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Saturday, December 21, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

Oh Dear......







STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
A STORY TO LEARN FROM....



Stella I please I will like to share my bitter experience with the younger ones.


Stella I have not only disappointmented my parents but everyone, I am 46 years old now and I long to have my own husband, all my shakara has put me in shame.....


 I will go straight, I was so full of myself and wanted a self made man, I turned down all the guys that came to me because I felt they were not my match, BTW the ages of 23/27,i was hot cake, the more guys were trooping to date me the more I grew strong shoulders, I still didn't find that particular spec.


By age 29,i changed my mind when it downed on me that 4 DPs on my status are the guys that had asked me out, one that looked like bonga fish had grown big and cute. 

I started seeing family pics of so many of them, I changed my mind and waited for them but I started getting love interest from married men only, I was 37 and no single guy came to me, OK I want broke guys but none came, only older ones, I clocked 40...still only married men that want me to be their 2 or 3 wife, I declined. 


But now 46,i met a divorcee, very rich, but Stella this guy is mercilessly stingy, he is stingy to himself, he doesn't buy clothes, shoes etc for himself, he has a hearbeating account balance. 


I am very independent but my fear is how will I deal with this, I love him.. He has 5 kids and I don't, menopause caught up with me, I have 2 adopted kids. 


Stella please is this man sane? Why is he not spoiling himself? So my dear young sisi, please you see that guy you love but he is broke, pls go for him and build, under 2 years not only will both of you grow in wealth but that cutie and muscles will pop up.
I know I fucked up big time.



WOW.......but why are you still worried about money or not?seems you have not learnt your lesson!
Menopause caught up with you already?WOW!!!

108 comments:

  1. Please manage his stinginess cos I believe you must have made your own money by now. 5kids? Just waaaaoh

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    1. My dear, it's not by force to marry. I wish someone had told me this at a younger age. Some of us are meant to come to this life, have money and kids but no husband. No matter what you are feeling now,it will be WORSE when you marry the wrong man that will use that menopause to insult you. you better be grateful and face your kids. It's not by force o.

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    2. Which kind yeye story to learn from? Must u marry? So ure settling for a grand stingy man just cos ure old? Not like ure in a hurry to birth ur kids, menopause already set in n u already adopted two kids so watsup with this nonsense. Not like uncle is even gonna help u train ur kids. Uve made mistakes fine, dont kill ursef over it or place urself in a more regrettable situation. This MRS title isa serious something indeed.

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    3. You're 46 and @29 you were checking your friends status how?almost 20yrs ago! What SM app is/was that?

      This story was sent in by a stupid Nigerian man. All they know is taunt women with age&marriage. You must be chyking some girl that has refused to give your brok ass a chance,so you decided to send this trash in. Anupam!

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    4. Tessbaby,thank you for your comment.

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    5. Hope you guys know the story is made up, when you were 29, dp on your status, and you are 46 now, come on, 17 years ago, was there even whatsapp then let alone status, just thinking sha

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    6. Annon 20.49 ๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š no need for long talk again.

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    7. Anon 20:49, my thoughts exactly. Dp 17 years ago?๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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  2. This is seriously serious.
    God will answer everybody.

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  3. U summarized this write up well

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  4. So sorry ma'am, you said the truth. I'm glad I married my husband even though there are times he misbehaves but even his mum will remind him of where we started.

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  5. Chaiiiii. Beauty is truly fleeting. I'm glad you've adopted already. If you wanna marry the stingy guy do it bcos you want companionship not bcos of his money or kuku remain single without getting married.
    I always tell single ladies to pick one guy when they have a lot of suitors begging them for marriage. That's when God has ordained for you and once you've missed it,it will take the grace of God to get it right. Some that later married late some are lucky to have children in old age while some menopause visited before Mr Right came. Let God have Mercy on us and teach us to listen to him so that we won't miss it in life.

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  6. Marry the stingy man ke.. It's one thing to know your partner does not have but still makes efforts.. You won't feel tired, angry or frustrated, because you will know he is willing... But having a partner who has but is stingy... Hehehehe... That means she will even take financial responsibilities of his 5 kids almost the the time too.. There is nothing as frustrating as that...

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  7. Awwww it is well with you but "mercilessly stingy" made me๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ Since you are capable of raising your future kids yourself why not look for a man with lesser baggage? are you sure you'd be able to cope with this stingy dude with 5kids?

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    1. Believe me the frustration you feel now, will be nothing compared to the frustration that comes with having a stingy partner... Please focus on your kids and hope for the best! It's not how long but how well.

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  8. I'm crazy about fine dudes. But they are never serious with me. The one that is crazy about me is ugly. I'm scared and confused.

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    1. Overlook his looks and marry him if he ticks your boxes. You can turn him to handsome.

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    2. Me I don't think I know anything about handsome o. I remember one guy I dated, when I met him I went home to tell my sis they his head is like bird head. We laughed, next thing I don fall in love. My sister come dey ask me say you sure say this guy no wash put for you so. Lo and behold I no dey see the ugly again. Until we broke up and I saw him after 6 months, i was like Adonbilivit. You mean to tell me I dated this person and I fell in love. Cold enter my body that day. I still dey laugh myself.
      Love is blind my dear, close your eyes and marry one person.

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  9. I'm crazy about fine dudes. But they are never serious with me. The one that is crazy about me is ugly. I'm scared and confused. And I'm 37.

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    1. Madame koinkoin aka the 'peace maker'21 December 2019 at 18:47

      Lol Melancholy don't mind her, ask her if she fit create human being, she no even get problem ! Na no serious syndrome dey worry her for now, we go soon enter 2020, and she go clock 40years then na road side guys she go dey eye both Ugly and fugly ones like she claim.

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    2. So na by handsomeness now abi?
      Waa peace nbe

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  10. You are 46,but when you were 29 you were 'viewing dp on your status' where? When did WhatsApp come out? Even if its blackberry?

    Well, sorry about the hand life dealt You .

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    1. Great and intelligent question
      This story is made up

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    2. My exact thought.. 17 yrs ago!!!
      2go wasn't even in existence mahn..
      Anyhoo,whatevs..

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    3. Good question. Made up story by someone hoping to get girls to settle / instill fear

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    4. Maybe black berry messenger

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    5. Lmao ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
      Did she forget??

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    6. Cooked up chronicle by someone who wants to make it seem like it's a crime to want a comfortable life.

      You must not be a millionaire before you get married as a man but you should at least be comfortable, the lady too should have attained some level of financial independence too.

      There's no glory in poverty, its only in Nigeria that people assume a broke guy is a good guy or a girl dating a broke guy is a good girl. Stewpid mentality.

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    7. Sense wee not kee u dis Marigold๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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  11. Mine too is very rich but stingy i dont bother to call him Any more its funny how he can Come running after from january i dont Want to see his stingy ass Any more he shd go for his own oyinbo race.

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  12. Madam, you will not die if you remain single.

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    1. Are you minding her? Many would wish to be alive, healthy and single. You are still going about it the wrong way. You haven't learned and you want young people to learn from you. Invest in those two kids you adopted. If marriage is in God's plan for you, you will marry if not, it's not the worst thing that could happen to you.

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  13. Poster your story is not applicable to all, your mindset, your choice, your destiny, so please do not advise ladies to rush into marriage based on your own experiences. However, to all single ladies out there if your aim in life is to have children and a man, then please follow the poster's advise before the menopause catches up on you.Lol

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    1. Thank you. Thank you.. thank you. It is this kind of talk that has put a lot of young ladies in trouble. You rush in you rush out. The most important is to wait on God and listen to him.

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    2. How do you want your kisses? Wet or dry? You couldn't have said it better.

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    3. Children
      Man

      Na GOD dey do all

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  14. Please what age does menopause start o? Cant wait for it to come abeg

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  15. Now people that married poor, and are here begging for giveaway, will come and be saying I'm glad i married my husband. Never read this and go and marry a man that is lazy and have nothing. Lack of money in marriage can break it down like a speed of light

    Are you sure if you married any of those men, it would have worked out, what if you married and still had to adopt? Don't blame yourself madam, you only wanted the best, what if you married that poor man and he never got rich nko

    God please give me atleast a comfortable man that we will both build together, even rich i don't mind. i don't need any poor man in my life Amen

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    1. You are so right. Nobody should open eyes and marry a lazy man. You will turn bread winner in that marriage with enough suffering and stress. I dont need a rich man but at least be comfortable and be able to provide the basic things we need like food and rent.

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  16. Why don't i believe this chronicle

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  17. Not long ago I heard for the first time that some girls get so selective to the extent of marrying men below their status to not marrying at all when age has caught up with them. I did not know at all .I feel for women ( no insults intended) because of less time.

    The poster has not learned anything. Some broke men have gone ahead to be comfortable, very rich, some stupendously rich that the women that rejected him are left with only regrets.

    Will some womwn learn from this chronicle? I doubt.

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    1. She hasn't learnt, na by force to marry?

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    2. Anon 15:33 is a broke man. Every woman I know who married a lazy broke man is still suffering. The men are still lazy and broke. Some of the women have left, some are still there pleasing society, but crying every freaking day. Marriage is not a do or die affair. You can have kids without being married. You can also adopt like the poster did.

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    3. Anonymous 17:12 ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

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  18. Not long ago I heard for the first time that some girls get so selective to the extent of marrying men below their status to not marrying at all when age has caught up with them. I did not know at all .I feel for women ( no insults intended) because of less time.

    The poster has not learned anything. Some broke men have gone ahead to be comfortable, very rich, some stupendously rich that the women that rejected him are left with only regrets.

    Will some womwn learn from this chronicle? I doubt.

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  19. Instead of settling for the man you described up dear, and spend d rest of your life in anger, frustrations and pain, I will advice you let him go and trust God love will find you.

    The man up there dosent love you at all. There is no love without giving.

    Relax and wait. God is d God of 100th chances. Just wait

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    1. Gbam. She will end up spending all her saving on his kids.

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    2. Thank you for this comment

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  20. These chronicles that aim to put fear in those who don't know themselves... Madam, the stingy man that you married with five kids, didn't a woman have them for him? So that lady took your advice, married "on time" instead of doing Shakara and she is no longer at her station to reap her harvest. This shows you actually took the better advice by waiting. What about those men who wanted you as wife no. 2 and 3- are their wives not going to split their labour and investments with someone else? You forgot to tell us about your mates who are still poor, feeding off their wives or have died and left their wives widows. What about those who divorce those women who married on time?


    When you where a hot cake (Kai, I feel a poor ass man wrote this chronicle as na their language), was it not scores of poor men who were toasting you? So you advice young girls to just choose any and not consider spec? Is it every poor man that makes it and stays rich? Didn't someone also settle for your primary school teacher who is not yet a headmaster till now?


    Look, women get rejected everyday and don't kill themselves. Men, no woman is your property and just like a job search, rejection is part of life. If a woman says no, take it as the will of God and continue looking for the one who is yours. Even rich men are turned down (as the chronicle proves) so don't have that poor victim mindset where you think every no is because of money. This may even be what scares the woman because she thinks the day you don't have, you'll turn into a wife-beating drunk.

    Sir/Madam poster, I'll humour you. Thank God your husband will not give you any other woman his money. At least, it is not a case of monkey dey work, baboon dey chop. Thank God that you also have 2 adopted kids so you are not barren. Many of your mates married at 22 and have been going from one mountain to the other looking for children. Some have done IVF severally and failed. Some cannot afford at all and truthfully, some women will live and die without giving birth themselves. Discuss surrogacy or another adoption with your husband and since you are financially independent, try doing it yourself. Spare a prayer this season for those who married and have birth "on time" but have buried their children this year. In this pessimistic chronicles written to evoke an ovarian crisis, you left them out. Have a merry Christmas.

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    1. What a reply! Merry Christmas to you too!

      Ada.

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    2. Chop kisses...

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    3. U took the words straight outta m'mouth/thoughts anon

      Welldone 15:36 ๐Ÿ‘

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    4. Thank youuuuuuu, what address can I send your freshly made gizdodo to?๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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    5. May your Christmas be jolly and bright. Thank you Intelligent woman. GOD BLESS YOU MA AND YOUR FAMILY AMEN

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    6. Wow!
      I di too much!


      And by the way, this chronicles doesn't sound real.

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  21. Women and marriage na wa! If you have two adopted kids already and you are doing well financially, why are you still desperate to get married? At this Age, you should find someone who you share something deep ,someone you can have a conversation with, find someone to share your happiness with but until you find that, LIVE YOUR LIFE!

    Even though I see sense in your story, my advise would rather be that we should not focus only on money and material things while seeking for love. That being said, do not jump into something you know its NOT it just because of societal pressure.

    Make sure that if you are rejecting someone today, and they happen to become rich tomorrow you wont be jealous or have regrets.

    Do not Settle just to please Society but have realistic standards and stay with someone that makes you Happy.

    MONEY ISNT EVERYTHING.

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    1. Madam poster, has it occurred to you that those men you wished you married were not meant for you? Even this current one is not making you happy. Why not dey your dey and wait on the Lord for a life partner, besides marriage is not a must or meant for everyone. God bless you for the kids you adopted and are nurturing. Just be thankful, because at your age, you have a lot going for you than others. Find other things apart from men that will bring you fulfilment, maybe that is when you will meet your man. You are not yet over the hill and it is not too late for you, except you think so.

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    2. I maintain that a man aiming to scare women wrote this piece. Talmbout Checking DP in 2002... Mother to 2 kids but still crying about menopause. Financially independent but complaining about a father of five who doesn't spend on himself. What about women who married at 50 or not at all? Is Ned Nwoko's first wife not a human being? How did she end up with this your advice? What about Obasanjo's first wife and that of Buhari? Tinubu' first wife nko? And that of Dangote? Is Stella Oduah crying for husband now? Or the lady who owns Emzor? Are they also disappointments to their families? Who is Oprah disgracing?

      For those who live in fear and apply this chronicle in December, we await your stories that touch this time next year when you'll say the guy that gave you belle run in 2019 has left you uncatered for another mugu.

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    3. Daalu so much 17:40, God bless you real good, you have said it all!

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  22. "By age 29,i changed my mind when it downed on me that 4 DPs on my status are the guys that had asked me out, one that looked like bonga fish had grown big and cute." Haba Aunty, if you are 46 now, you were 29 in 2002. Which DP dey that time? Na OBJ be president that time o! Even Facebook was launched 2004! The women who rejected this man this year especially Christmas season did him strong thing but can you blame them? Someone with this strong a complex around money or finances will be a horrible boyfriend or husband. With every man that calls, he will demand their CV, their monthly income and if it is even slightly above his own, he'll not be able to maintain an erection until his perceived rival dies.

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    1. Thank you. GSM just launched then and na only few people fit buy Sim then sef.

      Everybody destiny no be same. That you were selective and it didn't work out for you doesn't mean it won't work out for another. Biko to each its own.

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    2. It is obvious a vindictive guy who was turned down wrote this sorry chronicle. Checking DP in 2002. Nonsense.

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    3. It was her spiritual husbands spiritual what's App dp's na๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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  23. Madam poster, easy with the lies pls..

    By age 29,i changed my mind when it downed on me that 4 DPs on my status are the guys that had asked me out, one that looked like bonga fish had grown big and cute.

    Which day was whatsapp itself invented??
    Your story is something that happens to a lot of us, including me but u don't need to start adding too much unreal stuff like u did above.. Haha!

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    1. That is why i don't believe the story๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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  24. Cock and bull story. Madam, you are not other women. You are you, so do you. At 46 years and still thinking like this? Seems black men only go to school to obtain meal ticket.

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  25. The good I read in your story is that you "adopted two kids" ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š
    Yes, you've given home to the homeless, mother to the motherless.
    God bless you sisi.
    Yes, it is a story to learn from (if my friends Naija girls will every learn
    . A lot of them only come here to shoot arrows๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜)
    Probably the divorcee is not "spoiling himself" because, he has five kids. He may
    as well be stingy because, kindness is a fruit of the (Holy) Spirit...Galatians 5.
    Only a regenerated soul -saved by Christ is able to show kindness (without seeking for
    a reward or return of the goodness shown to another.) It is called unconditional love
    Agape!
    If one is in Christ and have the habit of meeting him in prayers/study of the Word/fasting
    there is nothing he will not reveal to you about your life. I say it because I have experienced
    it and that is what I yarn my friends here. He will show you your spouse; signed, sealed and delivered.
    It is left for you to accept him when he shows up and work out the sweet relationship.
    Mine wasn't rich when he showed me in my teen years in different ways. He is a very contented man.
    He is handsome, the way I like him -God gives good and perfect gifts. I wanted him to add a little more
    weight, so I fed him up to it when we were married. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š
    But for those who are trooping to the villa this December to meet "abroad" dudes who chant -"I wanna, gonner...gone!"
    ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ Yes, by January they are gone while some might have become pregnant and will be writing Stella for
    permission to shoot off ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข mbanu. This chronicle is for you not to fall into the gutter o.
    It is for you to remove greed and pride and insults and arrow shooting from your live.
    I don yarn finish ooo ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน
    Matthew 6: 32For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father
    knows that you need them. 33But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and
    all these things will be given to you as well.

    Nne poster take good care of those wonderful kids inugo? ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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  26. Was there social media 20-21year ago? ๐Ÿค”
    Ok message taken, lesson learnt.

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  27. Poster u haven't learnt ur lessons after all..u said u are independent, why bothered about his stinginess? Unless his money is all u are about

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    1. A stingy person is something to worry about abeg.......

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  28. So 17 years ago there was DPs???If this story is true,Your destiny and journey is different from others.There are people who were choosy and refused to settle below their standards and they still married their dream guy.My aunt married at 45 and she is pregnant already,she refused to settle cos she’s built a high standard for herself.So...

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  29. Did you do something or did something happen when you were much younger that is making you repel money? I'm asking cos while you saw poor guys coming for you, the truth is they were rich men you just didn't recognise. Now, it's a divorcee with money you cannot touch that you're considering cos that's the only one looking at you.

    Are you sure you love him or it's a case of the available substituting for the desirable? Madam, I must be honest with you - no human being can solve your own. Ask God to show you mercy cos if you still enter a bad marriage at this stage of your life, it will be very bad. How do you know he even cares and he's not tolerating you because he knows you're desperate?

    If some of us talk now, silly children whose role models are naked hoeloshoes on the 'gram will say it's their right. The other day, people were hailing one with no sense or visible source of income that said it must only be man with multiple cars, houses and businesses. I don't know how anybody with a working brain can base their decision to marry, on the bank balance of their intended. Your own beauty can deceive you. Many of us have learned that the finer you are, the more you actually need to hold God to find you correct spouse. Cos you can't see anyone's heart so you don't know who really likes you or just wants to use you. Poor man can still go after you've helped him make it, oh! Before you enter one chance.

    But ignore me and be following stupid people that are doing what you can't imagine, una hear? If you like, allow dumb quotes accompanying airbrushed pictures of bimbos on social media to off your brain. And make sure you create hashtags of #LivingMyBestLife, #ChildOfGrace and #OsondiOwendi .

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  30. Stella what do u mean? Menopause started on me by 45. It’s normal pls

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  31. You messed up this lie of a chronicle by saying that you were viewing DPs and statuses at age 29!! Facebook, IG and WhatsApp did NOT exist 17+ years ago!!! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

    Hi5 and MySpace weren't very popular in Africa. I only used the former...so I can attest that there were no statuses, although one could have a DP.

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  32. A man wrote this chronicle.

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  33. I hate that word "stingy" coming from Nigerian ladies. Financial education is not stinginess. Personally i plan out my life and only buy things I need. I will not waste money on iphone pro, Brazilian to prove that I love you. You drive unlucky men to bankruptcy to fulfill your fantasy. Dem no scratch your hands for coaltar. Make your own money too. Imagine a youth corper carrying iphone of N400k and begging me to give her N50k to complete her rent. Misplaced priority. Soon she will finish her service and face real life. All those promising her heaven on earth will gradually disappear. What is shocking is when broke and unemployed or underemployed ladies call someone stingy. Because the money is there doesn't mean a man must open his account and waste it to impress you. Then what? When the money finishes, you dump him on thrumped up charges and latch unto the next victim. You want a man with 5 kids and liabilities of school fees to go on spending jamboree with you. If he lacks tomorrow, who will give him. Look my dear, you haven't grown one bit and that's why men ran away from you. You are not a wife material. I remember few years ago when Tonto chided Igbo men for refusing to marry her. She married who agreed to marry her. How did that end? My man is probably locking up to ses if you are in it for the money or for the love. Apparently your eyes are on his money. If i know him, I will advise him to stay awau from a leech like you.

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    1. Anon 17:45, this part of your comment got me laughing.... "Dem no scratch your hands for coaltar." (Echili gi aka na coaltar?). Ibu ezigbote onye Igbo! ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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  34. Poster since you have your own money, marry the man and have ur own kids if that is what you desire. And again the man is also stingy for himself so no big deal. Now that you are aware of the type of person he is, it won't be a challenge when you eventually get married to him. Best of luck ma....

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  35. My wife left me with 2 daughters and elooed with another man after she got her green card through me. I know how difficult it is for a single parent to splurge. Let the man be. He has 5 kids whose futures he must mold. Take away your eyes away from his money. If you cant love him for who he is, then keep living your life the way you choose by yourself. Please don't go and be a curse to him.

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  36. What about a man who had nothing when you married him but after he blow,he decided to take another wife? Abeg marriage no get formula

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  37. A man obviously wrote this chronicle to put the fear of God into Naija women as usual. I am so thankful I am unmarried and childless at 53. I would rather be single and at peace with my maker than be in a toxic marriage like my parents. My father died recently and what did he leave behind? Ugly memories to the point that we are all struggling to find anything nice to say about him. Marriage is not for everybody. No one will remember you after 3 generations anyway. Does Oprah have children? She is not married and yet her achievements will forever be recorded in history.

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    1. You're just consoling yourself with this write up. You can be at this age and tell me you're happy being childless. It's a lie, you're not happy.

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    2. @Don, why are you so pained at her happiness? Someone is happy and positive and you want to force a negative confession out of her lips? If she declares sadness, what does that add to you? Money? Joy? What is it about other people's happiness that makes Nigerians boil so much? You don't even know this person. Are we that miserable? Is life that hard? You want her to declare misery so you will give her your pity, your eeyah, your sorrys. In this pursuit of happiness, people find theirs in spouses and children, some find theirs in their talents and careers, and some find theirs in their Lord and maker. All is valid. I know what the society expects but it is not true for everyone. That narrative is stale.

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    3. NIB, leave Don. He is a pained Nigerian man just like the poster. Yes! The poster of this chronicles is obviously not a woman. The whole thing is made up abeg.

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    4. people like Don just sit in their small cubicle and think everyone thinks or feel alike in naija...some people dont want kids but have cos of what society will say. am talking of nigerians not oyibo...some dont want marriage but fear of wetin peoplego talk and family memebers. i have a few caucasian friends whodont want kids but heaven no fall and we accept them like that, but africa people cannot say there truth and be who they truly are when nobody is looking. this person might not want marriage or kids cos of her parents experience. yes for some people with therapy they change but learn to accept that some people say their truth. Don you come out most times on this blog like a chauvinist. i dont believe the posters story but as for me i wont marry a a stingy man cos am getting old. stop shaming matured singles and putting unnecessary pressure on women about marriage..there is more to life than being married

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  38. Wow this story just made me wake up

    I'm exactly in this predicament

    I always wanted to get married at age 25 but here I am 27 and still not married, it's not asif guys are lacking o, I have guys allover from US, UK, Denmark, Sweden, Canada, Australia... but none fit what I want. Then there's one from the US he's really serious about marriage but he's way older than me

    God help me o, I need to really make a choice, this story has opened my eyes, next year il be 28, I can't continue like this.

    It is well

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    1. So there are no guys in Nigeria? Don't let abroad blind your eyes o.

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  39. Poster since you have your own money, marry the man and have ur own kids if that is what you desire. And again the man is also stingy for himself so no big deal. Now that you are aware of the type of person he is, it won't be a challenge when you eventually get married to him. Best of luck ma....

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  40. You are 40 abi and appear ok. A fool at 40 is ifool forever. Why go into something you know wont make u happy.. He wont change so borrow yrself some brain

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  41. If you really love him you wont have a problem with his stinginess. Love find no faults. Since u have your own money and kids why not focus on raising ur kids and living happy. Also when God says it's time, nothing not even your stubbornness or shakara will make u miss the man just take it that those men were not the ones

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  42. Checking DPS status like in what year did that started๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„ take it easy with throwing bullet๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

    Why are you still interested in his money when all you want is to be called Mrs. Do not give up on God, marry him but trust in God for the gift of children because I have seen women give birth at 70 years, hold onto God.

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  43. Stella, the poster is a man who has been rejected by a lady who he thinks rejected him because he's not rich. Poster, we are not deceived. Reminds me of one goat who snidely told my relation to advice me before I become "that matured single woman" because I rejected his proposal. Nonsense!

    Not every woman says "no" because of your bank account. Sometimes, they're not just attracted to you!

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  44. The story get K-leg oo @ 29yr old you were checking your friend or guys who wanted to marry you DP. shey blackberry dey Vogue then.

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