Good Morning All,
Happy hustle free day to those not working and happy hustle day to those working today...
BV Eka Joy Congrats as you distribute your lovely wedding invitation,I am so happy that the count down has began,you will make a beautiful bride.
Cant wait to see you walk down the Aisle in that Beautiful wedding dress eeeeeeeh.
Congrats to all BVs getting married today...May your Joy be an endless one.
Kisses to you All
Good morning and a happy weekend to us all
ReplyDeleteWishing all the best to bv Ekajoy. Also our lovely SnM couple that got married and was featured in IHN, may God bless your union abundantly.
DeleteJust went through Friday night post,anon with girls my 💓 breaks,how can a man be so heartless,I have 3 girl's,I and hubby appreciate them.
ReplyDeleteAnytime I birth my kids always bring an open door,those girls Will make you proud.
How Can a man treat his wife like a nobody????
Your own kid.God will bless those children.they will never bring you sorrow.
So sorry women who are hurting as a wife or mother.may God help you all.
A beautiful life does not just happen. It is built daily by prayers,humility,sacrifice and hardwork.
ReplyDeleteGood morning and happy Saturday!
Happy married life E ka Joy,I wish you bliss
Stella please post.
Deletemy sister inlaw came to my shop to pick something for her husband(my brother)
A week later I ask her for my money..she said your brother never give me o.
He said he will chat you up.
It was not my brother that came to my shop. I was angry and suprised.
Please bvs how do I handle the issue?
dont drag the money to avoid quarell,just keep waiting until they give u but in the mean time,if she tries it again,give her a sound warning and refuse.....Why are you even selling on credit?letting family do this is the quickest way to kill your business,,dont try it again.....
DeleteI know it is hard but don't drag the money. If they pay or not next time don't give them on credit.
DeleteCredit kills business fast. mind the way you sell on credit, if possible don't sell on credit.
But the money is big.Wont ask again.
DeleteWhy I sell on credits Sometimes no sales.
Thanks alot Stella and chike😘
Good morning and a happy weekend to us all....congrats Eka Joy. God bless your new home.
ReplyDeleteHello, BVs.
ReplyDeleteI studied medicine for 6 years and I'm looking to do a masters in Canada, anything health-related.
Can you suggest what options there are, and what universities offer them?
Also, any places to read or practice the IELTS exam?
Thank you.
Check out Ieltsonline practice test and you can download apps on Ielts too
DeleteInformation you can very easily search for online🙄 Some of you ehn...
DeletePublic health is sweet
Delete"I need help! Only married women turns me on..they are my fantsay.. I have lashed a couple of them but sometimes my conscience pricks me.."
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I read the above comment this morning when I opened the Friday night post and decided to drop few words to the poster and hope he sees it. First, I must applaud your feelings of guilt over your act, it shows you truly know the evil you are doing and want a stop. Having say this, I won't judge or condemn you but advice you in love.
Nothing good has ever come out of sleeping with a married woman. Most men do it for material gains and some do it for pleasure. One thing very sure is that, it doesn't end well no matter how rosy it looks at the beginning.
Secondly, it robs you of a good destiny. A clear warning from the Bible on the marriage institution is that, what God had join together, let no man put asunder. If Joseph didn't flee from Portiphar's wife, he wouldn't have been great in life. Would you love to trade your destiny on the alter of sexual gratification? No matter how successful those who engage on this act thinks they are, truth is that, they will be stagnated. For such acts breed curse upon those that indulge in it. In fullness of time they will understand what they did to themselves.
Finally, would you want the wife you will marry to treat you so with a younger man? Or will you be happy to see a little boy having affairs with your mom. PLEASE STOP NOW!!! Ask God for forgiveness and to be delivered from that demons influencing your thoughts and acts. Don't go back to that bed again. Develop strong hatred towards that and see God blesses you. It won't be easy but YES you can do it. Engage yourself productively including your mind.
Shalom!!!
Two signs of not knowing your worth,
ReplyDeleteYou settle and you tolerate
Know your worth
Don't ever settle for less.
Good morning
That sisi wey dey take long stroll with him naija boy for Friday NP. Dey take the stroll with caution. Fear naija boys o. You better becareful. Of course u don tell us d tin wey dey totori u...him don kiss u last night,now u no go fit sleep,chop, hustle,wake up sef. Because of sweet kiss wey naija boy give u. Wowza!
DeleteIf u like go scatter leg for fork...naija boys no dey ever say no to fork...so u know. After that he moves to the available then na u go come send Stella internal memo ✍.
Goooodmorning people.
ReplyDeleteToday is saturday,wonder why i just had to wake up so early..have a lovely saturday
Yes o, thank Gof for a work-free day.
ReplyDeleteCongrats Eka Joy. God bless your home.
Happy weekend everyone.
*Thank God
DeleteEka Joy Happy married life and to all BVs getting married.May God bless you all..and if you know someone getting married, help with all your heart and treat it like its your day..It comes with a lot of blessings..Trust me..@Allure i hope you got my message yesterday. God bless you BVs..
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha
DeleteI'm not getting married today oh but thanks in advance
Holla !!!!!!!
ReplyDelete7 days rain continues, I thought by now the rainy season will be over o, can't wait for harmattan jare .
Have a nice day everyone.
Happy Saturday guys 👋🏿
ReplyDeleteI feel like partying today, no friends at all.
Good morning from the ancient City of Benin Kingdom! it's a rainy Saturday morning here! Stella, How are you doing? How's hubby and your boys?Thank you for this blog.
ReplyDeleteDomo Ma or Sir
DeleteAwwww Eka joy it's almost here. Congrats girl.
ReplyDeleteSaturdays are for weddings. Time to get the face beat to oblivion. They must collect today.
Give them
DeleteHahaha. I like this interaction..
DeleteCongratulations BV Eka Joy, happy card sharing.
😆@ they must collect
DeleteCongratulations Eka Joy
DeleteGood morning beeveeleons🤗🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for the messages.
May we all have the strength to face our daily struggles in Jesus name.🙌🙌
Happy W3kend oo... Feeling lazy to go out sef..
Kisses and hugs to everyone of you. I miss you
ReplyDeleteFake generals wife!
DeleteIssa lie! you are not her,! and can never be her. you are looking for five minutes Fame right. enjoy it!
DeleteLongest time? Welcome back.
DeleteThe general cheated on his wife, she divorced him and returned to Persia..
DeleteGood morning all. Congrats Eka Joy.
ReplyDeleteWow! Congrats Eka Joy. Happy weekend everyone.
ReplyDeletecongrats on your upcoming nuptial Eka joy 🔥🔥🔥
ReplyDeleteInstead of worrying so much over our problems, why don't we pray with faith,trust God and chill.
Na to trust God and chill I dey now. I am just too tired...
DeleteGood morning and happy weekend.
ReplyDeleteGood morning to us all.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations in advance to Ekajoy, may God uphold the day.
Barely 24 hours the onitsha fire incident happened, 3 girls working in a motel have been burnt to death.
ReplyDeleteThey didn't get customers for the night and their 'madam'locked them up and left for her house. Fire started in the early hours of yesterday morning and rescuers couldn't get in and the girls couldn't get out because they were locked from outside. The cause of the fire haven't been ascertained yet. I pray they charge this "madam" for murder!!!! 😑😑😑😑
OMG!!!
DeleteWhere did this happen?
DeleteI forgot to add, it happened here in nnewi 😩😩😩
DeleteOh my God. This is sad
DeleteOh no! This is wickedness na. People's children...
DeleteOh my God!
DeleteEka Joy baibay. Congratulations sis.
ReplyDeleteGod uphold you two. Happy weekend everyone.
Peace & love ✌️
So I did something really crazy, I violated a traffic law and as the Latsma approached me I had to think fast, I flashed my boobs.the man's eyes were like torchlights and he quickly let me go.
ReplyDeleteSharp girl 😂
DeleteOshey Baddest!!! Girl Power!!
DeleteNa wa o. Weldone great thinker
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👍❤️
DeleteHnmmmm
Deleteu will pay for this.
DeleteI worked for Lasma and I will get u.
You no even Sabi spell where you dey work. Olodo worker
DeleteGet her, how, under Anno. See her here now... Oya arrest! Mtchewwww
Delete😂😂😂😂
DeleteHa! This blog
You have no self respect, continue flashing everywhere, what if you were dragged somewhere and raped? No sense at all
DeleteThese are the sort of people that think running to Canada will solve their life's problems when they themselves are the problem.
DeleteNormalcy? myslf and my wife was having the issue for two, she was at fault but thou she apologized to me but deep inside me I just wana for oga small nao.. to avoid her for the whole of this week menhh this lady sexiness won't make me thing straight for once. Just yesterday I was about leaving for office she was like"J.. we need to talk something " i resp... hey darling later pls dnt just start suddenly she position her ass on that doggy style intentionally and pretends she doesnt know i wàs still standing there goshhh how will I take off my mind on this Benz curve ass this morning I said to myslf noo this lady hold my mumu button. I never thought of cheating for once cause WE I GET FOR HOUSE DO ME.
ReplyDeleteGoodmorn Stella D......
Lol...enjoy bare.no go get low soerm count o
DeleteDrop the want to be the man and enjoy your wiffy.
Deletecongrats eka joy
ReplyDeleteThank u Stella, thanks everyone, e for no bad if some lovely Bvs attend us. It would make my day.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Joy. I'm so happy for you. I love Love
DeleteCongrats babe, I wish you all the best as you plan towards it...
DeleteCongratulations Eka.
DeleteCongratulations to you in advance. May your marriage be a blessing.
DeleteI don't mind an invite.
Congrats!
DeleteCongratulations to you Eka Joy, God will perfect it for you.
DeleteOnly one person so far wants to attend. Majority prefer to say congrats and move on. A good character is a good thing.
DeleteI wish I had planned to come home for xmas, I would have gate crashed your wedding.
DeleteI want to attend eka😁. Congrats dear. Anon stop trying to bring her down.
DeleteI no dey lagos. I for attend wella.
DeleteEka,is the wedding in Lagos? I'd love to attend
DeleteOh! I so so love weddings,send me an invite if you don't mind😘😘😘😘
Congrats on your upcoming nuptials.
DeleteYou people, rice na. Rice oh.
ReplyDeleteRice is a big problem
Awww...now I know why you have been talking about the rice issue. Don't worry God will provide.
Deletecongratulations as the day approaches.
Very expensive something.... God will provide.
DeleteMy husband has been taking care of me and our 3kids for the past 6years without a single complaint,we are his everything.However,he is very lavish with money,he spends carelessly and always in debt.I complained and it usually caused issues between us,so I stopped and let him.I got a job recently and I need advise on how to contribute meaningfully towards the family and also have some savings without him feeling I'm being partial.He is controlling as I remember how he used to make me spend my salary in two weeks when I was working before now(early in our marriage) .If I dont spend the money as he wanted,the house will be so uncomfortable for me till I give in.I had no single savings.I dont want that to repeat itself and I also dont want to hurt his feelings.He has been amazing these past 6years.What do I provide in the house,which areas should I channel my resources to?
ReplyDeleteDon’t tell him how much You earn
DeleteIf you must tell him how much you earn sis tell him half of the real figure o
DeleteAh! You married a man that doesnt understand planning. Hmm... I feel bad for you. This thing called marriage eh.
DeleteMadam, explain to him that you people cant be spending like that when you have children and a future to build. Let his money be for spending and yours for saving. This isnt a way to live at all
* I later grabbed that Benz curved ass before leaving for work, blessed it well and she moan if she was forgiven? and I said yeah bb
ReplyDeleteSabi man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteA church member gave birth yesterday after about 10 years of childlessness to a bouncing baby boy. I was just screaming Jesus upandan when I heard. Truly, nothing is impossible with God. Good morning people
ReplyDeleteWowww congrats to them.
DeleteThank God for her
DeleteGreat God! Congrats to them.
DeleteWho did it, JESUE.....
DeleteCongratulations to your church member.
Great God!! HE can be TRUSTED!! Congratulations to her. See goose bombs over me reading this.. Wow!!! God is ever faithful
DeleteEverything written about HIM is great🙌🙌
DeleteCongratulations Eka Joy, may all plans go smoothly.
ReplyDeleteMy best days are here; Saturday and Sunday. I need maximum rest yo!
I'm still lounging in bed and thinking of what to eat for breakfast, in craving boiled plantain and just palm oil mixed with salt😏😏😏. Omo oko like me.
Gud morning from this part of the world, have a lovely and fun filled day.
ReplyDeleteAny bv in warri going for party? abeg make I be ur hand bag.Thank you.
ReplyDeleteI need some information please. I want to visit MFM prayer city that I’ve heard so much about from this blog. I plan to go alone for 2-3 days. My concerns are safety, security n accommodation. I know they provide accommodations but are they nice? I need my luxury: AC, hot water, comfy bed, clean sheets, a toilet that flushes and a general feel of good hygiene. I don’t want to share either. The prices I saw were about 7k but considering it’s only for 3 days I would rather go up in price. Personally, I don’t think there’s a price tag for safety. Any advice????
Madam is it prayer u are going for or u dey go vacation? I doubt u will get AC and all those stuff u mentioned o.u are going to seek for something, u have to leave ur comfort zone n suffer ur flesh.
DeleteAs for security it is guaranteed.
no make up.
Deletedress decently
white fasting .
den no born the battle well.
I was there in july, i stayed in the" general" hostel and it was ok and clean. Just go there on a monday morning and make enquiries about the "comfy" apartment you want. You must go fasting. They do weekend deliverance too, but they usually announce the particular weekend cos its not all the weekends.
Deletebeter know and focus onwhat you are going for. This one you are looking for extreme comfort, na wa ooo
DeleteIf you have attachments in your hair, remove them. No jewlry and your clothing should cover you well. Also have stuff to cover your hair like scarfs or caps. No makeup too.
DeleteIt depends on the room.
DeleteWe were 4 in mine and there was an AC, a fan and a water heater.
Some rooms are for two people and some for one.
These all have AC and and all.
It was very affordable.
You should call the room reservation hotline if you'd like a single room. So you don't get there and they're all booked up.
It happened to me. So, call ahead.
ReplyDeleteBVs
Please give me your thoughts on this issue.
I stopped talking to my sister because she talked down to me in public. She’s older by 8 years. I spoke to her privately that I didn’t like how she talked to me instead of apologizing she insulted me even more. I gave her a piece of my mind, times two. We said a lot of nasty things to each other. We have not spoken since then. It has been 2 weeks. Truth is I have no regrets. I’m actually happy n relieved. Before, I walked on eggshells around her. Everything I did needed correction. Always calling me on errands. Do this do that, now I’ve put an end to all that. And, boy am I HAPPY. Problem is, I feel guilty.
It’s a close nit family with other siblings, now, when we have family gatherings we don’t say a word to each other. If my mom was alive she wouldn’t be happy. Family is family, right? But, what if family is toxic nau? Mind you we’re not kids oooo. Over 40. She does come thru in a big sister way when her support is needed (not financial). But for how long will I allow her to treat me so disrespectfully in the name of family sticking together.
Is good u put her in her place. At least even if u guys reconcile, she will learn to talk to u with respect. For now let her be.
DeletePlease apologise to her, did you say older than you by 8 years? I am not in support of how she talks to you and it's ok you aired your reservations about it but please reach out to her and make peace.
DeleteFamily should always stick together and you said you mum wouldn't be happy...if there is anyone you should learn to forgive easily it's family though it is not always easy.
The way you reacted would put a check on her attitude towards you henceforth. Please make peace with her, it doesnt make you weak or less of yourself but actually the bigger person.
Till you receive a call that shes dead and you'll forever regret the hurtful things you said despite who was wrong.. Reach out to her, keep it cordial and love her from afar.. one adv of being the bigger person in most relation/friendships is that you get to decide the terms or dynamics of the relation/(friend)ship going forth.
DeleteApologise to her for what? So that it will give her the impetus to continue to disrespect her? Even if She s older than her by 20 years, it stop doesn't give her the right to talk to her rudely in public. Anyway I guess the way igbos view respect is different from the way otherwise other tribes view it. Respect is earned not given as a mater of course irrespective of your nasty behaviour! Poster pls give your siste gap dir now. Gteet her when you see her and dont dusrrspect her but maintain your space until she learns thst you are an adult and treat you as one.
DeleteWhen ya'll have cooled down apologise so that you can be at peace, then maintain a certain distance so she doesn't have easy access to abuse you.
DeleteMake sure you put boundaries in place after you both reconcile.
DeleteHello
DeleteDO NOT APOLOGISE to her. Ehen? Big sister by 8 years doesn't know her kid sister is grown? I have a sister who is younger than me by less than 2 years and I dare not try that. Leave her, she will cool down and treat you with reciprocal respect soon. Sometimes you need to take drastic decisions for a message to be understood. The way you were talking about it, it didnt sink in. Now that you have given her space, it will sink in.
Don't forget she has taken the place of mom.
DeleteReligion has killed more in Nigeria than HIV.
ReplyDeleteA family friend lost his daughter yesterday during child labour because a particular church today her she will give birth like a hilbrew woman.
She had her two precious kids through cs
So sad. May she rest in peace.
DeleteStella most naija boys these days no wan work again. They are just after big chicks who will look after them for life.
ReplyDeleteA naija boy will add naija babe on snm and the first thing na 'sweety where do you work'. Them go ask if she dey stay alone or with papa. Their target na if she stays alone, so that them go dey get where to sleep and chop better food and fork fork.
Some naija boys go dey dig for gold reach abroad. Any babe wey mistakenly open mouth say she lives and works in the abroad na so their 'weapon of mass discharge' go rise like yeast. Naija boys no dey take ear hear say babe dey stay for abroad o.
e get one gist wey i hear yesterday, I go bring una the gist.
ANB signing in.
😂😂😂😂
DeleteNgwanu! Osetigo! ANN here he come😁😁😁
DeleteWhat is ANB?
DeleteAnyway you are very right.
ANG ifugo ?
DeleteNaija boys go give their wives belle for baby girls but go still run comot for house.
ReplyDeleteWhy? Naija boy say wife too dey born girls girls full for house.
Naija boys need to be educated that their 'weapon of mass shootings' is the power house for both sexes.
Thank God, I have this knowledge...my wife can never feel bad.
ANG come and see your alter ego oooo!
Delete😂😂😂@ Kami
DeleteLmao. This one na for naija boyz in da hood
DeleteCongratulations Joy, may God bless the marriage. I wish you all round success in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteThank you Father for a new day.
Something quite shocking happened to me yesterday. I feel disgusted even typing. The traffic yesterday evening was so so terrible. I was walking briskly but had to slow down because there were lots of people walking too and traders normally bring their wares close to the road in the evenings thereby making movement much slower because of the cars. People walking were really much and cars were not moving because of ‘go slow’. All of a sudden I felt a hand Brush my thigh( yes I felt it even tho I was wearing dress. At first I told myself the possibility of bodies touching is high as people are walking in close proximity and ‘go slow” is not helping but when he did it again, I felt a chill to my spine. I turned around and I thank God, because even tho there was so many people, something pointed out that there he is. He is the one! I am not violent by nature but I just kept slapping him (I cannot count how many times, on his face) He kept saying sorry sorry sorry! It was a mistake. Na only touch. Which made me even more angry! Even to this morning my skin crawls!
ReplyDeleteWhat if it was actually a mistake???
Delete👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Delete👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
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Good for you
Well handled
Better slaps sef! Pervert! Mtchewww
DeleteGood you slapped him..He is next life he wont try it..Boomboclat
DeleteI feel so gratified that you were able to identify and slap the motherfu*k*r. Idiot rapist!
DeleteEka joy, did you not read where she wrote when he did it again?
DeleteEka Joy. It was not a mistake! The second time confirmed it bcos his hand got a little higher up my thigh than the first! I take false accusations seriously!( those who know me will attest to this.Thanks everyone! I seriously do not know where the strength came from. I am not a violent person. May God protect the female gender from perverts and predators!
DeleteGood morning All. Please, where can I download this song; "singing* Jesus obu otua k'idi eh odighi onye di ka gi, ihe gi atogbuo m oo daddy idi ka nmanu añu" Or get the full lyrics? Thanks in hopes I'm getting a reply
ReplyDeleteIsn't that the full lyrics you just recited?
DeleteWow... Joy! Happy marriage Life in advance. May all things work out according to the plans
ReplyDeleteOlorun a mu ojo ro o!
Anon that song was by Blessed Samuel.i have it in my phone..so love that song.
DeleteI am really depressed right now no boyfriend at 27,three refusals by the Uk and Us embassy with filmsy excuses in a month,my parents are on my neck for a husband,no friends or extended family,I really don't blame people who commit sucide loneliness is enough reason to.
ReplyDeleteAre you living your life for your parents? Trust in God and let Him direct you.
DeleteFirst and foremost, the money you’re wasting on embassy, use that money to move the hell out of your parents house! If they continue to bother you, tell them straight up not to pressure you!! What’s wrong with some of these parents self! If they continue to pressure you, do not pick up their calls for some time so that way they know you’re serious! Move out and get one roommate if you don’t want to live alone but you shd move out of that stressful environment. Step out of your comfort zone first and start socializing around people. Join social clubs or groups or even church activities. Then gradually open up enough to make friends first! With time, you’ll develop enough confidence and men will see the confident and fun person you are. And before you know it, you’re in a relationship (date first pls). But you’ve got to step out of your comfort zone and work on your self esteem because it’s low! Goodluck.
DeleteSmh
DeleteDistraught this morning over here is an understatement.
ReplyDeleteSpent some hours in a spot yesterday on my way to work, had to make a detour through oregun and met a worse off 5hour gridlock. Finally got home and 6hours from midnight the rain was pouring still, what did I see in the middle of my room by noon, a flash of a lightning, I dodged it sha and it hit a smart TV and sparks were heard. That's how the filaments got destroyed, lightning kwa? In this home? And the TV won't come on?
Anyway the surveyors are here and are getting it hot with DH. You don't charge so much on a property review and come 6 years after saying it's not fully earthed, there's partial erosion,it's not running on TT System, bla bla on top how much? The 2 Insurance guys are smiling sheepishly, I wonder why?
Everyone is out of the house so they're at it and we may have to relocate for some days for proper earthing. I dey inside motor dey para. Mtscheewww!
My condolences to all those mourning their loved ones and property loss, those in the hospitals and those who don't wish to wake up the next days.
My father in law lost a 28 year old 4 storey building, partially burnt but it's a chaff so definitely it's gonna go down.
It is well!
And to whoever responsible for all the burning fire rituals, God is watching.
Fire at Ochanja that started at 12:45 pm got no assistance from Asaba, Awka and Owerri fire departments till midnight? Do Onitsha residents need to move around with their personal fire extinguishers?
Una weldone.
We know the dirty game. That street 80% of the structures are owned by Idemmili landlords, bring that game, they're ready for you all.
Unu amaro di ka fa si kwado!
For Lagos traffic, it wouldn't be a bad idea if resumption time is moved to 10am because it's no longer funny. Deduct some utility allowances but hey to be punctual we may all have to be leaving the home at 4am, the whole Lagos seems jinxed.
What wobbish!
Happy weekend to y'all o jare.
MY neighbor leaves home 4;20,4;30;4;50 at d most and get home 11pm at d earliest.
DeleteOshe Ochanja area is owned mostly by Idemimil traders and trust them with LAND GRABBING, anyways sorry about what happened to u , it can only get better we hope
I haven't seen Mon to fri in my house since April.
DeleteI work in VI and live off Governor's Road at Ikotun u won't believe taking off by 5am getting to work is some minutes before 9.
I had to squat in my younger brother's flat for the week then go home to my wife and kids for weekend. Monday morning I move.
I campaigned for APC without looking back, the insults I face at work is unimaginable.
Good morning everyone! Good morning Stella,just reading SP this morning! Eka Joy my dear happy married life to you! Congratulations to a new beginning! Hope we fit attend your wedding I no mind!
ReplyDeleteIf u are in lagos and would really like to attend, pls send me a mail. It would be my pleasure to have you
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