

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    1. mem! men! men!.. why are these men spoiling our humble name nah

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    2. This is my first time commenting and I will say I wil NOT men are not loyal. Once they have money they feel they are better than you not just celebrities dumping their first wives but most of us know someone it has happened to so it’s more frequent than you think.
      I don’t know any woman in the bible that did that.

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  31. What is good for the geese might not be good for the ganders. Some guys will get married as a poor man and they will still stay in poverty for the rest of their lives. I will have to go to check the guy's prospect before I pack to the single room.No condition is permanent but some people's condition remain permanent for the rest of their lives.

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    1. Check the prospect for where? Hope its not on Africa Google

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  32. I will never date a guy that lives in a 1 bedroom apartment.I have been humble and had the mentality of let's build together and what did it amount to?I have dated a guy that a friend was squatting but later realise that he is highly irresponsible.He later went into drug business and did not graduate from school with the mentality that he cannot do a 9-5pm job.He squandered the money from the drug business on buying irrelevant things and went on drinking spree with his useless friends.I am a hardworking lady and the stupid guy was always collecting money from me. I even borrowed money on his behalf at a point.Afterwards,one of his guys was caught at the Airport and I was even the one that saw the guy televised on National TV.My guy ran into hiding and was running from one place to another.He went back to status quo and was living from hand to mouth.I had to dump his sorry ass and moved on with my life.He later went into Yahoo full time and married one young naive girl but called me out of the blues one day,asking for money that he could barely feed his family.I blocked him and told me I don't have money and that I have got my issues.


    Secondly,I dated another guy that lived in a 1 room apartment with the belief that he is hardworking and we will build our home together but what did I get in return?Let me not bore you with my story of woes.I have been unfortunate in relationships with this good girl mannerism but I have stopped dating for a long time.I have worked very hard to get the kind of life I want.God forbid I date a man in a 1 room apartment cos I don't even live in a 1 room apartment.Enough of the stupidity and the mistake I made in the past.I have given my life genuinely to Christ and has stopped dating for over 2 years now.I have peace and joy in my life and nothing can be compared to the peace that I have now.

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    1. hmm.. well, experiences like this could lead to catastrophic depression and lost of self esteem.. am happy you came out better.. yoh inspiring

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    2. Awww, I'm so happy for you dear

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  33. Yes if he has a bright future.

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  34. I met My husband while he was squinting with a family after he lost his one room apartment at that point the journey of marriage began
    Twelve years later we live in our own house here ph, with other landed property to our name and village building going on

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    1. No be small 'squinting',em eye they pain am?

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  35. No, but that's because I am claustrophobic. I am an Ox I need lots of space around me. I love land and wide open spaces.

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  36. my husband was staying in a room apartment when we got married. the blessing of marriage is rubbing on us and we have moved to a better place..

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  37. YES! I did marry my husband while he was living in a room. Then moved to a flat when pregnant for our second child. We have built a house now. Nobody knows tomorrow.

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